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@Princess Arabia But the material inside comprise of my own contemplated insights. I know the meaning of the word rude as people have treated me rudely in the past and also I have been abused , insulted , rejected , bullied in the past .

@Princess Arabia I wrote the intro based on AI but the contents of the book , the main info in the book is mine own as I didn't took that from AI. So , you are not seeing the bigger picture . And you can't base only my book summary to my entire writing posts. I wanted to know and just tone down your rudeness . Better mind your language and don't associate me with a murderer. And I am capable of writing the book so better watch you language . I have contemplate those insights that are written in the book. @Cireeric If you are not interested then simply don't comment.

@LordFall I am just asking wether anyone is interested. If someone is not interested then it's ok. Read the full post . I am not forcing anyone to buy it.

@Princess Arabia Same to you. Thanks.

@LordFall Is it ? I don't think so.

@Princess Arabia Your comment felt a little bad but later it didn't affect me.

Why you are so rude in your responses. It anger's me.

@NoSelfSelf so success is your Actions ? and the outcome is not important ? Thats what you meant.

@Yimpa I wanted to share my contemplated insights with the world.

@Leo Gura By focussing on your action means focussing wether your actions are contributing to your desirable results or not ?

Is questioning your thoughts , assumption by - What if I'm wrong and simultaneously taking action a key to improvement ?What do you all think . Let me know .

Thank you @Leo Gura . Even though I didn't buy the life purpose course I have got the juice out of your YouTube videos particularly -Epistemology ones. Will more video be releasing on YouTube of yours in the future or are you done ? I fear .

@Princess Arabia I am trying to . Upto large extent thought creates suffering and happiness but the duration of emotional suffering consists of a spiral of thoughts and emotions. So by embracing negative emotions during sadness , anger , hurt , jealousy , bitterness lead to their dissipation.

@Princess Arabia But even after thought I accepted the feelings of suffering which is thought followed by no- thought.

@Princess Arabia No it wasn't a thought. I actually accepted my suffering and let it be.

@Atb210201 Thanks very much.

In 2018 there was a girl in my batch. She used to smile at me by looking at me. We had eye contact on 2 occassions. She approached me . We flirted with each other . She made me eat chocolate from her hand. We had up and downs for 7 months . One day she told me to study as these things are useless and was flirted with someone else after which I never saw her in my life. - I remember that when I first joined this forum I was complaining about my girlfriend cheating on me but I misinterpreted it as it was an end of a formative relationship. It has been 6 years since that incident and I am on medication due to it. However, moving on was the best thing that I could have done. I was also wasting time and underestimating that I have never had a relationship. Any thoughts , guys ?

@Ishanga Congratulations.

@Princess Arabia No but that was acceptance of suffering which made me smile.

Suffering and happiness both are parts of everyone's life.

Have you experienced a smile on your face in the midst of emotional suffering? (Just a general questions as I have experienced a smile)

Yeah but nobody in the world is happy all the time. The seemingly most happy people suffer in life too.

But we are ignoring the function of brain and it's survival mechanisms to keep us alive.

Suffering happens to make us go through negative emotions because life gives you a holistic package of both positive emotions and negative emotions. Also the chemicals in the brain which is Endorphin is produced naturally in the brain whom no one can defeat or distract oneself from.

Yeah absolutely. The more you resist suffering more you get entangled into it . It is like a quicksand. The only way out is through it