Miguel1

Some of the most toxic self-help content will definitely drag you down.

Haha. I’ve never seen a spiritual teacher getting so much shit by their followers. If anything, it’s the opposite.

Hip hop and street the first 10 years, then I started branching out taking inspo from other dance styles to develop my own unique style. Also with spiritual growth and psychological maturity, hip hop started resonating less and less. Are you a dancer as well?

How do you guys deal with loneliness? Fall is arriving here in Finland, it’s getting darker, wetter and colder each day. I have a ton of people in my circle, but none my true friend, which just makes it all the worst. How do you deal with it? I deal with it via art, music, crying, dancing and the little surface level socializing I do.

Yep. The career aspect is also key. I mostly create, I don’t consume much. And if I do, it is mostly to get inspiration and to study content creation and the algorithm.

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It’s lovely! You should do it. Ecstatic dance is a bit boring for someone who has danced for 2 decades but the idea is beautiful: Just let go and let music take you over! It’s more about healing.

Musicals! As a dancer and someone for whom music is extremely important, musicals are just pure joy and beauty. I just bought ticket for these as I walked past and saw the ad:

@Valach Got it. If your social media sucked then it would not help much. Also, depends on when you deleted it. It’s way more important now than 10 years ago,

Fair point. But there are def some really high quality girls who check social media once in a while. Your standard of never being on social media is too strict I believe, even thought I understand where you’re coming from. I also have extremely high standards as of today.

Not true. You can also call on IG, also video. + if you properly build your IG, it will be a ton of social proof and emotional stuff for the girl(s).

Finally you are grounding yourself after all the monkey clowning

You cant justify all poor behaviour with that

He was extremely disrespectful to our ladies.

This is good practice, but eventually you need to get her to invest emotionally into you, otherwise you are just an entertaining clown

What the fuck is up with all the trolling lately? Even our God tier moderator went mad

You are my hero

This one is very interestingly abstract. It is an English track so everyone can understand (just a few words in the music), but the melody! Someone commented that ”it is a slow start but once it goes, it goes hard!” Another one commented: ”Reminds me of my own on-off relationship. Getting closer, going away, desperation, love..” In the caption, my dance partner said that the closest thing this makes him feel is abstract love. ”it is so emotionless, yet the only word that makes this feeling feel right is love” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdgV09WsIyl/?stkn=bjFpbmsxaW4xbGxr

Yes, I agree with this. Perhaps a few pictures of special moments, but definitely not a whole album.

If there is no need to keep contact (child, mutual company, unfinish shit), do you prefer to block and delete or not? Give me your reasons. For me, blocking and deleting gives me the necessary space to properly move on, even though it is hars as hell. What about most pictures? Do you delete most or all? Or at all? I prefer to delete most at least. Keep a few as memory. Probably should delete all to be honest.. would make moving on even easier. And to make sure there is no misunderstanding: The relationship I am talking about are ones where there’s deeply intimate attachment. Not some vague half-attached, half-assed relationships.

All the most important stuff are dealt with. If any less important stuff is left, it is just collateral damage.

@Zenterus I appreciate the value you bring here to the forum, no denying that. And I know the technique works. I am challenging the long-term consequences of it.

Yes it works as a clarification tool. You clarify for your subconscious that they are no longer. This is not necessary for many relationships, but for some it is. The more intimate and the harder it is to let go, the more likely you need to use such tools.

I know these techniques are not really shared for me, who has exhausted game out of their system extensively, but honestly at this point all these techniques exhaust me (the more powerful it is, the more exhausting). What type of people do you really attract with these techniques? What do you do once you’ve ”gotten” them? Will you keep abusing techniques forever?

Nobody is justifying to you. Very weird that it even crosses your mind. We are having a Mature conversation. Gosh.