Miguel1

You make a good point. Also, in many ways melancholic and even sad music uplifts you because it gets you in touch with the harder sides of you, the sides you usually repress and run away from. So by getting more in touch with them, already you feel better and uplift.

Where I do my contemplations:

Let’s try to respect Emerald and keep this thread more in topic.

Leo’s taste in music is fairly similar to mine. I’d say I prefer a bit more emotional ones. Here is an example of a more sad and melancholic that I’m currently vibing with. Beautiful piece, and such low views. That’s a sign!

For many of us, this is the only safe place for us to be fully ourselves. Or at least close. In my day-to-day, I am and show like 5-10% of who I really am deep down. Probably less. Here I pretty much show everything. At least 90%. You have no idea how that ability makes me feel as an extrovert. I deeply crave socialization and connection with people at the core level, but shallow fake inauthentic BS small-talks leaves me utterly empty. Being shallow and having fake social face all day, and holding my truest self and depth in - then having a place like this to let it all out. Can you imagine? I could go on much more, but you seem invested in the notion that we should not take this place too seriously! Seriously!

Literally what I said. Women desire to follow, the right man, who is worthy of following, aka someone who is mentally strong and confident, and can lead.

Realistically, how many girls are really into murderers? Probably a very tiny percentage. Most girls are afraid of and repulsed by them - because they lack femininity completely. They are all macho masculinity, aka toxic masculinity. And this proves everything we have discussed here on this thread.

What you guys don’t realize is that while girls can get guys and partners much easier, most of the guys are repulsive. I am like a girl in the sense that having people attracted to me and wanting to be with me is fairly easy. But majority of them are repulsive and don’t excite me. Top with it the fact that I am relatively pretty developed psychologically and spiritually, and now even the more attractive girls easily turn me off mentally. Being aware of their unconsciousness and childhisness makes me feel like hanging out with most of them like a complete waste of energy and time, and leaves me feeling shallow and empty afterwards. It’s like having millions and spending it on alcohol and partying with unconscious egos. What are you left feeling afterwards, when all settles down? Talk about humble brag. My God, I sound like a narcissist. Perhaps I am So guys or girls, you need to develop yourself to becoming truly desiresble, ar a core level - and not just someone others use to feed their ego.

Yup. I’ve seen some of the lowest scum and not good looking guys date the hottest girls, just because they were very delusionally confident and assure of themselves, had social skills & charisma. On the other hand, I’ve seen really amazing guys on paper, but struggle to date. Girls are like children. You gotta lead them with confidence & frame. They desire to follow, but you gotta provide that. Being in victimhood and defeatist mindset is the opposite to all of that.

I didn’t mean literally. I meant that you come across very gay, which is a turn off.

Acting like a girl by definition means you don’t want to fuck her immediately off the bat.

Title: Alien Black Pill

The older I get, the more I realize that Alignment really is the key to happiness, joy, peace, fulfillment, health and everything you would want from a human life.

On the other hand, it’s sad how stuck he is despite having all the potential to transcend higher.

Too much estrogen and too little testosterone makes you gay

Like I said, masculinity is attractive but femininity connects.

I consider being so fully in touch with yourself that you can act however the hell way you want and totally own it, to be True Masculinity. A man who has zero fear to be himself, and not giving a single fuck about what others think of him. What is this other than the definition of masculinity? I absolutely adore my highly feminine and empathetic side, and so seemingly do girls. Just gotta mix in it with my highly masculine side and it’s golden. The good thing is that we all have femininity in us (just a matter of how much we allow and love that part of us). And the good thing is that we all also have masculinity in us.

Do you want to give us your own summary (not AI pls)? Would do you good as well, as far as learning the concepts. I have watched too many Owen videos that honestly, right now I’m sick of listening to him lol.

Masculine energy is mostly attractive yes, but the feminine energy from men connects. I am often fairly feminine and playful upon the approach but then immediately slowly introduce more masculine energy and once she is hooked, I might bring in some serious dark triad masculine energy in the mix. I do not recommend to be so manipulative, unless you want the girls to go absolute crazy over you.

Getting clear on top your values and life purpose, and dedicating your life to it solves all of this.

@nerdspeak Being a scientist = authority / small form of status Being a new age spiritual leader = status Being a pure savage ego deconstructor = threat Remember that you were talking about using Leo's following to show status and social proof, rather than to try to date the people in his following. These are two very different strategies. But yes, surely it works on some girls, but I would argue that most girls would click on one of his videos and get weirded out. And as for your "lapsed scientist" category, that still is status to some form. Better than being a mister nobody, broke and living in their mother's basement. Almost like a failed influencer / DJ, they still probably got some clout and connections before failing. Other than that, you made good points. Having girls being interested in Leo's work is extremely rare tho. I have a lot of first hand experience, and lessons from the hard way. And it is even more rare to have attractive girls interested in his work - they have zero survival pressure to do so. Quite the opposite in fact. If Leo did Manifestation & Astrology, that would be a completely different matter.

Yup, you can control yourself to look like a potato.

It is worst than that. Saying deep metaphysical things that directly threatens the survival and fantasies of girls? That's like trying to kill the baboons, they will run harder than they can breathe.

That is a good question. I would say that the ability to flirt shows social intelligence and smoothness - and that is an attractive trait. But yet, at the same time it is harmless in the sense that they haven’t done anything against the commitment of the relationship. It’s kind of like being a highly charismatic person. It is a very attractive trait, and it makes people attracted to them - but it doesn’t go against the commitment of the relationship. Another example is a person looking really good. That makes you attracted to them but so it does make many other people attracted to them. You could ask the same: ”why do things that make others attracted to you, if you are in a relationship with me?” Flirting is a skill that once developed and honed deeply into your personality, is hard to turn off. Or at least hard to have it on just for one person, and off for others. Comes with the territory. The ability to properly flirt gets you a ton of social & material goodies, which is very attractive to our survival mechanism.

At least raccoons don’t act like higher than thou