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I appreciate your rigor in your explanations but feel like you are more binary in describing socialism (this isn't, this is) than you are with capitalism. And truly with the intent to learn here : Why can't you have Wall Street and call something socialism but then have a society with a robust welfare system and call capitalism?

I'd say, have a higher purpose/passion/goal. Be efficient and competent in your life skills and dating skills. Also, if you are in the early stages of dating, keep opening girls and creating volume. But the ultimate trick is accepting the permanence of it or even more META, accepting that you might get oneitis. You can't fight oneitis on the psychological level it's created at, you must go beyond.

It's more of a spectrum then. If we can't call Sweden or Norway socialist states then we can't call Canada, France or USA pure capitalist states either.

That's one thing I can't wrap my head around. He seems to think COVID was a hoax and he's in favour of Trump. I truly don't get that. But I don't listen to his videos anymore, I hit a point of diminishing returns. However he is kind of a genius and has amazing videos especially the old ones. Good for orange motivation.

Wow...So socialism is truly impossible? What about a mixed model of capitalism/socialism? I mean I want to be pragmatic but some things that are happening as a result of capitalism make 0 sense to me.

Jordan Peterson has to be one of the worst sources of information for self-help. For politics also btw.

I'm very sorry to hear about that.

Yeah message her bro, I don't understand the whole reflexion about it lol

Understood. I read it a long time ago and it was a good introduction to the PUA world but i'm happy I forgot about it's content. I actually like to listen to Owen's podcasts though. He motivates me on a material basis. I really feel like he sort of mastered the orange stage mentality, but never would I ever get my political views for him. Matter fact i'd recommend Owen Cook to any JP fanboy who need to ween off from his bs. Owen is a good stepping stone. But your 3 part getting laid series is peak though, and you don't send us in a right wing rabbit hole.

Isn't The Game on your booklist though?

Leo had a pretty good critique of "Whatifalthist" on his blog. It seems he deleted it.

@Leo Gura, i'm curious about your opinion. What makes the plot juvenile and the writing stupid for you ?

Don't overthink texting, just be normal through texts. The real attraction and relationship happens once you two are in the presence of each other.

Begin by finding your life purpose. Life purpose is like a more ''truthful'' version of success—something that aligns with your values and strengths, something that can help others. You might need to start by being financially independent first, or maybe your life purpose allows you to go all-in right away. Only you know. I suggest contemplating hard and crafting a plan that's unique for you.

Don't do pick up but you could try approaching strangers if you are shy and want to develop socializing skills.

You can very much get laid while you are getting your life together. The strategy here would be to lean into the player phase and get experience with women while you build your life up.

GO Bernie.

I think it's because men are usually less equipped to feel their emotions. The less you feel the sadness of the break up the more time it'll take you to heal.

This just reads as an Elliot Hulse blogpost, lol.

Meeting new girls will also quench your thirst. It's most likely over for good with that person

Bro @joeyi99, I watched your approach video and it's honestly very solid. That's what pickup looks like. Although this woman will most likely not follow-up this was a pretty decent approach. You just need to do a lot more of them. What matters now is that you immerse yourself into approach and summon the power of volume. Keep studying attraction and ruthlessly implement what you learn in your approaches. I believe in you brother.

I like your mindset. Be optimistic and take action. With the conviction that arises from your optimism you can take action that will ultimately give you better results that mere theory. Keep it up my friend

Leo's ultimate advice is to use this as an opportunity for growth. His video on what to do after being broken up with is top-tier advice and you should listen to it. Don't be overly philosophical and spiritual about this issue. If you became too needy and dependent on a girl you probably obliterated her attraction for you. Chances are, it's too late with this person even if you change. You have to work on yourself and meet new people. Here's a few suggestions for action steps for you : learning about male-female attraction, healing an insecure attachment if you have one (look up attachment styles), becoming more fit, learning or honing on your life purpose, working on your relationship skills, working on your finances, finding new ways to meet people, etc. Here's Leo's video. I strongly recommend it :

Absolutely not. You might also have multiple life purpose in your life. But 28 is very young. Go get it. And if you really just now figured it, pour everything you have into it. Be smart but aggressive about it.

You are fine. Just approach women. Or don't.