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I have been studying Naftali Moses’ work the past few months here and there so I haven’t come into full conclusion about his work. But it seems very good. One of the reasons I share his work here is also to see if there’s blindspots I have missed. I will most likely share his work more here coming up. The guy was like 24-25 years old in this podcast and currently like 26-27, and the maturity, vulnerability and honesty he expresses is at least of someone 10 years older than him. He is by no means perfect though, so don’t get the wrong impression. Just very impressive for his age. He had exceptional parents (not sure how conscuous), and pulled him out of Jewish school at the age of 8, because they knew it was wrong and solely conformity and group-think. He was home schooled and allowed to study whatever his heart wanted to, and it lead to psychology from a very early age. Funnily enough, he does also have a background in PUA when he was younger. But he quickly saw through it and moved on to higher level dating. Currently, he works as a coach to help his clients face their inner demons, shadows and weakneses, so they can built something based on strenght, honesty and realness. https://youtube.com/@naftalimoses

This right here is how a mature, sustainable relationship that is healthy and based on honesty is built. How many of you are capapble of such level dating of dating? How many of you can actually be this honest and vulnerable? How many of you are actually aware of the level of manipulation and projection you do when dating? I can tell from my experience of dating like this for the past 6 months: painful as fuck. Not a single girl is willing to be Nearly this open, honest and vulnerable. And I go on many dates. All the PUA dating advices we talk here come nowhere close to what real dating is. PUA is children’s game, albeit a practical one as men are so lonely it is better to get short term intimacy (that often leads to hurting the girl), than nothing. But this right here is the real adult, mature dating. If Leo were to make a guide on dating based on truth, it would probably resemble this a lot. And so, I would like to hear all the adults of the community commenting on this. @Emerald @Leo Gura @Natasha Tori Maru and others. I wonder how far away we are from this kind of dating? Probably 50 years at least. My dating ”results” is basically 0 because I try to practice this level of honesty and vulnerability as much as possible. Sometimes I get frustrated, put on my dark game, and pull a girl almost instantly. It is shockening and heartbreaking to know how unconscious humanity is. I am writing this in a hurry, will check errors and typos later.

Of course comfort and safety is important, just not as important as attraction and strenght. And comfort and safety most of the time destroys attraction.

1-3 close ones including my significant other, then a few not too close. I have like 50 friends I go only to play football with but I don’t count them as friends.

Why are you making fun of my past

False. Confidence and entitlement itself will get your foot in the door, if you know what you are doing.

Confidence, entitlement, ability to create tension and hold it, emotional conversational skills, ability to make her chase you are more important. But you are right, it is way easier to behave cocky, entitled and better than her, when you are good looking.

In reality, looks helps but it is nowhere near the most important quality in attraction for a man. I have the luxury of playing the only looks game (real life approaching) vs pure strong game, and the results are day and night.

What game gave me the most is strenght. And girls fucking love strenght. What I lost with it is empathy. It is very hard to attract most girls if you are too empathetic. I wish we lived in a world where empathy, kindness and safety would attract but from my experience they are bad for initial attraction, as you get friendzoned. They are good for relationship, and for more mature women.

Therapy for lots of people is just status symbol at this point

Going to therapy

Now I understand why I get rejected by the models, for I am more beautiful than them

The truth also is that getting good at game is brutal, we should remember to remain sympathetic to OJ. And the reward is not often a great GF.

Game 100% works. You need to learn it properly.

When it comes to the algo, oftentimes it’s the videos you expect to perform the least, that gets pushed. Especially when it comes to more raw talking head videos.