soularlight

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  1. Good luck.
  2. The world has the ability to show you what you take to be true. I speak from experience. I have experienced both sides of the spectrum, super friendly, and super hostile. What I have come to realize is that it all reflected how I viewed myself, and how I viewed the world. I would like to tell you that I like you, but I think you would not take it in and would probably reject it. It does not match your internal beliefs about yourself and therefore feels unfamiliar. You reject what is unfamiliar, even if it is what you truly want. So if a stranger truly loves you today with pure intentions, you will find something wrong with them and therefore reject them. I know what it's like. It does not have to be this way, though. What if you really can change your view of yourself and your view of the world? Would you be open to that? If yes, there are some good resources I could link, but you would have to have an open mind and heart. I am also available to assist if you want that. And if not, I could still link the resources. You tell me what you want
  3. Hey guys and gals, I am looking for people who are into spirituality/non-duality/God who also create music. I have been recording music for nine years now, writing lyrics, rapping, singing, performing, etc. I would love to collaborate with people who want to create a new form of music that inspires awakenings. If you are up for it, want to experiment together and have lots of FUN, then please contact me! The intention is to share love, point to what already is and to spread joy!
  4. Ja! Jag är svensk och bor i Halmstad! Om någon vill länka så hör av er på PM! Kärlek Yes! I am Swedish and I live in Halmstad! If someone wants to link up, write me a PM. Love
  5. Hey there, I know what that's like! I'll tell you, your Soul is intact and is in fact more you than these babbling thoughts are! My dear, are you not aware of identification with ego? There is this sense that there is an "I" here that is identified with ego, right? "I hit a wall and gave In to ego" and "I can't find myself surrendering" "I AM IDENTIFIED GOD DAMN IT!" But are you not aware of this I-thought? Were you not also aware of the pleasant experiences you had one month ago? Has the Awareness really changed? Or has what you are aware of changed? What you are looking for is the Awareness that is looking. You are a beautiful Being. What would Love do? What would Love see? Nothing Real is lost, ever. What can be lost isn't Real. What is always constant, always here? It's not a thought or word, right? Be That, knowingly.
  6. Yes, there are definitely women that play games. Just as well as there are women that don't. Since you are imagining your experience, perhaps it would do you well to imagine something else. You are God after all, aren't you? So what are you saying about yourself (women)? And who is creating that experience? Can you not imagine differently and create different types of experiences that are more aligned with "your" God-Realization?
  7. There are no experts when it comes to Life and God. Don't buy into that shit. Not even Jesus Christ claimed to be an expert, but gave all credit to The Father, in other words, Infinite Consciousness/God. All of these "masters" and "experts" you are speaking of are humans, God expressing through and as humans. They may or may not be very clear and open vehicles for God, but no matter how open they are, everything is still filtered through their humanness. This is not wrong, it's just human. I am saying there are no experts, but if you want to find that out the hard way, go find an expert who you believe knows better than your heart. Of course, these human beings can point and they can point really well. Or God can point through them. But all Truth they hold belongs to God. God is playing every part, and can use anyone and everyone for the purpose of waking up God to God. But any character is limited in his/her understanding, just because The Infinite is filtered through a finite mind. Which not wrong. It's great. But just remember that. This includes this message by the way
  8. What you say here feels true to me and I am a man. Thank you for sharing this. "A woman cannot feel sexual unless she feels safe and secure" is exactly what Corey Wayne teaches, he is a dating coach. He seems to have a pretty balanced approach.
  9. Have you ever thought that maybe your sense of unworthiness is causing a lot of rejections? What would happen if you accepted that you are worthy and enough? Perhaps everything would change. The truth is that you ARE worthy, and if you see it and accept it, that will shine and people will be drawn to you. Ultimate Love would never see you as unworthy or something to be ashamed of. That is not love, that is fear/ego. You are already judging yourself as unworthy and something to be ashamed of. You can change that. Whether that gives you your dream relationship is besides the point, but it certainly increases the chances. The point is that you will know that you are worthy and there will be no shame. That is freedom. That is very, very attractive too. It is amazing how attractive it is to know your worthiness and knowing that you are enough. Love
  10. Trust your intuition more than you trust me, Leo, or anyone else. Be true to yourself and then you can be true to me as well. If your "no-fap" journey is coming from a place of self-love and self-acceptance, then go for it. Discover what your intentions are. Are they life-giving and kind? Are you doing this to be sweet to yourself or because of shame/guilt? Can be good to look into it Peace
  11. You are beautiful. What if you are not a mistake? What if your thinking is mistaken? Really consider this. What if the shame is telling you that you are viewing yourself in a way that is not in accordance with your heart's inner knowing that you are worthy and enough as you are? I love you. Really.
  12. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8UstoG_1lg Fia is amazing
  13. Really, I am not carrying any weight from what you have said. It is just not true to me. My heart is saying that the idea you are sharing is false and not in alignment with my Inner Being. I am discerning between your words and who you are. Who you are is not this message that you have written, and therefore I am not really taking it seriously. You are beautiful.
  14. Hey Friends, Almost all of our lives we have been thinking that happiness requires effort. Then when we came to know, or glimpse that there is something deeper that always is happy and free, we started to believe that we need to effort to "gain it" or "make it" permanent. But is it true? What if you REALLY, and I mean REALLY already ARE what you are seeking? What if you can come to see this NOW? What is Real IS right now, isn't it? Or else it wouldn't be Real. What IS does not require your belief, effort or intellectual understanding for it to BE. Can you not let everything be in this moment? Everything. Anything you DO is seemingly adding on to this moment. What IS is what you are looking for. Can you see that this means that you do not have to do anything to discover it? It already IS! You do not even have to "not do" anything. Just be without striving to be. Don't even meditate. Just for this moment. What if YOU are God already? What if you never was what you thought you were? What if YOU are God beyond concepts and words? Right NOW! NOW!! What if this really is a message from yourself to yourself reminding you of yourself? Who are you if you cannot think? Now, forget what I've said. You are important here, not my words. You.
  15. Who are you to say who is deluded or not? Who are you talking about any way? Do you know me? Do you know my experience? Perhaps effortlessness equals happiness for me, and perhaps that is my direct experience. Am I deluded because I am happy effortlessely? I wish you love, peace and freedom. I wish you effortless happiness. I wish you all the good. I really do. You are myself, after all.
  16. Thank you for sharing. I do not see something to be embarrassed about. I see someone who is courageous enough to admit where they feel themselves to be at the moment. Can you see that too if you really want to? If kind eyes were looking, what would kind eyes see? What if you do not need to be better? What if the invitation is to open yourself up to the possibility that you are good enough already? Would you like to play with me right now? Just play? A simple play of thought? Just play with the thought that there is an inherent wisdom in you, available at all times. It is loving, kind and wise. What does this wisdom want you to know right now?
  17. I agree. What if it is easier than easy? I mean, how easy can it be? How easy will you allow it to be? Can not peace, happiness and inner joy be as natural as breathing? Are you open to that possibility?
  18. That is not true. He literally says to allow the feeling to express itself and be felt in the body without trying to change it. P.S Oops, didn't realize we are not supposed to revive old threads. My bad, won't happen again. Just was thinking that if someone found this through Google, they wouldn't be confused.
  19. Can you allow The Truth to be revealed instead of pushing? Can you allow it to be simple and effortless?
  20. Rich man could also imply someone who is rich in concepts and ideas about Reality. Someone who is filled with intellectual "understandings".
  21. Heaven Letters - there are over 6600 letters and they are all free. There is also a generator which is magical. All letters are unique. They all point to different aspects of Reality. Both relative and Absolute. And The Oneness of the "two". To me, they are invaluable. http://heavenletters.org/the-one-god.html
  22. You mistake yourself for actions, thoughts and others philosophies. How do you know that you are the devil? Because you do things that are out of alignment with your desire to be kind & loving? Does that not tell you that your basic inclination is Love? That what you really want is to love your brothers and sisters, including yourself? Does not sound like a devil to me, more like a case of mistaken identity. You are trying to understand that you are God through intellectual understanding. It won't happen. God is prior to intellect, and also prior to everything anyone ever says. I do not care who says it. God is prior to what I say too. You are not the devil. You are not God either. You do not exist. You are only a fiction in the mind, and so is Leo, and me. Can you for a moment seize striving? Seize trying? I really mean it. What if you do not need anyone's conceptual understanding or framework? No matter how lofty and beautiful. Trust in The God Within to guide you instead of humans. Yes, humans are a manifestation of God, but humans are not God any more than plants are. Everyone and Everything is God, yes. But only God is YOUR God. Only God is ultimately reliable, and always True. Humans are wonderful and fickle. We keep changing our minds. We have loads of opinions and assumptions. Even "after" Awakening we carry a lot of our notions and beliefs with us, and translate them into "Awakened" lingo. God Within you is your Guru and True Teacher. God may (and does) teach you through "other" human beings. All are your teachers, but only God is The Teacher. Talk to God, your Heart, your True Being. Tell Him (I like the word Him, but obviously God is him/she/it, all of it and none of it) that you want to come to know what your Heart already knows, knowingly. Ask to see what God sees. Ask God to show you that you are already God and to take you beyond all concepts and ideas. Including the concept and the idea of you. Just remain open, and keep talking to God. Forget about the "how's" and the "why's". Remain open, willing and innocent. Like a Child. A Child of God who wants to know its Source and Origin. Who longs to know The Truth that only God Is. Surrender to your Inner Being, do not surrender to anyone else. Do not surrender to me. Only to God. Read this with an open heart and a mind that is willing: http://heavenletters.org/the-one-god.html