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    There’s a bunch of people living in solitude just fine, and are probably more happy than many of us.

    For most people tho, yes getting approval runs them deeply. But that’s because they are unconscious and immature.

    I imagine myself playing the social games max 5-10 years more, and then I’ll probably be in solitude too. At least for a good period.

  13. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    What the fuck has our men turned into. I cant even identify as a man anymore, these idiots behave like girls nowadays.

    We need some serious, healthy role models for the young boys out there. Not this clown.

    Back in the days, we walked up to a woman with the risk of being punched in the face mentally (rejection), now we literally punch ourselves in the face, just so we don’t have to walk up to a girl and start a conversation.

    It’s all backwards.

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    5 hours ago, RisingLane said:

    "I'm more Muslim than most Muslims."

    As someone raised in that religion, I find this very funny.

    Leo is the first genuine Muslim I have known in this life—a true submitter to God.

    I grew up with many muslim friends in my life. They are full of shit, and purely virtue signaling.

    It is funny indeed.

  15. Posted

    5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    That is what HoeMath is suggesting his audience does.

    Women don't help a man make himself, though. Women often discourage it. "Just be yourself".

    To make oneself requires understanding the gap between what one is and what one needs to become. That's why men require lots of coaching on this matter. There are many ways to go wrong.

    We definitely need more healthy role-models and coaches for men and especially young men. Man, perhaps I need to step up.

  16. Posted

    6 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    You are defining terms differently is all.

    I personally think insecure women think being persued by a man is gross. I've never been turned off by this. Neediness is something else entirely. I am not speaking about neediness. 

    You speak like @Emerald

    Dont forget that you guys are playing the conscious dating game.

    Most women will not be very excited being chased / pursued by a man. They want to be the pursuer, cuz they are addicted to drama.

    I talk from experience.

  17. Posted

    7 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    @Leo Gura I do not agree. Persuit for a man is a big thing in my experience, in attraction phase.

    Within the bounds of relationship I can understand containment might mean the feminine leans in the structure of the masculine. But chasing stops at that point. Or it should, in a healthy mature relationship. 

    Containment/stability is different to chasing/persuit.

     

    Whenever discussing dating here, we have to consider the level in which majority of people dates, and then the level where more mature people practice dating.

  18. Posted

    7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Both.

    The woman will not be happy in the relationship long-term if the man loses his center and starts orbiting her.

    Feminine energy orbits the masculine.

    This shouldn't be a desperate needy chasing, but a healthy kind of orbiting/following.

    This is what Owen means by strong frame, or frame control btw, that you have disagreed with before.

  19. Posted

    5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Men need dating advice, but most of the men giving out dating advice are very corrupt, and the men needing the advice don't care because they are so desperate and immature and equally corrupt.

    Corruption seeks corruption. Flies seek shit.

    When you can't get laid, you don't care about being ethical or good, nor truth. You just want to either get laid by any way possible or to whine about why you can't and why someone but you is to blame.

    Immature men create immature dating advice for immature men to attract immature women. Immature women fall for it, so it works. When the women are so immature, you can't attract them with maturity or wisdom.

    Round and round the wheel goes.

    And most people are immatur. Ta-daa! xD

  22. Posted

    This isn't that complicated guys. Use AI as a tool but don't abuse it. In other words, use it in a healthy manner.

    I use a car to get by but I also make sure to exercise, dance, play soccer to keep my body healthy.

    The issue is that society doesn't truly teach you the value of this proposition, hence you gotta learn it yourself.

  23. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    AI:

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    ENFJs are driven by a deep desire for personal growth, often viewing life as an opportunity to maximize their potential and help others do the same. They focus on nurturing their empathy, developing self-discipline, and fostering authentic connections while learning to balance their high-reaching ambitions with necessary self-care and authentic, independent thought.

    Story of my life.

  24. Posted · Edited by Miguel1

    7 hours ago, krockerman said:

    1. Todd V

    2. Julien blanc

    3. RSDMax

    4. Tyler

    5. Austin summers

    6. Karisma king

    7. Mystery

    Todd is too mind-heavy. Julien no longer teaches, nor Max.

    Austin and Karisma are student level compared to Owen.

    Mystery is OG but too technical for me.