Miguel1

Until one day you go missing

Aka, majority of people

We were together for 5 years but we broke up 6 months ago

I like how this was your 3333rd post here.

Welcome to the club brother My next step from that was to throw to trash majority of the girls and just see a few of the highest quality one. Not only was having so many girls so fucking shallow and unsatisfying, it was also extremely exhausting (yes even as an extrovert) and more importantly, time-wasting. Basically quality became much more important for me than quality. Eventually I found a gf to settle with, and it was at least 10X more satisfying and meaningful than all the shallow BS I had.

The other side of the this conversation is that I have been with countless girls cheating on their partners. It happens far more often than you would believe. Dating is also different in 2026 vs 2016 and 2006.

Instagram / Vertical version out now. Go show some love to your boy https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUD8U-2ApI5/?igsh=eXgzeXVoemt3NWR5

Great thread. Hardest decision in my life in a bigger picture has got to be the decision of accepting the reality of humanity and how unconcious they really are. How hard it is to become more conscious, and how impossible this work can be for majority. With this decision, majority of my dreams and identity died. This accepting has been happening the past 5 years and only perhaps since a year ago I have started to develop a new identity with new dreams based on my new accepted reality. Fucking painful.

Remember guys, as moderators we have a responsibility to show the rest of the community how to behave and communicate, and how not to.

Probably my best one yet! It is just so majestically beautiful. Wow. Makes me jump from joy and excitement, and shed some tears thinking what is the potential here if I invest years and decades into this. Subliminal. Need to turn your screen to horizontal. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT8MAiAAo-W/?igsh=dWUwMGplMG96Zjlu

Same

I agree with the other mods here. It’s getting out of control with all these new threads.

This is key.

Push-pull should be natural in the sense that there are things you don’t like about the girl, so you tease her about them or even push her harder away, depending on the things. Then there are things you like about her, which then will make you pull towards you. This is not a technique. It’s called being a high-quality human with standards and values.

There seems to be a lot of repressed anger coming out, which is understandable. I recommend giving that part much more attention. Perhaps you already are. I notice there are still gamey stuff in your list of no gamey steps. Things like seeding, consciously getting her to qualify herself to you, and to invest in you. Texting 2-3 days and testing the waters etc — all these are part of game. I am not saying not to qualify. But qualifying happens naturally when you have standards and are looking for a specific, higher quality woman. Vibe and feel her for 15 mins. If good, take number, with the premise of hanging out. After number, chat couple messages, then go for the date setting. It doesnt have to be more complicated than that. In fact, you could also set the date sometimes while talking to the girl, right there and then. Time and day.