Rishabh R

I don't understand why people are so insecure. I called a person to wish her on her marriage anniversary. She didn't responded to the call so then I called her thrice. After few hours time her husband called me up and abused me . He told me to refrain from calling me on that number. Ok fine . This is by the way 3rd threat I am recieving. So where did I went wrong ?

@Leo Gura it's like reframing a negative situation and seeing it realistically. Like do you remember in Martin Seligman's book learned optimism. In it we change our negative thinking about the situation and tackle it with evidance like narrative changing. By the way how can I overcome adversity @Leo Gura ?

@something_else thank you for pointing out my mistake.

@Yimpa thank you . By the way in today's session she taught me to do focussed breathing . When I do it my mind gets frozen.

Also career counseling as I need it to improve my grades . What do you guys think ?

@Thought Art ok thank you.

@WonderSeeker Great story. By the way I am also trying to become a scientist, a biotechnologist right now I am in college studying biotechnology engineering. Also like understanding science also requires a questioning mind.

Ok guys thank you for the advice .

I was contemplating the question - What fantasy am I living in in life ? .That questioning assumptions is a small deal .That getting a relationship is a huge thing Besides these answers some other answers came which I have written it in my diary. How can I get rid of these fictions of mine ? Is self questioning the key?

@Yimpa then I am confused.

@SeaMonster yeah absolutely.

@Lila9 oo yeah absolutely. Thank you .

@Lila9 many say that my handwriting is bad ?.

@StarStruck yeah but God also allows birth to maintain the balance.

@Leo Gura like some people in my life told me that you can't get a girlfriend but even though I never had a girlfriend but I flirted with many girls, was close to s*x with a girl, girls talked to me on their own etc. So is it true or just a limiting belief that others induced upon me ?

@Leo Gura today where I am pursuing internship in lab there was giving off treat to people due to some reason. It was junk food but since I am on the journey of trying to control my addictions such as s*x videos, eating junk food , jerking off etc. so I refused to eat it even though it was for free today. People were forcing me a little and calling me that I am doing fraud but I argued a little with them and I eat rice and usual food in the institute's mess( not outside junk food). After that I watched your actualized clips video - the cost of avoiding truth . Then after sometime people got a little stomach problem . They are digene etc. As you said in that video that you can't get away with delusion for long as it will come back to bite you. And it turned out true. Is there more ways to make the -Avoidance of Truth more practical in your life or this is it. (By the way I have watch your episode Avoidance of Truth and Assumption is the mother of all screw up - my favourite 3-4 times ?)

So , @Leo Gura when other's give me perspectives like you are not capable of doing X, you will never be able to do X etc. Then is it a delusion ?

@tlowedajuicemayne ok.

@Ajax I was just contemplating and these conclusions came to my mind . Questioning assumptions is small is the thinking that doing so will not improve the quality of my life - which itself is an assumption. By the way thank you @Ajax for replying.

@StarStruck great answers were generated by you. I think that mother nature works on balance like the human species who exploits nature get wiped away by nature. Because there is an inherent balance between selflessness and selfishness in life and nature. One cannot exist without other.

I was just excited about it and just wanted that if you could give me some hints about it . And also please Include in it questioning assumptions because that has brought many surprises in my life . Thank you.

@Yimpa ok.

@Ajax 1 or 2 times. Yeah it is very low , I have to laugh a lot more.

@Leo Gura thank you . Sorry to ask you but can I use to question which assumptions of mine to perform better in my college exams ? As I scoring decent grades but they are deteriorating and the harder I try more it decreases .

Yeah. Absolutely I remember the hero's journey as the biggest obstacle to success in my life is me, myself. By the way are you done with it or near to finish it ?