Miguel1

Okay, I can see how that’s the case for some people in this thread. For me, I think it’s just cute. If a guy has been able to bag a mega superstar like Selena Gomez, surely he got swag and knows what he’s doing. At least to a degree. For a healthy relationship, it is key to always keep in mind of little things to make the other person feel loved. That’s love.

Which video?

Interesting. As long as you are conscious of the behaviour.

Thank you. Especially means a lot if you think l am more advanced spiritually than you at this age. I hope you mean it, and you’re not just being nice. I like that relaxed approach to dating you had and have. I am just very programmed to be proactive about it due to years of pickup. Hence I might need some stronger boundaries / boosts to become more relaxed about it. Plus of course as you said, my extrovertness craves social intimacy. Also, as a man, it might be harder to take the more relaxed / passive mindset it I ever want anything to happen, as it's really my job to initiate, approach and make the first moves. Although, you have no problems being the initiator either, which I love about you, on top of many other things of course 🤍

I’ll answer everyone later in the day

Yes. That’s kinda what I mean by letting go of dating.

Hmm, I didn’t get the same vibe just from that one meme / picture, This is the second time recently that I’ve called you out on framing / exaggerating something to make it seem worse. Perhaps something for you to be mindful of.

@Lyubov 31. I’m looking to date girls a few years younger 8 months of actively dating different people got me burned out with all the fakery that is socializing with normies, and especially dating.

I think I can safely say I’ve tried pretty much everything I can to find a conscious and compatible partner. It is just so rare in my age group. At this point I really am not interested in any normal relationship where I have to play its games and follow its rules. If I can accept this fully and let go, it will free me of so much mental energy and time. Who here is at the same place? It is simply so hard to at this point compromise my commitment to truth, honesty and authenticty - and to play the dating game with normies, as it requires so much sneakiness and games.

@Joseph Maynor Kindness.

Why frame it as serving? It sounds awful. Just a simple thought showing you care.

Moral of the story: don’t be insecure and fake. Whether you are a man or woman.

Are you into musicals? Some years ago I went to see Cats and it was magical.

Some of the most toxic self-help content will definitely drag you down.

Currently going through this shift