Miguel1
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It’s a good post. Much more details can be involved but this is good overall.
I would add being more social, just for the sake of socializing. This keeps you in a good state and momentum, so when you bump into a truly attractive girl, the playful ”I dont care about your validation” state really oozes off of you.
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2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:Indirect is more effective but requires more skill to pull off.
Direcrt is good so guys don't overthink it or make excuses to not approach at all. Direct is better than zero.
Indirect is good to learn once you have the basics of direct approach learned.
Indirect during daygame, stopping someone when they are walking full speed is the problem.
At most, ”a half indirect” can work.
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@Schizophonia I honestly don’t know what you are talking about.
What have I said here that is remotely aggressive?
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35 minutes ago, AION said:Like in the jungle
That’s human nature for you. Most people are survival zombies.
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3 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:@Miguel1 I don't like the Patriarchy ruse.
In practice, every man has to learn social skills and charisma now. Which is good in a way.
It’s almost like society has to face its own brutal nature and come up with honest ways to deal with it, rather than depend on clutches.
That being said, if it’s too much at once, then it can also collapse society.
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Ironically, in my game development, I have come full circle.
At this point I am mostly myself. I have my goofy side and I have my more serious side. I show both depending on the envinronment and the situation.
I am mostly myself, with social calibration. The only thing I hold back is my philosophical side (which to be fair is a huge part of me, but I am talking about my personality here), that is something I will virtually never bring up.
And I don’t care if it’s a hot girl or an ugly girl, if they don’t vibe with me, or don’t like me, then it’s see ya.
I text mostly what I want, and don’t have any hard rules for texting.
If she don’t vibe with me, then I will meet the next girl within 10 seconds.
My results are better than ever, especially with the better looking ladies.
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7 minutes ago, AION said:The fall of the patriarchy has benefitted the alpha men the most. They get the fuck around without commitment.
The group that lost the most with the fall of the patriarchy is the low tier men and even the average men. I have friends who have a good career and lifestyle but they can't find a women to save their lives. Because just having those things is not enough to get a women anymore,one needs game too. And although they are university degree smart they can't figure out game.
Another group that lost with the fall of the patriarchy is the average women. They all have this anthem "I won't settle for less" in other words I'm an average women and I won't settle for an average men. That kind of egocentrism will bite these women so hard in the ass. It will cause a demographic collapse very soon. Therapy, cats and cat food prices will skyrocket though.
Well said.
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4 minutes ago, Meeksauce said:How does one do this
Tease, qualify them, ask for compliances, connect on an emotional level
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Tease, qualify them, ask for compliances, connect on an emotional level
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You need to get them to invest in you as well for it to be a solid number.
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8 hours ago, Jirh said:Vikings represent strength and victory. That's all.
Yes but the point of the thread was that Vikings were way more than just strenght and victorty, and not the good stuff.
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1 hour ago, cetus said:The issue here is when someone talks over someone's head it can cause distance instead of connection.
Happens too often in a place like this.
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1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:I must admit, it is obvious which users are uncharitable or not approaching in good faith. It also reveals users bias.
I think this thread says more about each user stands personally, than it does about Leo.
Yes. Hard conversations are extremely important to have, but can we have them in a respectful, civil manner?
This is really what it all comes down to.
If there is no maturity and consciousness involved in the conversation, it will spiral downwards to hell.
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2 hours ago, Yimpa said:You don’t need permission, you are the authority of your own life:
Unfortunately or fortunately, you can’t put moderstors in there.
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@oOo I am not sure what you try to say honestly.
My issue remains very simple and clear:
I can’t find someone with whom I have physical, emotional and intellectual intimacy.
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You’ve gone mad bro.
Also, what does this have to do with dating?
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This is not good. We should clear this
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9 hours ago, Valach said:It is very hard to develop this skillset if you are not forced by the world to do so. And young, attractive woman are simply not forced into that. It really is a curse for them.
Yes. That’s why most people don’t do the work we do here. Because it is lonely at the top.
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2 minutes ago, Valach said:How would you map development and maturity on trauma?
I feel like it is hard to differentiate between this for me because a person might be relatively mature (self aware, conscious etc.), yet at the same time many of his/hers desires and preferences will be stemming from unresolved trauma. I wouldn't say that makes the person immature but that person might look like that.
Maturity is facing and healing your traumas.
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On 27/06/2026 at 2:51 PM, integral said:Maturity is a separate axis from values.
A person could be stage red and mature. But because the center of our culture is mostly Orange they'll have a hard time in that environment because they adapted to red values when they should have adapted to be orange as that's the least resistance to culture and Society.
Hmm. With maturity, comes higher level of values.
An immature person might value money and sex, while a mature person will likely value empathy and integrity.
A healthy stage green person is generally more psychologically mature than an orange.
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You can approach from the side or the back, just run like 4-5 feet ahead of them, and excuse yourself.
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11 hours ago, Miguel1 said:I might miss some context with Valach and LordFall, but I don’t see an issue with girls you don’t find attractive to practice your social skills, as long as you don’t lead them on.
There is no need to hurt anyone while practicing your skills. You can always make friends with them. And if you wanna practice your attraction generating skills with not attractive girls, then just come up with an excuse later that doesnt hurt them:
”I really enjoyed your company but I want to be honest with you, upon thinking further, right now I am seeing a girl with whom things are getting a bit too serious for me to see other girls and feel good about myself”.
You are never going to be perfectly 100% ethical and selfless in this world. Just you existing will cause other forms to disappear.
Brother, I am done with this discussion. If we don’t agree after all this, then there is no point continuing. It’s ok. We are just going in circles.
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1 hour ago, Valach said:Sure. But you know there is some context difference between this. You asking for time, even if not honestly, will not trigger some emotional reaction from the other side unlike with flirting etc. It is basic empathy, really.
It is just some harmless flirtin. It happens all the time. You are making too big of a deal out of it.
Getting a girl’s number doesn’t mean anything, especially if the guy is new to game, he most likely won’t be getting any solid numbers anyway.
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The more I mature the more I agree with this.
The problem with most girls is that it’s better to go the fuckboy route with them first until sex, then bring up relatioship qualities in you.
But the truth is, you probably don’t want a relationship with these girls who needs fuckboy route first, anyways. They are probably more unstable and immature, in general.
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I wanted to share this new insight I got lately somewhere but I didn’t have a place for it. But this is a good one.
So lately, my new favourite ”targets” are girls who are with their moms. Man, if a girl has a good relationship with her mother, and the mother likes me (the easy part), these are two extremely good signs of it going somewhere really good with the girl.