Miguel1

I am quite dominant and masculine in my nature but I love me sometime to just sit back and enjoy letting others (the woman) take charge.

At the end of the day, once you’ve done enough pickup you will realize you don’t want to invest your life and energy into most women. There are rare gems, but they are rare. Similarly, most men are complete chumps, and an unconscious survival zombie. It comes down to emotional and psychological maturity. Spiritual growth is a big one too.

Contradiction. By the time you have approached 1k women (more like 10k), you finally have real understanding for them.

The question is what is her reason for going to such unconscious, sex driven place?

All of those you can have in a home party with her friends. Except if her friends are single and want to meet guys. It can quickly turn into her just being there for her friends to meet guys, rather than having fun herself tho.

Here’s a question for ya’ll: If your girl is having a girls’ night out, is it ever just innocently having fun? In a place where unconsciousness, alcohol, validation and sex are the main factors? Why not have a girls’ night at home with only you and your friends, without being harrassed and getting hit on by anyone?

Another word for this is called insecurity.

How did you manage to literally read through and ignore what I said, then come up with a counter argument that goes against nothing I said.

That is definitely an element to it. But just simply being good looking, you don’t even need to have positive energy and people will bump your state by validating you and giving you attention indirectly and directly.

Yes, in the beginning it’s good to be an approaching machine to get into momentum, to face approach anxiety, and to get a general feel to what approaching is like and what girls respond to. However, quality becomes way more important than quantity afterwards. That’s where the real work and growth happens.

It’s wild to imagine lots of people being outright ignored. When I’m not lazy and look like homeless, people look at me a second too long, give me random bambi eye looks, randomly compliment me. I’ve taken all these for granted at this point. I wonder how much this helped my self-esteem growing up and more importantly, how many traumas and insecurities I avoided.

Story of my life, now also top that with consciousness and maturity. My ex gf of 5 years was a solid 8.5-9, and was relatively conscious and deep into spirituality.

@enchanted Hahahahaha you talk like it’s so easy to find a conscious partner

@bazera Relatively conscious people who are actively in your life

For me, the best is probably just heavily prioritizing and focusing on my life purpose.