Bob Seeker

Will doing pickup and avoiding relationships depress you?

I did that one time thinking it was needy or just sort of weird to message next day. I saw her like that next night and she wouldn’t even talk to me she was so pissed. I was highly confused, thought she just rejected me because she thought I sucked lol.

If there’s any good motivation to quit porn, it makes the 7s and 8s seem more perfect, also u should definitely try and appreciate a woman’s overall sexiness, he energy, her walk, her femininity, dress, etc. shit, I’d get with a 5 easy if we had a lot of time to bond and our personalities really clicked

https://youtu.be/BQ2_BwqcFsc many masters don’t take a straight path

One thing I want to add is that it’s good to search around a lot so, regardless of what path you are currently taking, you will keep gaining more experience of what is a best fit for you, which will help you correct your course in the best ways.

And what languages would you recommend learning for it?

Probably better to finish college. Unless you have such a good business already that you need to leave college to do that full time. College is a good thing. if you switch to psychology, be prepared to learn about statistics, research methods and have it focused around that. University Psychology will not teach you self-help, not much practical psychology, no spirituality, really it will be not at all like the things you learn about in Actualized.org. I would recommend, whatever you do, that you have a solid skill set that you can market to employers when you graduate. graduating thinking “I will make myself a business when I get out, no problem” is not a good move, unless you’ve already started multiple successful businesses and can bank on your skill. private practices, such as coaching are also businesses, of course. stem fields or other fields with practical employable skills upon graduation, like finanace or something are good because you can get a job (especially if you do summer internships) and don’t have to start from scratch. it’s only too late to switch if it’s actually too late to switch based on what your academic advisor says. Some people do an extra semester, it’s not uncommon. don’t get too caught up on fighting wage slavery. Negative motivation is not good for much. The way out of wage slavery is to earn your way out and that is easier when you have money. If you plan on being a vagabond, you’d better be enlightened af because otherwise that will get old fast. build marketable skills. At this point, just choose something you would like to do, it doesn’t need to be perfect, just something you would be good at, uses your strengths. Take a strengthsfinder test.

@supremeyingyang thanks. I’m just looking into basics rn. I’m still headed towards data analytics career at time being. Maybe some time in the future we could converse when I make more basic progress.

Part of why you are imagining everything is so that you can imagine purpose

I imagine it’s not much different from fingering. What works there would likely work with the D. The issue is you don’t have as much control over the D. Speed and how quickly you allow her to get it ( foreplay) probably is a lot of the equation. Maybe if u have a curved D it can do more things lol (no shame) ” what he does with it” is probably just an expression referring to sex Don’t listen to the Virgin who is procrastinating harder than

Thanks for the answers y’all.

What is the best method for bouncing btw bars/clubs and to home? are we talking Ubering, driving (or is that weird), walking? do you live like right next to the club? do you take her friend(s) to other clubs too or just her?

Look at Jeffrey st Laurent of SellingCoaching. He charges 1200 to coach coaches on building sales funnel, Facebook group, having selling convos, etc. maybe you can find a better price out there if such is the case.

Good thread. maybe your management skill will help you if you decide to start a company in the future in order to break out of wage slavery. I’m thinking straight programming is not the most immediate way to earn good money, but can be if you stick with it

I was gonna post bad news and unethical business practice story but I can see there is not going to be any value in that.

Interestingly, my cousin is against eliminating disabilities in future generations because she equates it with Nazi style eugenics. I wouldn’t say I’m in agreement with her. I honestly don’t think there’s any objective answer, the only real question in my mind is would you want to take care of a disabled child and/or witness their suffering, which may be greater or less than average, depending on their condition. im sure some people’s greatest gift in life has been their being forced to care for a disabled child.

If you post this on Quora maybe you will get more responses

The answer if you go far enough will likely be along the lines of: you wanted to have an experience of x and reality being such that you feel women are physically weaker than men allows you to experience that perfectly

Do you actually want to see any of those girls again. If you’re not even authentic about wanting to hit on them and are just doing it for personal development, it might be harder to produce an attractive vibe from them. if u actually don’t care about getting laid from strangers and just want a gf, you should try to meet a girl who you would actually like to see again, and the vibe may be more natural and she’ll prob like you.

Not sure, but maybe if you go deep enough into awakening you can learn the answer to questions like this. You are God, after all.

You’ll prob have to really feel this one out. I don’t think this is the type of thing people can advise you on. id say learn as much about the options in front of you as you can do you know what to expect and then you gotta find your way in good faith trying to do the best thing for you.

Getting smacked in the face by the reality of wage slavery.

I’m 23, sort of holding out on dating to work on career (after neglecting career for too long), though I never had success with women. I really wasted a lot of time in unfruitful spirituality, tbh part of me thinks dating is better when you are younger for biological reasons, so I feel like it’s sort of a shame. it might also be that dating doesn’t really matter, though. I mean, it’s sort of icing on the cake, probably shouldn’t be your biggest regret if you miss out on it a bit. I prefer to abstain from porn, but masturbation is good. I don’t like how porn desensitizes you to pretty women who aren’t 11/10’s. Other than that so have nothing against it.

Now your challenge will be to have that confidence and be relaxed without drugs

Thanks! Yes. Planning to take everything I’ve learned, even when feeling most stuck and let it help me going forward. I’ve come to believe the universe is interested in us finding our way in life, and by remaining open and sensitive, we will be doing well. good luck!