Miguel1

I think I’ll take a break from the forum. Might be good for me. The blog I will keep reading, as it’s gold.

I got a long way before I am conscious enough to want to have sex with an overly obese girl. Love them and accept them I can. People love to project ideas onto me. I had a monent of loneliness and opened up here. No more. No less. Who doesn’t experience loneliness when they are on this journey? Isn’t it allowed? This conversation doesn’t need to be 20 pages long, and I have communicated it multiple times. I am in the process of letting go of dating and potentially transcending it. Isn’t the work about facing the hard truths, and griefing the loss of beautiful illusions, and finally accepting the hard truths? I was expecting some emotional support for my griefing process, as one of the main reason this community was made, was for that. But I kinda regret expecting that. This conversation can be done, as far as I am concerned. It doesn’t really need to be pushed further.

@Lyubov Thank you for the well-thought message. My question for you is this: How many people do you think does the work we do here? What about the amount of people that actually does it seriously? It’s not enough to be scientifically gifted. And I am not expecting the girl to be anywhere near as conscious as Leo, as I am not either. I don’t even expect her to be as conscious as I am. But relatively conscious. Now ask yourself, how many of them are 25-30 years olds? And finally, ask yourself: how many of them are physically attractive in Miguel’s standards? The boy who is used to the best. Also ask yourself, for a really attractive girl in her youth, what are her incentives to doing this work? In general.. this work already is more suited to men, as we care more about truth, and girls care more about feelings.

Stupid advice, or spiritual narcissism. Tough choice

I have not put anyone down. Just because someone gives you advice, doesn’t mean you should take it. Use discerment.

I give Olaf real arguments for why his approach is not working. What are your arguments for my position here? What could I do better for me not to have a spiritual ego, that is based on truth?

Obviously I didn’t take it as such in the beginning. And I have been accused of it for a long time already, I have been very patient. This thread wasn’t the first time. But since I see no real arguments that has any value, it gets tiring real fast. I also see no interest in people accusing me to inquire where their accusations are coming from. Perhaps, are they themselves lacking? Really contemplate it, the way I’ve done extensively when I’ve been challenged. It might not be so obvious and clear that you are on the right and I’m on the wrong.

If it is genuinely like this and you have really exhausted the desire for it out of your system, then very good. But if it is done via repression, then it will backfire eventually. I am not at this point fully yet but way closer than 5 years ago.

Especially as the highest chance of me finding a life partner, is probably via my work. Or through some more advanced spiritual gathering.

He got good stuff but nothing I have not heard of

This conversation is going nowhere and I am exhausted at this point, I keep repeating myself 10 times and people don’t listen. And instead just gets defensive and accuse me of nonsense The ones who got it and are on the same page have already said there words. This topic is so clear for me now.This thread just confirmed everything and gave me even more clarity. I also discussed it in-depth with Zenterus in private. Thanks everyone for contributing.

Lots of women cannot handle a relationship due to their psyche. Let alone a Real relationship based on honesty and vulnerability. But yes, if most women were emotionally healthy and mature, I can see that they wouldn’t necessarily want casual.

Ridiculous.

No. This is just me tired of being nice. This conversation here has already ended, it doesn’t need to be pushed further. I’m getting tired of answering the same questions when people do not listen, and instead, accuse me of having a spiritual ego because it is way easier to do so than to face the reality that is their own short-comings in their journey. Case in point, you.

@Basman Did I say I’m Yoda??