Wilhelm44

Cheers

I haven't watched yet, but I think this is it.

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I'm sorry I threw the c word at you. It was uncalled for. You're a good guy. My sincere apologies.

Spot on.

@Inliytened1 In essence nothing is ever truly lost, simply transformed into something else. ie his process brings people to peace, by helping them to see how, in a very precise way, the qualities of a deceased loved one, are still present for them right now. He's helped a lot of people that way.

Maybe this 3min video explains better. It's not about recalling bad stuff. It's about rebalancing one sided perception of loss. ie you're sad that their good qualities are gone. but there is relief or even joy that you don't need to deal with negative qualities of that person anymore. ie neutrality of perception.

The video was only 2min lol There's actually a whole process to it. But here he is just saying that people don't tend to acknowledge the relief felt in the absence of the negative qualities of the deceased person.

There's a lot of myths around healing. This dude helps people to heal when a loved one dies. His wife died of cancer, and he processed it in a month.

Yes, that is the general perception. But I'm telling you there are women who have healed completely.

He was 20 when he said that. I'm not saying he's a nice guy. But no one deserve to lose their family completely.

I'm not minimizing the trauma of rape. I'm saying apparently it is possible to heal completely though.

I know it sounds extreme, but that's how she expressed it. It's like being grateful for something really terrible, because it eventually brought you to an even better place.

In that interview above, with his flat mate, before he was famous, apparently Russell said his goal was to sleep with 5000 women. I'm not sure what causes men to rape though. I mean how would you reform a serial killer for example. I guess the only real way is to have an awakening.

I think the point is she found a way to heal completely. Which means her level of consciousness was now higher than before the event. Hence, as crazy as it sounds, some form of gratitude for the perpetrator exists.