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@Human Mint yeah I know but you too have an ego.

@NoSelfSelf I agree with you.😂

@Princess Arabia ok then I will see what happens in the future as I don't know the future or it's not rejection as I could be wrong here

@Princess Arabia I have already told that . By the way why are you acting out.

Yeah I do like I talked to other girls after this incident.

@NoSelfSelf sorry but I didn't understood. Maybe you are talking about stop viewing it as rejection right ? I reframed this incident using a growth mindset worksheet (from another self help course which I took long ago which is more than 1 year )- This rejection is an opportunity with another beautiful girl and it means that I am not yet fulfilling my potential of having an amazing girlfriend in life.

What a joke 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 as I have dealt with worse in the past and I have overcame more worse rejections.

@integral or I can talk to other girls ?

@Sugarcoat she didn't properly talked to me and while I was looking at her she looked at me and turned her face quickly. But that's ok atleast I tried.

@Leo Gura How post modernism can be applied to personal development and philosophy ? - The question that I want in your video to be answered .

@Leo Gura how many of them resulted in success and bouncing back like out of 10 ?

Like everytime I fail , is it beneficial for me to see failure as opportunity. As I have seen that it is very important as it determines wether I will bounce back or stay stuck. I have found it true in my direct experience. Just wanting to hear a perspective from you so that my verification will be more stronger which is although verified in my experience.

@NoSelfSelf great man.

Yeah dude @NoSelfSelf responsibility is at the core of the inner game as it not only forces one to take action but also destroys the negative feelings. Like for example this perspective - I am single right now but I am responsible for that and also I am responsible for improving my dating life. I have a choice to wether stuck in this or move forward taking action etc.

@manuel bon absolutely , I realised that I underestimated my potential in this domain of life . And by the way congratulations man, greatful for you.

@QVx by understanding that everyone suffers but some cope with it in better ways than others.

@manuel bon thanks and today I realised that I also had a girlfriend in the past as one of the girls from my past was constantly looking at me and she took a step forward to interact with me by first shaking my hand and smiling and saying friend haha. I used to talk to her but later didn't had a contact. There is also a girl in my batch who treats me well she everytime touches me on my shoulders when she sits next to me before asking for help in exams and she smiles while doing that every time.

@Raze ok thanks .

@Raze so you are talking about detachment.

@QVx yeah absolutely people suffer due to same problems upto varying degree and also being wrapped in ourselves which is referred to as selfishness maximises suffering.

@Nadia Starseed sorry to hear this about you. Seeing this post I realised that girls suffer too in the realm of dating. I was jealous of girls getting into relationships easily.

@NoSelfSelf thanks and I think that this thing is inspired from stoicism that one cannot control other people or external circumstances but oneself , one's actions, thoughts, attitude.

@NoSelfSelf so one of the key aspects of game is realising that you are the prize not the girl ?

@NoSelfSelf ok . But I asked myself right now that why do I want a relationship and the answer was that because I think that it will make me happy , then I questioned in my mind again why then the answer was that I don't know that people in relationship suffer too. Why do I don't know that people in relationship suffer too then the answer is - because I am comparing my whole life with others specific part of life. Why ? Because I am a fool. Sorry dude but I discovered this through self questioning. But I will keep my optimism and actions. Thanks.

@NoSelfSelf yeah feeling bad is a part of life . The key is to feel through your negative feelings and then act. I have realised that the combination of Optimism and action is crucial as even one is lost then things will go downturn.