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Probably not, just damaging to your wallet Maybe if you have some sensitive skin it could be damaging I guess but I can't see how else

I don't know, it will depend on the girl. Just go for it, do whatever you would normally and see what happens

I think any time anyone in history has ever asked "is it worth a shot" the answer is yes. Like what do you have to lose.... Yea girls will typically go for slightly older guys but that doesn't mean they will never sleep with a younger guy, all depends on circumstances. My dad was a few years younger than my mum. I've slept with girls up to 8 years older than me. I've spoken to a 22 year old girl who was talking about sleeping with a 19 year old dude on their first date recently actually. It happens

It's like going searching for a diamond in a red hot magma pool of toxicity It's exactly the same as consuming incel content, there are grains of truth and useful insights to be found but in order to find those you have to expose yourself to the most toxic people in the dating world and their ideas which can mentally destroy you

That's like one of the most toxic subreddits there is, alongside the incel ones. You'd be better not reading it at all, it will fill your mind with junk

I managed about three of his YT videos before I couldn't stand it anymore His whole YT channel is so grifty and manipulative I don't doubt he's made good content and there's plenty to learn from him but his YT content is just annoying

Whether looks are 10% or 50% doesn't make any difference to what actions you actually take You still just go and socialise with girls as much as you can

You're looking for the easy road out. If you're scared of approaching a girl, why on earth are you expecting her to be any less scared of approaching you?

Use the cool name and just add some extra crap to the domain or use a different TLD so you can get it cheaper Like others have said when you're bigger you can buy the proper one

Then use alcohol. It's not a bad tool. I'm the same. Just don't get yourself addicted

Not exactly. Going out and not drinking can be seen as a creepy thing to do in certain drinking heavy cultures if you don't have the confidence to pull it off. It does also help you let loose if you have a lot of anxiety which I would argue on the whole is beneficial if you're careful

This is your first ever date so don't expect to actually be able to apply much of the advice you've been given here in practice, most of it will fly out the window when you actually start talking You might find that it comes quite naturally to you anyway and things go great

Looks matter yea. But it's the confidence that comes along with the good looks that really drives women crazy If you look good you will more than likely have a natural, effortless confidence that's extremely attractive. To the point where you can convey that with only a few words and your body language If you don't look as good you are more likely to have insecurities that show through that you need to address If you look amazing but you have a really crap personality that is still gonna be a big problem

Nice dude! I've always struggled going to bars alone, I like clubs cos you can blend into the crowd, bars are tougher, so really nicely done Also same for drinking, I live in a heavy drinking culture so going out and not drinking is a lot harder

Stop thinking about fucking pills, can't you see how toxic it is for your life Stop looking at any blue,red,black pill stuff Yea there are elements of truth to it, but it sounds like you're considering your entire dating life from the perspective of what colour of pill it falls under which is just dumb and you should stop it. Focus on developing yourself into a sociable guy. 5 or 6 in looks is not bad anyway 1/10 in character by your standards. Which are not the same standards women have. Also, it's extremely easy for you to see these guys getting all the girls and look for reasons to hate them i.e. "they're total jerks" when actually many were probably OK guys

No don't do any of this stuff with someone you're just getting to know lol Well, maybe career goals and dreams but for god sake don't talk about marriage with someone you are just at the flirting stage with, male or female

Yea sorry I sort of derailed the thread a little, apologies

They have dodgy chemicals on them. Teflon is the worst one, if you have a pet bird you can kill it by cooking with Teflon pans because of the fumes. Teflon also makes you sick if you put the temp too high. And it can flake off into your food too

It worked, she's def still interested. Turns out she was annoyed that I teased her about wearing red or pink if she wanted to drive me crazy and that's what made her bail lmao. I made a joke about her only being allowed to wear highlighter orange or fluorescent yellow this time around and she asked me where I'm taking her. Cheers for telling me to message her again @Leo Gura, you just got me a date with a hot girl

Now there's a good tinder pic

Oh it wasn't a rejection lol. If it was practical I'd have been there in a heartbeat. We ended up just flirting a bit back and forth over text when I said I couldn't come over

Will do, thanks! Normally I'm chatting to at least 3 or 4 different girls at any given time but I didn't go to clubs this weekend cos I had unbearable toothache and the week before I was away on holiday. I spoke to a few girls while I was away and slept with one but obviously that all falls apart when you leave. So for that few days after I was back home she was really the only girl I was talking to and I'm sure the neediness showed up a lot because of that She was also hot and we shared a lot of interests which can make it even harder not to become needy. I noticed myself thinking a lot more about what I texted her than what I texted other girls which is probably a sign I was way too invested as well

Uhgggg I know I fucked it up, it's really cringy. It's so difficult to say the right things in these moments when you're emotionally invested in the situation. Especially when the girl's hot Would you say it's worth messaging her again? It's incredibly needy but hey what's the worst that can happen

I think it's past the point where if I send her a message it just comes across as needy. Our last conversation was: Her: "Hey, I won't be able to make it today, I've taken a turn for the worse, and I have a spaceflight presentation due at 5" [she was hungover and studies aeromech for context. She also sent this about 20 mins after we confirmed the date, she even initiated it that morning "Hey so what are we doing today, still coffee at 2?" which was kinda weird that she would confirm it, then bail so soon after] Me: "Sure, np, hope you feel better soon" Her: "Thank you" Me: "So you free any other days this week then? " Her: "I'm free Thursday again but I might be really hungover again too" Me: "I can take a hint Was nice getting to know ya, good luck with your presentation" Left on read Re-reading this now I might have bailed a bit soon, however she was definitely much colder for the last few days we were chatting (after she invited me over at 1am) and so I already had my suspicions she was no longer interested. I also figure that if she was still interested she wouldn't have left me on read. Then again she also confirmed the date that morning??? My texts here were pretty crappy and boring as well because I was just frustrated that I'd spent like 2 weeks chatting with this girl and it was all going really well and then suddenly it all falls apart I suppose I have nothing to lose by messaging her and trying to set up another date, but it would come across as incredibly needy

It helps not to have to worry about money at all if you want to go deep into spirituality. Having lots of money means you can arrange your lifestyle however you want and have ample free time. The more money you have, the more freedom you have. Unless you get so obsessed with making more money that you lose sight of the overall goal However if that were the case with Leo he would be making clickbaity videos instead of long format lectures And I'm pretty sure Leo stays in Vegas because of the clubs there lol