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  1. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    I agree that most women are not attracted to character. But to say that no woman is, is wrong in my opinion.

    Also, the other side of the coin is that a man with good character, leads to good integrity, leads to strong frame and reality, and thus, leading to attractive traits.

    For example, my integrity makes me see girls’ bullshit. It leads me to not put up with their BS. Or at least have boundaries. It makes me stand my ground. It makes me have high standards. All these are very charming traits.

    And when I look them directly in their eyes with my grounded look, what do you think is generated? Starts with an A, and something we have discussed for 10 pages.

    My character leads me to having a good, happy life. What do you think this does, when meeting girls?

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    The more developed a person is, the more they are drawn to high character.

    Isn’t this what this whole work is about? We want to push human development further because we resonate with it, and it calls for our souls.

    All that being said, most people are tribal monkeys and full of traumas.

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    3 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

    I think being in a place like Vegas you almost filter out materialistic, transactional, shallow women. You’d probably be blown away by the types of women you can meet in places aligned with higher values and conscious living 

    Yeah.

    Certainly girls coming from all over the world to Las Vegas are not going there with ”I’m looking for a good character type of man” first in mind.

    Quite the opposite.

  5. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    I live in a stage green socialist-capitalist society. Perhaps the most developed nation in the world. At least the happiest.

    I behave and treat girls very well here. I do balance it with lots of teasing, fun, playfulness, wittyness & charisma. I also have a lot of social proof here. I am naturally very good at emotionally connecting with people, and I authentically care about them due to my deep empathetic nature.

    If a girl behaves like a selfish entitled idiot, I call them out, give them shit and move on, cuz poor behaviour pisses me off. Oftentimes I laugh at their face and move on.

    I do not have an issue with supply of girls being attracted to me.

    Honestly, I feel like the worse I treat girls, the less success I get. But maybe that’s because it’s just very incongruent and fake of me to treat people poorly. Unless they deserve it.

    The more developed an individual and collective is, the more turned off they are by bad character.

    I havent read all of @Emerald’s posts but I am leaning more with her. It’s been like that I believe ever since I joined this forum back in 2021. There was also Ethereal Cat being more active back then. Same issue, same discussion, different year.

    All that being said, Leo is not completely off either.

    A middle ground to what ya’ll are fighting about is where it’s at, I believe.

  7. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    5 minutes ago, Candle said:

    I'm self aware now, that's why I have written that. In love, you get mad, you deliberately ignore the reality. 

    You are talking about completely different level than what the thread is about.

    In the thread, we are discussing initial stages of meeting people, initial stages of attraction. Not deep emotionally bonded monogamous relationship.

    The deeper a relationship is, the more character affects.

    But that doesn’t mean that you can’t be drawn to good character in the beginning - especially if you deeply value it yourself.

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    And if you are self-aware enough, you will be able to see your bias that you are pointing out here, thus distinguishing it from what really is the case. By definition.

  12. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    15 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    Not even thinking about demi-sexuals.

    I have no sex drive unless emotionally engaged/connected to a person.

    Can you become demi later on in life?

    I’ve started to contemplate deeper that I’ve become a demi or something similar.

    Wasn’t like this in my younger years.

    Or maybe I just matured lol.

  14. Posted

    On 31/12/2024 at 8:02 AM, Shodburrito said:

    I want to be genuine and caring. But I can't deny that showing less emotional investment often leads to more attraction.

    I'm struggling to find a healthy balance between maintaining strong boundaries and genuine care. How can I be authentic while still maintaining enough emotional distance to keep attraction? Is there a way to be both caring and maintain healthy challenge/mystery in relationships? I don't want to play games, but I also don't want to fall into patterns that kill attraction.

    The key is to meet so many women with your love balanced with charisma that you are in deep abundance of girls.

    When you are in such abundance, naturally you won’t be able to give the time of the day to all the girls, unless she really deserves it - in which case, she will greatly appreciate it, since she has had to work for it.

  15. Posted

    10 minutes ago, integral said:

    FINNALY. But you don't want to pay the employees well :D, instead grow as large as possible and influence as many systems as possible within Society with your conscious agenda.

    Funnel ice cream money into electing High Consciousness politicians.
    Funnel ice cream money into building 100 new schools a year, that covered the topics people truly need in life.

    Yes, absolutely.

    There are many great ways to use the money to promote conscious stuff, if we just spend time contenplating them.

    I gave the easiest one on top of my head.

  21. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    No PUA sleeps with 100 girls per year. That's virtually impossible unless you are paying for sex.

    The best PUAs get maybe 30 girls per year.

    Leo, you are very wrong here. By far. Speaking from experience.

    @Recursoinominado is more correct. Way more than 100 is also possible.

    That being said, I have the looks, probably the best personality type for this, rock-solid inner game, 20 years of dancing skills, pretty lovely IG, live in Finland (stage green, sexual liberty, income & status equality) & I went out 3 nights a week, did daygame & online game - while working part-time, like 20h a week (work was in the evenings).

    I didn’t really add social circle game to all that tho, which would have made all this dramatically even easier.

    I was 24-25 & it was 2019. Did this for a while and then got bored to death of it. Started feeling really off about it all, the same old cycles over and over, the superficiality of it... Burning through karma in effect, and it worked, eh?

    Sometimes I was having sex with 3 girls within the same day. 1 in the morning (from last day date or pull from club), 1 from evening date & 1 from pulling in the same night. Or 1 in the morning, and went to 2 dates in a row in the evening etc.

    Got to a point I couldnt get erection due to it just becoming ego & performance than connecting and enjoying. Went to the doctor to see if I had some erection issues lol.

    Anyway, this was right before I ”re”-bumped into your content so I was probably selfish and manipulative as hell (relative to now - the growth has been immense - even tho I’ve done spiritual and self-help work ever since 15).

    But yeah, I am perhaps more of an exception. But isn’t all the best PUAs an exception? I have no idea, don’t really know anyone to compare myself to, other than my then #1 wingman (& probably the only other dead serious PUA here lol), who did as well as I did.

    He had to eventually change his whole identity 180 to a low-key one tho, since his reputation started to get him in serious trouble (he did it like 10X longer than I). The guy went to the show Bachelor after approaching half the country 🤦‍♀️ - moral of the story: if you have a reputation of a player, don’t rub it in the face of the whole country. I promise you, you will suffer immensely for it.

    Side point: all that being said, if I were to be single now (havent for 4 years), I wouldnt make it so structurally performative and would have more fun and spontaneus - and so, I wonder if my game & results would be even better. Probably not as I wouldnt be nearly as hungry for MORE & results all the time.

    But who knows.

  23. Posted

    On 12/12/2024 at 11:04 PM, LordFall said:

    @Miguel1 I relate to how you feel a lot. I'm an INTP and I value knowledge and internal understanding most of all and now that I know most than most of the people I encounter I seem more disgusted at their low level of development rather than feeling blessed that I can share knowledge.

    I think it's still out of ego and feeling insecure and like you can't trust/feel safe around people of a lower development but I still need to unravel that. I also noticed recently I have a crippling need for control so I tend to rig situations in my favour and that's been causing me a lot of suffering I now realize. 

    Thanks for sharing. I can relate to the points you articulate.

    Ego indeed is a sneaky mechanism.

  25. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    I’m more with @integral here. At the very least, he could have sold the empire and do a lot of good with the money.

    But at the same time, if someone is at heart a writer / artist, and not a businessman / strategist / leader, it might be hard to think and act that way.

    But who knows, it could have also been just naive selflessness.

    But I definitely agree that there is a big difference between being handed a billion vs having to build it from scratch doing something unconscious.