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By the way I just want to provide an update that I have been meditating from more than 2 years and contemplating since almost an year. I meditate and contemplate daily.

Hey @Leo Gura what does full of shit means? Is it pointing to the lies that I , mankind tell and the moaning and complaining that we all do ? I am asking you as I am about to go and contemplate the questions given in that video .

@Leo Gura I have one question from you that - Will I be able to fullfill my life purpose? As I have a purpose in life and also I love the course which I am studying(as I have found that what I love most about life ).

@lostingenosmaze Ya but by searching Google it is telling that it is something untrue.

@Leo Gura After watching your video on the power of questioning as I contemplated the importance of questioning ? I came to following insights/answers : .Questioning is used to penetrate into a question to realise wether it is false or true .Questioning is used to deduce an answer from question .Questioning is used for understanding .To gain insight about the matter inquired What are your thoughts on it @Leo Gura and guys ?

@Preety_India I just sit down and close my eyes and question that what I want to question . Is it a form of contemplation ?

@puporing Ok thank you ?

After watching the video The power of asking questions as I question myself - What causes me to get into a rut ? I got the following answers: - Because I crave/am needy to intimacy. - Because I take every interaction seriously - Because I get preattached with every girl that comes in my life - Because of procrastination to contemplate or question - The thought that every girl is beautiful ( here I mean in sense of combination of both charecter and face by the way sorry if I have hurted anyone by this ) - Many assumptions about someone - By thinking that that person is mine - By basing my success and failure on someone's approval and dissapproval - Because I think that having a relationship is good and more important than having values( yeah I am absolutely wrong in this point of view ) @Leo Gura and guys what are your thoughts on it ? Am I getting the correct answers or questioning/contemplating correctly?

@puporing Well thank you and can I improve it by going out a lot and practicing ?

@Leo Gura How is life purpose related to self actualization? Can it be used to go through the heirarchy of needs? I am a 21 year old student in collage. I have a life purpose which is related to being a scientist( I don't want to reveal it).Also I found that I love biological aspect of science. Also I am enjoying what I am learning ( by the way I am persuing engineering course in biotechnology ). My aspects of career are flowing smoothly. Am I self actualizing ? Will I be able to fulfill my life purpose? In addition to that I also contemplate ( from 11 months), meditate (from 2 + years) and practice other techniques . Leo's videos are transformative .

@flowboy Ok thank you. @Leo Gura I want your opinion on it too.

@Leo Gura I am young student in collage and I have a life purpose which is related to(I don't want to reveal it) becoming a scientist. Your videos are transformative as I love what I am studying now and at initial stage I had to go against my family and relatives as I was interested in biological science.This is the aspect of life which I love. It also made me from a below average students to one of the good students of the class. But I have a little doubt that although I found what I love through work of years and after contemplation of the questions in your motivational speech video of developing life purpose and my career is flowing in a good direction that will I be able to fulfill my life purpose ? Will I get a job related to that ?

@flowboy Ok but I must admit that I have a bias here that whenever I daily remind myself of my life purpose a sense of direction, happiness , feeling good comes to me . And it happens repeatedly . So is my doubt an assumption that I am making ??If a layer comes then it is also good but I am thinking like the layer would be related to it ?

@Leo Gura I was contemplating the answer.

@Leo Gura As per myself and user guidelines(?) I am doing the work from years .Recently I began contemplating your holism equations . Here is the answers that I got , am I doing it correctly?

@Preety_India Ok I am trying. So for equation 1 answers which I got were: Wholeness which is not stuck but undergoing to larger and larger whole = Holism is connected to health in a healthy approach = Integrating others into oneself is healing but keeping strong boundaries = Unity is embracing bigger truth than smaller truth which is division = Infinity is unimaginable uniformity . And I will post more after contemplating more. By the way I require permission of @Leo Gura as by posting these topics I am ensuring everyone that I am not beginning my online coaching. So is your permission granted ?

I think now my answer can be noted down to Intelligence is : -Beautifulness -Understanding -Phenomenon that results from inner capacity -Inversely proportional to suffering -Something against natural foolishness -Something intuitive -Something which takes the frame of reference in a forward direction

@Leo Gura Is intelligence a phenomenon which results from internal capacity? I contemplated it once. And my answer is different from Google so is my answer correct ?

For the depiction of expression which are occassionally exceptional. Some times during old age art was also used as means of communication.

@Leo Gura I contemplated another time and came to the answer that intelligence is beautifulness.What is your perspective on it ?

@itachi uchiha You are right it is a great perspective.

I had a major past story on it. I liked a girl , used to talk to her ,flirt with her ,we even got intimate a little bit but on the last day of my seeing her she told me to focus on studies instead of doing this and she after few minutes started flirting with someone else , she was also rude to me during some interactions between me and her in days before. After that incident I developed obsessive compulsive disorder due to which when I am not on antidepressants I imagine the imaginary her in a hypothetical situation with me and I hit her but that is hitting or talking to someone who is not there.At certain times my father spots me and tells me that this is an incurable disorder even if I talk with him about it. Lesson learnt: there are costs to being authentic but much more serious costs to being inauthentic. If someone who doesn't value you or talks rudely one must not tolerate it more than two times and stop talking to that person or leave whether it is with a girl or boy. @Leo Gura do make a video on this as it is an important topic . Also the thing which made me fell in this trap was her fairness. I think I must understand this idea that beautifulness is in the heart not in the face so not every beautiful person is really beautiful from the inside.

Are you all interested in self actualization test well you all can take it at https://scottbarrykaufman.com/characteristics-of-self-actualization-scale/ as it is one of the top self actualization tests out there.

Maybe thinking outside the box is going meta and seeing the situation as holistically as possible with the big picture.Anyways thank you @Leo Gura

Wow @Preety_India your acceptance is great