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Lately I have been fascinated by near death experiences and consumed a lot of content about it from people who experienced it. It gives me chills to know how blissfull it is once we leave this physical form based on the experiences I've listeneded to by people who had this experience. @Leo Gura Would you be able to bring in your perspective on that topic? Is it the same experience you are teaching about in your video "what is death?"?

Yes I love this channel. I wonder what happens to people who did real evil stuff e.g. Hitler if they don't feel judged?

I would like to request a video on how people become and are racist nowadays and believe that certain races are superior and what's going on in their minds as well as what is structual racism?

The deleted video on solipsism of Leo is still on youtube on another channel as you probably know. I listened to that video many times and I must say, I love it! It changed my view of life and sometimes I go back and listen to it when I feel like. I also noticed that it summarizes down a lot of other videos about "god" and other videos of Leo but for me that one on "solipsism" was the most clear and accurate one. So Leo, I know you took it down from youtube for good reasons but still my question is, do you feel the same way these days as then when you shot this video?

thank you??

because it answers most of the question about my life and it puts me at ease. I listened to the whole video couple of times and each time I listened to it, everything became more obvious and clear to me as Leo explains it very well and then I realized that most of other Leo's teaching boil down to that exact video, just in other words.

This video actually makes me feel better

I saw this on Twitter - I mean X. What do you think?

@Sucuk Ekmek Yes, but he also made some statements which sound like alt-right propaganda. He made statements along the lines that there is a genocide against white South Africans which isn't true obviously

So soon I am going to have my first DMT trip. I am looking so much forward to it. I wanted to do psychedelics for such a long time but I was too scared. I will prepare properly and will have a trip sitter I trust and a good set and setting. However, I am scared that I will get a panic attack or something during the trip. I am not scared of ego death or something like that. The reason why is that if I smoke weed, I tend to get anxiety and I used to have panic attacks when I was younger which now transformed itself into a milder form of pure OCD. Even when I had MDMA last time I felt anxious and uncomofortable the whole time The main goal I have actually with this trip is to solve my OCD issue. However, I am scared of panicking. Basically I have anxiety of getting anxiety. Can you give me any advice on that? Should I just leave it? But I wanna do it so badly...

Why is it widely accepted to change your gender but not your race? I saw some people in the internet who identify with a different race than their born with and they face a lot of hate whereas people who change gender face support. Isn't it the same thing in a way? You don't wanna be what you are basically.

@Danioover9000 not really as there were too many comments, I didn't even read them

Ok this is actually a quite insightful point.

Didn't he have a skin disease?

So just a little update and summary from me after the trip: It was 3 days ago and an amazing experience. While tripping I experienced a lot of discomfort but also love on another level. My visuals were long arms waiving around me. First in red and black and then in lighter colors after I openend my eyes quickly and then closed again. I felt more discomfort and fear than comfort overall and I wanted that it ends soon, however, when I came back, I felt soo much lighter than before. The next day I felt so present. I was going out on a day market with friends and I felt so present the whole day. So present that girls I talked to for 2 minutes wanted my number and contaced me for example because I was in such a good, calm, peaceful and present state. Then I went to an art musuem with a date. The musuem was amazing, I saw art from a different perspective than before and really enjoyed it. Some of that lightness and present is still here but not as intense as right after the trip. It's time to explore further for me.

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I also think I suffer from Pure O, basically all my life if I think back. Here or some examples I used to have: - I had one thought that whenever somebody said something, I had to rhyme the last word of what the person said in my head. It was freaking me out. This one is gone. - I had one thought that I couldn't stop paying attention to blinking my eyes. I couldn't do it subconsciously anymore. It was annoying as hell. It is gone now. The same thing I had with breathing after I did some meditations. This one is also gone now. I had many more things like that and only one is sticking to me to this day and my goal is to conquer this one for good now: - I always have to think in and about accents (dialects). It is exhausting, you can probably imagine. How do I deal with it: I just do all my things no matter what. I go to work, I go out, I go running, I go the gym, I go on dates, I meet friends. Basically I don't lock my self indoors and let the OCD dictating my life. I do whatever I have to and live my life, even though the OCD is there and it is annoying as hell and nothing seems to help. I basically just accepted it and let it there and I won't let it stop doing me from ANYTHING! I think it is OCD, right? Let me know what you guys think.

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I am turning 30 years very soon. One of my deepest desires in life is to become a father and I don't want to be a too old dad. I find now would be the perfect age for that. I have a girlfriend again since 7 months. She matches exactly what I wished for in terms of looks (she is pretty), the way she treats me, her idea of the future, the way she is there for me but... Our sex life is boring, I often don't even want to have sex anymore with her (but I am still attracted to other girls I see at the gym, in the street and so on) and sometimes she wants too much attention. I am doubting the relationship even though everything matches and is perfect. As I had my doubts, I wanted to have break from it so this is what we are in now. A 2 weeks break with no contact. I want to see how much I will miss her. It was very bad for her and I feel so sorry to hurt her but I need it to figure out what I want and I still don't know if I really want to be with her or not. I find it is too bad to just throw this great relationship away. Basically the fire is missing in my eyes and I don't know what I want. We already planned a future together. Has someone experienced something similar and can share some inputs? That would be nice.

I don't think that I am disconnected from my feelings as I am able to feel many things in life. Don't you also think if you are planning to have a serious relationship with a future and spend much time together, you also need to consider that some "practical things" need to match and you can not only go by your feelings? See the "practical things" do match but I am unsure about my feelings towards her...

@integral yes

Best advice!

This is a serious question, please answer it seriousely. As a hetero sexual male, I only experienced dating in male to female interaction. How does dating and attraction work with lesbians? If women are into status, what about lesbian women? That also must mean, that not all the hetero sexual women are into status. Also in my experience men are mostly active in approaching, kissing first, leading to sex and so on. What about for two women, how does that work? And then as well for homosexual men? I have a few gay friends and it usually goes very quickly towards sex and not much playing around and game and so on. So I'd appreciate the answer of homosexual people on the forum, just out of curiousity.

What about lesbians, what are they attracted to?

Since the how to get laid is the latest video series of Leo and he talks a lot about going into clubs, I am wondering how can you get laid by going in clubs? The dates I get come from online game, approaching women in daytime in the city and social circle. I am pretty happy with my results in these areas but in the club, I almost never got laid all the years I went there. I made out a couple of times in a club but that was the exception when I went there and I really suck at pulling a woman from a club. Most of the times when I go in a club, I'm having fun dancing. Yesterday I went to a club again but there were more men than women and only a handful women I am attracted to but these women already had 10 guys before me hitting on them. That's almost all the time the case. So what is the secret of "club game"? Having fun only is one point but not all of it....