Miguel1

Frame controlling from the start. I see what you did there

If you see me out socializing, you would think I'm the biggest extrovert out there. But man, nowadays I can't stand heavy socializing for much. Only occasionally. I rather spend my time doing serious, deep, meaningful work. And doing beautiful art. It actually fits my personality, especially as I mature more. ENFJ that matures, goes from Extraverted Feeling leading to Introverted Intuition leading. I love me nothing more than an emotionally mature girl to connect deeply with. I'd pick that over 10 shallow girls anytime of the year. How Owen does that is beyond my understanding. I think we got some satisfying answers in this thread tho.

I'll pass

Haha, well thank you. I'm taken by your compliment!

I screenshotted frameshotted that whole shit.

Took this selfie the other day. 2 fun facts people always guess wrong about me: - I’m 23 (I’m 31 lol) - I have fake lips

That’s basically you Or should I say under the desert. But good luck for two under the rock person to find each other, lol.

Extroverted girls are like charismatic guys with game. They are very emotionally fun in the beginning but hard to build a proper functional relationship with. The more extroverted a girl is, the harder it is to keep them happy in a relationship. In simplified terms.

Your humour is hijab

I’ve learned to appreciate this fact more and more. Introverted and ”shy” girls are the key. The less they are into clubbing, the better.

”A useful eight” In all honesty, I don’t know yet how to go about it. I am not in a rush. If it comes to it, I will be alone for the rest of my life. That’s fine. I am not sure how satisfied I can be with a stage green who is ”7-8” in looks. Perhaps I can be happy with that. Need to try. The issue is stage green in itself is not enough, but there needs to be other stuff developed too.

Answer: a mature, conscious woman. Reality: one that is also phyiscally attractive is almost impossible to find. That’s why dating for me is such a low value thing nowadays.

To be fair, his whole shtick behind the endless rambling is to get people to let go, let loose and to have fun.

But yeah, I gotta give it to Leo again. Deeply insighful thoughts about relationships here. I pretty much agree with everything. Truly, the key to a healthy loving relationship, is to screen HARD for sane, mature people.

You are: A song I’m highly vibing atm lol

This!! I have been contemplating that idea on and off for months. Because putting myself in a hot girl’s shoes, it’s very hard to imagine myself dating seriously someone who looks like Owen, even if he has other great stuff going on for him. Like, why the hell would I be settling with Owen’s looks when I can get a much hotter guy. Looks matters. Way more than PUAs like to admit.

You misunderstood me. I tried to be cheeky. I agree with him, if you date immature, highly unconscious club girls. These girls do not know what they value, and simply follow blindly where strenght, leadership and status takes them. I wrote ”nore” last night and meant ”not”. I literally fell asleep 10 sec after that Been a brutal week.

Owen would argue your value mismatch, incompatibility and ”have grown apart over timw” would be due to lack of frame control. I agree with him, if you date club hoes, and nore mature and mentally sane people.

This resonated on a very deep level. I think when I say that I am a very emotional being, I don’t mean in an overly emotional, immature way. I mean in a way that I feel things very deeply, including pain of others. Anybody else too?

Beautiful. Preach brother. Unfortunately, this won’t be happening in a thousand years. It will take another thousand years before humanity truly appreciates what we got here. - - - And this split, this discrepency between what could be, and what truly is, is what causes me some of the deepest existential sorrows.

”What the fuck am I watching? It's like I live amongst pigs. How do you people live like this? This is a circus of pervertry.” Sums my whole complaints about people (normies) I do on this forum.

It’s the opposite for me.

Read my first respond yesterdsy about ’Existential pain’. I don’t think letting go of it is an option because it is literally my Mission in life to push humanity to a better place. And how can I move them if I don’t even know what they are going through? In fact, how can I do it it I don’t know what they are going through BETTER than they know themselves. As Dr. K explained, people with deep hurt do not want to let go of it because it gives tremenduous meaning, depth and beauty to life too. This is my experience. Making this thread wasn’t about me crying out loud for sympathy, or to have people come console me. It was to seek out other people with similar experience, and to understand it better — and yes, to not feel so alone with it.

I spend a ton of time outdoors, almost everyday. Deep pain or deep foil, I experience it all everywhere.