Wilhelm44

I just need to clear up the misunderstanding here, and then I'm done. I'm not saying that one should be passive or do wishful thinking. The point was simply this: The closer one gets to being completely okay with it happening or not happening, the easier it becomes for life/love to bring as that so called unicorn moment. Much love.

My apologies, I misread ur OP.

I could be wrong, but I think if there was a recipe for this whole thing, it seems like the closer we can get that number to a 10, and just lose ourselves in life for a while without even thinking about any of this, the more fertile the ground becomes for love to surprise us, seemingly out of nowhere.

Then my next question would be: How comfortable are you with being alone/single for now ?

Most people are not on the kind of journey we are on here. (An interesting exercise might be: Imagine the woman of your dreams shows up on your doorstep right now. Then notice if there is any hesitation/contraction in the body that might be pushing away, or resisting, the very thing that you say you want.)

Yeah, I was just being silly.

It's not about waiting. If you keep doing you and keep growing in self love, it becomes inevitable.

It seems to happen when you least expect it. (Love don't care about statistical probabilities.)

I am married. I met my wife without having to play any games. It happened quite unexpectedly. I had a facebook group at the time where I was waxing lyrically about the magic of reality. Unbeknownst to me my future wife was in the group. She said it happened 3 days in a row that I posted something and somehow she was having the exact same insight that day. She sent me a message and that's how we met. Life has a funny way of getting people together when it's meant to be. (Is that why Adyashanti, Tolle, Spira etc are all either married or in long term relationships)

What specifically do you mean here ?

Wow, that would be a real shocker if Jesse was linked to Peter Thiel.

Yeah, pull urselves up by ur bootstraps and become zillionaires, the whole lot of yous !

How so ?

Cheers

Just discovered this guy recently, and every time I listen to him, more and more of the sense of separate self just seems to melt away without any effort. Kinda magical really. It's gotten to the point now that when I think of memories of the past, there are impressions of past events, but I can't find a me in those memories, quite trippy.

Any time 🙂

Yeah, kudos to Demystify for having the willingness to even have Leo or Jim on in the first place though.

😁

Sounds like ur saying it's actually impossible to describe the real you 🙂

@Yimpa How to mix rugby and soccer

What is this "real you" that you are talking about ?🙂

I think it would just be the two of them laughing out loud, as they tend to do.

Yeah, it's like Jim and Tony's message removes the 'I' that wants to claim that it is God.

I hear you, I think they teach this specific message because it's actually really effective in melting away the sense of a separate self. (More so than anything else I've found) It seems to be rare to meet someone where that sense of separate self has died completely. Im actually beginning to feel that should be a prerequisite before we start making claims that we are God etc. Yes, he does use the term indescribable mystery, and also the term pure anarchy and unconditional aliveness. And also "this can appear as anything". I have a feeling he may have gone deeper than you think. The teaching is lean simply because it's really effective that way.

Another one I like is: it makes no difference to reality whether I live for another minute, another 5 years, or another 50 years. Once again this can be interpreted in nihilistic ways. But it can also lead to a tremendous amount of fear leaving the body system. And thus the leading of a beautiful life.