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@Sucuk Ekmek @Carl-Richard Thanks for the re-assurance Well after he left we were alone sooo.... It's weird. Somehow the fact that all this happened made the sex soooo much hotter, which makes me feel like even more of a dick. Re-reading what I wrote, the only part of the narrative I left out is that much earlier in the night we'd agreed he would try to go for the girl I ended up with and I was gonna try to go for one of the other girls. But she wasn't interested in me in the end and the girl that we'd agreed he was gonna go for was. So I figure that makes it a bit worse. Or at the very least much more emasculating for him. I think you are right. I think that I could have handled it better when he came to me in the kitchen and maybe he would have been less upset. He wasn't really a loser. He doesn't seem to struggle with girls or guys too much. I think he'd just got his hopes up for this one girl and then got let down. I think if the roles were reversed, and I had to walk home alone knowing my friend was fucking the girl I'd got my hopes up for, I'd also feel pretty bad. We were actually pretty decent together as a team talking to girls, we had lots of fun and I am kind of sad that we won't be able to do it again.

No, no it is not ridiculous. Malls aren’t meant to be particularly sociable places and there’s a good chance you end up annoying or creeping girls out if you’re doing forward approaches. If you’re gonna talk to girls in a mall you gotta be more subtle, but honestly I wouldn’t say it’s a great place to begin with unless you have an actual reason to be there that isn’t picking up girls

Getting relaxed is pretty normal, it’s kinda the whole fuckin point

Why would your body care how much semen it has in it? Testosterone maybe but the amount of actual semen is not going to affect your mental well-being

If I remember correctly it produces semen at the same rate regardless of whether you ejaculate or not anyway

Those aren’t niggly little details, those are the entire basis of your argument. If you feel bad after cumming there is likely a reason for it, but your conclusion of physical energy loss seems very incorrect

Semen has like 5 calories and 200mg of protein per average ejaculation. You are losing as much energy and nutrients as a would be in like 5 cheerios.

I think it's pretty common for people to answer almost all personality tests with how they would like to be instead of how they really are, it's kind of a fundamental problem with them.

12/40 Though I feel like internally, I can be fairly narcissistic. But when I look at my external behaviour and how I act in the real world, I score quite low. I'm an only child, but I also would say I had bad social anxiety for my whole life, which as a combination might explain that. I also find it interesting how university students are getting increasingly more narcissistic as time goes on, according to the results page on that test.

Haha, I must just be used to people being authentically overly dramatic on this forum

Mate, you're upset over your signature being made smaller. Have some perspective. Far worse things could happen to you.

He is an absolute dickhead of the highest order

Probably, yea. Anyway you seem like a nice dude most of the time, and I don't think we will agree on this matter. So I'm sorry if I have said anything hurtful. A lot of people have ganged up on you here and I know that can be painful to deal with. So I'm sorry for any contributions to that I may have made. I wish you the best, but I don't think there's much more value to come from discussion here anyway.

You mean from me or the other dude?

I mean your view of women is hardly perfect. You were talking about how no women ever want casual sex and then judging the ones that do. I don’t know why this is a hill you want to die on anyway, if you disagree with everything here so harshly then just leave and find a community you resonate with more

Yea, the guy is a total tool. I do wonder how much blame the women involved should get. It's kinda hard to judge because I expect he used lots of really scummy methods to make them do his bidding. But at the same time I'm sure plenty were perfectly willing for the amount of money they made. I also find it exceptionally interesting to see how all of the dudes around him in that video react, or rather how they don't react. They don't seem to care or question him much at all. It's pretty disgusting.

It's not even that I think he'll get convicted for that necessarily, so much as it's a really good demonstration of how he incriminates himself just to show off. Here's the part of the 30 seconds or so of the video I'm talking about. You can watch the whole thing if you like. But this is the section where he literally and categorically admits to fraud. He said in one case a dude sent one of the girls working for him $1m. Don't know if it's true, but that's a lot of money for fraud.

Well, not everyone thinks it's dysfunctional. If you do, then I don't even know what you're doing here. Just follow teachers who resonate with you more instead.

No one’s making you stay here If it annoys you so much then just leave

That's funny, you're sounding like Leo again Which is fine, but you did criticise him for using arrogant tones like this. I think maybe you are heated up from this thread and should take a break from it. Same goes for others as well, probably.

There's a video of him literally admitting to scamming lonely guys. In it he talks happily about how he'd get Russian or Ukranian girls to meet American men online and ask them to send money for a visa, then if they agreed, they'd say they need a special visa that costs more because they are high risk, and if they agreed to that then they'd say they need money for a bank account they'll use when they arrive, and that they also need to buy flights etc. Then eventually they'd get like $10k from the guy. And he talks about it like this is just a normal ethical business that he's happily earned 10k in to split 50/50 with the girl. It's fraud and completely illegal. He just admits a lot of the sketchy shit he does to show off.

No, you categorically said it was not. Meanwhile the person you were responding to was simply suggesting that having an open mind is a good idea.

I think that you are doing something very similar to what you are accusing Leo of here. I don’t mean it as a personal attack, however I think it’s worth pointing out even if you interpret it that way. ”Don’t listen to that arrogant fool, listen to me, I know exactly what you need to do” is a tad ironic

Women only want casual sex when they’re already attached to someone else, or as a shoulder to cry on? What? I don’t understand where that idea comes from, or at least I can’t follow the logic of it. It sounds like it’s based in trauma, or a limited sample of women to me. My experience in the world very starkly contradicts what both of you are saying, so I have to trust that over what you say. I think I’m done here, I’ve said all I want to say. I wish you the best.

Idk, my experience in the world pretty starkly contradicts this statement And so do statistics. The average body count in western countries like the UK or the US is estimated around 10, some estimates as high as 14. For BOTH sexes. 14 long term relationships for the average woman, or man, seems very unlikely. Which means a lot of casual sex is being had by lots of members of both sexes.