Miguel1

I spent my entire life from teenagehood first with girls, then with women, and also studied them and female psychology deeply. Majority of the people I have hung out with the past 10 years were women (mostly sexual friends lol). Most of my close friends were pretty much my exes. You are correct that their mind works very differently. I had not even thought that most men could be blind to it. And even I probably don’t understand it deeply enough! I always thought that I am just wired to be quite feminine and masculine but perhaps spending so much time with girls taught me a lot about my own femininity.

You don’t hear the degrading tone in the way you speak? In the same way I could say men are like old gramps but just extremely horny, creepy, selfish, lack empathy and are threatening.

Without psychedelics, we wouldn’t have actualized.org as we know it. Not even close.

Pick up is very orange, and mostly unhealthy orange. It is about getting results no matter what. Naturally there is no proper understanding of women and no long-term thinking. Getting women (normies) to bed is very different than keeping a woman happy in a relationship with you.

It depends on the woman you want to attract. If she is immature and unhealed / unintegrated, and has unhealthy attachment style, then playing games with her will work wonders. If she is mature and conscious, then be fully honest and open. Provide masculine safety and containment. If you two have proper compatibility, you will be inseparateable.

Damn, the adults are talking. Let me sit back, listen and learn.

@Butters You contradict yourself. Of course there are exceptions, especially when it comes to drunk horny girls at the end of the night.

I can’t agree with this. Love based on truth and honesty is unpopular precisely because it is unpredictable and uncertain. Difficult conversations will be had, struggles will be faced, and incompatibility won’t be ignored. Anything can happen, as people won’t stay together for egoistical reasons. And ego is the only truly predictable thing in human life, especially compared the love.

You are correct. But honestly, it’s hard to call this love. It’s more about projection, idealizing, and escapism. Rarely does two individual actually develop true intimacy and fall in love with each other, as a real core person. It’s all about fake masks, unintegrated beings, traumas, repressed emotions, and selfish desires type of love. This is more narcissim, rather than love.

If men were fully direct, they would walk up to a random girl and ask straight for sex. Instead they have to play games for hours to get some poon. Game was developed precisely because that direct and honest communication doesn’t work. Girls (a lot of them) love to chase, they want to feel like sex is a win for them, understandably. Granted, many girls also are seriously looking for relationships and doesn’t want to entertain hook ups. On top of that, there’s a million social games and rules you gotta play because of social programming, ego, traumas, and cultural unconsciousness — otherwise you are seen as a weirdo or crazy. We all know this, when we spend time with our families. Socializing is monkey games, and dishonest. We are hundreds of years away from honest socializing.

@Jirh It’s interesting when some of you think that I have a ”holier than thou” attitude. Becareful it is not a defence mechanism from you, a projection perhaps. I used to have no problems seducing girls in relationships to cheat on their partners with me, and even got excited from it. I had many rationalizations for it, Nowadays, if I find out that a girl is even willing to entertain such an idea, I get turned off. Just because I have genuinely matured, does not mean that I have a bigger ego. It is ridiculous that this is even such a big problem with some of you guys.

I am actually looking very much forward to death, but the time is not yet here. That being said, if I had to face death tomorrow, I would be excited to face it head on. This makes me very courageous in life.

@Jirh I don’t see a reason for us to continue our conversation. There are much higher things to life than just following your taste buds unconsciously.

A lot of people are against it just because it is trendy to do so

Being against beauty surgeries and botox. And on the same token, beauty surgeries and botox.