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Ahaha you have no idea how happy it makes me to see harmony in my environment ❤️ Especially in a community where its nature is to rip each other apart and devour 😂

Such a nice vibe we have got going on lately here in the forum. Even disagreements are being handled relatively maturily. I think we have the least drama ever right now. And it has lasted for quite a while. Thanks guys.

I keep contemplating that, and I am more and more getting to a place where I truly face the dark reality (you are right). For example, let's say when I first started pick up, I probably got so many of those "easy" positive experiences that pushed me to keep going, helping me to get into flow state and spiraling upwards, which led to better results, better inner game etc. Whenever I had hard nights, I always got some "easy" approaches, that got me out of the negative loop. Gave me the easy confidence boost & extra training. This alone probably is priceless, when it comes to this journey. That would make sense. As I mature more, I come to accept more and more how much my looks helped me in this. My tendency has always been to be in denial of this fact, because I don't want to face the fact that reality is so harsh. All these beautiful visions of helping humanity come together and to live in a loving harmony... At this point, I know it deep down, I know that reality ain't nearly so generous. Accepting it is hard, because then ALL my visions will have to be re-shaped. But that's the price of this work.

@Leo Gura For some reason I couldnt edit my original comment on phone so I had to come on laptop to edit it, but here's the second part of the original comment: And if by hyper masculine, we mean men who are absolutely grounded and confident in themselves, aka no longer repress qualities inside them like their feminine side (what Emerald calls soft qualities), then you are speaking about the SAME thing. There, I saved you both 20 pages and 50 hours of time. Thank me later 🤭

Here we should remember to properly define terms, otherwise we end up talking pass each other like the 9999 times before. If by hyper masculine, we mean toxic, overly aggressive, try-hard, biggest ego masculinity, then they definitely don’t get the most sex.

Stop it

As a J, I absolutely need structure and organization to my day-to-day and schedule. I cannot live with pure spontaneity. But I definitely need room for spontaneity too. Perhaps mostly to be able to emotionally replenish. Highly empathetic / emotional sponge people problems. ENFJs are probably the most complex type. We are everything. On first look, we look like the most surface-level happy yay-yay charismatic social people, whom everyone loves. But we have a very deep side to us, that often gets neglected due to the surface level charm. Harmony between people drives us, and we are extremely people people, but reality is not so generous. We look like we are all emotions and intuitions - but we definitely have a very deep logical, philosophical, intellectual & spiritual side to us as well. We are generally very warm people but we can be cold as hell as well. Add to all that the work we do here at Actualized.org? Now you enter the definition of Existential Crisis.

Oi oi, this says everything about his self-deception. No leeways after that fact.

Brother, you are badly underestimating Leo’s commitment to Truth.

If AI, robots, mechanical structures serves the purpose of natural nature and humankind better than they do, then it is just natural to be replaced. Just like we replaced any living mechanisms that were dominated Earth before us.

@aurum @Emerald Think of it this way: The man has his life purpose as priority number 1. The woman probably has his husband and family on a higher priority than her life purpose - OR her purpose is the family she creates. This is the nature of female and male (generally). Males loves to go out and conquer, and to leave a legacy. Women are all about maintaining and investing into relationships, being present to the moment and enjoying Now. In this way, the woman invests in the relationship more than the man. I don’t see myself ever putting my significant other over my mission in life. And I don’t think I would be very attracted to a woman who is as ambitious / masculine as I am. Again, not saying she cannot have her own career, but we don’t necessarily need 2 crazy visionary leaders who are always out there conquering the world. And the mission is for me and humanity, not just for my significant other - altho she can reap some of the benefits of the rewards of the work. But only if she has put serious work and investment in our relationship. Makes sense?

Getting girls require more than just looks, unless you are really on the top 1% of looks. I am above average in looks and girls come to me left and right, and I credit that a lot to my personality and game. Looks definitely help me a lot tho, unlike what the dating coaches want you to believe.

You can push it in a healthy way, or unhealthy way. And if you sell yourself as a spiritual leader, people are looking upto you. You have an extra layer of responsibility to do things ethically.

No worries, as I mature myself, I find older & older women more attractive as well. I’ve also bumped into some surprisingly good looking women in their early 40s

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Don't forget that the algorithm knows that you love his content, so it will push his content for you, and yet it is the 4th! Also, his content from over a decade ago is like 100X more algorithm-friendly than his later years.

I respect the self-awareness and integrity to correct yourself. Yes, devastating health issues are definitely one of the top ones.

Try searching now, and perhaps you'll find them on the 4th or 5th page

Ah, Leo just made a blogpost about the algorithm. But see Leo? Trying to run a fully ethical and honest business in this world is not as easily done as said. We had this discussion last year, I believe. You made your millions doing unethical shit, and so it is easy to talk about ethical business now, sitting on your high horse And in the first place, what even is a fully honest and ethical business? How does that even look like in practice? It's a freak show out there. Raw survival. All the big players are gonna devour you, if you even attempt to be so foolish as to think about being a fully truthful player. But yeah, gotta agree with Rafael, the blogposts have lately been pure wisdom and insights, en masse. How the hell do you puke such depth and original thoughts out, in such a fast pace, is beyond me. Disgustingly good.

There are definitely cases where suicide is and should be the answer. And those cases are more than you would believe. It’s a fantasy to think that we are in such a world where suicide is never the answer.

Changes to the algorithm have directly cut his business in half in the past. The current algorithm rewards and pushes mindless shit. Leo's stuff is the complete opposite of that = no organic pushing by the algorithm.

It's called evolution.

Beautiful.

It's easy to fall into such an idealogy, when all your interactions with women all your life has been negative and more or less, brutally rejected. You can try and keep shoving your hand on a hot stove and get burned, but at what point will you give up?

@Emerald Got it. From my own experience tho, I would say for the attraction to remain healthy in a serious long-term relationship, the girl should invest slightly more. I find it healthiest for attraction, when I am focused on my mission and life purpose and she takes a more supportive wife/gf/partner role. Not saying that she cannot have her own career, but that her ambitions are nowhere near as high as mine. But I am an extremely ambitious person.