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@Schizophonia Sorry , I misunderstood you.

So , sharing something which you find good online is neediness according to you. 😂

@Schizophonia sorry dude but I think that video which I linked changed my perspective on life. As per father figure I do have my father for which I am grateful. As per learned helplessness I am also aware that I attracted girls in the past which will happen in the future and is also present reality.

@Majed I think the best way is to be comfortable with never finding a partner. I know it sounds foolish on the surface but maybe isn't there is something to it -- When you stop looking for love , love finds you. Check out this video.

@Sugarcoat Yeah and it has also shown to help with emotional regulation.

I recently watched this video and liked the idea of questioning our beliefs emotions . Could @Leo Gura and you people guide me on this episode further. Thanks.

Yeah , I had fun with girls and still do have it sometimes.

You already told this in your part 1 of the series. Yeah you tried way , way harder than me. By the way , must I approach girls who are receptive to me than girls who call me bro or don't treat me well ? Any further advice other than the 3 part series . And also is it a fact of life that some other beautiful girl will be receptive to me. Also, your advice is pretty mature Leo. Been following you since 2017. Would there be more content based on practical aspects of life as well as cognitive development such as Epistemology? Really liked your epistemology video of questioning assumptions. Thanks.

@Leo Gura Must I think of others of age Younger and similar to me who are more experienced than me as more successful than me in dating or I must stop comparing myself to them. By the way what can I do when I see a beautiful random girl with her boyfriend and I become extremely angry ? Any solutions. By the way I have flirted with many girls in my life but never been in a serious relationship. I am 24.

@Leo Gura As per my life I am not able to generate survival value such as getting a girlfriend but I am doing good in my career. I have watched your -- How to get laid series multiple times , read other dating book also. As per your advice I have approached 100 girls in my campus. I have noticed that when I approach girls they become insecure while afterwards they start dating someone else. Girls think of me as inferior in dating. I have hatred , resentment against them and also revengeful thoughts against those girls. Maybe my desire to get a girl who has never been in a relationship is impossible and I am suffering due to it. By the way I am trying to accept my suffering. 😁 I sometimes feel that it's good that I don't have a girlfriend in University because multiple suicides happened in my college in regard to relationships. Boys threaten each other, beat up each other when they see other boy talking to their girlfriend. By the way I have also got threats years ago. Here, some girls smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol. Am I worthy or worthless . Haha.

@Justine I also started watching Leo's video since, 2017. I would recommend you to follow other self-improvement teachers too such as Mark Manson , Ryan holiday etc. For Leo's video I will recommend -- How to fall in love with life.

@Sugarcoat You look mature and beautiful at the same time.

@Sugarcoat best of luck for University.

To everyone it's a request to not to turn it into an incel thread. I have a different intention of spreading a positive and empowering message to everyone including struggling males.

We assume that women don't love or like us but it's a lie. Both thoughts- I am loved by everyone and I am loved by no one are delusional lies. The truth as I have experienced by living more than 24 years is that some women do like us and will like us in the future. This isn't a wishful thinking but a ground reality which we all men need to face.

@Davino What you can do is feel through or accept both negative and positive emotions. This is the key even though it's easy to say and hard to do.

@Princess Arabia Then what's normal please tell me and elaborate.

@Sandhu Which means that we men are loved . Congratulations.

Absolutely.

I had this long held beleif that no girl loves me but I questioned it via a worksheet. I had this belief because of past rejections, bullying,abuse from girls.

Yeah you are right. Thanks.

@Princess Arabia Ok I am wrong but isn't it a ground reality that I am loved cause that beleif is healing. @Leo Gura , @integral , @Davino , @UnbornTao what is your all opinion on it.

Yeah it took me some time to realize that I don't like them when I questioned myself through self questioning and using the worksheet.

@Princess Arabia Thanks. By the way that advice which I am trying to give is based on a well evidence based beleif.

Yeah thing are also tough for women was well. However , you misunderstood me. I was not trying to get rid of these women but rather I was very little focused on them. Most importantly , I was focused on wrong women.