Miguel1

If you want to be a leader at that scale, then yes you need to be ruthless. You don’t get that huge by being a conscious and a loving leader. It’s survival on steroids up there. That being said, Obama was a more empathetic leader. And the good thing is, no one really needs to be a leader at that scale to be a ’world class’. It just depends on how you define it. Sadhguru to me is a world class leader. But so is Leo with his tiny following base.

Reminds me of myself. In the past year or so, I’ve started to shred tears more often. Whether it is something integrous that I am experiencing, or sadness & hopelessness, or beauty and the magic of reality. I always thought I was quite in touch with my femininity but I feel like once I turned 30, I unlocked a completely new level of femininity (just fully realized this now as I’m writing) I broke off from my long-term relationship that was misaligned despite loving each other dearly, and that freed up so much time and energy for me to just be with me, and get more in touch with my femininity (find deeper alignment in myself). In the past 5 years, I’ve grown so damn much and had to face, accept, and let go so many damn painful lessons and harsh truths that I feel like it’s finally catching up integrating and reaching into my being. Of course the breaking up makes me tear up due to sadness, but lately I find myself tearing up almost daily from also seeing integrity, hearing beautiful music, touching the depth of life etc. It is to the point where my whole dancing style has transformed from aggressive hip hop to a soft, graceful, yet powerful style - it is a completely unique style that I am gonna develop further. I have yet to give it a name but something along the lines of ’Majestic Dancing’.

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You are twisting my words brother. I said masculinity is attractive but femininity connects.

He has said that for 10 years. It’s a marketing technique to create scarcity.

Until the point you are too horny. Then you look like a dog fucking a tree

You make a good point. Also, in many ways melancholic and even sad music uplifts you because it gets you in touch with the harder sides of you, the sides you usually repress and run away from. So by getting more in touch with them, already you feel better and uplift.

Where I do my contemplations:

Let’s try to respect Emerald and keep this thread more in topic.

Leo’s taste in music is fairly similar to mine. I’d say I prefer a bit more emotional ones. Here is an example of a more sad and melancholic that I’m currently vibing with. Beautiful piece, and such low views. That’s a sign!

For many of us, this is the only safe place for us to be fully ourselves. Or at least close. In my day-to-day, I am and show like 5-10% of who I really am deep down. Probably less. Here I pretty much show everything. At least 90%. You have no idea how that ability makes me feel as an extrovert. I deeply crave socialization and connection with people at the core level, but shallow fake inauthentic BS small-talks leaves me utterly empty. Being shallow and having fake social face all day, and holding my truest self and depth in - then having a place like this to let it all out. Can you imagine? I could go on much more, but you seem invested in the notion that we should not take this place too seriously! Seriously!

Literally what I said. Women desire to follow, the right man, who is worthy of following, aka someone who is mentally strong and confident, and can lead.

Realistically, how many girls are really into murderers? Probably a very tiny percentage. Most girls are afraid of and repulsed by them - because they lack femininity completely. They are all macho masculinity, aka toxic masculinity. And this proves everything we have discussed here on this thread.

What you guys don’t realize is that while girls can get guys and partners much easier, most of the guys are repulsive. I am like a girl in the sense that having people attracted to me and wanting to be with me is fairly easy. But majority of them are repulsive and don’t excite me. Top with it the fact that I am relatively pretty developed psychologically and spiritually, and now even the more attractive girls easily turn me off mentally. Being aware of their unconsciousness and childhisness makes me feel like hanging out with most of them like a complete waste of energy and time, and leaves me feeling shallow and empty afterwards. It’s like having millions and spending it on alcohol and partying with unconscious egos. What are you left feeling afterwards, when all settles down? Talk about humble brag. My God, I sound like a narcissist. Perhaps I am So guys or girls, you need to develop yourself to becoming truly desiresble, ar a core level - and not just someone others use to feed their ego.

Yup. I’ve seen some of the lowest scum and not good looking guys date the hottest girls, just because they were very delusionally confident and assure of themselves, had social skills & charisma. On the other hand, I’ve seen really amazing guys on paper, but struggle to date. Girls are like children. You gotta lead them with confidence & frame. They desire to follow, but you gotta provide that. Being in victimhood and defeatist mindset is the opposite to all of that.

I didn’t mean literally. I meant that you come across very gay, which is a turn off.

Acting like a girl by definition means you don’t want to fuck her immediately off the bat.

Title: Alien Black Pill

The older I get, the more I realize that Alignment really is the key to happiness, joy, peace, fulfillment, health and everything you would want from a human life.

On the other hand, it’s sad how stuck he is despite having all the potential to transcend higher.

Too much estrogen and too little testosterone makes you gay

Like I said, masculinity is attractive but femininity connects.

I consider being so fully in touch with yourself that you can act however the hell way you want and totally own it, to be True Masculinity. A man who has zero fear to be himself, and not giving a single fuck about what others think of him. What is this other than the definition of masculinity? I absolutely adore my highly feminine and empathetic side, and so seemingly do girls. Just gotta mix in it with my highly masculine side and it’s golden. The good thing is that we all have femininity in us (just a matter of how much we allow and love that part of us). And the good thing is that we all also have masculinity in us.

Do you want to give us your own summary (not AI pls)? Would do you good as well, as far as learning the concepts. I have watched too many Owen videos that honestly, right now I’m sick of listening to him lol.

Masculine energy is mostly attractive yes, but the feminine energy from men connects. I am often fairly feminine and playful upon the approach but then immediately slowly introduce more masculine energy and once she is hooked, I might bring in some serious dark triad masculine energy in the mix. I do not recommend to be so manipulative, unless you want the girls to go absolute crazy over you.