Bob Seeker

Okay thanks. I’d probably prefer Austin or Miami or something lol. Im not prepared to go that hard right now

@Danioover9000 Sounds like great ways to build up the skill

I understand this comes from Wilber, but I don’t really get what it is, simply. Can anyone clarify?

@Danioover9000 how did you find this out? Did you read about it? Or it this more direct experience-based? very curious as this is really cool

I guess the further I go the more opportunity I have to experience the full spectrum of existence and learn to eventually come around and be at peace with and love it all. I can’t think of anything higher

Maybe social work in field of liberation psychology: check out Towards Psychologies of Liberation book- Idk, just an idea. Maybe it will spark some ideas or u could customize however you like

Though pill to swallow. Maybe pick a field you think you’d benefit from learning more about through the work you do. There are many jobs not too difficult to get where you could learn almost endlessly

No longer care about looking cool no longer care to live in a special place no longer care for sweets don’t really care to travel or see wonders of the world all that much Don’t really care about hanging out with friends

As far as I know, women are typically looking for a relationship, not a one night stand. True? Does the man have to sort of cheat the woman and trick her into thinking he really likes her only to demonstrate otherwise after he sleeps with her? is there a way this works where both parties win? wouldn’t the man making himself high value only make her want a relationship more? If you were to be honest about just wanting to sleep with her, is that not a turn-off to her? I am a pretty harmless person. I don’t kill bugs. It wouldn’t be easy for me to do pickup with confidence because of this.

In my humble opinion, It can be a growth experience if neither of you are under the illusion that it should be your primary source of happiness (rather than becoming more of what you are), and if you are both clear that you do not need each other, nor are you bound to each other artificially forever, never able to move on if you feel called. So I can't say I recommend a legal marriage that is forever and messes with your finances if you decide to split up or just move on.

I sort of have same issue. i do more YouTube learning. I don’t think you need to read every book, but search for the answers you need. Books about a relevant topic do tend to give more nuanced understand and more buy-in though. Leo’s LP is literally half about doing research, keep that in mind He said once he doesn’t do speed reading either at young age, it’s important to take a lot of outward action with the theory cuz u got to set your foundation

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@diamondpenguin I need to get an internship in Data analytics, so that’s first. While I am doing that I plan to brainstorm biz ideas and then immediately after I will try to begin one. you are right, an analytics business is an option. Thanks My preference is a business that is scaleable. i need to do research.

@Thought Art Do you intend to begin a family one day? Yeah, I’m aware Leo has a different deck of cards than me, I don’t believe it is smart to work on a business -or anything rn- that I’m not confident I will be able to get good traction with. Trying to start a business with my lack of know how could end up in me just spinning my wheels.

I’m headed for 24, have like 7k saved, living with parents but they are pressuring me to get a job. I will be applying for data analytics internships soon. I owe parents $500/mo for rent. i have been thinking of getting analytics job in a new city and doing pickup. I have been hoping I will learn more about business from my job, grow more confidence from pickup and build a network, all of which could help me with entrepreneurship. not sure if this is smart or if I should work while living at home (would be lame) to save money. I can only guesstimate a life purpose in spirituality/Self-Realization but it seems vague and like an uphill battle to do any writing or sharing in that area. the suckiest part of slavery is definitely the part where you can’t escape. my bail out strategy might be to build some sort of remote income and move to Mexico or South America so I could do LP part time when I have that more figured out. how am I doing?

For me it has been taking a lot of distilling. The values you lay out are only as valuable to you as is their ability to point you in a direction of action, in my mind. you can have vague values but they won’t help you as much as looking more at what is true for you.

.org has historically been for non-profits but it is acceptable to use it now for anyone because everyone knows it is cheaper than .com. no real difference, except if it is .org you prob need to include .org in your brand name so that people remember it and don't type in .com. .com is better since it is the go to, but it is usually much more expensive to buy the domain name. If both are within your price range, .com is preferrable.

I liked the part where he said we are hanging onto the little bit of love we have found in our lives, so we miss the infinite love. I think this is very true and this is why it is understandable that we get stuck

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Yeah I wouldn’t start with DMT. Most people start with mushrooms I believe.

I mean the stage orange stuff. More generic professional development tracks, pickup, ordinary rules of business. i mean, it seems to me like we will be forced to change the very fabric of society and I don’t see this stuff making much sense anymore. Even if only a certain level of predictability disappears this stuff could be threatened. any thoughts?

That’slike asking “why lift weights and eat chicken when you can do calisthenics and be a vegan and be likely even healthier?” different people just have different visions

If you look at sex from the point of view of a win - lose paradigm, as if there is only one party that is enjoying and proactively wanting the experience, then your opinion on this issue would make sense, otherwise your opinion is rather unfounded and fallacious. The issue with this is that men are more likely than women to be able to enjoy intimacy, connection and sex and then just move on. Women are wired differently. There is actually more of a conflicting set of interests than you are giving credit. even if she thinks she wants sex, you couldn’t just take her word for it. You wouldn’t feed your children a McDonald’s diet just because they ask for it. pornstars will say they want to be pornstars until they find out what love is and regret ever having been a porn star. That’s what happened to Mia Khalifa. a pickup mindset will always be less than true because dating is survival, so it’s always gonna bite you in the ass. That’s how reality is designed, to cause you to have to transcend survival or face the consequences.

Based on this I could bang whoever I want after building intimacy, as long as I text them the next day and then just act like a friend. Sounds too good to be true. I think she’ll end up feeling shitty about herself in the end. @blessedlion1993 I’m not picking on you, I’m trying to figure this out for myself. Dating seems pretty fundamentally selfish

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