Bob Seeker

In my case, I’m 23 and I’m planning on investing all my resources into LP off the bat. Pursuing an intermediate business is my plan B. I think an argument could be made for both choices, so I would go with intuition and common sense to help you decide. also, make sure you take the time to consider more alternatives. There are probably more than 2 choices for you here.

What do you have to do now for money? are you putting in 8 hour days now with little promise of future financial freedom?

You’d need to google it, gets quote or something and use a calculator. We don’t know what it would cost you. Keep working toward that LP, man.

To answer you either or question, Both. Also, happiness apart from consciousness is that you are living aligned with your values and strengths more than solely that you are being productive.

I’m pretty sure a better approach than Uber is to work your ass off at the most lucrative full time job you can get and live frugally for some months and then after that, work on your passion full time, living frugally until you need to work again, and then repeat until you can get by without the job. For example, construction workers with no experience, can make like $5,000- $7,000 a month if they work mostly government funded jobs. That’s what my “spiritual” ass is doing right now. don’t fear a regression to orange. Get your shit handled. Or don’t and try living a spiritual life, maybe like monkhood or Buddhist beggar style or something. I’m just writing this post for my own entertainment.

I tried to force myself into data analytics thinking I could move to Austin, do pickup, have money, etc. I lasted only a few weeks of DA certification course. Now I’m working concrete construction to bootstrap an epic voyage of discovery and I’m going to employ creative hustle for my purpose. The women can wait if they must.

What have you had to do for the sake of your life purpose that surprised you?

Plug your nose, and then start doing it, and once five minutes in, let go of your nose. repeat each day

I feel that. Not an easy predicament. I guess we gotta do the best we can.

Nice! I'm sure my poor relationship with my father affects my thinking in this area.

learned about it in psychology class in junior year of high school. I was instantly interested being an INTP who had self esteem and shyness issues, but it was just an idea. Then I saw Leo's vid on what women are attracted to, recognized his intelligent approach, recognized the term actualized and been coming back ever since.

It seems that I've got the basic idea down, although I've been wrong been wrong before so I'm keeping an open mind. It is different than "spanish influencer" or "depicting the highest things", although I could see how it might evolve in that direction in the future. Basically the ways described in the Life Purpose Course. Asking myself questions like "What excites me", What is the one feeling I want to have for the rest of my life? What is that feeling connected to for me?, What to others seems like work, but to me seems like fun?, The Big Leap questions, etc. After answering them and then discarding the answers, and reiterating and then getting business ideas and then discarding those and then starting all over a bunch of times over the past 4 months, my answers got clearer and clearer until now they are pretty clear, and I'm still working on it. I think there is value in continued reflection because there are levels of authenticity and specificity in terms of what you really want to do. Anyway, I love the process of homing in.

I’ll check it out, thanks

@evolving55555 look and see if it makes sense. do you like healing now? I’d still recommend that you follow your heart, and if that’s truly your purpose, your heart should lead you there. Once, when I was 22 (last year) I asked God what I muy purpose is and I received “spanish influencer” and “depicting the highest things”. This sounded very random to me. I wouldn’t even know where to start. I see myself just looking to figure out my purpose in the normal way right now. In fact, it is taking me a lot of thinking and exploration. I think that’s important because I want to do what is authentic NOW at the present moment. So No, I’m not going to drop everything and do that. Not only because I could be deluded, but because if it is truly my purpose, my heart should lead me there as long as I remain open to the unexpected and in touch. I personally don’t even think about it. If I end up there one day I will look back and laugh. If not, I will laugh.

Currently spending a Sunny day in walking in circles around my apartment and thinking

AAAAAHHH!

The more I think about it the more I’m creeped out by the idea of having little people who look like me, that I sort of created? ?

@dflores321 makes sense. Maybe I consider myself more of an astronaut than an earth dweller, figuratively speaking. I can definitely connect with a urge to impregnate a woman, but beyond that sexual act, I’m not finding any desire to actually have any children come from it or be in my life. Possibly. I mean I do have motivation, just for other things, and I feel like children would just slow me down when I think about it. But it makes sense, it’s prob just that everyone has different things that they feel urge towers in life. Maybe I’ll pull a Socrates and have kids when I’m 70 and finally ready?

Yeah, better skills, purple cow, capitalize on opportunities like and get crafty, like luring people in with trendy topics or even pull a Don Juan and lure people in with low consciousness ish like the way Leo did by publishing pickup videos. That’s how I discovered Actulized. Maybe even look into new mediums also, beyond YT

@IAmReallyImportant if excellence is what you really value, then you need to work on defining what excellence really means. You seem to be conflating it with success or with changing the world. Success is a low consciousness value because it is comparative and heavily survival related. Excellence is neither of these. an urge to change the world might mean you value contribution. If so, go for this directly and it will make you more happy. Consider that if you don’t change the world immediately as much as Elon musk is, you could do it by planting seeds. Jesus never started anything too big but his followers turned it into a religion that would help evolve the world from spiral stage red and purple to stage blue. It’s better to follow your heart and be authentic than to worry about immediate impact, or you are likely to burn out, or act rashly. Also, Musk didn’t invent the electric car. That ish would happen with or without him.

You could probably just do that now in your free time, whether it is your life purpose or not. I wouldn’t get hung up on having the right idea immediately.

Yeah, look to get out of the house, either renting somewhere cheap with your money or getting a job, but you have some soul searching to do, finding more of your authentic expression, experimenting a lot more to see what you really like. I wouldn’t commit to anything long-term right out the gate. Your impulsiveness will diminish when you have 12 ideas that you impulsively chase and none of them end up being the one haha. Don’t please your parents and friends. if you worked hard at a purpose and self-education for the same amount of time it takes to get PhD, and executed on a well thought out plan, you could easily get people to listen to you, and then you would have better things to say on top of it. Just my opinion. (Of course, this takes huge commitment to discipline) if you choose to seek education, I’d do it with a very specific career outcome in mind, based off of self knowledge and experience, and definitely authenticity 100%. I wish you luck with the fam. Mine is Catholic, half are very serious about it and will not be happy when I reveal my beliefs, but I know Muslim family will probably take it much more seriously. Take courage my friend and follow what you believe in your heart is right. Maybe some pickup would help you with nice guy tendencies?

There is an argument that coral does not exist because spiral dynamics and its distinctions are transcended at turquoise

What’s your native language? Have native speakers got enough good dating advice? I imagine it’s difficult to break into the American dating advice market, you’ll probably find that it’s an extremely competitive market.

I’ve had to ditch toxic friend groups twice. Both were emotionally difficult and looking back took too damn long for me to act on it. I recommend ensuring that they don’t have any negative influence on you period. That usually means cutting them off. It’s easier when you go and find healthier friends rather than just being a loner. Look into other lifestyles. Keep on shooting for the highest things. Let no one rob you of your most precious life. The time your soul has to experience it’s truest desires