Miguel1

This is why I have constantly, throughout this whole thread emphasizes that it’s not enough to be spiritual. They cannot be some hardcore hippies or spiritua by-passers.

Fire on Fire - Sam Smith. Two straight guys dancing to a song about gay love. Warning: might trigger you if you still have shame around your own sexuality, vulnerability and sesuality. Fully improvised (4min): Part 1: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DeEbu72MidP/?stkn=MWY4cG9zcmx3Mzl1OA== Part: 2: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DeEa3SmsdvV/?stkn=MTN6NjNxbGgzMGhnZw==

Yep. The mental damage is huge as well. Rarely you have a young good looking girl who is emotionally and mentally mature and sane. And is not in a relationship already. Top it with the fact that intellectual intimacy is a real craving, probably the biggest craving for us.. and the equation doesn’t seem very much in our favour.

@Monster Energy When you understand something deeply, you naturally have love and compassion for that thing. There is no hatred when you deeply understand why someone behaves the way they do.

You want a HUGE Buddha statue on top of that mini Island in front of my view? I’ll become rich only so I can buy that Island and put a huge golden Buddha there and turn the whole Island into a spiritual fuckfest. Now I know how I will find my gf!

Thank you for the sympathy.

Thank you for the question. Giving numbers is not a very mature thing to do but for practical purpose, a 7.5/10 is probably the lowest. 8/10 I will be happy. She definitely doesn’t have to be 10/10. It is diminishing returns at that point. Lots of issues also comes with such beauty.

I am actually surprised no more people is opening up about this same challenge in their own life. Conformity!

You are contradicting yourself here brother. If you were also surrounded with a bunch of normies who has no ”depth”, you would seem very picky. I’ve heard from some of my pickup friends who have lived in Bali, that the girls there are typically not in a gf mindset. It’s more like Vegas. People are there for hook ups, fun and short romances. Sounds exhausting for me at this point.

For once, I am with you

I’ll start an OnlyFans but only for hot spiritual witches

@Cubbage You said it brother.

Says a man who refuses to date his fans I’ve been in sales and doing different type of self-help coaching. Mostly social skills and inner work, for men. The whole summer I took a break from work tho as I want to transition into something more aligned with my heart. But yes, I have contemplated this. If I am to find a girl that is really aligned with me, she very possibly comes from my work, as she will naturally deeply align with what I do and who I am: Right now, I am building a dance art + dance therapy + inner growth type of business to the Finnish market here. Later will scale to international level. I think this is a beautiful vision that is way more aligned with me. Part of me does want to focus on sales fully until I am finacially free though, and then build something more aligned with the heart. - - - So the answer is as I intuited with the idea of creating this thread: Let go of intentional dating and just put all your energy and time into your work and life purpose

What fucking twisted kink is this

The more unconscious a person is, the less standards they have for their partner, and the more its just about vibes and feelings..