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Bro is about to come out with a Tinder Course

Throwing out a break up card like that is the beginning of an end. It destroys trust and you wont be able to feel fully safe ever anymore. He should have discussed the issues with you properly first. Break up card is never meant to be used. If it is used, it is basically over.

That feels premature. Nothing in between, flirting, vibing, qualifying, connecting? I am not talking about an hour conversation but 5-15 mins?

I used to do nightgame a lot in mu youth but nowadays I enjoy daygame much more. What are some of your favourite ways to open?

Top tier as in looks. Like the 9s and 10s.

@aurum I forgot to mention something. Demi sexuality and especially, Sapio sexuality. If a girl is intelligent, it turns me the hell on.

You will learn that on this forum, never ever hit submit before you have copied your writing

Correct. What society shows us about relationship is absolutely terrible. Most of us model after and unconsciously pick up patterns from our parents’ relationship as well, and I cant say too many relationship are doing good.

@Oppositionless You are correct that a ton of relationships are built in workplace. But that is still different to a meditation or healing center where people are being vulnerable. I am not gonna go to one of these places just to find a partner. And I would not be going to these places for their exclusive purposes, as those I can do at home. Surely there are attractive people who are mature but they are virtually non-existant. That’s how rare they are. Finally, keep in mind its relative. What you consider attractive might not be for me, as I am used to top tier girls from my years in game. Maturity is also relative.

@aurum Again, I am not looking for a philosopher-partner. But just a partner to have some meaningful conversations with here and there. I would not date a stage blue girl, no matter how much polarity there is and how feminine she is — simply because there isn’t much interesting to discuss with. We don’t see eye to eye when it comes to values either. I think it is key that at least some of the core values align. You mentioned Spiral Dynamics Green when you talked about your potential partner. That is values.

Wow, what a read! Even tho I have not directly experienced these states, it is still a powerful and beautiful expression for me, as it gets me looking forward to it and to imagine how beautiful it will be. Cheers!

@aurum Like I said, she doesn’t have to be a Tier 2 sage. My mind is very active and I need to engage it relatively often. Spending time being present with your intimate partner? Sure, of course. But it also gets boring after a while. And a life partner is one that you spend a decent amount of time with. I am not wired to sit still and be present all the time. I need to be proactively working on a bigger vision. And to daydream and think big. People are wired differently, and that’s okay. Finally, I don’t think you answered the part of our question where we asked: what values are you looking for in a partner?

This is a very key topic in our work. I am surprised Leo hasn’t made a video about it yet.

Back in the days I absolutely loved Ronaldinho and Kaká. But for the past 15 years it has been Messi. Man this brings back so much nostalgia thinking back 15-20 years. What about yours?

@Oppositionless Meditation and healing centers are not the places to intentionally go and do dating in. We gotta respect the environment.