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Yes. That’s kinda what I mean by letting go of dating.

Hmm, I didn’t get the same vibe just from that one meme / picture, This is the second time recently that I’ve called you out on framing / exaggerating something to make it seem worse. Perhaps something for you to be mindful of.

@Lyubov 31. I’m looking to date girls a few years younger 8 months of actively dating different people got me burned out with all the fakery that is socializing with normies, and especially dating.

@Joseph Maynor Kindness.

Can we have an in-depth discussion about this? In my personal life, I have been fluctuating between these two. I grew up being programmed for monogamous. But at my peak PUA and hippie phase, I was all for polyamory as it fit my narrative and goals. Then studying Leo from 2020 onwards, I came to realize that polyamory for many is just spiritual by-passing, as it was for me too. Now at this point, I am back to being for monogamy but there are people like Teal that makes strong arguments for polyamory. I would love me a hard core ”die on this mountain” partner to develop a monogamous relationship with, like how Naftali Moses promotes. Yet my experience with girls + the arguments people like Teal makes, makes me contemplate polyamory again too. But obviously this time from a place of maturity, as teal puts it. What do you guys think? What are you more for? What are the pros and cons? What are some less obvious reason for and against?

Why frame it as serving? It sounds awful. Just a simple thought showing you care.

Moral of the story: don’t be insecure and fake. Whether you are a man or woman.

Are you into musicals? Some years ago I went to see Cats and it was magical.

Theater and art shows. And especially musicals! I love these so much as they are the biggest passions of mine alongside spirituality and psychological developmental work. I spend hundreds of euros each month on these, Not only do I get so much enjoyment from them, they work as a self-love practice / alone time (don’t always need to be around people, especially misaligned like club people), I get inspired for my own art, I get to network and connect with like-minded people to work together with — and I get to meet people I align with to date! I can’t believe I have not done this more actively earlier. A lot of conformity and group-think in this field too though.

Some of the most toxic self-help content will definitely drag you down.

Currently going through this shift

Haha. I’ve never seen a spiritual teacher getting so much shit by their followers. If anything, it’s the opposite.

Hip hop and street the first 10 years, then I started branching out taking inspo from other dance styles to develop my own unique style. Also with spiritual growth and psychological maturity, hip hop started resonating less and less. Are you a dancer as well?

How do you guys deal with loneliness? Fall is arriving here in Finland, it’s getting darker, wetter and colder each day. I have a ton of people in my circle, but none my true friend, which just makes it all the worst. How do you deal with it? I deal with it via art, music, crying, dancing and the little surface level socializing I do.

Yep. The career aspect is also key. I mostly create, I don’t consume much. And if I do, it is mostly to get inspiration and to study content creation and the algorithm.

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It’s lovely! You should do it. Ecstatic dance is a bit boring for someone who has danced for 2 decades but the idea is beautiful: Just let go and let music take you over! It’s more about healing.

Musicals! As a dancer and someone for whom music is extremely important, musicals are just pure joy and beauty. I just bought ticket for these as I walked past and saw the ad:

@Valach Got it. If your social media sucked then it would not help much. Also, depends on when you deleted it. It’s way more important now than 10 years ago,

Fair point. But there are def some really high quality girls who check social media once in a while. Your standard of never being on social media is too strict I believe, even thought I understand where you’re coming from. I also have extremely high standards as of today.

Not true. You can also call on IG, also video. + if you properly build your IG, it will be a ton of social proof and emotional stuff for the girl(s).

Finally you are grounding yourself after all the monkey clowning

You cant justify all poor behaviour with that

He was extremely disrespectful to our ladies.

This is good practice, but eventually you need to get her to invest emotionally into you, otherwise you are just an entertaining clown