Rishabh R

Best of luck @Leo Gura .

As soon as I began writing on The medium I have been getting insights out of nowhere . Has anyone here experienced a similar thing ?

@NoSelfSelf Congratulations.

@Princess Arabia From nowhere to somewhere . Haha 😂.

Thanks @Yimpa

@Leo Gura I have questioned my assumptions for an year. But later I got distracted by falsehood but again I started questioning assumptions and I have been experiencing surprises in my life. Also as a writer when I started writing for medium I am experiencing more insights than questioning. Even though questioning is important

Here is the link to my story. https://medium.com/@rishabhritvik5/when-improving-yourself-starts-backfiring-and-how-to-make-the-counterintuitive-move-e4294190a4dc

@Leo Gura Ok , so here is the information. I questioned myself earlier -What are all the ways I am wrong ? I wrote all these in my diary. - That everyone is happy except me -Those who are in a relationship are in a state of bliss - That I cannot overcome adversity in the future -That being present has no practical application -That more effort produces better outcomes -That I am not fooling myself -That I am completely honest -That no improvement is possible in the present condition So these are the things that I came up with when I contemplated the above question . And finally I want to ask you about the power of Intention in improving anything in life ?

Hey , @Leo Gura I watched and contemplated your episode - The psychology of being wrong multiple times and here are the answers to how will my behaviour change going forward ? Even though I am asking you that itself implies that I am wrong. But could you provide feedback on my answers ? Question - How will my behaviour change going forward ? Answers -I will focus on myself -When I will see somebody I will think that I don't know that person and assume that that person is equally happy in life as me. - I will be present and regard anything except that as an illusion -Whenever I will see a couple I will re-direct my focus and attention to myself and assume that their life is either normal or worse than me -I will adopt the mindset in social situations that I am not less than anyone. Please provide feedback. And others are welcome too.

Hey , @Leo Gura could you make the forum premium or could would you prefer to keep it open as anybody , preferably a troll can come and cause disruption in self actualization , which is mostly our aim here . And finally a question : What are the benefits of journaling ( writing about your day and whatever comes to your mind ) with a pen and diary ?

@Leo Gura Can the things you teach be applied to succeed in a science career or succeed in becoming a scientist ?

Acceptance is the thing that we all struggle with. I discovered a method of meditating which is very powerful for building one's self acceptance capacity. Sitting in a meditative posture and accepting everything in your experience. I recently did this and I was smiling during my meditation for most of the time. The length can vary from 5-20 minutes but not more than that as it can make you tired of smiling. 😂

@Leo Gura What do you think on radical acceptance of failure and then action. Sorry to bug you but Love you @Leo Gura I want you to be happy even though I don't know you personally and my self help journey began with you in 2017 January.

I had a breakup from a formative relationship and it's been 5 years since that. It caused me social anxiety and since , 2019 I am on antidepressants, antipsychotics till the present and when I entered my college I didn't got a single girlfriend rather I was constantly getting heartbroken seeing the girls whom I liked entering into relationships with other men. I am also jealous of other peoples relationships. What I have learnt that it all depends on you , the reframing of the negative situations is very important.

Like right now , I am suffering for the fact that everyone around me in my college has a girlfriend but I don't and I am trying to accept that. 😂

https://www.amazon.in/Insights-living-Wisely-Rishabh-Ritvik-ebook/dp/B0DHV1WJNW

@ChrisZoZo Yeah acceptance during suffering is especially important.

Is approaching women, talking to women already a success or is getting women and not getting rejected success ?

@Cireeric Sorry , I didn't understand that it was a feedback. Thanks for the clarification.

@Princess Arabia ok thanks. All the best to you too.

Ok then . In the dating section of the forum, I just told that your comment felt bad and later it was ok. That all I said. In my first response I said that you were rude to me as I felt bad initially but as I told that later it was ok

@Princess Arabia Your mentioning of the word rude triggered me and made me angry due to an event in the past . I'm sorry if you are offended but the question that I asked in the Dating section of the forum was from my own mind and I didn't get the proper answer. I think it was from the male's point of view and since , you are a female you didn't understand or it seemed ridiculous to you. As per the book yes , I have generated the summary via AI but the inside part of the book from the starting to end is my own effort which was typed by me on my college laptop.

@Princess Arabia But the material inside comprise of my own contemplated insights. I know the meaning of the word rude as people have treated me rudely in the past and also I have been abused , insulted , rejected , bullied in the past .

@Princess Arabia I wrote the intro based on AI but the contents of the book , the main info in the book is mine own as I didn't took that from AI. So , you are not seeing the bigger picture . And you can't base only my book summary to my entire writing posts. I wanted to know and just tone down your rudeness . Better mind your language and don't associate me with a murderer. And I am capable of writing the book so better watch you language . I have contemplate those insights that are written in the book. @Cireeric If you are not interested then simply don't comment.

@LordFall I am just asking wether anyone is interested. If someone is not interested then it's ok. Read the full post . I am not forcing anyone to buy it.