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Thank you @Leo Gura .

@Andrey I think it's part of the process .

@Zion Truth is the foundation of good life. And people including me think that truth will hurt us but it turns out that truth only hurt in the short term but serves positively in the long term .

@somegirl Ya it happens with me too cause I am single too. Going to herbivore mode 1st hurts for a couple of days then it becomes mentally healthy.

Same here @Leo Gura

@MarkKol that's a great experience.

People and @Leo Gura could you all tell me ?

@Benton ok.

@Benton yeah.

Sorry , tried remembering it but can't successfully recall which video was it maybe it is Implicit vs Explicit understanding - Not sure .

Hi, a 22 year old engineering student here . I have been mistreated by girls a lot since, my school days . Even emotionally bullied .Any idea people as I have been rejected a lot and they treat me like bullshit . However , I have worked on my dating life , got abused both by girls and boys , got threatened girls. How do I move on ? How do I get over the trauma of being rejected by girls in the past ?By the way I am thinking that after bad good comes in life and I am responsible for getting jealous of those girls who are dating guys. Yesterday , I consulted my psychiatrist and he said that I am being succeding in my life beyond his imagination . And also a final note - Am I making an assumption that good things won't come in my life ? Is cognitive behavioral therapy suitable for this situation ?

@meta_male yeah thank you.

You could either focus on quality of relationships rather than quantity of relationships like most people do . However, as @integral said each relationship is a learning experience there is a lot to learn from even from simple day to day relationship like ( non romantic) most of the relationships in life end however there would be some relationships that would last throughout your life .

@integral Yeah I never had a gf but I attracted many girls . I said -I love you to 3 girls in my life and all those 3 girls are with somebody else . I approached many girls that is more than 50 girls in my college campus and in one case I was kicked out of campus abusingly by a girl whom was I was talking to . Once I remember that I was near to sex with a married maid of mine however , I said sorry to her cause I knew that she was married and she said ok. By the way I don't want to have sex with a married or already committed person . Majority of girls in my college batch call me brother as they are committed. I also feel jealous of girls die to the fact that they are dating and I have nobody ( sorry to all the females present here).However, this is a good solution .

Maybe by cognitive behavioural therapy , letting go etc.

@Princess Arabia sorry but I was not talking about that. I think that Leo's video -Assumption is the mother of all --- ups will be helpful .

@Princess Arabia thank you . So, it is good for me to question assumptions about myself.

@Chives99 thank you .

@Something Funny thank you . This is a good way of thinking .

@Leo Gura So I must be optimistic that a girl will accept me one day ?

@Leo Gura thank you.

@Chives99 great. I am glad to see your progress.

@Leo Gura also I am waiting for the courses and hoping that I would take the mind course if it will be not costly. By the way I was just curious to know that will there be any actualized.org video tomorrow as I am eager to grow along with you on this self actualization journey that started in 2017 when I discovered your channel and started doing the work.

@Leo Gura I loved your clips channel the second most after the main channel.

@Moksha Great. Thank you .