Miguel1

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  1. @Raze Flipping the script, qualifying, disqualifying, push-pull, seeding, escalating in the negative & texting game comes to mind.

    That being said, it’s been 5+ years and I don’t consciously do these anymore. My whole being communicates these via subcommunication, I’m just having fun and flirting.

    And again, these concepts and techniques will just get you in your head overthinking and overanalyzing, if you are not already charismatic.


  2. On 22/04/2026 at 7:42 PM, AION said:

    @Ramanujan just go with Owen. He is a safe bet. I saw his infield and it is very natural and authentic making a real connection while Todd comes off as he is running a script and just pushing buttons. 

    I agree.

    Todd is good if you are naturally charismatic. Otherwise he is just gonna get you stuck in your head.

    I learned a few techniques / concepts from him that skyrocketed my results.


  3. 10 hours ago, aurum said:

    I'm contemplating Leo's latest post on his struggles with disillusionment.

    To what degree is it possible to simply be satisfied with being conscious while living as a human?

    This is the question.

    Yes, at some point, the question leads to: why be a human? Why be alive when one could go back and bask in finite consciousness?


  4. 9 hours ago, lostingenosmaze said:

    Since you're experimenting with content lately, you could try and go viral making insights like these + quotes and lesssons from your blog and compile them into a kind of "high-consciousness shower thoughts" compilation.

    I highly doubt Leo’s deepest insights would ever get virality. And even if it does, it’s because of some dumb shit like his bookshell had the book ONLYFANS or something like that.

    Even if he did go viral, 99.9% of his new followers wouldn’t stick for his real work, and will only make his account’s algorithm bad, as he will have a lot of shadow followers, who don’t engage.


  5. I rather we have higher moral development and no awakenings, than awakening and no moral development.

    This is why we should take care of our basics first and develop one step at a time. And also why we should not delve into psychedelic work too soon, as it would be a boost in our consciousness into deep awakenings, yet our psyche is not developed enough to handle and integrate them, possibly leading to backfire and our development dropping.

    I got into spirituality when I was a teen, and I went balls deep into it at that age, when I should have been out playing and socializing. The results? The biggest zen devil who was using every possibly spiritual rationalization to boost my pick up journey.

    ”Suffering is the best teacher, so I can hurt girls because it will boost them into spiritual work.”

    ”Taking advantage of girls is good, because it will teach them a lesson on attachment and push them to drop their ego”

    It was fucking endless devilry dressed in goodness.


  6. 22 minutes ago, Jordan of the Shire said:

    This may seem like an odd time to say this given the fart-gistics

    I'm really impressed with this forum. The level of awareness and maturity in discussing topics is refreshing.

    Welcome to the forum. It wasn’t always like this.

    The forum had to go extensive transformation of banning all trolls and extremely low quality posters, and switching to a system where new members are not accepted immediately, to get to where we are.

    This way, it also attracts and encourages the higher quality members to also stay and to be active.


  7. 33 minutes ago, Jannes said:

    Alright that makes sense.

    Also in my experience, how something starts largely shapes the dynamic that is to come. If you "gamed" a girl that sets up a power dynamic in the relationship. 

    Most girls need that power dynamic. They need to feel like they are chasing, which makes the guy feel special to them. It's immature and unconscious monkey behavior, but what to do. That's why we have this thread and Leo's answer to it.


  8. 1 minute ago, Jannes said:

    Whats your experience after the attraction phase, is game or love & empathy superior?

    Attraction needs to be maintained all the time but the deeper you are in the relationship, the less sharp your game needs to be.

    Also, depends on the girl. I only end up in relationship with more mature girls, so with them, love & empathy goes a long way.

    But to answer your question, in general: girls are willing to put up with shitty behavior way more (as long as they are attracted to you) compared to receive good behaviour, when they are not attracted to you. So in that sense, game is more superior. But again, game doesn't need to be as on point, when you have deepened your relationship with her.