Rishabh R

@QandC Your radical acceptance remind me of acceptance part of shadow work . After reading this I did shadow work by using worksheet basically I was feeling down due to scoring bad marks in two examinations. I accepted those negative feelings and it dissolved. Right now I am dealing with other negative feelings caused due to lack of attention from girls. I am accepting that. I have been into self help since 8 years, 8 months and still counting. Thank you.

@r0ckyreed Yeah it's one of the greatest gifts that one can give oneself as compared to being in a toxic relationship as healthy relationships are rare

@Jayson G As per emotional mastery , I have noticed that we must accept the negative emotions ( after doing years of CBT ) and feel through it which lead to their dissolution as positive emotions are easy to accept and its easy to say to accept negative emotions (as I am just saying) but when one is in the midst of suffering just accepting one's suffering leads to it's dissolution. This is called emotional mastery.

@Leo Gura Please improve the way you interact with your audience in the forum. I am also guilty of this myself as I behaved badly with my mother on multiple occasions( in real life )and now I feel that I have done something wrong since, she has passed away 2-3 years ago. I know that not everyone likes me and only a few will like me but that doesn't mean that you will bludgeon others with truth but rather stretch them so that they can bear the truth. I am writing this because I was hurt by your comment on multiple occasions. Also I was hurt a lot by different people on different occasions both in real life and on the forum. In the spirituality forum the I will give you the background for my 2nd most recent comment. Girls (in real life) hurt me , bully me , ignore me are rude to me and then they start dating other guys despite me taking action and being vulnerable that is why I mentioned that. So I have moved on from them.

I already started this work through watching your videos since , 2016 January . 😁 Also your videos on positive thinking and optimism improved my grades due to which I passed my 11th grade/class.

@Leo Gura I hope that your health improves.

@Leo Gura I am also grateful that I made an investment in myself. Can I ask a youtuber Cole Hastings for a conversation with you on YouTube as I am a member of his self mastery community?

@Leo Gura ok. I confronted them, then I moved on. By the way thanks again for your contribution to my self actualization journey as I focussed more on self actualization and common self improvement than spirituality but your content is still great.

That , I am girl are the same chasing the things that fit our biases. Yes I recognise that I am biased and the girl is also biased but she abused me , bullied me for saying her I love you online . Her friend also threatened me and she started dating other guy. However, that is the thing of past as that girl is not longer in my life. It's ok Leo , now it no longer hurts me.

@Leo Gura ok thanks. By the way I was ok for the pigs comment as was true, I was just talking about the comment of that before the pig one. By the way it's ok as I also recognised at that time about my biases also. My self help journey began with you so you are great . Thank you.

I have got this quote from Mark Manson- The pursuit of a positive experience is a negative experience and paradoxically the acceptance and tolerance of a negative experience is itself a positive experience.

It's available on Amazon.com.

@Leo Gura haha . I was hurt a bit by your comment but I didn't see the funny side of you. I think it's a matter of choice .

@Leo Gura Ok so it's a deal of biases as we all are biased and does biases recieve us to the fact that even if we get our biases fulfilled we will be happy but it is just a falsehood created by ego ?

@Leo Gura How is it different from narcisism? Is it Grandiose narcisism(the thinking that I am above him or her ) or something else ?

@Leo Gura If girls reject me and then start loving other guys is it ego or biased love ?

@Keryo Koffa for a moment I thought it was @Leo Gura who commented 😂.

I wonder why @Leo Gura hasn't commented yet haha.😂

Congratulations

@Schizophonia ok but I contemplated this question for months and months sitting by myself taking time off my days.

@Schizophonia It's a collection of insights on the question - What is the most wisest way to live life ?

@Joshe I am 23.

Yeah you are right @Nemra people aren't going to be nice with me which is a great observation as it is true for both my real life as well as this forum but at other self help community forum it is the opposite.