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If someone has so much experience in approaching and attracting girls, they probably have had their fair share of dating more seriously. And yes, I have tried painful truths on the my long-term gfs, my short-term dating mates, my fwbs - and everything in-between. It doesn’t matter, it doesn’t lead anywhere good the way this thread isn’t leading anywhere good.

@yetineti You try to be cheeky and insightful with your response, but the underlying agenda is as bright as day.

Different roles & survival functions. Ever wonder why we are not attracted to people who are very similar and close to us like family members? Why are we so attracted to exoticness? It is nature's way of increasing the chance of survival by spreading DNA.

So, who here ACTUALLY has the experience & data of approaching thousands of girls? Who here has tried to attract thousands of girls? Who here has successfully attracted hundreds of women, if not thousands? I have. And I'm telling you: you either make them feel emotions or they bounce. Hard, cold, dry, and painful logical truths are the death of your dating as a man. Of course, there are always a rare exception or two with unique differences from the norm, but we are discussing it generally here. We are discussing what actually helps and benefits guys in dating.

Love you too! 🤍

@Natasha Tori Maru @ChrisZoZo I also don’t really get lonely in a conventional way, but I do in a more existential way. I’d rather share this planet with a few beautiful souls, inside and out, than exist here completely alone, devoid of any human, animal, or living presence

Just wanted to take a moment to express gratitude for ya’ll. This work can get extremely lonely, and as an extrovert, sometimes it hits me that ”wow I’m glad I have a community of likeminded people to share ups and downs with”. So thank you! I encourage you all to take this chance to express your own gratitude whether specifically or broadly.

This is why I only dance to sad and heartbreak songs nowadays 😌 — Leo is correct in not telling girls the truth. You are shooting yourself in the foot when you threaten their survival fantasies with truth.

Osho for me. Bumped into his name first in a pickup blog. I was like 16-17 and there was no going back from there.

Don’t kid yourself, Leo was being humble. Based on your reactions, I thought he said 100 centuries. If you think that in a hundred years, the gravity of the masses is towards this work, you gotta think again. Think where we were in the 1900s, and compare it to now.

I agree with Leo here. There is a reason his content is not popular. It’s 2025 and the peak internet era. People who really cares and are ready, will find Leo’s content.

I mean, you are quite Preetty

Honestly, one skill of yours that is never really given credit for is your ability to come up with creative and powerful analogies seemingly out of the blue.

Upon further introspection and reminding myself, it comes down to shyness. Social shyness. Finns are some of the most reserved and shy socially. Alcohol relaxes them. Alot. I wouldn’t be surprised if we are one of the heaviest drinkers - and thus, all these laws to regulate drinking. So maybe Leo is onto something lol. It’s hard to get them to trust and open upto you initially but once you do, it’s game on. Think of the opposite of Spanish and latin people. In a way, if you learn to handle socializing here, everywhere else in the world will be a cheat code. Cold approaching people here, you will need to carry the convo initially way more than elsewhere. But also, there’s virtually no competition. In the pickup community, they say Finland is full of beautiful blondes, without any men. And I guess I’ve taken that for granted - but yes, I guess that’s been my experience too. Hard to know when I don’t have anything to compare to. —- Sorry for off-topic. Let’s get back to the main topic.

Yes, totally. There’s many things they can do only when drunk. That’s the irony of Finns’ higher psychological development.