Miguel1

Best way to pass shit tests is to just find it funny

It’s also very clear how you are so actively using Todd’s technique of misinterpreting things thrown at you. It’s cute at first but then just becomes a defense mechanism to actually have real conversations and growth. Pretty much every feedback I have given you, you amusingly use the same technique. It gets old real fast. I hope you don’t use the same technique again on this respond, otherwise it just becomes obnoxious.

Now I know why you are so hard into that whole materialist game. All that suppressed anger needs to go somewhere. I used to struggle with the same and to some extent, I still do.

I always find it funny when you ”talk from experience”, when you virtually have no results.

A lot of things you say are good but this is just false, and shows you have no experience picking up girls as a guy. Getting so many in a row is a clear sign that it’s a you problem.

It comes down to finding a relatively conscious partner, as I’ve always said. Very hard tho.

China needs their own people to stand up. But humanity is too fucking unconscious that we will end up killing ourselves.

You don’t need to be the biggest dick in the world otherwise you will just attract the worst insecure and mentally broke girls. But you gotta demonstrate more confidence. What you are doing now is overreacting, like insecure people do when someone calls them weak.

They are not attracted to you. You don’t demonstrate strenght and confidence.

Olaf got his results when he was younger. He used to be really good looking, like Justin Bieber. And for the girls in their youth, that is like maximim attraction. Now olaf lost his hair and aged like 20 years in 5. I don’t know even know how that’s possible.

It’s time for you to focus less on quantity and focus more on quality. At this point, approaching 40 sets and not even getting once to a point of number closing is awful.

@Yimpa Much love Yimpa! Your love and positivity makes me happy 🥰

@Spiral Thank you for the comment and wisdom. I think I figured out the lonely part quite well actually. The way I am fixing it is that I am just deep on my life purpose, which itself is very fulfilling, but involves a lot of people not only in the art spaces, but also in the healing spaces - as my purpose is to combine dance art + dance therapy & healing + inner growth. So even tho most people I interact with are not super conscious, but they are conscious enough! And I get to do such fulfilling work with them, touching people deeply, transforming them, inspiring them. And this is just the start. I am building something that will compound in the decades to come. Such a fulfilling life atm, wow. Even tho it is getting pitch black, cold and wet here. My godness I get emotional thinking of the beauty that I will create for humanity. - - - - - The loneliness from me was due to breaking up a year ago and building friendships with completely wrong people (club people). I let that shit go in the summer and started building a much more aligned social circle, as was recommended here by others. This thread was started a while back and I am in a much more aligned place right now. Thank you everyone.

Can we have an in-depth discussion about this? In my personal life, I have been fluctuating between these two. I grew up being programmed for monogamous. But at my peak PUA and hippie phase, I was all for polyamory as it fit my narrative and goals. Then studying Leo from 2020 onwards, I came to realize that polyamory for many is just spiritual by-passing, as it was for me too. Now at this point, I am back to being for monogamy but there are people like Teal that makes strong arguments for polyamory. I would love me a hard core ”die on this mountain” partner to develop a monogamous relationship with, like how Naftali Moses promotes. Yet my experience with girls + the arguments people like Teal makes, makes me contemplate polyamory again too. But obviously this time from a place of maturity, as teal puts it. What do you guys think? What are you more for? What are the pros and cons? What are some less obvious reason for and against?

You are Yimpa 😉

I dm’d you.

You are seriously asking?

It’s like asking a stage orange money hungry materialist to seek God.

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@Lyubov It goes the other way around too. If you are too lax, you will lose many girls. Being persistent in a non-needy way is a skillset and a result of a great inner game. There is a middle way to this.

As a man, I test the girls all the time. I call it piss testing. Where I see how immature they are. I’m not even kidding.

Shit test doesn’t give the test justice. It’s frame testing or rather, confidence testing.

I take everything she says as a compliment. At the very least she is trying to please me, otherwise why bother with such nonsense.

I don’t recall you giving me any shit.

Thank you for asking Joy. Some people in my personal life learned about me being in this forum, so I’m just protecting my privacy. I will put up a new updated picture later. I love the work we do here but for a common folk (99% of people in my life), this can and probably is very threatening to the ego.