Miguel1

No

I have dated 4 girls seriously in my life, all of them were like this. And there’s plenty of them around. Probably more than less.

Yes. But if you do pickup without chasing status and luxury, for 25 damn years, that cannot be healthy. Pickup for a few years can be healthy, yes.

Been a super busy week for me. I’ll catch up with the thread here at some point. But I came here to say that I think what Dr. K calls deep pain, I call existential pain. I think what it comes down to is that the more conscious you become, the more both ugly and beauty you see eveywhere, for yourself. And you become this conscious from going through immense work and suffering / pain. But also, at the same time, you will see how bad it is for other people, especially when you so much want to have a beautiful, conscious, mature, and healthy world for people — precisely due to your own conscious development. And ultimately, the pain comes from not being able to give it, to pretty much anyone. You just have to accept the fact of the immense suffering people have to go through before they ascend higher. The final crown is the loneliness because nobody can relate with what you are going through. It’s bittersweet. It’s deep. It’s existential pain. But I do admit. This pain gives depth to life. It makes me inspired to create more beautiful art. I believe that once I get more in touch with God, this deep pain will relieve. The more in touch with God, the more it will be relieved. - - - - - Writing this in the middle of a gathering with friends (that’s how busy I have been lol). Forgive me if it isn’t the most coherent text.

@Leo Gura the more I understand self-deception and the world better, the more bullshit I see Owen spouting. And there’s a lot. As you said, a lot of self-created problems. It comes down to: a pick up lifestyle cannot be mature and conscious, no matter how much good stuff he has to teach.

Hmm. I basically never get ragebaited on the internet. A skill I have developed from years of self-development and self-reflection. I basically never watched his stuff other than if he was forced in my face. But lately I have been consuming him more intentionally.

Please open more about this. What exactly do you mean?

Catching up with the blog from the past few days. Its so freaking good. I mean its always hella good but lately its been exceptionally good. ”Your #1 responsibility as a father is to select a sane mother.” I never were able to articulate it that way, but that’s exactly how it is! If I am to have a long future in a close-related relationship with a person, they better be truly sane.

Usually, when discussing why dating is so bad nowadays, we have a tendency as a culture to point the fingers at men. And promote the vibe that females are innocent. But this woman, Kait Willett, brings our brilliantly the other side of the eqution: what issues women bring to the underline problem. I greatly enjoyed how unbiased she was in this assesment, and she explained ideas that I have not heard before and clarified concepts that I have. Well worth it. Let me know if you relate and how this makes sense to you.

@Ramasta9 What country do you live in? That’s crazy, I am sorry for your loss.

Yeah, they are among the top ones. Whatever topic Leo hasn’t made a video about after all these years, it’s because they are that important, and hard to make!

I have requested this ever since I joined the forum which is like 5 years ago. Wait, WHAT! Its been 5 freaking years on this forum. Where the hell did time go. Anyway, I regard that video to probably be the most important human related video to be released.

Oh stop it!

Remember that you can critisize something from above or from below.

Truth itself is the meaning. It is the most meaningful thing, for people serious about Actualized.org work.

That’s why I am intentionally derailing it back

Let’s remember to keep this thread about the podcast.

No.

@LambdaDelta Remember that in this context it was a kid being molested.

@LambdaDelta Okay, perhaps I am taking the word ’molested’ to mean much more serious than it is, or than it is meant here. Someone calling me names or light bullying wont be a traumatic event for me, I can understand that.

Again, guys.. Healing trauma is not the problem here. How is this so hard to get what I am asking about? We truly focus on things that we want to focus on..

Not answering anything or anyone particular but the whole sequence going on: 1. You can disagree with people here, and it is very encouraged to do so whenever there is something you disagree with. But, do it with respect. And with self-reflection and self-awareness. 2. I am not questioning whether Leo hasn’t healed his trauma or not. I am questioning how doesn’t a kid being molested not experince it as a traumatic event, however small — whether Trauma or trauma.

Wait a second. - Molested as a kid. - Not traumatic experience. Something doesn’t add up here in my understanding.

Here’s a few completely different type of music I enjoy the most. 1. Melody, drop is majestic: https://on.soundcloud.com/MOYfHmEZ3yVC07JXK3 2. Lyrical (bittersweet): https://on.soundcloud.com/TTTQxvMvTweHwdTP9s 3. Beat heavy (gets the most out of my dancing, technical wise): https://on.soundcloud.com/kr7DQGtvleh9A89F8u 4. Melody, sad: https://on.soundcloud.com/44UYeDwoJekW5V3EgB - - - - - Bonuses: 1. If I want to go absolutely fucking nuts: https://on.soundcloud.com/jhTUx3czesiKh5zlQP 2. Lyrical, emotional (gets the most out of my dancing, emotionally): https://on.soundcloud.com/ese9UFtvO0jN8F9W9S 3. A Vibe! (skip to 12 mins onwards): https://on.soundcloud.com/oVUFMLSqOyfi85JMDo 4. Melody, feel good / happy: https://on.soundcloud.com/rKBGWQcoTVYIw4hBp1 5. Sexy: https://on.soundcloud.com/zVQLfaTMMO6E0FiUtM 6. Last but not least. This is everything / love 🫶: https://on.soundcloud.com/f93UMmjkXCH8rPnYnz Oh, I am reminded that I have a whole album for intimacy / love-making. But I won’t drop that until Leo drops his porn collection - - - - - I have too many freaking songs if I were to list them all. Music is a HUGE part of my life. This conversation is so good and I think has potential to something very profound, if we keep it civilized and respectful. I intuit that understanding music deeply is very important to our work, because the best of it is directly in touch with God. Music conversations can trigger all sorts of negative reactions because it is emotional, and personal. So let’s be cognizant of it. I am dropping my list with the risk of being completely judged. Here I am, naked for you. Go for it!

Bruh, there is a whole dance battle market. And it is decent in size. Not as big as football or the likes but a sizeable market. But I agree that what sells to the mass is not beat or rythm. It’s the emotional impact.