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@Terell Kirby @Lyubov @Jennjenn I feel like women like for men to not care and not text them often and keep some distance the first few weeks. Am I wrong ? I think that's my own neediness, insecurity, fear of being played and ghosted at play here (standard mommy issues).

Won't this repel her ?

You could probably transcend your desire for food if you went 40 days without it in the desert

In this instance, the best way to fuck this up is to not escalate. Go for the kiss and go for sex. Don't just kiss her, give her the whole experience, sleep with her. At least try to. The only reason why you should not sleep with her is if she doesn't want to. A girl inviting you to her place is pretty rare and that's as direct as it'll ever get with women. It would be really hard for you to screw this up. Just make a move, don't worry about being smooth or waiting for the perfect moment.

Digital detoxes are great. Silence, loneliness and complete non-distraction are great for your creativity, productivity and focus. YouTube can really become a distraction. Getting distracted from my life purpose by a talking head that spurs great monologues on life purpose.

Texting and apps should be used to meet face to face only. You aren't going to seduce her through text neither are you going to increase your chances of sleeping with her, meeting her, etc. Basically you can turn her off through text but you can't turn her on through text. When you try to be smooth, funny, cute or interesting through text it sets you up for neediness because a enormous percentage of women will ghost you regardless and this will leave you in a loop wondering why you weren't funny enough, smooth enough, funny enough, cute enough, etcetera. It will make you believe you aren't enough. You can be super dry through text, it doesn't matter. If she wants to see how funny, interesting and charming you are make her see you IRL.

''just a little experiment''

That's gonna be something. Looking forward to watching it 8 times in its first week

Develop these 27 qualities all you have way more than an entrepreneurial mindset. ve

You can't expect someone's brain to readjust in a week if they have been taking a substance every day for months or years. It's misleading to believe so.

Fasting helps with energy because your body isn't busy processing or digesting food. It liberates a lot of energy that way. However drinking coffee, especially black while fasting can hurt your stomach. I'd be careful of doing that. @Javfly33, try switching to green tea. Way better for you but you'll still get a bit of that mental stimulation you are looking for.

Cool, thanks

For most people it will not take 1 week. That’s almost impossible. Even a month is fairly and undershoot for the time it will take someone to feel normal again.

It can take around 3 months or like a 100 days without caffeine for you to feel normal, the way you felt before you ever drank caffeine. The reason is that your neurotransmitters and receptors need time to re-adapt. The only scientific explanation I know is that the caffeine molecule blocks the neuroreceptor for another molecule responsible for sending the signal to your body and mind that you are sleepy called adenosine. To remain effective, your body has to manufacture more adenosine when you are on caffeine for you to still fall asleep and function. Thus when you stop drinking coffee, your levels of adenosine are too high are you are flooded by the chemical. You just need time to re-adapt. Stick to your patience. The slower you go, the more likely it is that you'll stick with it and not go back on caffeine when your ''purge'' has ended. Personally, my strategy for quitting caffeine involved drinking black tea for 50 days but reducing the amount of it every 10 days (by 20%) or so until you are not drinking anything caffeinated. It took another 50 days after that for me to feel normal. So it took around 100 days but it was really worth it. I was still working on my nutrition and fitness in the meantime so that helped. However, concerning energy, this is only the tip of the iceberg. You'll have to commit to understanding things like nutrition, fitness, sleep, breathing, meditation and also, working on your life purpose. Because the bulk of your mental energy will come from working on big projects that demand your highest self.

I would like to continue living to experience artistic growth and feel the most love I can feel. I want to actualize my potential and become great at what I do. I'm sending love your way and hope you keep going and surmount whatever problems you face. Leo's channel is gold mine and the advice there can help you fix a lot of the problems in your life, use it.

Is it worth going through heavy metals detoxification if i’m only 23 years old ?

They technically don't demand anything. In fact, every guy that does more than the maximum he can do will still get rejections from women.

You are hitting this point from the male survival's agenda. The male agenda is to have infinite access to infinite women. Technically, the feminine agenda is the opposite. Women want to secure the best genes possible on the market to ensure the reproduction of their offspring and since society is pretty much dependant on security, stability and reproduction, it's going to be very hard for you to manifest your agenda. To make it happen you'll have to against the grain and get into pickup heavy. You'll also have to spend a lot of energy and time making it happen.

You can ask your doctor to mold your ears and get tailored made high-fidelity musician ear plugs. That's what I did. Still harder to follow a conversation than when I don't wear them but if you are motivated and focused you can make it happen.

Do not waste energy trying to be smooth Don't worry about being smooth Be forward

Girls saying they don't have sex or kiss on first dates is their subconscious strategy for filtering out beta males

love that list

Train yourself to be state independent. Kinda like an entrepreneur going to work even though he doesn't feel like it. Thinking about going to the gym and being at the gym lifting weights are two different things. You wont always feel a surge of motivational chemicals when you are on the field practicing your art, building yourself or training your social skills.

Don't attach shame to watching porn lol. Just masturbate without it and don't even think about it. It's not an issue.

I have no idea what emotional mastery feels like. I know that Leo talks about the concept of emotional mastery a lot in his older videos where the topics were more grounded in the achiever stage. I have getting more and more aware of how I feel at different moments in time but if such a thing exist as ''emotional mastery'' then it would be one of my ambitions to realize that. However I just have no idea what that would entail. Does it mean (I know this will read as childish but bare with me) being always happy never sad? Being highly focused never distracted? Does it mean being able to be productive while feeling unproductive, acting a certain positive way in spite of feeling negative emotions? Or does it just mean being acutely aware of one's emotions? I'm really curious. Let me know if you have achieved emotional mastery or if you are in the process of achieving it.