Miguel1

You gotta man up, take the responsibility and call it quits brother

In this case, it’s not that she wasn’t enjoying herself, she out of nowhere decided to flake on your good time together.

What are you talking about, and what does it have to do with what I said?

Omg guys. She wants to have a moment with her love, sharing an ice cream. What in the world is so hard to understand their disappointment? It’s like I hype you to go watch your favourite sports team’s match, then when we arrive, I’m like: ”Nahh, actuallt I don’t want to watch, but I’ll be here close to you, focused on my phone”.

Oh brother, there is no fucking way I can ever be satisfied with some random hook up sex with a club girl, when I have experienced the deepest, most sacred love-making. Around the age 25. This was when I was done with my ”peak” pickup year, having sex with so many girls I lost count halfway into the year. At this age, I first experienced a smaller form of true safe intimacy and love-making. After that, there was no going back to pure pick up artristy just to maximize the quantity of sex. If I didn’t get lucky and bump into some really beautiful souls, I might still be chasing sex mindlessly. It’s hard to explain true intimacy (body, mind, soul) to someone, when they haven’t experienced it. I see that issue on this forum often. Your text was well said.

You lost me brother. How does looking her deep in the eye and talking about building castles have anything to do with intellectual intimacy? It’s the opposite. It would be fatansy intimacy, which is what I am ”forced” to do with most girls.

Sorry but this is one of the most autistic questions I’ve seen in a long time

No. Cold approaching is a lot of fun, and should be done from that mental space. Cold calling is just repetitive and boring. B2B cold calling is somewhat more enjoyable.

I don’t think you are actually debating deep philosophical and existential topics with girls brother.

Correct!

I agree there are a lot of interesting views and perspectives from Orion. But something feels off about him at the same time.

@UnbornTao I am usually quite a patient and compassionate guy but you are actually starting to piss me off now. Since you never bring any proper information and in a constructive and friendly manner on the table, and on the other hand, just post these empty passive-aggressive bullshit, I am losing my patient with you. I already asked you once to stop contributing here. This will be my second time. If there is a third time, we will involve other moderators and possibly Leo in this. Nicely said: if you have nothing to add, leave me the fuck alone. Thank you.

Just practice 1 week of being fully honest and say what you actually mean with the people in your social circle. Warning: don't do this if you don't want to lose your circle.

Well said. I talked to her literally like we were in fantasy land. I took her to watch the ocean, we drank wine, and I told her that I am going to build us a castle, she makes it a home for us, and I will bring us food and protect us from outside danger. Then we played miniclip / browser games online. This was the most simple girl I have ever dated. But there is no way I could build a serious relationship and life with her, as her ability to think was almost 0.

This is why I am sick of pick up based dating and sex. It's performance based. I push buttons to get reactions. There is no real intimacy, connection, passion, safety with the other person. There is no truth in it! There is no trust and surrender. There is no real caring.