Najim

Dear Seekers You, the ones who trust their hearts. The ones who've been stung by lack of love Now guided by the promise of love, yet arriving at complexity Choosing to question their reality, yet receiving no response Near is the answer, yet far away you are To Greatness I now travel Farewell to those who remain on the radar

@snowyowl When this all ends and you reunite (knowingly) with God, you will then regret the lack of love you displayed. You will regret not loving more than you did. The selfish are haunted by their conscience, they become numb to their conscience and deny good. For them this experience of love is unseen. Deaf dumb and blind to the light they will never return.

When the sky is torn apart When the celestial objects lose their cosmic order, scattering And when the seas erupt violently And when the graves are unearthed Only then will each self know how much it has put forth and how much it has set back Oh mankind, what has deceived you concerning your Lord the most generous The one who created you in perfect proportion and established balance in you Assembling you in whatever form he willed But still you’re in denial of the spiritual Assigned to you is a conscience Truthful in Recording Knowing of everything you do For indeed, those who dare to love will abide in unending pleasure And for those who give in to selfishness. Those, unloving and wicked, bound to them is a painful torment Arriving at nowhere but torment, and are never absent there from.

@Gesundheit You will use this to further your belief of a ruthless and cutthroat existence. An existence of pure selfishness. ‏ذلك خطأ مبين

Many folks dogmatically interpret the story of Adam and Eve as an occurrence that initiated the start of human existence on planet earth. But very little will take a closer look into what the story actually means. I will use the Quranic version of the story of Adam and Eve to increase you in understanding. The story is scattered through out the Quran and not located in a single Surah. We will work around that. The Quran has archetypes such as "Angels" "Devils" and much more in order to convey the meaning of truth more easily. The story starts with Satan. Who is Satan you may ask? He is the sustainer of deception, confusion, ungratefulness, suffering, conflict and much more. In here we discover the nature of 1 of the two primary aspects of the human ego. In Islam, the Ego is segregated into 2 parts. The first being "Self" and the second being "Satan". This distinction is similar yet not synonymous to the one made in other cultures as "Higher Self" and "Lower Self". This "Aya" or "Sign" in the Quran reveals the nature lower self or "Satan". It's nature is to attack you "using logic, emotion, persuasion" from every angle to make sure your experience of reality is so misguided and deceived that you begin to suffer resulting in your lack of gratitude. Forgetting God = Ungratefulness. Emphasis on the word "most" in the line; most of them ungrateful. This means there are some, who experience Satan, but do not become ungrateful. Those who are spiritually gifted among us see through the deceptions easily. God refers to himself as "We", Not "I", emphasizing unity, oneness. God orchestrated creation for creation to experience creation (itself) and its pleasures. God warns of the suffering ahead which comes about by "eating" from the "Tree". What is meant by "Eating"? What is meant by "Tree"? The Tree represents all the different ways in which you can worship yourself. So "eating" from it means engaging in the pursuit of self worship. Satan (You), the best of persuaders, deceived them into the game of self worship. He convinced them of the reality of themselves and told them that this reality was not good enough. They needed to be better "Immortal Angels". This drove them to their demise, as this was all an illusion, a game they chose to play. And because of this God descended them from the "heavens "and onto "earth". In other words. Enlightenment -> deception -> birth of self -> self worship -> lack of enlightenment - darkness -> suffering Then Adam (Mankind). Learnt the ways in which to remember God, to free himself of his lower self. These ways of remembrance include gratitude, meditation, yoga, pranayama, psychedelic experiences etc.. Also, since Adam never returned to "Heaven", therein is implied that man remains deceived until his death. For Adam never returned to heaven alive. You may remember God, unfold deception, but "you" are still bound to "yourself" as long as "you" are alive. God is all welcoming and all forgiving, do not fear his closeness. Those who stubbornly deny the signs which teach them remembrance of God, remain in perpetual self worship, living in the painful Fire. Personally, of the many signs I experiences, one was when I was going through hardship and called out for God and minutes later a butterfly landed on my chest and chose to stay there. A most reassuring feeling came over me that caused remembrance of God. A shame it would be to "fall into deception" and say it was coincidence and deny the presence and all loving nature of God . - This is the story of mankind, mankind falls for perpetual self worship. The goal now is remembrance of God and to experience creation to its fullest. Feel free to use this as a reference story to your experience of life. I certainly do. Much Love ❤️

@Nahm how simple this statement is yet so truthful. That is the literal experience, the common thought about a belief is that its couched in the back of your mind somewhere. Thats literally just another thought. Tricky!

@Gesundheit You sure about this the past 24 hours? You were doing the very things you claim to not have had the urge to do. The urge to correct people is an outward appearance to wanting to be right in your case, according to me, from reading your posts on my topics and your replies. You have to look where you dont want to, where it hurts you only then will you start to crack the nut of love.

This is highly deceived thinking. Look at the love all around you. Have you not seen your mothers eyes? Have you not seen the shape of your hand? Have you not felt your heart beat?

@Gesundheit If youre seeing something I dont, you can point it out You quoted me typing: inherent right is giving, loving, selflessness. This is built into your moral compass (feelings) and is the nature of God.

"wrong" is the lesser right, lesser good (lesser by huge amounts). There is no such thing as "wrong", that is impossible in this universe. However that being said, you can get damn well near it. You naturally have an inclination to stay away from these "lessers". You intuitively know self-worship creates suffering not only for "you" but also for "others". Some will say: "whats "wrong" with self worship and causing suffering, its all just imagination!" How deceived they are.

I deny extreme relative moralism. Extreme relative moralism meaning: that there is no such thing as right or wrong, that these things are only perspectives relative to who you are and your beliefs. This notion that torturing innocent babies using an axe is only "relatively wrong." However morality is still to some degree relative. Prostitution is morally ok for more developed countries while in lesser developed countries it is seen as a moral evil. This is the relativity of morality. However again the notion that there is no inherent wrong like mentioned in one of the actualized.org blog videos it was said that: There is nothing inherently wrong with dropping a nuclear bomb and mass murdering an entire population. This is just the ego talking smack! There is a natural law or right and wrong inherent to you, selfishness is an inherent wrong, loving and giving is an inherent right. This is the foundation of ones moral compass. This is built into your feelings and it is the very nature of God. Speaking of which, selfishness manifests itself in forms of pride, arrogance and many other forms. A prime example is Leo being arrogant, prideful and having a trolly attitude. There is selfishness there no matter which way you flip it. Ta-Daaaa!!! You wanna be enlightened? Go clean the toilets and filth of your biggest enemy's house for free daily. Eradicate selfishness and you automatically fall into love and into the "arms of God".

@BipolarGrowth I deny extreme relative moralism. Extreme relative moralism meaning: that there is no such thing as right or wrong, that these things are only perspectives relative to who you are and your beliefs. This notion that torturing innocent babies using an axe is only "relatively wrong." - Again, I deny the notion that there is no inherent wrong whereas in one of the actualized.org videos it was said that: There is nothing inherently wrong with dropping a nuclear bomb and mass murdering an entire population. This is just the ego talking smack! - There is a natural law or right and wrong inherent to you, selfishness is an inherent wrong, loving and giving is an inherent right. This is the foundation of ones moral compass. This is built into your feelings and it is the very nature of God. By "wrong" I imply lesser right, lesser good (lesser by huge amounts). There is no "wrong", that is impossible in this universe. However that being said, you want to stay away from these lessers because self-worship creates suffering not only for "you" but also for "others". Some will say: "whats wrong with self worship and causing suffering". How deceived they are. Speaking of which, selfishness manifests itself in forms of pride, arrogance and many other forms. A prime example is @Leo Gura displaying an arrogant prideful attitude. There is selfishness there no matter which way you flip it. Ta-Daaaa!!! You wanna be enlightened? Go clean the toilets and filth of your biggest enemy's house for free daily. Eradicate selfishness and you automatically fall into love and into the "arms of God". Much love.

@Harikrishnan ❤️

Fellow actualizers, You'd think that this topic belongs to the health section on this forum, but as you will come to know by reading further, the practice of Ramadan is not just about fasting. To set context: I am a muslim, and fasting for 16-18 hours a day is not out of the ordinary. Its because we have been doing it ever since the ages of 10-12. Ramadan is coming up which, you may not know, means that muslims all over the globe strengthen their sense of community by going on 18 hour dry fasts for 30 consecutive days together. There is a great power in that. This muslim tradition is based on Inter alia, gaining control over the "Nafs" or as you may know "Ego". You may not know this, but during Ramadan fasts, muslims have to abstain from anything related to sex and also abstain from egoistic tendencies like: pride, criticism, stinginess, arguments and generally bad mouthing others. Again in that is a great power and benefit. Ofcourse with all of this, us muslims engage in prayer with even more diligence. The muslim prayer is done 5 times a day, after washing the face and limbs, and it is a combination of focusing on the breath, mantras and yoga movements, all of this with the intention to become one with god's will or in otherwords to become one with "love". Since the community here is all about self actualizing, I thought it be a good Idea to share this, maybe some of you would like to join the other billion muslims on this journey. Ramadan Starts on Tuesday, 13th of April.

@Husseinisdoingfine HAHAHAHAHA Leo Ibn Gura Al Arabi apology video for eating pork

@Harikrishnan soo true! Ive tried other nests but theyre just not as lovely. you will say: well why dont you drop all nests and be with infinite absolute love consciousness. My reply: My nest already got all that and more baby!!

@Megan Alecia He is referring to the uselessness of psychology beyond thought. Maybe I will make a topic about this later on but for now I will say it here: Psychology is build on trying to change your thought patterns and behaviors from unhealthy to healthy ones. It can help identify who you are but then again, it does no good in teaching you the relationship between you and your thoughts, understanding the nature of thoughts, understanding the truth of emotions. It puts you into categories and doesnt address the subjective experience of your existence. There is use in psychology but meditation will really take you to the level of clarity and understanding you really thirst for.

@JosephKnecht Wonderful. ❤️

@Husseinisdoingfine Leo bin cina gura al arabi @Leo Gura

@JosephKnecht Islam is not only a religion but a law, drawing boundaries is necessary to create a functional marriage. And are you actually reading the posts I make or are just skimming through them to uncharitably criticize them? Because Islam doesnt say only marry “muslims” it says marry only those who believe in God. This expands to include you but her parents are probably conservative and only want their kind. Thats them not islam. What are you doing all this time on this forum. You are litterally regurgitating the belief system of actualized.org. I say this because of your over attitude and tone suggest to me that you have not had an awakening into love. Which means so far all your talk is belief. Not attacking you buddy just stating my mind. Many other users on here are like this please again don take this as a personal attack. To convey a message to the common masses, you have to based it on belief, but I will tell you from personal experience these believes once held with the a higher spiral development interpretation are about as real a belief as you can hold. Beautiful, the first two sentences. Budhism, Christianity, Judiasm and Actualized.org itself think they are a branch more special than other branches. This is not a criticism that you can throw on muslims and use it to dismiss islam. Look if you dont like islam good for you, there is something wrong in that, because you deny yourself but other than that no one is forcing you to like it. I personally love it, it is possibly the most beautiful way of life. Much love, Joseph I hope God grants you with whatever it is you want.

@Edward mahairi Thanks for the question, I myself have struggled with this one. Ultimately what it boils down to are negative bodily sensations and repressed beliefs that start bubble up causing resistance in you and hence the bad mood. I wish there was a shortcut to this but really, you just gotta fast time and time again and meditate on these negative emotions that arise. You want to familiarize yourself with these emotions and consciously choose to let them go. Check out https://www.actualityofbeing.com/meditations and https://www.actualityofbeing.com/the-emotional-scale. the first link directs you to meditations that are specific for your case, the second is about understanding emotions. Much luck my friend, I wish God gifts you with whatever it is you hope for.

Memory ability is to some degree genetic but good sleep, nofap, wim hof method, cardio and caffine do you wonders in this regard. Meditation should also help out

@Osaid Well said friend. I want more people on here like you!

Walk over to the sink and wash my face and limbs with cold water. Then do the islamic prayer ( a combination of mantra, yoga and intention to unite with love) Wim Hof Breathing method followed by a guided meditation session I get out for a little cardio session Then I pour myself a big cup if coffee and drink it over a five hour period while I do my work. But before this is most days, some days I wont do them in the same order, or I’ll start work then do the wim hof method and meditation later on. But it about sums it up

Look. Keep making more noise about how much you think islam is a primitive religion, but oh man it is the perfect fucking way of life. I love it. Now, you have to interpret islam as a teaching founded 1400 years ago, interpret its meaning and youve got yourself the manual to human existence.