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Alcohol is prob your best bet really. It turns me from total introvert to total extrovert I've heard Phenibut is also supposed to be good for it, but I've done very little research into that so please take that with a grain of salt and do your own research. In particular I've heard the comedown is super rough MDMA is another one, but you can't take that more than like once a month without fucking up your brain chemistry so maybe stay away from that except from special occasions.

Honestly you sound like a bit of a dickhead in the way that you write this and she probably felt that same energy from you Focus on being an enjoyable person to be around first, sounds like that’s what you gotta do You’ll get rejected by all sorts of girls as a guy, you gotta build up the balls to take rejection like a man and keep going

In relation to making money, I can’t really give you any advice. You could possibly try getting into something low effort high reward like programming But if you have like $20 spare a week you can go to a club ever weekend, have a great night and speak to tons of new people. If it’s girls you want look for girls who have their own place, they don’t even need to know you still live w your parents Otherwise just look for an after party of some kind and you’ll meet tons of people that way

Again you aren't an impartial judge. Your perception of it will be a lot worse than reality because you're insecure about it

Yea, absolutely

I suspect that's your best option

You aren't really looking for sluts. You're looking for liberal girls who aren't super nailed down by their families' values. You get rebellious people everywhere, in all cultures.

We have one of the most diverse sets of accents of any country in the world, they're not all terrible Hell, girls with the slightly posh London accent drive me fucking crazy, in a good way. Some of them are really hot If you move to the US you gotta deal with all of their absolutely shitty politics, and you might randomly get shot. I'd go with Canada or the UK if you can. I'm sure Canada has quite a good immigration policy if you have a decent job, my boss moved there a few years back and recommended it. The UK, well, honestly idek where our immigration stands after Brexit

Honestly this sounds like a nightmare and you should aim to leave. However while you are there, I've got to imagine there are more liberal girls in India somewhere. While you're there it might be worth trying to find out where it is they are and what they get up to.

Girls in Western countries will give you fucking horrific rejections as well, trust me on that. Again, especially if you're doing random approaches on the street. I noticed you totally ignored the actual point of my last post which was that you should go out at night to whatever venues the more liberal girls in India go to at night. You never gave a good reason for why you can't do this.

If a jacked dude can think he's as skinny as a twig, it's also possible you perceive your stomach as much less flat than it really is False perception of your own body is super duper common, almost everyone has it for at least one or two features they feel insecure about so it's worth considering

Are you sure your stomach is actually big? I've met at least 4 or 5 girls who were absolutely convinced they had way more fat than they really did. Especially in stomach/thighs. I've also met jacked guys who thought they were skinny because they'd spent so much time looking in the mirror wondering if they were too skinny. Your mind warps your perception of your body soooo badly when you spend a lot of time obsessing over a single feature.

@Someone here Honestly, I'd recommend you go talk to girls at night instead of during the day. I mean, ideally you do both, but at night you get way more flexibility to just say whatever you feel like and it lets you build up a good sense of what girls respond well to. The problem with day game is until you get over the mental block, you're always gonna feel like you're doing something creepy or weird ad you can't feel comfortable. If I remember correctly you live in India which might make that a bit harder, but there's gotta be places you can go out at night with girls in India somewhere, surely.

Every guy wants this. There is no magical opener that does this for you Being successful with girls isn't about saying the magical words that make her want to fuck you. It's about your overall vibe and how you authentically come across as a person

Why?

So I have an opportunity to buy some DMT vape cartridges. But honestly, I don't vape and have no idea what I'm supposed to do with them. I'd like to set one up to take out to clubs with me occasionally as I've seen it recommended, but I don't really know logistically how that works so I'd appreciate some advice. Here are my main questions: The cartridges started in measurements of 1ml. How long would 1ml last, is that a reasonable amount? Sounds small to me but I really have no idea. How do I know which vape to buy that the cartridges will fit? I assume it's not universal, and the source is obv pretty sketchy How often would you generally use the vape on a night out and what are the effects? How long will the effects last? Are there any health concerns? It isn't something I wanna do regularly, more like a few times a year when I go to techno/trance nights etc. Thanks in advance

Cheers, this is really helpful! I might try extracting the next time, but honestly for my first time I'd rather just buy to get a sense of whether it's worth the effort of creating them myself. I honestly don't know. They had options for 1ml, 2ml and I think 5ml too. I'd prob go for 2ml based on what you've said. Thanks again!

If it's a big meal I'd say split it most of the time But your first date should prob be like coffee or ice cream or something a lot more casual, which is cheap af. In most cases if it's super cheap I'll just pay to keep things going smoothly and avoid awkward discussion. Her reaction to this can actually give you good insight into her personality. Most girls I've done this with offer to pay, many insisted on it But it will vary per culture

No, if you are an addict you should be treated as a medical patient and not a criminal

Decriminalization is absolutely under the scope of a thread about drug legalization. At least if you want to have any kind of nuanced discussion anyway The last three paragraphs of my post were just my general opinion on the issue and weren't really a response to you anyway, that wasn't so clear, sorry.

Decriminalization of all drugs has been shown to be extremely positive in various countries. You shouldn't go to prison because you ended up addicted to heroin or coke. Nor should you go to prison for being found with a couple tabs of acid in your pocket. It's a nuanced issue, and your initial response of "no this is a fucking shit idea" is probably what riled up that dude. It's not a simple issue with an easy answer. Most people here are particularly concerned with psychedelics anyway, since many of us have had such positive effects. I don't think anyone is advocating for the legalization of buying some heroin in your local corner store. Most common psychedelics are non-addictive and non-toxic. The dangers come from misusing them, or from the substance not being what it was advertised as. My argument would be that legalizing psychedelics to a degree would essentially fix both issues, by introducing regulation/awareness/standards for use. Basically preventing it from being sold as something it's not and preventing people who are likely to have intense negative reactions from taking them.

React was released in May 2013, the first Wayback machine snapshot of Actualized.org is also coincidentally in May 2013 https://web.archive.org/web/20130520193322/http://actualized.org/ Seriously doubt Leo would use such a new framework at the time. Plus React is also kinda overkill for a site like actualized.org

You should pretty much always order from the same country you are in if possible. Domestic packages are almost never going to be inspected or seized in any Western country. The more international borders something crosses, the more attention it draws.

A really big one I've noticed is dilated pupils

It's pretty difficult to change facial aesthetics, hair, age, or the shape of your frame e.g. what gives you a nice waist/ass/legs. Many people are also far more genetically prone to being overweight. It's very possible to be genetically extremely disadvantaged when it comes to looks, no matter how much effort you put into self-care. And that affects women much more harshly than guys.