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@Someone here The stuff in the video seemed like common sense, but then again it looks like even the most common sense stuff is necessary for a lot of guys nowadays, so you might really benefit from it. Here is another common sense type of video, which I think is even more important for you.

Great! This sounds to me like you're simply getting triggered, but idk. How exactly do you react to these energies? I think these environments can be used to grow spiritually. The environment makes you aware of something inside of you (e.g. fear, anger etc.). If it makes you uncomfortable you can become aware of that and do the work to transcend it. You could even meditate in the middle of the dance floor ? Also: you can go to "better" clubs and you don't have to fuck girls who are wasted, there are enough girls in Clubs who are not bar shit crazy and drunk as fuck and you can also pick up women during the day. Ask yourself whether you have really outgrown pick up or whether there are still things to be learnt (or overcome or transcend or whatever) that might just wanted to spiritually bypass.

@Someone here yes I often do that. It prolonges the masturbation/sex and makes you cum harder with a more intense orgasm.

Exactly. This is what we all assume.

But how do you specifically see this part that the dude tugged @Illusory Self 's ear? (while saying "nice ear rings"). This move seems highly disrespectful to me. Like every man should know if you just randomly touch the face of another man that you don't even know you're asking for trouble. How about: "Hey nice ear rings (while touching ear)" You: "I know, thanks, but don't touch me again!" while gently but assertively pushing his arm away from your face, in case he let the hand linger on the ear a bit.

Yeah, just a guy afraid you might become interesting for the girls he has an eye on. I think above all he wants you to not have access to the girls. It can be the case that a guy wants to lower your status and thus increase his status relative to you. Yes, you have to stand your ground. It doesn't matter if you're afraid of it, you still need to assert yourself. Because these games some guys play actually work if you don't do anything against them. I would have said: "hey hey hey (in a loud assertive manner, while immediately removing his arm), don't you fuckin touch me again, dude are you insane? You can't just touch my ear like that, back off..." and all of that while continuously staring in his eyes. It's important that when you say something like this that you fully own it. Your entire vibe must say "Nobody messes with me". Then when he puts his arm around you - assuming that it's not a friendly gesture, because you guys are having a good conversation - you immediately intervene again. "No no no bro, you don't touch me at all, hands off".

I don't have any knowledge about this, but I stumbled upon a website where someone offers "psilohuasca" sessions (legally, in the Netherlands) and offers some knowledge about it on the site. https://www.psilohuasca.com/

This is not really a line with the purpose of picking a girl up. It's just pure self amusement. Letting go, having fun, being care free. These boring, stifled girls who gave you this "you know this is not a good pick up line" shouldn't concern you at all. It was basically a shit test. "Pick up line? You'll first have to buy me some flowers before you get pick up lines from me. I'm not that easy :)" (said in a fun way, not a salty/butthurt way).

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Wtf are you guys doing with your dicks, lol? ? I have no idea. But it's probably best not to touch your dick for quite some time. And you should probably go to the urologist and ask for advice. Just tell him your ex gf had an artificial hand out of steel and that's how your dick got like that. Maybe there are some restorative creams you can apply on your dick? But how do I have to imagine this? Is there some crusty scurf on your dick, or more like thick hard skin? I'm really baffled now ?

@Arcangelo Thanks! Lol, I really didn't expect this thread to pop up again haha

@Preety_India ok, this is all a bit tricky. I don't know how much of this has to do with cultural factors (but I assume there are some), because it sounds a bit like these guys were machos who believe that they own a woman. I get that the cocky and kind of dominant/strong guy is more sexually interesting than the submissive puppy kind of guy. But it doesn't have to be like a confident/cocky/strong guy must be very controlling too. This sounds like a rather poorly developed man who has managed to develop masculine traits, but only in the most shallow and kind of toxic (macho) way. You simply have to look for better men. The ones who'll give you the space you need, don't put tons of pressure on you regarding silly, irrelevant things (like whether you wear some black dress) and respect your boundaries. Of course if it's supposed to be a relationship, there will still be some obligations. That's why it's so good to not immediately be in a relationship after 2 dates or so, it gives you time to really screen a guy and observe his behaviours over a longer period of time. And if he then by the 5th date starts to become a controlling, narcissistic freak you simply cut him out without having to end any relationship.

@Preety_India well I think the only thing you need to do is to clarify exactly this issue with your next partner. This might not be easy to do, especially if there are certain social conventions that sort of "don't allow" this kind of relationship where you live (if that's the case, which I'm not sure about). But you either find someone who's ok with it (by agreeing on the rules of the relationship at the beginning of it) or you don't find anyone. Nobody can know this before trying it out. It would basically like a friendship+ but exclusive.

@Preety_India hmm...I don't think it can work like that. You probably can't just cherry-pick the positives of typical exclusive relationship without also accepting the "negatives" (having certain obligations). Theoretically you could negotiate any kind of relationship you could ever imagine, like having a guy who is your submissive puppy that you control and dominate, whilst he happily just fulfills any desire you ever have without wanting anything back, but you'll likely not find anyone who agrees on that deal ?

What do you mean? Whether it's exclusive or non-exclusive or some other kind of categorization?

@Someone here did you get laid?

I'm feeling very honoured and will probably still tell my grand children about this unique event in 40+ years ?

Yep, this says a lot about the level many guys are at ? Btw, if you reply to this you'll 1000 posts ?

Sorry for my bad English but I'm not quite sure what "to get lost" means in this context?! Like to fuck off?

@something_else This is something that happens a lot more in e.g. Latin American countries, where girls really need to make some money and if they have good looks they earn a little bit by baiting guys and then let them pay for sex. It's kinda weird. Some of them seem really obviously like hookers but they are just dancing in some night club and you can chat then up. Others are not so obvious. And there are probably a lot of mixed cases where the girl might just have sex with a guy after having been picked up, but she also might then still ask for money and it's just kinda odd. Maybe this girl would've fucked you, but as then some time passed she made up her mind and was like "maybe now I can squeeze some money out of him :)"

Would have been funny to just request the ban of another member yeah ? I kinda couldn't imagine knowledge hoarder having a 2nd account, but apparently he does ?

Now I'm really curious what @Knowledge Hoarder has got to do with this?! ??

@Knowledge Hoarder Sure. The thing about chemistry though is that if you have certain traits as a man, women tend to feel like there is chemistry much more frequently ?

That's a good habit! Good habits lead to a good life.

Just have a rule that you do 10 push ups or 20 squats or 5 pull ups for each post you write