Miguel1

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  1. Posted

    36 minutes ago, something_else said:

    It's weaker to want the touch of a woman so badly that you keep talking to someone who either:

    • doesn't respect you enough to be polite;
    • is not remotely interested in you;
    • or is interested, but wants to play silly games with you.

    I don't have time or energy for that shit. There are plenty of women out there who don't do this, and those are the women I would rather spend my time with.

    Again, I half agree with you.

    Depends on my mood, sometimes I disengage.

    But. If a girl is that rude, she herself is charging the tension and energy. Most of the hard work is already done by her then. It is quite easy to flip it on its head.

  2. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    41 minutes ago, something_else said:

    What pickup calls a 'shit test' is just playfully teasing someone, it's part of basic human social interaction, especially so when flirting.

    I don't like the term because it makes it seem like women are actively and intentionally trying to test you, which they are not. They're either teasing you playfully to flirt or they're telling you they aren't interested. It's usually easy to tell the difference.

    You are half right. There are some seriously harsh shit tests too and they have no playful intentions.

    Most shit tests I get are playful tho.

  6. Posted

    1 hour ago, Zenterus said:

    @Olaf Let me first say that I totally feel you on that last update, man. I recently had a very promising girlfriend canditate, who -- after I approached, attracted and got a number from with a solid date setup -- I managed to FUCK IT UP within 4 text messages somehow because I was running a script instead of texting her like a normal person. This happened on Tuesday and I'm still turning in my sleep and waking up in cold sweat just thinking about it. But the pain of these experiences is what is gonna get us to where we want to get to, as long as we absorb the lessons they are gifting us with.

    How’d you manage to fuck up so badly in such simple thing as texting with your experience

  14. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    9 hours ago, Zenterus said:

    @Olaf you gotta hit the clubs dude. Find a club or a bar nearby your house (or as close as possible), get a nice fuckboy-looking outfit together (including a nice chain or necklace, no glasses, fake earrings if you dont have your holes pierced, etc), a nice perfume and fucking approach during the day, eat, shit, nap and then hit the bars and clubs at night, every day.

    I gotta warn you though.. I been in this game for over 10 years and I've reliably seen that whenever youre in this mindset of needing to get laid, that is precisely when it won't happen. So do it for the love of the game.

    Also, as @Miguel1 said: Quality over quantity. Dont just spam approach. Actually try to move things forward productively. Be physical, be polarizing, be engaging and lead as close to sex as you can.

    Look up my post history for in depth pickup tips. Good luck to you.

    Nice one.

    To add: find girls who have good potential to be pulled and are down to fuck:

    Is she hosting anyone at her place? Or is she staying at her family's place etc?

    Is she comfortable with sexual topics?

    Is she dressing more slutty?

    Is she physical with you?

    Is she compliant?

    Does she follow your lead?

  15. Posted

    2 hours ago, Ben_P said:

     

    Such an immature comment to make, expected better from a moderator. 
    she knows it was wrong to lie and we’ve talked through it. I can understand why she lied and now she’s apologised for it. Aside from this issue it’s been the best possible start for both of us 

     

    …and no we’re not young we’re just learning 

    Clearly it’s been the best possible start for both of you. See where you are right now.

    There was nothing immature in what I said. The way you are dealing with all this is immature.

  23. Posted

    At the end of the day, once you’ve done enough pickup you will realize you don’t want to invest your life and energy into most women. There are rare gems, but they are rare. Similarly, most men are complete chumps, and an unconscious survival zombie.

    It comes down to emotional and psychological maturity. Spiritual growth is a big one too.

  24. Posted

    On 29/08/2026 at 4:09 AM, TheGod said:

    By the time I have approached a 1000 I will turn into a very successful man in terms of getting women but I will lose my true self. I will lose this guy who deeply cares about women’s feelings, who has a lot of empathy and understanding for them.

    Contradiction. By the time you have approached 1k women (more like 10k), you finally have real understanding for them.

  25. Posted

    59 minutes ago, LordFall said:

    Why would your woman be able to meet another guy cooler than you randomly going to a club? Sounds like a failure in life strategy more than a legitimate boundary.

    If your girl goes out to a club she should be horrified at the state of the average man and run back home to you and fuck you more passionately than she has in weeks. 

    The question is what is her reason for going to such unconscious, sex driven place?