Miguel1

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  1. Has Christmas been mentioned before?

    My God I hate this one. The idea is beautiful but the forcefulness, sheepness and conformity ruins it for me.

    Another one is travel ”vacations”, especially with a budget. It can be extremely stressful that involved lots of brain energy. I prefer my real rest and vacation at home / in nature. If I were to travel to explore the world, that’s a different story but I wouldn’t call it vacation. 


  2. 23 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Great work man.

    Thank you. It is a lonely path, and as an extrovert, the loneliness is even more pronounced. It is great to see the rare few here and there on the same path and to share some support.

    Looking forward to deepening my connection with God. That should help with transcending loneliness.

    Thank you for the work you do, infinitely grateful!


  3. Personally I have always been a high achiever and always had high standards for myself and big visions.

    But throughout the years, as I have matured, the goals have changed. Whereas younger I spent my time building and maintaining my 5 girl harem, now I am almost celibate and flirting with the idea of going full celibate — so I can be less corrupted, and have more time and energy to spread much more beauty and consciousness to the world.

    My focus is less on personal gain now, and more on what I can give the world, but the same ambition and thrive is still there.


  4. 7 hours ago, PenguinPablo said:

    The most insane part is that Tyler Durden from Fight Club is a plot device warning against the alpha male front as a defense mechanism against lack of meaning in a man's life. The book is written by an actual gay dude that can see through that facade clear as day. And yet a whole industry was born from that. The irony.

    Wow, I did not know that. That’s quite the twist.

    That being said, hopefully it leads to Healthy Game becoming the thing in the near future.


  5. Legit post, thanks for sharing. Great point from Leo on extroverts enjoying indirect more, and that it being more natural for them.

    And yes, indirect is way harder to pull of properly, without falling into the friendzone.

    That being said, there is also semi direct. And especially in day game, pulling off a proper semi direct is extremely powerful, and efficient.


  6. 1 minute ago, Basman said:

    Apparently Teal tends talks to her phone softly like it's a pet because she thinks that if you don't treat technology nicely it won't learn to be nice "energetically" in the future and will instrumentalize and abuse humans, mirroring our current behavior.

    Certainly our relationship with technology and AI is going to determine whether we will evolve with them or they will ruin us.

    But where did you hear this?


  7. 34 minutes ago, Alexop said:

    Yes! And this stuff is barely mentioned by anyone. Because it is against the post-modern, equality conformism. 

    The mainstream talk about men vs. women is the Dr. K gamer GGG non-sense. Stuff that sounds good but does not fix the problem.

    Exactly. That’s why I’ve learned to appreciate her work ever so deeper. She goes to the very roots like nobody else, and does so very intelligently.

    And like I said (again in my opener), Leo is too head focused. She is more heart focused. These two needs to be integrated.

    Looks like Leo is aware of this, which is not of course, surprising.


  8. like I said in my opener, a lot of men here has a masculine shadow. And this thread proves the point.

    I knew Leo would be able to see things through a more objective lense about Teal. The things he points out are the same stuff I feel about Teal.

    Which makes it easier for me to respond to ya’lls answers.

    It is really hard to get people to see things when they don’t have the psyche to see things.

    ”You don’t believe what you see — you see what your unconsciousness sees”

     


  9. This episode got me to realize that I have always hated conforming.

    Ever since a kid, and especially teen, I always heavily avoided going to places where I had to conform, like family gatherings (in Asian culture, family gathering is with all the aunts, uncles and cousins too).

    The more conformity was involved, the more repulsed I felt by it. I never knew what it was intellectually but intuitively I always felt it.

    I teared up once or twice for being able to finally understand what I went through in my youth, while listening to the episode.


  10. 7 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

    Man, this is hard. Being conscious and intelligent is hard. I always find gaps in my thinking and I others and it’s just so hard. 

    Story of my life. I wish someone would have warned me properly about how much suffering real spiritual work causes before I started the journey. The opposite was sold actually.

    Either ways I would have probably done this work anyways but just having proper expectations would have made this journey much more smoother.