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I feel like limerence can be important topic to talk about.

A lots of guy I meet are either from my friends or online dating. I have talked to a lots of creep but I have to stop because I am feeling uncomfortable. But there are still some guys that I talk to who have a good intentions of casual sex.. if that help. I am actually do considering going to the bars. But I might want to socialize instead of sitting still. Thank you guys for great help

Please do a video on how to get laid for women

I guess the reason I ask question because I have been listening to How to get laid video and I understand the concept of how some enlightened people can rap someone because they have not have sex in their life. I believe that tie with sex trafficking and rapist because some people can't get enough sex that they have to seek for one in that sort of way I have been talking to many guys including dirty text and sex call but somehow, never seem to get the guy to go to bed with me. I guess that made me doubt in myself a little. I get very excited for the day to come then they have cancel or we didn't talk anymore. This made me become some what emotional attach to each guy I am talking with. And every time we stop talking, it just felt like a break up somehow. Any advice?

@Origins Can you explain it in easier way?

Easy said than done.... You got to understand that we work in the same place. It would create awkward environment if things end up badly.

Thank you so much for great tips and clarity! I am not sure if we both show any sign. I communicate with him like I would to everyone. I am friendly and out going. I am often smile or even giving out complement. I am not sure he would take that as interest. Yesterday, he offer to do my last minute task before I am done with work. He even said "Are you done for the day" and I said " yes" Then he said "Have a good night" But this could be he just being friendly. But I am kind of afraid to take it to heart because I tend to fall easily and start to day dream over his words.

This question is something that been on my mind lately especially when I start to have some feeling for one of my coworker. I won't say we both are close or in the stage where we show interest. I still not sure the reason why I am interested in him. Beside, he is tall, nice and fit. ? I know..... But I started to noticed maybe it's the idea of him playing in my head.. Last couple days I've been fascinating about him and what it was like to be in relationships with him. Going for road trip, hiking, showing off to my friend, and even showing compassion towards him. Come and thing i it, I don't even think I love him. I just falling inlove with the idea of me and him. But why can't I erase the feeling toward him. Even though I know what is going on? Thank you for reading.

I am sharing with you the experience that I recently had about money toward my passion is playing a trick on me. Last Wednesday, I was packing my military gear to prepare for mobilizing. I noticed one of my gear was missing and it happens to be the most expensive one, about $1400. Though, I was worried sick because I am crunching on time. But somehow, I have a sense of relief that I can pay for a new one with no problem. No, I wasn't rich or poor, I do have a decent amount of money in my saving. But it got me thinking about the time that I wanted to buy new equipment for my baking, I have this tendency of hesitancy, doubt, fear, and uneasy feeling. I need to get the cheapest equipment or I need to wait until I have more money or even go as far as saying that I might be wasting money on the equipment even though it was just $ 9 for an oven thermometer. But here I am willing to give away $1400 for military gear without a second thought. On Friday, I found my gear, it was a huge relief. I still have $1400 to spare and use some of this money toward my passion. I started to view money as an opportunity and not a restriction. Without this experience, I would still have treated the money as relief, comfort, and reassurance and not invest it toward my passion. But even though if I ended up not finding my gear, with this new mindset, I would still invent some of my saving toward my passion.

I want to be a YouTuber and share many baking recipe. I still work full time and create my business on the side until I am able to sustain myself

I don't mean to come off negative toward school. I do have great time in college as well. I took a gab year after high school and I realized that I really wanted to be a dietitian. I want to spread message about plant based lifestyle. But looking back, I love to bake since I was little. I know for sure it my passion. Things has changed since I was into health and wellness. I don't see myself working as a dietitian. I started to noticed that nutrition is now a lifestyle to me. But baking is my passion. I want to be able to make delicious vegan treats for people who still miss the taste of dessert when they turned vegan

On topic 12, 100% commitment. I am clear that I do not want to be in college anymore. I guess I never fully wanted to be there in the first place. I wanted to be nutritionist but it has been so clear for a while that it not something I see myself doing. I am on my mid-way of finishing my spring semester. It has been stressed me out with homework and assignment. I know that I do not wanted to be there anymore and I kept telling myself to just suck it up until I compete my spring semester. But what the point to it if I do not want to continue college? I have thought on just letting my professor know that I am no longer being in the college but the thought of having a bad grade is giving me anxious. What if I wanted to go back to college? What are your guys tip in this situation?

This is such an amazing feedback. Thank you!

Question I have, To become a mastery, I need to committed on becoming proficient at my craft and to be the best at it in the world? My fear of this is I will get competitive with my field. How can I focus on my craft when I am worrying that I won't be the best. Or the best is not determined by other's work and progress. If that so, how can I know that I master and the best at my craft? Pick one thing to master: If I were to say vegan baking, am I mastering in science behind the ingredient, or prefect the recipe, or history of the pastry or all of the above or only the topic that I care about? How about the topic in vegan that I don't really like talking about for example eating vegan treat affected your body compared to none vegan treat. If I want to master the vegan baking, do I need to cover all the topic?