Rishabh R

@Leo Gura What do you think on radical acceptance of failure and then action. Sorry to bug you but Love you @Leo Gura I want you to be happy even though I don't know you personally and my self help journey began with you in 2017 January.

I had a breakup from a formative relationship and it's been 5 years since that. It caused me social anxiety and since , 2019 I am on antidepressants, antipsychotics till the present and when I entered my college I didn't got a single girlfriend rather I was constantly getting heartbroken seeing the girls whom I liked entering into relationships with other men. I am also jealous of other peoples relationships. What I have learnt that it all depends on you , the reframing of the negative situations is very important.

Like right now , I am suffering for the fact that everyone around me in my college has a girlfriend but I don't and I am trying to accept that. 😂

https://www.amazon.in/Insights-living-Wisely-Rishabh-Ritvik-ebook/dp/B0DHV1WJNW

@ChrisZoZo Yeah acceptance during suffering is especially important.

Is approaching women, talking to women already a success or is getting women and not getting rejected success ?

@Cireeric Sorry , I didn't understand that it was a feedback. Thanks for the clarification.

@Princess Arabia ok thanks. All the best to you too.

Ok then . In the dating section of the forum, I just told that your comment felt bad and later it was ok. That all I said. In my first response I said that you were rude to me as I felt bad initially but as I told that later it was ok

@Princess Arabia Your mentioning of the word rude triggered me and made me angry due to an event in the past . I'm sorry if you are offended but the question that I asked in the Dating section of the forum was from my own mind and I didn't get the proper answer. I think it was from the male's point of view and since , you are a female you didn't understand or it seemed ridiculous to you. As per the book yes , I have generated the summary via AI but the inside part of the book from the starting to end is my own effort which was typed by me on my college laptop.

@Princess Arabia But the material inside comprise of my own contemplated insights. I know the meaning of the word rude as people have treated me rudely in the past and also I have been abused , insulted , rejected , bullied in the past .

@Princess Arabia I wrote the intro based on AI but the contents of the book , the main info in the book is mine own as I didn't took that from AI. So , you are not seeing the bigger picture . And you can't base only my book summary to my entire writing posts. I wanted to know and just tone down your rudeness . Better mind your language and don't associate me with a murderer. And I am capable of writing the book so better watch you language . I have contemplate those insights that are written in the book. @Cireeric If you are not interested then simply don't comment.

@LordFall I am just asking wether anyone is interested. If someone is not interested then it's ok. Read the full post . I am not forcing anyone to buy it.

@Princess Arabia Same to you. Thanks.

@LordFall Is it ? I don't think so.

@Princess Arabia Your comment felt a little bad but later it didn't affect me.

Why you are so rude in your responses. It anger's me.

@NoSelfSelf so success is your Actions ? and the outcome is not important ? Thats what you meant.

@Yimpa I wanted to share my contemplated insights with the world.

@Leo Gura By focussing on your action means focussing wether your actions are contributing to your desirable results or not ?

Is questioning your thoughts , assumption by - What if I'm wrong and simultaneously taking action a key to improvement ?What do you all think . Let me know .

Thank you @Leo Gura . Even though I didn't buy the life purpose course I have got the juice out of your YouTube videos particularly -Epistemology ones. Will more video be releasing on YouTube of yours in the future or are you done ? I fear .

@Atb210201 Thanks very much.

In 2018 there was a girl in my batch. She used to smile at me by looking at me. We had eye contact on 2 occassions. She approached me . We flirted with each other . She made me eat chocolate from her hand. We had up and downs for 7 months . One day she told me to study as these things are useless and was flirted with someone else after which I never saw her in my life. - I remember that when I first joined this forum I was complaining about my girlfriend cheating on me but I misinterpreted it as it was an end of a formative relationship. It has been 6 years since that incident and I am on medication due to it. However, moving on was the best thing that I could have done. I was also wasting time and underestimating that I have never had a relationship. Any thoughts , guys ?

I self questioned the above :- Here are the insights:- Because it loves itself fully. Why it loves itself ? Because it is connected to itself Why it is connected to itself ? Because it's disconnection = connection And on and on.