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The more unconscious, self-biased, selfish, self-deceived, the more immature one is. The more someone matures, the more they become aware of their own inner lies that they tell themselves, face it, and stop doing it. Basically integrity is what it comes down to. The more integrous a mind is, the more mature it is. How honest are you with yourself, and others? How much does your actions cause pain to others? How much have you faced your inner demons and shadows, and integrated them? Genuine empathy (not people pleasing) is also a very strong sign of maturity. The more empathy you have developed, the more mature you are. The more you are able to see the big picture and see that we are all just part of one, the more mature your mind is.

@James123 Behave respectfully.

@LordFall Jesus. In what world do you live, where you go from absolute zero experience with girls to hosting parties for hundreds of girls just like that?

@Mellowmarsh You are getting unnecessarily philosophical. It comes down to this: if you don’t have the right genes, you wouldn’t be a human being. And if you don’t have the right genes, you will never be nearly as conscious as Peter, no matter how much you try.

@Mellowmarsh the potential of consciousness work is infinitely higher than the potential of physical work.

@Mellowmarsh I can train as hard or even harder using the same tools Lionel Messi used, and will never come close to as good as he was in his peak.

As for AION, I do think there is a misunderstanding going on here between him and others, to a degree at least. The rest seems to be clear bias from him. And as he says, he should work on his emotional and social intelligence so that he doesn’t come across disrespectful in his message. This is something all of us into truth has to come to eventually, and it is called maturity. Leo has had many episodes of this. The last big one I think was a couple of years ago.

One of the main reason I got so much results with women, as I am a born natural leader. I always hated conformity and group-think.

@Mellowmarsh The point is that Peter is a genetic freak, which most people are not.

It is true that most people are stuck in survival and doesn’t have the capacity and / or interest to actualize themselves and explore consciousness deeply. Most people are too immature to even have a basic thing like a healthy relationship. To truly have a sustainable, compatible relationship based on honesty, authenticity and truth, is very rare.

@Joseph Maynor @Inliytened1 it makes sense. I was with this partner for 5 years. It was the most intimate and intense relationship I’ve had, by far.

The funny thing is my personality type is ENFJ, which is the biggest social chameleon there is. My ennegram is 8w3 tho, and from there I get the cut through bullshit side.

The suffering for me has also neutralized a lot compared to 10 months ago when I broke up. But I would have thought it would have passed by now as I am quite happy single. It must be still here for the reasons I mentioned above. I was able to express myself much better in my relationship because she accepted me and didn’t judge me, and we had a special bond. Now I have to play the social games way more, but I hate that too and need to really stop it. But then there is not much intimacy at all in my life anymore, however shallow. There is clearly an internal, existential conflict within me.

Yeah, it’s a chemical inbalance in our brain. Need to process it and give it time for our brain to find balance and harmony again. Also why PUA is toxic in this regard. Pick up would say for you to numb it and go fuck 10 hotter girls to move on.

@Inliytened1 It started for me from break up too. But it’s been 10 months and I feel like I have moved on from it quite well. Maybe like now, it has shifted from break up + lack of human intimacy to purely but strongly lack of human intimacy. I have struggled with being a wage slave and not being able to fully express myself freely forever so I don’t think that’s the reason. If anything, at least I had quite a deep intimacy on physical, emotional, psychological and intellectual with my ex partner, but now I don’t even have that. And finally, I feel like on one hand I am so done with repressing my true self and just want to fully express myself via my art and making a proper career for myself - but at the same time I am aware that it will make it even Harder for me to get the intimacy I crave, as it is too threatening for normies. The caveat is that I am much more likely to find the person I truly aligned with and can have authentic intimacy with, it I fully express myself publicly. I will lose 99% of people in my life, but I will open the doors for the right people to enter my life. - - - - - Overall, I think for me it comes down to lack of proper intimacy (I don’t count random sex with random people intimacy), and the lack of ability to freely express myself (with the fear of its consequences). Same reason I cant be on this forum with my real name. But this all starts from the foundation that human consciousness is still so damn low. In many ways, we are still living deeply in the dark ages.