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I recently watched this video and liked the idea of questioning our beliefs emotions . Could @Leo Gura and you people guide me on this episode further. Thanks.

@Justine I also started watching Leo's video since, 2017. I would recommend you to follow other self-improvement teachers too such as Mark Manson , Ryan holiday etc. For Leo's video I will recommend -- How to fall in love with life.

@Sugarcoat You look mature and beautiful at the same time.

@Sugarcoat best of luck for University.

To everyone it's a request to not to turn it into an incel thread. I have a different intention of spreading a positive and empowering message to everyone including struggling males.

We assume that women don't love or like us but it's a lie. Both thoughts- I am loved by everyone and I am loved by no one are delusional lies. The truth as I have experienced by living more than 24 years is that some women do like us and will like us in the future. This isn't a wishful thinking but a ground reality which we all men need to face.

@Davino What you can do is feel through or accept both negative and positive emotions. This is the key even though it's easy to say and hard to do.

@Princess Arabia Then what's normal please tell me and elaborate.

@Sandhu Which means that we men are loved . Congratulations.

Absolutely.

I had this long held beleif that no girl loves me but I questioned it via a worksheet. I had this belief because of past rejections, bullying,abuse from girls.

Yeah you are right. Thanks.

@Princess Arabia Ok I am wrong but isn't it a ground reality that I am loved cause that beleif is healing. @Leo Gura , @integral , @Davino , @UnbornTao what is your all opinion on it.

Yeah it took me some time to realize that I don't like them when I questioned myself through self questioning and using the worksheet.

@Princess Arabia Thanks. By the way that advice which I am trying to give is based on a well evidence based beleif.

Yeah thing are also tough for women was well. However , you misunderstood me. I was not trying to get rid of these women but rather I was very little focused on them. Most importantly , I was focused on wrong women.

Yeah I am trying to . Maybe there is a misunderstanding between us. This whole post was defeating of a long held beleif of mine that nobody loves or likes me. I just generalised that beleif by putting all men instead of me.

First of all thanks for clarifying.Some women do like us and will like us in the future - I have made this statement based on the reality of very few events during which some girls( I mean very few) kept a continuous eye contact with me and were smiling. They repeatedly touched me in a funny manner. Laughed at my humor.

@Princess Arabia But I have been on years of antidepressants, antipsychotics. While others around me who face symptoms of mental health smoke and drink. Why can't I give advice to men if my advice is positive and based on ground reality.

@Princess Arabia I know as I have been abused , bullied women and men alike. Rejected by women, ignored by them. Yeah you are right. I have lost my mother at the age of 22. Few years ago. But this post is different.

@Princess Arabia Haha but I was trying to help/give message to males from my post.

@Princess Arabia So you mean that anyone who disagree to you or is hurt by your response has a trauma. Other people commented too on the post but I wasn't hurt by their responses even though I disagree with them a bit.

@Princess Arabia Okay but I in my response I told that I also don't know you and everyone present here in real life. Why your response feels blunt and hurting.I don't understand. As per the worksheet part it's easy to see limitations outside your worldview but not in your own. Yup I agree that that worksheet is limited but the two extremes of beleifs -Nobody loves me and I am loved by everyone both are inaccurate.

@Princess Arabia Whatever you may label it. But this is the conclusion I drew from doing a self-improvement worksheet based on CBT. I am not loved by anyone and nobody loves me are both extreme thinking. You don't know me, I don't know you and everyone. I was writing for helping others and sharing the conclusion I came to.

@Princess Arabia 👍. I don't need to prove who exists in my world. Thank you.