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Redpill claims to have uncovered the true nature of women Any other healthy sources of dating advice for men, for example this forum, RSD, some healthier pickup type of guys, will give you a more holistic, truthful and less toxic view of women (and how to date/attract them) without all the crap that redpill also comes with

You can get the useful and true parts of redpill from a million other sources without the toxic crap There's no reason to subject yourself to it unless you get some kind of pleasure out of reading that stuff

Oh it will if you do it badly. Don't do 'pickup' or 'approach' on campus during the day. Don't run any weird direct approaches or any of that shit, just try and have some casual small talk with people you meet and see where it goes. Keep it super tame Lol in the UK it's the first years (our freshman equivalent) who party the hardest I suspect that you just don't have a social circle that gets you invited. The solution to that is to join as many different things as you can and go to bars and clubs until you have a social circle And in bars and clubs you can approach girls and flirt like hell without damaging your reputation too much. You get a lot more leeway to fuck up your flirting in these places because everyone flirts and fucks it up in these places lol

It's probably a pretty good indicator, yea

Says the dude who literally cannot agree that he's watching total trash content on YT despite being told by like 10 other people

If you wanna do pickup without getting a bad rep then just go out to bars and clubs at night Doing pickup at these places is barely even 'doing pickup' cos you're pretty much just doing what all the guys there are doing which is going and flirting with girls. You won't stand out When I think pickup I think approaching random girls on the street or around campus, if you wanna do that then be careful cos you could build up a fishy reputation pretty quick if you're not good at it

This is still ultimately the guys' fault's for being totally retarded lol Having said that I've never understood why a girl would lie about being on the pill

Is it just me or does it literally feel the same with no condom, thin condom, thick condom... I use extra safe cos I don't want a kid but when I've used thinner ones or gone raw (only with my ex) it felt pretty much the same no matter what

See how much thought, effort and time online dating is taking up for you? Look at that and focus on it and realise that time could be spent doing other things that would get you better results Then change that!!! Online dating is like going to a charity shop and begging for free handouts. It's so difficult to show value to girls on online dating unless you have an exceptional lifestyle or exceptional looks I'm almost sure now that you're using online dating as a crutch (like I did) because you're too scared to go out and meet girls the old fashioned, effective (but scary) way And I can tell online dating is making you bitter. Which it also did for me.

It's probably not a great idea. Go find other girls to hook up with, get yourself some variety

Yea I can't even really tell the difference between condom and no condom. I went raw with my first GF for the first 6 months then had a pregnancy scare (I was 18) and that is to this day the most depressed, hopeless and all around terrible I have ever felt in my life. Seeing a negative pregnancy test was like a gift from the gods greater than a million orgasms given to me by the 100 hottest women on the planet. I swear the relief was that good. Never again. Wear a fucking condom.

They don't need what he produces. What he produces will make them defensive and dig their heels firmly into the ground. He is not trying to help these women and portraying it that way is mental gymnastics. He's trying to make money is what he's trying to do

Jesus fucking christ. I can't even get hard if I'm not using a condom, I don't want a fucking kid

I've seen rates a bit lower, that degrade the longer you wait. The health service in my country says:

Black people were literally only just allowed to start sitting in the same seats as white people in the 1960s......

Do you know they're not faking it? I have no idea what the course is like. I guess an online dating course could be a good thing but my honest immediate interpretation of it is that it's probably over-engineered so they can convince you they're giving you value There isn't really any skill to online dating, it's just about slowly optimising your profile over time, taking good pics, not letting the mass rejection get to you. The best external help you can get is from sites like Photofeeler, or asking for profile reviews Or maybe there is some hidden skill to it I'm not aware of, idk

Again, this sounds like it's on the verge of toxicity, be careful Anyone who makes their living bashing another group or 'calling people out' is usually pretty toxic

If you're so sure about that then put all your money into bitcoin shorts Put your money where your mouth is

Honestly this sounds like horse shit The words you say online are not really what get you attention, you're basically looking to have a solid profile then just not fuck it up with your words I mean you have nothing to lose by waiting a few days then randomly starting up the convo again but the success rate of this will be low. Once you lose a girl's attraction and attention it's very very hard to get it back In your head I suspect you're thinking that something like 20 girls is numbers game. In real life that's kinda numbers game. Online dating is more like 1/100 convos will lead somewhere unless you're like top 10% profile In my entire time of using online dating (about 1.5 years on Tinder) I got probably 600ish matches, and maybe 15 dates, around 12 of which went anywhere further However the first 8 months (when my profile was kinda average) I only got like 2 dates which lead to anything from around 100 matches And my standards online were always fairly average too. If you have high standards, online is not for you Online dating is a serious serious grind for the average to even above average dude. Like. A serious serious grind. You're getting decent matches so you look good enough to the point where you can choose to go for the grind, but let me tell you that I'm not sure it was worth it looking back. If nightclubs were open at that time I'd have been going there instead in a heartbeat Put your main effort elsewhere and have an online profile running in the background that you slowly optimise over time without thinking too much about

This is just how online dating works 95%+ of girls will ghost you Girls have 10x more matches than you, so you gotta be prepared to filter through tons and tons of girls until you find one that is really attracted to you more than the 5-10 other guys she's currently talking to simultaneously

Probably not, just damaging to your wallet Maybe if you have some sensitive skin it could be damaging I guess but I can't see how else

I don't know, it will depend on the girl. Just go for it, do whatever you would normally and see what happens

I think any time anyone in history has ever asked "is it worth a shot" the answer is yes. Like what do you have to lose.... Yea girls will typically go for slightly older guys but that doesn't mean they will never sleep with a younger guy, all depends on circumstances. My dad was a few years younger than my mum. I've slept with girls up to 8 years older than me. I've spoken to a 22 year old girl who was talking about sleeping with a 19 year old dude on their first date recently actually. It happens

It's like going searching for a diamond in a red hot magma pool of toxicity It's exactly the same as consuming incel content, there are grains of truth and useful insights to be found but in order to find those you have to expose yourself to the most toxic people in the dating world and their ideas which can mentally destroy you

That's like one of the most toxic subreddits there is, alongside the incel ones. You'd be better not reading it at all, it will fill your mind with junk