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Referring to women as 'females' turns them off, that's for sure Maybe don't talk about how it's because you can't afford it. But most women in my experience want to split the bill, or aren't happy about me paying for everything.

Very warmblooded I have a girl I'm sort of seeing at the moment, she doesn't have much hiking experience though so I don't think it would be fair to bring her along, unfortunately. I'm guessing you were with others? Solo camping is already pretty scary sometimes, weird noises that make your imagination run wild in the dark. I feel like on acid those would be escalated x10. I'm considering taking a break day and doing it during the day time instead.

The system is not entirely made up. The parts of it that feed and shelter you for example, are very very real. And the problem with this thinking is that if there were not people around creating this survival value with their work, society could not exist to begin with, nor could you. So by existing and not contributing value, you are leeching the value of others. Which is not especially fair

@Danioover9000 Dude posting while high is forbidden

It’s just a few guys who are crazy obsessed with body count. I’m mostly sure it’s because of their own insecurity. I don’t think this is a common thing for guys to care about

Yes but you only feel the need to do that because you were invested in her and feel she has somehow disrespected or wronged you, when you really shouldn't care at all and just move on.

@Tyler Robinson Fair enough, that all makes sense. But regarding discussion about your personal life, you can't share lots of personal details publicly and then also complain when people talk about it. That's really having your cake and eating it. If you share lots of info about yourself you have to be prepared to not give a fuck what people think or say

Where are you finding this rubbish?

Gonna need some links for that one mate

I've seen you talk about having sex before. And you have a journal where you talk about it. Why the facade? Either you had sex and want to pretend to be a virgin, or you're a virgin who talks about having sex. Why? They aren't the best kind of woman unless you've been brainwashed into that. If anything they're kinda inexperienced and don't know what they're doing (both sexually and in terms of relationship dynamics) which isn't ideal for you. I can understand wanting to be with a virgin for your first time if you've also never had sex. That's fair enough. After that it's probably not something you need to be too concerned with.

I see you’re in the UK on your profile. Me too. Our psychs are usually shipped through Royal Mail. Nothing shipped through them is really inspected as long as you are ordering something that originates from within the UK, which means the risk is really low. I’m assuming you’re ordering via dark web, in which case you will be fine as long as you follow basic security. Some safety tips without going into enough detail (hopefully) as to be considered sourcing: Use markets, NOT individual onion sites selling stuff You want stuff that originates from within the UK PGP encrypt anything sensitive you send to anyone (i.e your address) Ideally use Tails OS as well if you are technical enough, for good measure Don’t order insane amounts at once If you do this you’re almost certainly never going to get in trouble. Literal worst case scenario you say you have no idea why it showed up at your door If you want more info or if this is considered sourcing and I have to remove some details, feel free to PM me for more help

This is just more shit you read online. You can’t possibly know or verify this.

Oh mate I’m sorry. You’re too far gone, it’s not even worth discussing this with you

The default assumption when someone tells you some new information is that they are telling the truth. If you didn’t hold this assumption you could not live your life. When your boss tells you information you need for work you don’t immediately assume he is lying and go and ask your other superiors if he is telling the truth. Because he typically has nothing to gain by lying to you. If a girl makes an accusation it should be investigated. Because she rarely has a reason to lie and it is a common occurrence for women to actually be sexually abused. No, the man should not be sentenced without investigation of course. But you should take the girl seriously and investigate nonetheless. That is the reasonable and decent approach. It isn’t necessarily blindly believing, it’s simply taking a woman seriously when she makes an accusation.

Most decent humans are going to take a girl seriously when she makes a reasonable sounding accusation of rape or sexual assault. It's just the decent thing to do. Most aren't doing it to be a white knight and get some sex. I know guys like that exist but they're not especially common. Not as common as right-wing internet culture would lead you to believe. Same goes for "white-knight soy-boy cucks". Those are all terms adopted from right-wing internet culture. There are some people who you can tell get all their ideas about other people and groups from the internet.

It was a reasonable point tbf, minus the weird part, lol

Ehh. Idk, I suppose I get what you're saying. However I tend to find that I get much better results with girls when I write whatever comes to mind in the moment. I've noticed (especially online since it's where I have the most experience texting, in person I tend to skip that part) that whenever I end up spending a while not knowing what to say or thinking about an opener too much it doesn't tend to land. Girls can sniff out try-hards

This is pretty much what I was saying. But if you look hard enough you'll find girls who like everything. I've met a few girls who were into longer form texting, mostly online. They were all very introverted students, which tracks

Because I can't understand why you'd need more than a few seconds to a minute to come up with a 4 word response. So when you say 'spend a long time coming up with a response' I just assumed you meant writing long responses.

Because the only part you listened to was that this isn't a good strategy. You never paid attention to the alterative approach: university culture, build up a social circle, go to parties, go to clubs, go to bars If you start doing these things you can approach girls much more organically rather than having to force it by hunting for girls around university campus

My friend, less time on the internet, more time in the real world That is what you need

I agree with you on writing as a whole, but with girls it doesn't work that well to have long form discussion over text. Sending a long paragraph of text to a girl will get you ghosted immediately in like 90% of cases. There are girls out there who will want that and I encourage you to go find them if that's what you want too, but as general advice it isn't a good idea to spend a lot of time thinking about and writing responses to girls you barely know. You can actually communicate a lot more energy, emotionality and personality in short punchy messages than you can in long-form. And girls are typically going to get attached to your energy and personality, not your political views or deep thoughts, or whatever else you might communicate in long-form writing.

I don't think that many people demand it. It just tends to be what people do. It makes conversations a bit more like real life. In real life conversation you respond immediately after you hear what the person has to say. Thinking of a response right after hearing what someone has to say is the natural mode of conversation. A mode of conversation where you think of a response in more than a second is almost a modern invention. Writing has only been a thing for the last 5-6k years. Before that all communication was instant response. It isn't that unreasonable of a thing.

Uhh, yes?

Mate, I'm a guy And you sound very bitter about something And yes, for the most part you want conversations with girls to be light-hearted and playful. You don't wanna be spending like two hours thinking about what to reply. And you don't want to be too intense or serious.