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What do you think are the important aspects of attraction is then, if not your charisma?

You're not gonna get arrested unless you're really creepy, or filming yourself and girls as you do it. Or maybe very unlucky. Hundreds of guys do 'day game' every day without even knowing what day game is, they just talk to girls they see going about their day I don't think hardcore daygaming is especially ethical, but you have to do it really excessively and really badly to get arrested

Did he really say that? Audio clips are really sketchy now because they can be AI generated pretty easily. Having said that it sounds like the kind of dumbass thing he'd say.

I'm pretty sure Leo has said before that he doesn't really try to make this place unbiased and free. I also remember him saying you can discuss right wing stuff if you want but you have to do it in a mature way, which is where you start to stumble

People have been losing jobs to robots + AI for like half a century now

Yup, I think you’re right. Back to the search for a decent wingman

To be clear nothing serious was going to come from it for either of us, it was very clearly casual. It’s not like he was in love with her, he thought she was hot just like I did. He also wasn’t my best friend, it’s a dude I met twice, but I felt like we had good chemistry while in the club approaching girls. Basically good wingman material If he was someone I’d known for a long time and I could see he was struggling emotionally with rejection it would be different to an extent. But he should’ve been able to handle this situation, I think.

I feel like anything like this that’s fuelled by insecurity should be avoided. If you’re gonna do this do it from a place of pure curiosity and not insecurity. It sounds like OP might be coming from insecurity in which case the solution is to realise that his dick is perfectly up to the task if he learns how to use it

Thank you for the reassurance. There’s a decent chance I’ll run into him again and I’ll be civil if I do but I’m not rushing to do anything with him again

There isn’t that much difference other than skill level. It’s the same fundamental job. Software architects are really just advanced programmers. It’s like junior dev vs senior dev. Most of the sensor devs I know would all call themselves programmers, but at some point you end up focusing more on higher level tasks when you get more skilled. They’re not separate professions

I wouldn't say it threatens these professions yet per se. It can code, but software engineering isn't just about coding, it's about architecture design, connecting different technologies together and managing massive codebases. That kind of work is akin to constructing a building, an AI like ChatGPT doesn't have the interface to the real world that can allow it to effectively construct a building. It's similar with programming. It can write small scripts and classes extremely impressively but it doesn't have the action set to build or design complex and multi-faceted software engineering projects yet. It's also not that scalable. It's insanely expensive to run at the moment. It's definitely a step in the right direction but it's not going to replace programmers in its current state. Content writers and artists are farrrr more at risk of being replaced by AI because the output data format of their work is very simple and easy for computers to work with; just text and images.

You want to angle your dick to hit the walls of the vagina. There are like a million variations on doggy that hit the G-spot better: https://sexpositions.club/positions/165.html https://sexpositions.club/positions/143.html https://sexpositions.club/positions/316.html https://sexpositions.club/positions/276.html https://sexpositions.club/positions/189.html Or something like this if you wanna go really deep: https://sexpositions.club/positions/328.html Now that you're getting laid you should experiment with different stuff and find out what works. Soon you'll realise you can do a lot no matter how big your dick is as long as you get the right angles. Don't worry, this is normal when you start out. Over time you learn how to efficiently support your body in different positions.

Are you really surprised? How would a cream make your dick bigger? These sites are praying on your insecurity, don't let them. Honestly, it's more about the angle than the size. Like you said, the G-spot is like an inch inside. You don't need a big dick to hit that, you need the right angle. Watch Leo's video on making girls squirt, I know it seems like it might be kinda cringy but that fingering technique really gives you a good feel for which parts of a girl you want to be hitting to create maximum pleasure.

I think it’s a common experience in the nootropics community as well

Blood and semen are not comparable substances, like you said if you lose enough blood you die, if you lost all of your semen you’d be physically fine

Because anyone who is masturbating that excessively is not doing it for healthy reasons. They’re using it to cope with something, most likely lack of success with girls. The fapping isn’t the root problem, it’s the symptom. And jerking off that much to cope with not getting what you want from girls leaves you feeling empty You can fuck 5 times in a row and feel fine, or even amazing. Which proves it’s not ejaculation on its own that’s the problem.

What was the combo? I don’t know if it’s responsible or irresponsible to share, but I am curious. Generally I thought that most psychedelics were very safe on the body

if I eat 2 apples in 30 mins I’m going to feel fine, if I eat 10 apples in 30 minutes I’m going to feel sick If I do an intense 30 minute workout everyday I’m going to feel good and well exercised, if I do an intense 4 hour workout everyday I’m going to feel exhausted, drained and, overworked A small amount of something can be healthy while a large amount of the same thing is unhealthy. And that can change per person too. The amount of energy you lose jacking off is less than you’d lose from a healthy workout by a magnitude of like 10x. Your body produces semen at the same rate whether you ejaculate or not, so the only physical energy loss is the actual physical effort you use which is probably like 40 calories worth at most

I probably wouldn’t be thinking about sex that much for a day or two. But I could def get horny still if I wanted. Physically it’s just like a workout so whatever my normal recovery time is for a reasonably intense workout

I think that being extremely tired for over 30 mins after ejaculating makes you the special breed, not the other way around. Yea, you feel relaxed after cumming, you're supposed to. But it should last like 30 mins or less. The problem is that if you believe you're going to be exhausted and depleted after cumming then that becomes your reality, because of placebo and guilt. If you feel no guilt about it, it's just something you do and then you go back to your life as normal without being distracted as much by sexual thoughts and horniness. 95% of nofappers are creating guilt around masturbation and cumming. You did it here: This is the literal definition of sexual repression. If you cum, you're weak. You're a coomer. You're shameful and evil. That's what you believe. That is sexual repression. it's the same shit religions have done for thousands of years. Biologically you're programmed to impregnate as many women as you possibly can in your life. It would be the dumbest evolutionary trait ever if ejaculating made you weak and useless as a man. It makes you weak if you use it as an escape from actually being able to attract women, which a lot of guys do. But if you're not some nerd sitting alone in his man-cave for 16 hours every day and you can actually attract and sleep with girls then jerking off is not going to hurt you at all. Because someone said it, it must be true? This is also a woman! Imagine a man born in the 1940s saying that women shouldn't masturbate because it makes them a slut. That's equivalent, and you wouldn't take that seriously. It's just silly.

The reason is because they can sense that you're not actually attracted to them and you're only going for them because you think they'll be easy. People don't like being degraded like that. And women can sense that you're doing it.

I don't think that I would have even asked. in my head I'd like to think I'd have just given them space even if it the rejection made me feel bad, but who knows. Yea, thinking about it, you're right. Thank you for this external perspective. It's been helpful. The more I think about it, the more shit he did that I actually think reflects pretty badly on him. Notably, he admitted he was going to try and steal the girl off another guy we ended up talking to in a casino. He sat with both of them for like 45 mins, I assume trying to do just that. I can't imagine how irritated the dude must have been. So it's then kind of hypocritical for him to take issue when the other girl he'd set his sights on went for me instead. Oh well, I'd be lying if I said I didn't love chaotic nights out like this anyway. It's all part of the fun. But I did feel a bit guilty at the end, and I think the perspectives here have helped a lot, so thank you.

This is the funniest thing I’ve read today

yea, I think the fair conclusion is probably that neither of us were really in the right. It’s just a shitty turn of events I suppose, if the other girl had been into me it would’ve worked out better.

@Sucuk Ekmek @Carl-Richard Thanks for the re-assurance Well after he left we were alone sooo.... It's weird. Somehow the fact that all this happened made the sex soooo much hotter, which makes me feel like even more of a dick. Re-reading what I wrote, the only part of the narrative I left out is that much earlier in the night we'd agreed he would try to go for the girl I ended up with and I was gonna try to go for one of the other girls. But she wasn't interested in me in the end and the girl that we'd agreed he was gonna go for was. So I figure that makes it a bit worse. Or at the very least much more emasculating for him. I think you are right. I think that I could have handled it better when he came to me in the kitchen and maybe he would have been less upset. He wasn't really a loser. He doesn't seem to struggle with girls or guys too much. I think he'd just got his hopes up for this one girl and then got let down. I think if the roles were reversed, and I had to walk home alone knowing my friend was fucking the girl I'd got my hopes up for, I'd also feel pretty bad. We were actually pretty decent together as a team talking to girls, we had lots of fun and I am kind of sad that we won't be able to do it again.