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Yess I remember it as omnibenevolent instead of morally perfect ofc we're not talking about the Judeo-Christian God, but is this idea of love seen as "morally perfect" then? or is God neither omnipotent, omniscient and morally perfect? and just "Love"

Fictional, but a mostly stage red land being taken over by stage blue religion, getting rid of all "sin" Especially when arresting the gay prince: - "Ser Loras Tyrell, you have broken the laws of Gods and Men" ~ 'Who do you think you are?' - "Justice"

I don't know who this woman is but saw this video a few weeks ago, but her dad seems like a sociopath? Smirking? Whilst she talks about the fucked up abuse...stage red? (Man walked in like Freddy Krueger LOOOL ffs) Another example of Red is most of the places in Game of Thrones, pretty much everyone is a murderer in it- but there is still a distinction between "good" and "bad" red. For example, Arya Stark is a character who has a list of people she wants to kill and frequently repeats the list to herself- very stage red? But she is loved by fans as a "hero" for her great fighting skills and for her "justified" killing - killing off the bad people basically. (There are also great examples of stage purple and beige within in it too- since there are so many different groups/locations within the series)

Yes fair enough, good points but agree to disagree

I used to agree with this Very unpopular opinion: but SOMETIMES (v rarely) a relationship can thrive after such an incident...there's a big difference between a serial cheater and a terrible mistake The decision comes from evidence that the person is both willing to change and is taking actual action to prevent such situations again and amazing open, honest communication from then on has to be a major component of the relationship

I'm so sorry that you're in this situation, it sounds very extreme and I can't imagine how many inner struggles you guys must have gone through by being exposed to this toxic environment My dad had some anger issues whilst I was growing up but nothing as bad as this and did often apologize- but he continues to be angry sometimes, especially to my mum- and she definitely has issues because of it, but I'm working on them with her (and hopefully I'll be able to speak to my dad about his soon) However, in your situation it just sounds like he would need professional help- but he doesn't sound like he wants to change. So if he doesn't, imo the best thing would be for the sake of you, your mum and sister would be for you guys to try to get financially independent from him or help from the government if possible? I'm not sure how much help you can get in Canada Honestly, I don't know your full story but maybe your mum could try to work if she's able to? I know this can be difficult if she's always been dependent on her husband or he hasn't let her work or whatever. There's many free online courses and qualifications available online right now because of the COVID-19 situation- so maybe that could help her with getting certain jobs?

What do you mean by this? Like being completely open minded to this new reality?

I like this part especially. I think pure love also enables us to tackle problems for the root cause, e.g. "What help do police truly need to be able to reform?" *Saves quote* I'd say I'm mostly stage green but I've started to understand the idea of higher Self-Love *in theory* better which has helped me solve some of my own problems without fully *experiencing* it... @Leo Gura are you constantly immersed in this Love now? or do you have more work to do?

Go for it if it's bothering you that much I considered changing my name once, since having an "Islamic" name leaves more room for discrimination...but decided to keep it. I thought If I ever lose out on a job over something like this, isn't that a blessing in disguise? Avoided a toxic work environment hehe

but WHY would that happen? That sounds terrifying to me lol... like the higher stages just makes everyone in society mentally insane or something, because surely moving up the spiral would allow us to save the planet and society etc? like is Leo just crazy? idk? is it actually the truth? I'm a bit ignorant perhaps with spiritually cos I do have some fear but off topic Interesting though...

Exactly. The same way stage blue Muslims aren't green for not wanting Islamophobia. @IJB063 I suggest watching this video that was recently posted on the stage yellow spiral dynamics thread, although I still saw the riots as somewhat "understandable", the video gave a better perspective of why it's happening (Also just an assumption- I'm seeing you as a "logical" guy @IJB063 so I can see why you're resisting stage green...you can go through stage green without being an overly angry SJW though- empathy is what you're lacking- meditation grew mine more but psychs are probs a better way)

https://news.sky.com/story/george-floyd-family-urge-people-to-do-this-another-way-and-vote-rather-than-cause-violence-11998827 (have a look at the video) For less privileged folk (due to race or class etc), even if stage blue are more likely to vote more "consciously" (even if for "selfish" reasons) but often don't because of lack of education or interest in politics. Love this response to counteract the impulsive but understandable rioting! Edit: an underprivileged person in today's society in the US is likely to still have access to the internet- a stark advantage to the rioters from the previous century,a movement spreading the notion of education over violence would be truly impactful (e.g. how Cardi B's collab with Bernie Sanders introduced politics to a whole new crowd)

Edit: you said 5 skills: -a good studying habit and studying skills (non formal learning- for reading books or working on a project like coding) -social/interpersonal skills -visualization and strategic thinking -emotional "mastery" and understanding your psychology -financial literacy (will give you the freedom to live by those values) and to aid you with such things and more, looking after your health (good sleep, diet, meditation, exercise etc) I have a lot of work to do though haha

Amazing. Empathy without being overly emotional or "triggered", interesting

Yes of course but baby steps... As you say it's complex so how are these rioters supposed to turn from this violence to the grand "solution" At least this alternative is a better trajectory imo and gives these people a "voice" instead of burning down businesses of their own people. If "green" + politicians gain more power, this is closer to the reformation of the US police and prison systems becoming a priority rather than more of the "When the looting starts, the shooting starts" mentality. They should be punished with psychedelics

Well the protests for it have definitely started in the UK lol, doubt it would go "global" as a lot of countries have worse things to worry about. Honestly true but their own people would hardly care in some places. The US is glamorized by many from these type of countries and seen as the place of freedom and whatnot, and is supposedly "developed" that's why it's a bigger issue. If the US can't get it right then what hope do these less developed countries have. (Ofc we know there's more consciously developed places than the US but big power = best place to live for some people).

Nice! I like the explanation

You could be bi-curious...regardless it doesn't have to have a negative connotation just accept it as reality and stop repressing it if you have been. The more you fight and resist against such thoughts and feelings, the more the stuff will resurface.

lmaoooo Yeah but the article is targeting another group that exploit through orange toxicity

Thank you!! Well said It's fkin barbaric #BLM They accept the racism since its in their ideology Hopefully this is a true turning point then

(US' Trudeau?)

Yes! confidence, humour, charisma and alladat I know a Sikh turbaned guy who did this all the time (got white and other girls)

Wtf lol (random but: white people often smell like cheese to foreign Asians, probably the relatively dairy-rich diet. Ofc curry is smellier AND tastier though) If you go in the club smelling bad regardless, good luck.

Oh right didn't know about the left pic. ffs The man probs just wanted some groceries he couldn't afford living in an underfunded area The US is a scary place

@Lyubov the reaction of the police to the rednecks vs reaction of police to the riots due to his murder?? i'm confused too lol