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You realise that the girls who go to clubs are often just normal girls, right? Yea you’re gonna have a higher distribution of party girls there than in the general population but for the most part it’s just normal girls… especially in the typical student age range of 18-25

The problem is that in order to create meaningful change, you usually need to admit that you are not perfect, or that there are problems with yourself. Which is by definition what a narcissist struggles with the most

You said that complimenting girls is almost always bad, I simply disagreed with that. It has nothing to do with making a girl like you, really. The thing I was disagreeing with was having this idea in your head that you should never compliment girls. That is an unhealthy mindset to have in general. If you feel a genuine desire to compliment something specific and unique about girl, it can be powerful for making her feel good about herself, emotionally stimulating her, and building attraction.

I agree to an extent, but in most of these scenarios here what you should be doing is running the fuck away, or trying to defuse the situation No amount of dodging, weaving or training is saving you from two or three people coming at you at the same time The only time you should be fighting is if you literally cannot run, like if a guy has a solid grip on you, IMO that is the scenario you should be equipped to deal with first and foremost In that situation BJJ is a pretty well rounded toolkit of takedowns and submissions that’ll work against the majority of people who haven’t trained anything or any kind of grappling I agree prob not as effective as a combo of other martial arts, but it’ll get the job done against most people in that particular scenario, which IMO is really the main one to consider Theres also the stat that 75% of street fights go to the ground to bear in mind

Numbers/socials from girls in clubs are a nightmare, I can only think of one occasion (in about 8 months of going out most weekends) where a number/Snapchat I got at a club went somewhere. But I’ve had plenty of same night pulls Really, I think you gotta aim for same night pulls in clubs Funny you post this though, literally last night I was making out and dancing with a girl I met in a club practically the whole night, couldn’t do same night pull. She was exactly my type so I didn’t really wanna move on to the next girl like normal, I wanted to try and actually make it work Got her snap. This morning she’s just blanked my messages It’s frustrating as fuck but it just seems to be how it is

That is not a good general rule Don’t give tons of compliments and don’t give really generic compliments like “you’re so pretty”, yea, I agree on that But genuine, original compliments on things that are unique to a girl (and that attracted you to her) can be powerful I think the problem lots of guys have with compliments is that they say them to make the girl like them, they’re not really genuine For example I like girls with freckles, you better believe girls love it when they get compliments on that, but it’s something unique I’m genuinely attracted to so it comes across as authentic

He got warning points for toxic masculinity on another thread and now he’s posted roughly what I quoted above on another two threads

Google “neighbours arguing over snow” and I’m pretty sure that’ll bring it up if you look enough It was in Pennsylvania if I remember correctly If this happened in my country it would actually make me fear for my life daily

There’s a video online of a couple arguing with their neighbour in the US over shovelling snow The neighbour walks into his house, picks up a pistol, walks out and shoots both of them until they’re incapacitated, they’re still alive, he walks back into his house, picks up an AR-15, walks back out and shoots both of them dead while they’re screaming on the ground All of this happens in what seems to be a fairly normal, middle class, suburban neighbourhood Pretty much only in the US would this happen. No, it is not a safe country to live in

It doesn’t add up to you because you’re being far too logical when this is an emotional issue The money means she’s willing to take a bigger risk And it also means she’s getting value out of it. She either wants to sleep with guys she’s attracted to or she wants to make money She doesn’t want to sleep with some dude who comes across as weird and socially uncalibrated if she’s not at least getting paid for it There needs to be something in it for her

A hospital full of drunk zombies wearing party hats in my town in 1941

Re-read your earlier posts. You talk like your anecdotal experience is objective and applies to everyone. That is what irritates people.

Whoever wrote this is definitely a virgin

I agree. But culture change is very difficult to force. I hope to god the US can make it, but it does not seem likely even in the near to mid-distant future

I mean, congrats man. But the fact you have to ask this is a little concerning.......

Backed up by science? OK, show me the science behind 1, 2, 5, 6 and 7. The others in here are valid points. I have no problem with you reporting your own experience of problems with masturbation. What annoys me is when you present your own experience like it is fact and applies to everyone, when that is not the case.

So salty, lol

Just stop dude. If you take two days to recover from ejaculating, there's something biologically atypical about you. It's not normal. If you feel guilty about jerking off, that's because of brainwashing from culture or content that you consume. It's sexual repression. Jerking off does not consume lots of energy that you need to recover. Your body produces semen 24/7 at a fairly constant rate, whether or not you ejaculate. And the calorie count of semen is almost negligible, so you're not losing energy when it leaves your body.

Because she’s still just a women, who you will need to build chemistry with if you want her to feel safe and enjoy having sex with you. Or you have to pay her enough not to care

The problem is that there are already so many of them There are more guns than people in the US, thats absolutely nuts. How do you get rid of nearly 350 million guns?

Like I said, I disagree more with the framing and dramatisation of it. What I said was that it is an over-dramatisation, not that his point was totally invalid This snippet in particular. It is nowhere near as bad as this: Yea, mainstream media is left biased, and often demonise pickup, especially traditional daygame where you approach girls randomly on the street 40 times a day But they are not trying to campaign for it to be considered harassment whenever a guy approaches a woman, and the framing of ‘the feminists in the media’ is rarely a healthy one. It’s a very dramatic ‘us vs them’ frame I hope that has clarified why I made my initial comment

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Oh, yea of course. I can’t really advise you on dating there, it sounds like a fucking nightmare

No, I go solo, which can actually be a bit of a nightmare sometimes. I'd like to get some clubbing partners too, but I'm awful at making friends, lol. It's weird, when I'm out I can be ultra social and talk to tons of people, but actually building and maintaining longer term friendships with people is something I'm absolute dogshit at

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