Miguel1

It is a figure of speech, not meant to take literally brother.

Good question. Solid and stable career that generates great income, and on top of that I find a really great woman to be my life partner and a great mother to my child(ren) (this is the more tricky one).

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As I am right now, and I’m the same age as you, children would be a huge distraction. We will see again in 3-5+ years but very possible I will not have children, and focus all my resources on my spiritual growth and life purpose.

Conformity!

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Throwing out a break up card like that is the beginning of an end. It destroys trust and you wont be able to feel fully safe ever anymore. He should have discussed the issues with you properly first. Break up card is never meant to be used. If it is used, it is basically over.

That feels premature. Nothing in between, flirting, vibing, qualifying, connecting? I am not talking about an hour conversation but 5-15 mins?

I used to do nightgame a lot in mu youth but nowadays I enjoy daygame much more. What are some of your favourite ways to open?

Top tier as in looks. Like the 9s and 10s.

@aurum I forgot to mention something. Demi sexuality and especially, Sapio sexuality. If a girl is intelligent, it turns me the hell on.

You will learn that on this forum, never ever hit submit before you have copied your writing

Correct. What society shows us about relationship is absolutely terrible. Most of us model after and unconsciously pick up patterns from our parents’ relationship as well, and I cant say too many relationship are doing good.

@Oppositionless You are correct that a ton of relationships are built in workplace. But that is still different to a meditation or healing center where people are being vulnerable. I am not gonna go to one of these places just to find a partner. And I would not be going to these places for their exclusive purposes, as those I can do at home. Surely there are attractive people who are mature but they are virtually non-existant. That’s how rare they are. Finally, keep in mind its relative. What you consider attractive might not be for me, as I am used to top tier girls from my years in game. Maturity is also relative.

@aurum Again, I am not looking for a philosopher-partner. But just a partner to have some meaningful conversations with here and there. I would not date a stage blue girl, no matter how much polarity there is and how feminine she is — simply because there isn’t much interesting to discuss with. We don’t see eye to eye when it comes to values either. I think it is key that at least some of the core values align. You mentioned Spiral Dynamics Green when you talked about your potential partner. That is values.