Miguel1

Too much estrogen and too little testosterone makes you gay

Like I said, masculinity is attractive but femininity connects.

I consider being so fully in touch with yourself that you can act however the hell way you want and totally own it, to be True Masculinity. A man who has zero fear to be himself, and not giving a single fuck about what others think of him. What is this other than the definition of masculinity? I absolutely adore my highly feminine and empathetic side, and so seemingly do girls. Just gotta mix in it with my highly masculine side and it’s golden. The good thing is that we all have femininity in us (just a matter of how much we allow and love that part of us). And the good thing is that we all also have masculinity in us.

Do you want to give us your own summary (not AI pls)? Would do you good as well, as far as learning the concepts. I have watched too many Owen videos that honestly, right now I’m sick of listening to him lol.

Masculine energy is mostly attractive yes, but the feminine energy from men connects. I am often fairly feminine and playful upon the approach but then immediately slowly introduce more masculine energy and once she is hooked, I might bring in some serious dark triad masculine energy in the mix. I do not recommend to be so manipulative, unless you want the girls to go absolute crazy over you.

Getting clear on top your values and life purpose, and dedicating your life to it solves all of this.

@nerdspeak Being a scientist = authority / small form of status Being a new age spiritual leader = status Being a pure savage ego deconstructor = threat Remember that you were talking about using Leo's following to show status and social proof, rather than to try to date the people in his following. These are two very different strategies. But yes, surely it works on some girls, but I would argue that most girls would click on one of his videos and get weirded out. And as for your "lapsed scientist" category, that still is status to some form. Better than being a mister nobody, broke and living in their mother's basement. Almost like a failed influencer / DJ, they still probably got some clout and connections before failing. Other than that, you made good points. Having girls being interested in Leo's work is extremely rare tho. I have a lot of first hand experience, and lessons from the hard way. And it is even more rare to have attractive girls interested in his work - they have zero survival pressure to do so. Quite the opposite in fact. If Leo did Manifestation & Astrology, that would be a completely different matter.

Yup, you can control yourself to look like a potato.

It is worst than that. Saying deep metaphysical things that directly threatens the survival and fantasies of girls? That's like trying to kill the baboons, they will run harder than they can breathe.

That is a good question. I would say that the ability to flirt shows social intelligence and smoothness - and that is an attractive trait. But yet, at the same time it is harmless in the sense that they haven’t done anything against the commitment of the relationship. It’s kind of like being a highly charismatic person. It is a very attractive trait, and it makes people attracted to them - but it doesn’t go against the commitment of the relationship. Another example is a person looking really good. That makes you attracted to them but so it does make many other people attracted to them. You could ask the same: ”why do things that make others attracted to you, if you are in a relationship with me?” Flirting is a skill that once developed and honed deeply into your personality, is hard to turn off. Or at least hard to have it on just for one person, and off for others. Comes with the territory. The ability to properly flirt gets you a ton of social & material goodies, which is very attractive to our survival mechanism.

At least raccoons don’t act like higher than thou

Reminds me of your previous signature text. When I was younger, I used to think girls in general are more mature than men (at least in the younger category) due to their higher EQ, and it still is the case. But as I mature, I find their maturity to be very minimally higher than guys. And that is precisely because of their higher EQ - they are very social beings. Meaning, they will avoid hard truths and conversations. They live in fantasies. They go sneaky and covert. Due to this, I almost see them all as kids and cant take them too seriously (and don’t necessarily think they are more mature than men). Men in general, can handle hard truths and conversations better - but honestly, in the grand scheme of things it is also miniscule compared to the truth we deal with here in this work. Nowadays, I find people who are deeply in fantasyland to be more annoying to deal with. Unfortunately that is most people - but it is a question of spectrum of course - and girls tend to be on the higher end of things. I love me nothing more than a woman who I can have an in-depth, mature, soul-fulfilling conversations with, especially on the harder side of things. But the best I can really get is a stage green girl, and they get triggered quite easily tbh. Honesty and openess (directness) with politeness and responsibility (integrity) is the best combination to have in a relationship. Good luck finding one at my age. But of course my definition and standards for those key things are much higher than for normies. This work we do here definitely cuts off most people as viable friends / partners. One of the downsides of the work. But definitely worth it.

Certainly dedicating your whole life into pursuing sex is the most pathetic way to live life. I see it very clearly now. I can't believe how excited I used to be chasing sex. I didn't see the level of manipulation I was doing, not even close. I rationalized to myself that this is for the best of her, as she will get an amazing experience from my seduction. Playing into a girl's unconsciousness and lower development and manipulating that mechanism to chase me. As my manipulation (seduction) continues, and she develops feelings, I will have to hurt her by cutting her off or keep manipulating her to stay in my circle by leading her on. Oftentimes it was the latter. The worst part is the amount of lying I was doing to myself. - - - - - This turned into a bit of an articulation opportunity for myself. Will keep it short: When I was younger, I was seeing girls age 18-23. These girls are not only more attractive by far, but also has less baggage from previous relationships (that they haven't fully processed) and they don't have damage done from 10 years of corporate life. I haven't dated for 5 years (was in a long-term relationship) but I started dating recently again, and I had hoped that meeting older people 27-32 etc, I would find more mature people. And yes, certainly they are more mature - but they are definitely also more damaged. They also have much more pressure to push things forward faster. The youngsters are airheads but they were attractive to me back then as I wasn't very mature myself and wasn't looking for depth. At this point, the youngsters feel too much like kids to me. The people my age are more mature but the baggage they bring with it negates the relatively little maturity they have. They are also far less attractive than the youngsters as well (which I mostly don't find attractive anymore). The middle ground is probably girls age 23-26. Perhaps 24-25, which is extremely limiting. There is really no clubs here where people around that age gather. It's either teenagers club, elders, or a club that has all age groups. Also, my willingness to lie is so dramatically less than it used to be. At the same time, and more importantly, my self-awareness of seeing myself lying is obnoxiously higher. I am kinda at a crossroads. Perhaps, this is a good opportunity to take a big step towards transcending sex, and take at least a break from dating. I would love to develop a loving and healthy romantic relationship with a conscious girl, but finding such a girl in a club? And around my age (since I dont find much older women attractive)? Well, that's a mathematical problem I have yet to solve, despite trying my best.

When I was younger, I used to sometimes pull and close 2-3 times a day here in the west. Most of them were not the hottest type tho. Looking back, the level of corruption and unconsciousness required to do that was awful.

Do you mean high empathy?

Of course. But it can materialize in many ways.

@svreishren Screams ChatGPT anyways

Of course if you are trying to convince someone of something, then you are in their frame, not yours. That’s the whole point. When attracting girls, don’t convince them of truth. And definitely take the frame of you are the shit (attractive frame), and that you don’t need them - even if it is BS.

Since I spent a lot of time writing an answer to a question from @BlessedLion , I decided to copy-paste the answer here as well. Original question: From: My answer: Thanks for asking. This will be a more in-depth answer, simply because I am very passionate about it + I am not fully 100% clear and articulate about it, so I will probably be analyzing somewhat as I write. Short version: I can't, at least yet, put it into a short sentence. But it is something to do with the combination of art, dance, beauty, film (including acting), story-telling, insights, deeper thoughts, philosophy, writing & speaking. ---- Long version with examples: I want to touch people deeply on an emotional level. Inspire them like nothing else. And get them to FEEL deeply & contemplate deep stuff about life. For now, I want to keep it relatively relatable for the mass, so that I can get traction & traffic - but later as I am financially well off, I will go hard into the deepest stuff (as well). The vision is such that I will be at my peak in like 20-30 years, perhaps even later. My dancing might not be as good then anymore but I believe my peak level dancing will be in my 40s, so in a bit over 10 years - so maybe in my 40s and 50s, I will be doing my best work, since dancing will be a huge part of it (as I see it now at least, because that's the unique thing about me that separates me from the rest. More on it later) Here are some examples to get an idea: https://www.instagram.com/p/CygMx_etst5/ For some reason, the music is out of sync when you listen with headphones on phone, but on computer it works fine. On phone, if you don't use headphones, it is better in sync. I hate adding the music on the Instagram app but I have no choice if I want to use copyrighted music. Notice how on Instagram I can use pretty much any song I want without being copyright struck (Instagram music library, which is pretty much Spotify). And I can also write in the caption somewhat in-depth. On YouTube, music usage is very limited (which is probably 50% of my art lol. Need to think more about how much it really is). Plus, writing on description box / comments just doesn't have the same feel as writing on Instagram post captions. Here are some other raw stuff I shot lately: Watch these cuz they will probably be taken down here soon (copyright music) These raw stuff (emotionally & no edits wise) don't have anything else but dancing and they're shot inside. Shooting outside is probably my main thing, that's where probably my best work will be shot (altho I can def see that there's a ton of beauty to be created inside where you have more control over the environment - just require more budget). One problem with shooting inside, especially in my living room lol, is the limited space. As a dancer, the space I have is way too little before I run out of the camera frame. But just to give an idea what my dancing and music choice alone can affect in this vision. Include the rest ''the combination of art, dance, beauty, film (including acting), story-telling, insights, deeper thoughts, philosophy, writing & speaking.'' - And I believe at my peak in a couple of decades, I can create something so hella beautiful, I can't even put it into words... -- Also, I wanted to share these cuz they were shot the other day so they are my most recent dances recorded. Listen to the music carefully, while watching me dance, otherwise you miss a lot of beauty. use headphones & watch full screen, ideally on a bigger screen than phone like laptop & 4k - my dancing style is very subtle and has a lot of details (I wish I had a couple proper moving videographes to catch all the details of my dance), unlike breakdance which is all about big, power moves: ''And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music - Friedrich Nietzsche'' Keep in mind that my dancing & art is a very different side of me that I have not shown on this forum at all really. (I'm glad you asked me the question so that I got the chance to show this side of me as well, which is where I feel most at home... With philosophy & art. My dancing is mostly freestyling / improvisation (more about it later). And it's definitely a bit rusty, since I haven't dance much the past years (more about it later) but I still think it's very good. I can't wait to get to my peak form and especially to my peak dancing abilities. The next one is RAW. Might require some attention span, depending on who watches, but if you want to see me RAW... it has a proper, slow build-up (like any good stories) - and isn't this Instagram straight to the crazy high energy hooky kinda thing. This next one I love so much simply because of the song being called Line of Sight (by Odesza). And look at that damn line of light / sight in my window! So much fucking meaning and beauty in that connection. Last one. This song always makes me emotional. Not that the other ones doesn't. This one has a softness in it. The first, third and fourth videos are music by Odesza. The second one is by a smaller artist called BleedingXHeart. --- As I become more successful, I will have more resources (money) to increase the production level, by a lot! CRAZILY A LOT! Some key points about dancing: My dancing is a style that I've developed my whole life. It is unique to me. The style is very subtle. It's not like breakdance where you have all these big, power moves. My dance is all about the details. It has a bigger picture to it of course but the details are what makes it. I mostly do freestyling. I find it most raw. That's how I can express the most raw emotions. I hate choreographies because after repeating the same ol moves a hundred times, it has completely sucked the emotion out of it. Heck, even repeating it 3 times gets dry. But I do often have like a structure / idea / outline in my freestyles. And definitely something / some message / some emotion that I want to express. Finally, dancing is extremely effortless for me. All these clips were taken in an 1 hour freestyling session. Meaning, I didn't spent any time preparing any choreos for it. And keep in mind, my dancing is rusty, since I've been busy experimenting with other stuff the past years (more below). And I am also nowhere near my peak dancing ability. Perhaps in 10 years. This is why I would say that this is my most unique strength. Or an unfair advantage if you may. It also doesn't hurt that I look beautiful The Instagram post that I shared first is definitely much closer to the vision than these raw dances. Since it has elements of the other parts as well like speaking, writing (both in the video but also in the caption), an insight that I'm sharing, somewhat deeper thoughts in the caption, editing, story etc... But it lacks for example film and acting, and it's very short.. This vision / life purpose is in a way fresh / new for me as I have been spending the past years exploring other stuff like coaching, public speaking, teaching, pure philosophy (too much influence by my past teachers like Osho, Owen Cook, Rupert Spira, Leo etc. & honestly just a lot of spiritual & self-help brainwashing But I've always been deep into this ''fresh'' vision of mine, as you can see in my dancing skills. I have always been into film and beauty as well. Ever since I was a teenager. I just took a break from all of it for the past 3 years to explore the above mentioned. Now I have been able to deconstruct (thanks Leo) so much spiritual & self-help brainwashing that I'm fully ready to get back into it. Feels like I am finally going back home. For example, I used to think that my emotional side was wrong because of spiritual brainwashing. So much beauty and depth was taken away because of it, especially as I am a very emotional being. I used to think that my ambitious side is wrong because desire is suffering!! I didn't even realize how creative I truly am until recently because of all that. Sorry about all the neglecting... my life purpose. My heart is with you fully this time! Don't get me wrong tho, I have learned a ton of wisdom and grown (to a level I would have never been able to without the teachings) from all of the teachings, that I'm going to be using in my vision and life purpose. The issue was that I took the traps of the teachings to my heart as well. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to write all these and share it with ya'll. I have wanted to but I haven't been sure where - also just haven't been this clear about the vision as well. Honestly, I kinda want to copy-paste this and make a whole new post sharing it somewhere so as many people sees, but I don't know if I can really do it anywhere. Perhaps in the Life Purpose sub-forum. Maybe as an Inspiration (excuse ) for others. But actually, it kinda can be very inspiring! --- --- --- I'll be updating ya'll in this post as I get more material & thoughts! I guess I'll turn this into my Life Purpose Journal!

I can certainly dance to that, but mostly for fun on my own. What I am looking for is leaving a raw, honest, authentic, and deep emotional impact. That's the brand I want to create. This beat doesn't really have those elements. It's more for chilling.

Truth = destruction of fantasies, self-deceptions, lies, BS. OP started a conversation about whether there is reconciliation between frame control and Truth. I answered to that.

Hi, and welcome to the forum. So to preface, I have a lot of dating experience. We are talking 10k+ approaches, 10 years of on and off gaming, multiple long-term gfs etc. And the short answer to your question is: do not aim for Truth in dating. That's the surest way to lose all your girls. I was like you and I had to learn it the hard way, again and again because I was stubborn. Perhaps you need to learn it the hard way too. Of course there is always an exception to the rule, but in this case, the exception is virtually non-existent. Take me for example, I am 30 years old (actually 31, I turned today!), the girls I find attractive are around my age and younger. How many of girls in this age group is highly develop and conscious? And how many of those are also physically attractive enough? Girls unlike us, are emotional beings. Even the most conscious women are not necessarily doing hard-truth type of spirituality. They are more people orientated, like girls in general are. Teal Swan teaches trauma and relationships for example. So to summarize: destroying fantasies of girls with truth is a damn terrible idea. Doing the opposite is what gets you the results in dating. Thing of dating more like money making. Exhaust that desire, burn through the karma, and then let it go. Transcend higher.

Go ahead. I am very specific with my music tho so no promises but I am very curious to see what people here would want me to dance to!

@AerisVahnEphelia Let’s see again how you feel when you are starving to death.

Good to hear.