Miguel1

What does that have anything to do with what I said

There is a reason assholes do so well with girls

What is the truth?

Yes. And if you don’t do it, you will lose him for good. So what is there to lose?

How do you guys deal with loneliness? Fall is arriving here in Finland, it’s getting darker, wetter and colder each day. I have a ton of people in my circle, but none my true friend, which just makes it all the worst. How do you deal with it? I deal with it via art, music, crying, dancing and the little surface level socializing I do.

I am quite dominant and masculine in my nature but I love me sometime to just sit back and enjoy letting others (the woman) take charge.

At the end of the day, once you’ve done enough pickup you will realize you don’t want to invest your life and energy into most women. There are rare gems, but they are rare. Similarly, most men are complete chumps, and an unconscious survival zombie. It comes down to emotional and psychological maturity. Spiritual growth is a big one too.

Contradiction. By the time you have approached 1k women (more like 10k), you finally have real understanding for them.

The question is what is her reason for going to such unconscious, sex driven place?

All of those you can have in a home party with her friends. Except if her friends are single and want to meet guys. It can quickly turn into her just being there for her friends to meet guys, rather than having fun herself tho.

Here’s a question for ya’ll: If your girl is having a girls’ night out, is it ever just innocently having fun? In a place where unconsciousness, alcohol, validation and sex are the main factors? Why not have a girls’ night at home with only you and your friends, without being harrassed and getting hit on by anyone?

Another word for this is called insecurity.

How did you manage to literally read through and ignore what I said, then come up with a counter argument that goes against nothing I said.

That is definitely an element to it. But just simply being good looking, you don’t even need to have positive energy and people will bump your state by validating you and giving you attention indirectly and directly.

Yes, in the beginning it’s good to be an approaching machine to get into momentum, to face approach anxiety, and to get a general feel to what approaching is like and what girls respond to. However, quality becomes way more important than quantity afterwards. That’s where the real work and growth happens.

It’s wild to imagine lots of people being outright ignored. When I’m not lazy and look like homeless, people look at me a second too long, give me random bambi eye looks, randomly compliment me. I’ve taken all these for granted at this point. I wonder how much this helped my self-esteem growing up and more importantly, how many traumas and insecurities I avoided.

Story of my life, now also top that with consciousness and maturity. My ex gf of 5 years was a solid 8.5-9, and was relatively conscious and deep into spirituality.

@enchanted Hahahahaha you talk like it’s so easy to find a conscious partner

@bazera Relatively conscious people who are actively in your life

For me, the best is probably just heavily prioritizing and focusing on my life purpose.

It’s fucking drake lol. But the one about MGK is solid.

Let’s drop all the PUA toxic bs for a moment. If you’re goal is to find a healthy relationship that is deeply aligned, should you date one person at a time or multiple? The more I drop the PUA paradigm, the more it makes sense to date only ONE person at once. Your dating should be so honest, authentic and vulnerable that you find out about the potential of the relationship in a few dates. If you only do surface level dating, then of course it takes forever to find our if you are aligned and compatible. What do you think? What are your reasons? - - - - - P.S. If I see one Grandiose joke, or one Daddy joke, I’m gonna Spank you.

Obviously don’t be a total asshole But you can open anyone with ”avocado”, in most situations

The issue is when you behave in a healthy and mature way with a bunch of immature kids, it will feel too weird and foreign to them. And most adults are just kids.

This is probably my third or fourth time I have said this in this thread but of course small talk, fun, and a good vibe is part of it. Just how much in the beginning when you are actually trying to get to know the other person deeply. I am getting tired of repeating my answers.