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Are you sure your stomach is actually big? I've met at least 4 or 5 girls who were absolutely convinced they had way more fat than they really did. Especially in stomach/thighs. I've also met jacked guys who thought they were skinny because they'd spent so much time looking in the mirror wondering if they were too skinny. Your mind warps your perception of your body soooo badly when you spend a lot of time obsessing over a single feature.

@Someone here Honestly, I'd recommend you go talk to girls at night instead of during the day. I mean, ideally you do both, but at night you get way more flexibility to just say whatever you feel like and it lets you build up a good sense of what girls respond well to. The problem with day game is until you get over the mental block, you're always gonna feel like you're doing something creepy or weird ad you can't feel comfortable. If I remember correctly you live in India which might make that a bit harder, but there's gotta be places you can go out at night with girls in India somewhere, surely.

Every guy wants this. There is no magical opener that does this for you Being successful with girls isn't about saying the magical words that make her want to fuck you. It's about your overall vibe and how you authentically come across as a person

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So I have an opportunity to buy some DMT vape cartridges. But honestly, I don't vape and have no idea what I'm supposed to do with them. I'd like to set one up to take out to clubs with me occasionally as I've seen it recommended, but I don't really know logistically how that works so I'd appreciate some advice. Here are my main questions: The cartridges started in measurements of 1ml. How long would 1ml last, is that a reasonable amount? Sounds small to me but I really have no idea. How do I know which vape to buy that the cartridges will fit? I assume it's not universal, and the source is obv pretty sketchy How often would you generally use the vape on a night out and what are the effects? How long will the effects last? Are there any health concerns? It isn't something I wanna do regularly, more like a few times a year when I go to techno/trance nights etc. Thanks in advance

Cheers, this is really helpful! I might try extracting the next time, but honestly for my first time I'd rather just buy to get a sense of whether it's worth the effort of creating them myself. I honestly don't know. They had options for 1ml, 2ml and I think 5ml too. I'd prob go for 2ml based on what you've said. Thanks again!

If it's a big meal I'd say split it most of the time But your first date should prob be like coffee or ice cream or something a lot more casual, which is cheap af. In most cases if it's super cheap I'll just pay to keep things going smoothly and avoid awkward discussion. Her reaction to this can actually give you good insight into her personality. Most girls I've done this with offer to pay, many insisted on it But it will vary per culture

No, if you are an addict you should be treated as a medical patient and not a criminal

Decriminalization is absolutely under the scope of a thread about drug legalization. At least if you want to have any kind of nuanced discussion anyway The last three paragraphs of my post were just my general opinion on the issue and weren't really a response to you anyway, that wasn't so clear, sorry.

Decriminalization of all drugs has been shown to be extremely positive in various countries. You shouldn't go to prison because you ended up addicted to heroin or coke. Nor should you go to prison for being found with a couple tabs of acid in your pocket. It's a nuanced issue, and your initial response of "no this is a fucking shit idea" is probably what riled up that dude. It's not a simple issue with an easy answer. Most people here are particularly concerned with psychedelics anyway, since many of us have had such positive effects. I don't think anyone is advocating for the legalization of buying some heroin in your local corner store. Most common psychedelics are non-addictive and non-toxic. The dangers come from misusing them, or from the substance not being what it was advertised as. My argument would be that legalizing psychedelics to a degree would essentially fix both issues, by introducing regulation/awareness/standards for use. Basically preventing it from being sold as something it's not and preventing people who are likely to have intense negative reactions from taking them.

React was released in May 2013, the first Wayback machine snapshot of Actualized.org is also coincidentally in May 2013 https://web.archive.org/web/20130520193322/http://actualized.org/ Seriously doubt Leo would use such a new framework at the time. Plus React is also kinda overkill for a site like actualized.org

You should pretty much always order from the same country you are in if possible. Domestic packages are almost never going to be inspected or seized in any Western country. The more international borders something crosses, the more attention it draws.

A really big one I've noticed is dilated pupils

It's pretty difficult to change facial aesthetics, hair, age, or the shape of your frame e.g. what gives you a nice waist/ass/legs. Many people are also far more genetically prone to being overweight. It's very possible to be genetically extremely disadvantaged when it comes to looks, no matter how much effort you put into self-care. And that affects women much more harshly than guys.

This was so gross when I did it. Eugh

Huh? I don’t understand what you mean lol

I think this is a little too black and white. Yea, girls like strong guys, but you see plenty of girls attracted to or dating guys who are not bullies, cocky or selfish I can kinda feel the bitterness in your post and I think it is an unhealthy mindset that you should try to avoid

Dude, it ain’t her fault you creeped her out, calm down

You shouldn't really be talking on the dance floor. The dance floor is for dancing. If you wanna talk you take her somewhere else in the club where it's quieter

Your mindset here should be "let her do what she wants, if she cheats then I know I can find another girl and it's no big deal" Ask yourself, if you truthfully thought you could find another girl within a month of breaking up with this girl, would you feel insecure about her going away on this trip? Probably not. You'd feel like it was her loss, or that it just wasn't meant to be.

IMO it's better to just go out and go for same night stuff. You get clean obvious rejections from girls rather than ambiguous or flaky texts which are very draining to mentally process day to day. I would bet flaky girls have probably caused male suicides in the past, it's that frustrating for guys to deal with. You're not alone. But you really just gotta be a man and learn to deal with it. Lower your investment in text convos if you have to have them. You shouldn't care how the convo goes. Just say whatever is in your head, don't spend ages thinking of what to say. If she's interested it will happen

Shamanic breathing just makes me hungry as a motherfucker. Like food has never tasted so good as it does after 30 mins of that shit. I have no idea if this is a unique to me experience or not but it's all I remember from doing it a bunch of times a few years back

My work bought me one of the new M1 Macbook Pros as my work laptop. I thought I'd have issues with compatibility since it's ARM but I haven't had a single issue. And it's super speedy, super quiet and super sleek. Plus, the screen is better than any screen on any other device I've ever owned in my life But it's easy to be a fan when you aren't footing the bill of a Macbook

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It's not gonna actually poison you in hallucinogenic doses, it's just gonna be a miserable time. It feels like you're being poisoned. You can't do spiritual work if you're too busy vomiting and feeling pain in your body. I mean they're illegal pretty much everywhere, but most countries won't give you in much trouble for having a personal dose. Maybe your country is different, though. In my country (UK) it'll just get confiscated. And your chance of getting caught is really really small if you aren't dumb about it.