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To love something / someone is to take them as a part of you. The bigger your capacity to love, the more you take things and others as a part of you. Infinite Love is basically just everything as one, God.

Correct.

That is besides the point, yet at the same time it was my point all along. But I was answering your question about being a mirror to someone. The more conscious you become, the more pure you become of your lies and inner demons, and the more of a clear mirror you become to others — as you won’t play along with their bullshit.

Depending on your consciousness level and how much lies, biases and deceptions you see, your absolute vulnerability will expose those in others you are intimate with.

@Valach What do you think deep emotional connection and intimacy means?

@Valach When you truly become a mirror for people’s inner demons, lies and deceptions, they run very fast.

It’s not so black and white. Yes, in theory it is more fulfilling. But see, when nobody resonates with you deeply and you are left alone for years, it might become a serious problem really fast, as we are social animals. This works if you are a normie but if you are serious into the work we do here, you alienate 99%+ of people you meet randomly, if you were fully authentic and honest about that.

My recent 10 pages opening up thread was basically about this. If I choose to be fully aligned with myself, my social results drop dramatically. But at least I leave whatever small chance open of finding that few people that I align with deeply and build long-lasting fulfilling relationships with. At the same time, going the other extreme is not good either as it would be too fake and gimmicky, losing all authenticity and genuine raw charisma, letting go and confidence. The middle path is best for max results.

I’m a natural with people so I can unguard people fairly easily, and can sense if anger is arising way before it arises.

It’s funny because game is supposed to be you seducing and getting everyone to like you but I was just giving everyone shit so they tried to get me to like them instead

I was a fucking savage. Powered by evil spirituality. A real zen devil.

This is why social flow is so important, and to allow yourself to properly warm up. It’s also good to have some great lines to use in tough situations, and in situations where you are not in a flow. So, nowadays I think this is an asshole move but I used to enjoy stealing girls from guys just for the challenge of it. Literally I would take the girl from him, have her chase after me, then come up with an excuse to drop her. And one of my favourite lines to open these 1 guy 1 girl sets was: ”you guys look like you are so in love” If there girl answers no or eww or any negative answers, you know you got him. Even worse is if the guy answers yes and the girl answers no. After that I don’t even have to do anything than to stay firm and grounded, and to establish my presence in order to put pressure on the situation, and it’s over. This is fucking toxic I know. One of my favourite challenges was to look for a big group of guys with 1 girl and try to steal her from them, but this is not really toxic per se, more like stupid as it can get dangerous.

This guy. And you says you are not stuck in orange You remind me of my younger self. Except, include also how they will benefit spiritually with you as well. Then you have the perfect self-deceived delusional drowned in his own success.

This whole conversation is a one big cross-talking at each other.

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