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This is correct. Turning anything material, especially if it is in the extreme, to spirituality for answer will lead to corruption of spirituality.

Oh yes.

I laughed too much at this

That’s why I don’t do dating My standards are so high, it’s virtually impossible to meet them in our current times. Attractive, youthful, yet psychologically mature and emotionally attuned? Haha.

Bro isn’t fucking around in this human reproduction game. He became fucking itself.

There’s plenty of people focusing their work around the positive stuff you are talking about, it’s in abundance everywhere. Nobody is really focusing on deconstruction, to the extent Leo is focusing. That’s why he does it.

I appreciate your perspective but I think it is simplistic and reductionist. Leo posts plenty of ”positive” content, he has a series on How To Fall In Love With Life, and at the end of the day, deconstructing falsehood itself is Good, Positive.

I play football (soccer) 3-4 times a week, and dance multiple hours a week. I couldnt agree more. Not only as a way to regulate my emotions and to stay healthty, but man it gives me so much joy.

I don’t know exactly what you were looking for with this thread, but to be honest, it is quite empty man.

I resonate with this. My peak pickup year was when I was 24-25. This was also when my ego was most out of control. I was forced to face it when covid and quarantines hit. At this state of consciousness, I was in so much lack that I wasnt enjoying the girls really at all. I was enjoying the escapism where I was able to satisfy my ego for a small moment at a time, and it shut down for that brief moment. After the first wave of quarantine, I came out a completely different man, and the quality of my relationship and sex shifted completely. It became truly fulfilling for the first time during that whole phase.

Oh I love that. As I’ve said before, nowadays I don’t really even like to close numbers and especially sex, if she isn’t deeply desiring it.

Interesting. We have it backwards. The process of seudcing the girls is somewhat exciting and fun for me nowadays, if I don’t do it too much. Rushing to sex with the closer mindset I used to have, completely ruins the sex for me. Taking my sweet time in the seduction process, leads to a much more fulfilling sexual experience as well.

Wait a second, have I seen you in one of his videos

1. Seems like there is infinite ways to explore consciousbess more 2. Even if you go back, like I said, the quality will be completely different. You wont get lost in chasing money, sex, and status, and mastering survival — but in doing meaningful work that is not optimized for Survival.

I wouldnt say its so simple. My baseline level of consciousness has increased each year. Each year as I become more conscious, I care less and less about monkey games. I simply cant force myself to get ”lost” in them. Imagine after doing serious psychedelics and spiritual work..

@Butters Yes.

@cistanche_enjoyer Why go out to the marketplace to play the unsatisfying game, when you can totally bask in Love?

@Natasha Tori Maru I appreciate it. Yes, conscious dating is something we definitely need to work on more and properly create for humanity. It is a passionate topic of mine as well. To be honest, most people alive right now are too immature and unconscious to be seriously dating.

Such is the dilemma of us actualizers. Virtually no attractive girl is into self-developmental work, because they have never had to. Especially for us more on the younger side, we rarely find older women more attractive. Which makes it even rarer to find a match, because younger girls way less likely to have done any self-reflection and self-improvement work.

Lets meet up when I one day come there.

I know that in theory and it makes perfect sense. The reason I havent pursued that yet is because I havent mastered my surival. I imagine reaching such states of Love and Consciousness will reduce my motivation to master survival dramatically. But truly, I am very much looking forward to doing some serious psychedelic work. It’s one of the few things I seriously look forward to in this life.

This is huge. I am also in the process of grieving so many things, after finally having my fantasies and illusions about them shattered. I am taking my time to grieve and to process.

I don’t think this is the analogy brother. It’s more like: have millions now but nothing else; live an absolutely meaningless life or, Have 200-300k but a much more fulfilling and meaningful lifestyle, relationship, career etc.

@nerdspeak Great, thanks for sharing! Which country you live in? I live in Finland.

Truly, the high of getting validation from having girls being deeply into you is quite addictive. And yes, I was not loved by my mother nearly as much as I would have wanted.