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Something about him turns me off badly. I think it is his overly commercialized simplistic approach to everything. He comes across too much of a marketer.

I don’t understand how you missed my second paragraph of the comment.

Stone cold is basically just someone who is highly confident, whether via serious inner work or through narcissism. Someone who has a very strong frame and doesn’t waver from the shits girls throw at him. Someone who isn’t affected by rejections. Someone who is on their mission and doesn’t put girls on a pedestal. As for emotionality, girls loved a guy who is ALIVE and PASSIONATE. Not for her but towards his life and mission.

That wisdom doesn’t come from nowhere

I have been studying Naftali Mose’s work on YT. So far I cant come to a proper conclusion yet but seems to be good source for facing your shadows, inner demons, and building healthy relationships.

31. So many 30 and 31 year olds here. I feel like Leo’s peak popularity reached us at the right time.

To love something / someone is to take them as a part of you. The bigger your capacity to love, the more you take things and others as a part of you. Infinite Love is basically just everything as one, God.

Correct.

That is besides the point, yet at the same time it was my point all along. But I was answering your question about being a mirror to someone. The more conscious you become, the more pure you become of your lies and inner demons, and the more of a clear mirror you become to others — as you won’t play along with their bullshit.

Depending on your consciousness level and how much lies, biases and deceptions you see, your absolute vulnerability will expose those in others you are intimate with.

@Valach What do you think deep emotional connection and intimacy means?

@Valach When you truly become a mirror for people’s inner demons, lies and deceptions, they run very fast.

It’s not so black and white. Yes, in theory it is more fulfilling. But see, when nobody resonates with you deeply and you are left alone for years, it might become a serious problem really fast, as we are social animals. This works if you are a normie but if you are serious into the work we do here, you alienate 99%+ of people you meet randomly, if you were fully authentic and honest about that.

My recent 10 pages opening up thread was basically about this. If I choose to be fully aligned with myself, my social results drop dramatically. But at least I leave whatever small chance open of finding that few people that I align with deeply and build long-lasting fulfilling relationships with. At the same time, going the other extreme is not good either as it would be too fake and gimmicky, losing all authenticity and genuine raw charisma, letting go and confidence. The middle path is best for max results.