Miguel1
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41 minutes ago, something_else said:What pickup calls a 'shit test' is just playfully teasing someone, it's part of basic human social interaction, especially so when flirting.
I don't like the term because it makes it seem like women are actively and intentionally trying to test you, which they are not. They're either teasing you playfully to flirt or they're telling you they aren't interested. It's usually easy to tell the difference.
You are half right. There are some seriously harsh shit tests too and they have no playful intentions.
Most shit tests I get are playful tho.
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39 minutes ago, something_else said:I hate this term with a burning passion
For me it has gone full circle. I’ve got to a point with my inner game where I don’t even realize shit tests are thrown at me. I pass them without realizing, as I don’t take anything they say seriously in the early stages.
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Probably in order:
1. Have fun & Dance
2. Make connections that benefit my career
3. Dating opportunities & Making friends
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22 minutes ago, Alexop said:Relationships skills are a whole different beast. This is why all these pickup scumbags fail at maintaining a healthy relationship.
Attraction is important, but it has to be taught as a part of how to be a real man, not just a bunch of skills, like learning how to swim.
Well said.
I call it healthy game.
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1 hour ago, Zenterus said:@Olaf Let me first say that I totally feel you on that last update, man. I recently had a very promising girlfriend canditate, who -- after I approached, attracted and got a number from with a solid date setup -- I managed to FUCK IT UP within 4 text messages somehow because I was running a script instead of texting her like a normal person. This happened on Tuesday and I'm still turning in my sleep and waking up in cold sweat just thinking about it. But the pain of these experiences is what is gonna get us to where we want to get to, as long as we absorb the lessons they are gifting us with.
How’d you manage to fuck up so badly in such simple thing as texting with your experience
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There is also macro momentum. If he has been actively doing it for 3 years, he has massive macro momentum.
You don’t need to warm up that much when you are in such constant action.
If he took a 6 months break and came back to game, I’m sure he would crumble fast without warming up properly.
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4 hours ago, Emerald said:I'm specifically talking about looks.
That explains why I struggle to get hot girls
No but it’s true, I know my looks and because of that I find most girls not ”worthy” of my looks, and they can sense that.
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@Emerald I agree with you if you are purely talking looks.
But you said ”punching above his weight.” This can mean as a whole, sexual value.
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1 hour ago, Emerald said:That's why women are generally seeking their looks-match or are slightly looks-hypogamous... because it's a lot more arousing to be with a guy who knows he's punching slightly above his weight.
Make sure that that’s not only you.
From my experience, women love to go after higher level guys than they are, in general.
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1 hour ago, Inliytened1 said:Well you didn't have a lot of useful advice. Going up to a girl and telling her you wanna fuck her typically crashes and burns.
I never said that, quite the opposite.
I gave clear tips in the beginning of this thread but you guys were more interested in mental gymnastics.
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Less mental masturbation and more serious action guys.
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If you were truly honest and non-manipulative, you would tell the girl straight up:
”You are hot, I want to have sex with you”.
But you are not going to do that cuz you are not honest, hence you have to play Games.
This thread is a bunch of mental masturbation. Focus on doing what I and Zenterus said, if you are serious. But you are not.
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9 hours ago, Zenterus said:@Olaf you gotta hit the clubs dude. Find a club or a bar nearby your house (or as close as possible), get a nice fuckboy-looking outfit together (including a nice chain or necklace, no glasses, fake earrings if you dont have your holes pierced, etc), a nice perfume and fucking approach during the day, eat, shit, nap and then hit the bars and clubs at night, every day.
I gotta warn you though.. I been in this game for over 10 years and I've reliably seen that whenever youre in this mindset of needing to get laid, that is precisely when it won't happen. So do it for the love of the game.
Also, as @Miguel1 said: Quality over quantity. Dont just spam approach. Actually try to move things forward productively. Be physical, be polarizing, be engaging and lead as close to sex as you can.
Look up my post history for in depth pickup tips. Good luck to you.
Nice one.
To add: find girls who have good potential to be pulled and are down to fuck:
Is she hosting anyone at her place? Or is she staying at her family's place etc?
Is she comfortable with sexual topics?
Is she dressing more slutty?
Is she physical with you?
Is she compliant?
Does she follow your lead?
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2 hours ago, Ben_P said:Such an immature comment to make, expected better from a moderator.
she knows it was wrong to lie and we’ve talked through it. I can understand why she lied and now she’s apologised for it. Aside from this issue it’s been the best possible start for both of us…and no we’re not young we’re just learning
Clearly it’s been the best possible start for both of you. See where you are right now.
There was nothing immature in what I said. The way you are dealing with all this is immature.
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Such a good start for a relationship having to lie like that
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Quality approaches over quantity when it comes to getting sex.
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1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:But sometimes the girl is the asshole too. This is kinda taboo to say. Every person has pros and cons.
What does that have anything to do with what I said
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There is a reason assholes do so well with girls
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2 hours ago, Judy2 said:and what's my excuse for googling him?
What is the truth?
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13 minutes ago, Joshe said:Do it. Not weird at all. He’ll most likely be glad you reached out.
Yes.
And if you don’t do it, you will lose him for good. So what is there to lose?
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I am quite dominant and masculine in my nature but I love me sometime to just sit back and enjoy letting others (the woman) take charge.
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At the end of the day, once you’ve done enough pickup you will realize you don’t want to invest your life and energy into most women. There are rare gems, but they are rare. Similarly, most men are complete chumps, and an unconscious survival zombie.
It comes down to emotional and psychological maturity. Spiritual growth is a big one too.
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On 29/08/2026 at 4:09 AM, TheGod said:By the time I have approached a 1000 I will turn into a very successful man in terms of getting women but I will lose my true self. I will lose this guy who deeply cares about women’s feelings, who has a lot of empathy and understanding for them.
Contradiction. By the time you have approached 1k women (more like 10k), you finally have real understanding for them.
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59 minutes ago, LordFall said:Why would your woman be able to meet another guy cooler than you randomly going to a club? Sounds like a failure in life strategy more than a legitimate boundary.
If your girl goes out to a club she should be horrified at the state of the average man and run back home to you and fuck you more passionately than she has in weeks.
The question is what is her reason for going to such unconscious, sex driven place?

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Again, I half agree with you.
Depends on my mood, sometimes I disengage.
But. If a girl is that rude, she herself is charging the tension and energy. Most of the hard work is already done by her then. It is quite easy to flip it on its head.