Miguel1

@oOo Thank you for the thoughtful message. I will answer you tomorrow. Good night everyone for now ✨

Oh trust me, I have done a shit ton of contemplation on the subject. It comes down to my natural psychological traits: - A very passionate person. Deep feeler. Loves depth. Loves intimacy. - Yet a very social person. Highly extroverted. This combination leads me to desire a fulfilling relationship where I will get both. Much rather 1 deep relationship, than 100 shallow connections. But how do you have a deep relationship, if there is no intellectual intimacy? Let me add: - I am also a deep thinker. A deep questioner. So naturally if my partner has a lot of limitations in her thinking, I can’t help but feel like the relationship is lacking intellectual intimacy because I have to hold myself back all the time, feel like I am walking on eggshell, and can’t discuss and explore freely — I cannot explore and penetrate her mind nearly as deeply as I desire to.

Thank you for sharing 😊

Since it is a big party, it is a perfect chance to approach the hotties as they are gathered in once place. Don’t spam approach just anyone.

It’s fine you think that way. But at least bring substance by elaborating why you think so.

Yes, thank you. I need to spend more time around art spaces. But mature art. Lots and lots of ego in art scenes, and especially conformity and group-think.

What an amazing contribution to the conversation by an old member with 1000 posts. I expect better of you. Keep it respectful and civil please.

Kids I am open to, if I find a really high quality partner to raise them with. Marriage I don’t really see a reason other for some legal benefits here in Finland.

Girls always think that I have fake lips. Their ego can’t handle that a man is more beautiful than them

I didn’t mean for this conversation to be so long. It is interesting that whenever I open up my feelings around this, it garners so much attention. This one was just spontaneous release of burden.

I am still quite young. I could date now while romance and intimacy mattera to me. At older age I doubt I’m very interested in it.

Let me fix this. Upon deeper reflection, I’ve def met some more conscious girls but either they were in relationships, I was in a relationship, or they were more conscious but not that conscious etc. I’ve met some for sure. A lot of spiritual people are spiritually developed but then their human life and psyche is complete self-deceived.

Thank you for your contribution. You are right, after tens of thousands of approaches, I know that it is possible to have a relationship with someone where you don’t compromise on truth and honesty. With a conscious person.

You guys underestimate how much spiritual and especially psychological growth I’ve had in the past 5 years since starting to do Leo’s work seriously. You do not understand the pain I went through of realizing hundreds of ways I have hurt others. I was a true devil. The hundreds of ways I have lied to myself and others. But Leo seems to see this growth in me. Natasha too. And a few other members. But Leo sees the most I believe, as I used to share about my journey and all the lessons more in my first years here. Back then Natasha wasn’t active yet, at least commenting.

Honestly I was in denial of this for a very long time, as I have deep bias for self-development and humanity coming together to work in harmony (the drive for harmony is one of the biggest traits of my personality type ENFJ - I have also seriously contemplated that one of the biggest reasons I got into spirituality was because I wanted to find answers for suffering, so that we can all live in peace with each other) but, the truth is that my natural personality type of being extremely naturally charismatic and a leader (go read about it for a moment. We are probably the most socially liked personality) + my looks did most of my work. Oh and having a beautiful, natural tan here in Finland where everyone is snowflakes, makes you a God tier instantly. I get energized around people. I often find myself naturally in the center of a crowd. Having attractive girls around just 10Xs this energy. And did I already say? I am a natural leader. I’ve played football (soccer) ever since I was a kid and my coach always made me the captain. Especially when I was 18-25. These years were free pussy for my strenghts. Girls this age gives pretty much zero fuck about character in the man. And oh yeah, my relatively high level of selfishness, manupulativeness and zen devilry. When you are in deep in the journey of ”killing your ego”, in however unhealthy ways, and developing a strong spiritual ego - approaching girls is like cocaine to you. Gosh, I thought WhatsApp destroys quality but actualized.org forum turned my glowing and exuberant brown skin into a vegetating zombie.