Miguel1

It’s time for you to focus less on quantity and focus more on quality. At this point, approaching 40 sets and not even getting once to a point of number closing is awful.

@Yimpa Much love Yimpa! Your love and positivity makes me happy 🥰

@Spiral Thank you for the comment and wisdom. I think I figured out the lonely part quite well actually. The way I am fixing it is that I am just deep on my life purpose, which itself is very fulfilling, but involves a lot of people not only in the art spaces, but also in the healing spaces - as my purpose is to combine dance art + dance therapy & healing + inner growth. So even tho most people I interact with are not super conscious, but they are conscious enough! And I get to do such fulfilling work with them, touching people deeply, transforming them, inspiring them. And this is just the start. I am building something that will compound in the decades to come. Such a fulfilling life atm, wow. Even tho it is getting pitch black, cold and wet here. My godness I get emotional thinking of the beauty that I will create for humanity. - - - - - The loneliness from me was due to breaking up a year ago and building friendships with completely wrong people (club people). I let that shit go in the summer and started building a much more aligned social circle, as was recommended here by others. This thread was started a while back and I am in a much more aligned place right now. Thank you everyone.

You are Yimpa 😉

I dm’d you.

You are seriously asking?

It’s like asking a stage orange money hungry materialist to seek God.

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@Lyubov It goes the other way around too. If you are too lax, you will lose many girls. Being persistent in a non-needy way is a skillset and a result of a great inner game. There is a middle way to this.

As a man, I test the girls all the time. I call it piss testing. Where I see how immature they are. I’m not even kidding.

Shit test doesn’t give the test justice. It’s frame testing or rather, confidence testing.

I take everything she says as a compliment. At the very least she is trying to please me, otherwise why bother with such nonsense.

I don’t recall you giving me any shit.

Thank you for asking Joy. Some people in my personal life learned about me being in this forum, so I’m just protecting my privacy. I will put up a new updated picture later. I love the work we do here but for a common folk (99% of people in my life), this can and probably is very threatening to the ego.

Word.