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My recent 10 pages opening up thread was basically about this. If I choose to be fully aligned with myself, my social results drop dramatically. But at least I leave whatever small chance open of finding that few people that I align with deeply and build long-lasting fulfilling relationships with. At the same time, going the other extreme is not good either as it would be too fake and gimmicky, losing all authenticity and genuine raw charisma, letting go and confidence. The middle path is best for max results.

I’m a natural with people so I can unguard people fairly easily, and can sense if anger is arising way before it arises.

It’s funny because game is supposed to be you seducing and getting everyone to like you but I was just giving everyone shit so they tried to get me to like them instead

I was a fucking savage. Powered by evil spirituality. A real zen devil.

This is why social flow is so important, and to allow yourself to properly warm up. It’s also good to have some great lines to use in tough situations, and in situations where you are not in a flow. So, nowadays I think this is an asshole move but I used to enjoy stealing girls from guys just for the challenge of it. Literally I would take the girl from him, have her chase after me, then come up with an excuse to drop her. And one of my favourite lines to open these 1 guy 1 girl sets was: ”you guys look like you are so in love” If there girl answers no or eww or any negative answers, you know you got him. Even worse is if the guy answers yes and the girl answers no. After that I don’t even have to do anything than to stay firm and grounded, and to establish my presence in order to put pressure on the situation, and it’s over. This is fucking toxic I know. One of my favourite challenges was to look for a big group of guys with 1 girl and try to steal her from them, but this is not really toxic per se, more like stupid as it can get dangerous.

This guy. And you says you are not stuck in orange You remind me of my younger self. Except, include also how they will benefit spiritually with you as well. Then you have the perfect self-deceived delusional drowned in his own success.

This whole conversation is a one big cross-talking at each other.

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The problem comes when you act this way even in a normal comfortable situation, because your mind is just that biased.

Narcissist has been a buzzword for a longtime already, everywhere on the internet. But in a place dedicated to conscious work and psychological development, why are you confused that people take maturity seriously? Some of you don’t genuinely seem to be interested in the real work here.

The more unconscious, self-biased, selfish, self-deceived, the more immature one is. The more someone matures, the more they become aware of their own inner lies that they tell themselves, face it, and stop doing it. Basically integrity is what it comes down to. The more integrous a mind is, the more mature it is. How honest are you with yourself, and others? How much does your actions cause pain to others? How much have you faced your inner demons and shadows, and integrated them? Genuine empathy (not people pleasing) is also a very strong sign of maturity. The more empathy you have developed, the more mature you are. The more you are able to see the big picture and see that we are all just part of one, the more mature your mind is.

@James123 Behave respectfully.

@LordFall Jesus. In what world do you live, where you go from absolute zero experience with girls to hosting parties for hundreds of girls just like that?

@Mellowmarsh You are getting unnecessarily philosophical. It comes down to this: if you don’t have the right genes, you wouldn’t be a human being. And if you don’t have the right genes, you will never be nearly as conscious as Peter, no matter how much you try.

@Mellowmarsh the potential of consciousness work is infinitely higher than the potential of physical work.