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Hi guys, just found out of this forum, and I am really liking it. I am 21 have been lonely since high school ( 4 years ). I live with my family, but I am not too close with them. My brothers never hung out with me nor taught me anything. My father is the same. The only person i talk to is my mom but when we do talk its always about a religious talk or something that i done wrong. I suffered benefited from an ego death that i experienced a year ago, and ever since then, I have been my own person, i stopped imitating others, i stopped calling people who don't want to hang out with me, i started to focus on my interests and so on. Come now, I still feel the loneliness rip my heart, even though i benefited from it a lot. Any advice on handling loneliness ?

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@Abdelghafar Thanks man, I really appreciate it.

So far the best answer,

Everyone feels lonely sometime. And of course you can give advice, your advice matters even more because you have experienced loneliness.

@Focus Shift Thanks loved the advice. Exercise is something i need to start. i figured if i start going outdoors more, i can meet more people and possibly make friends

I got this advice from my brother: "F*ck everyone, do what you want"

Don't worry about it man. I'm 21, have been changing majors for a couple of years, all my cousins my age are starting their masters right now. But that doesn't bother me because a. Life is not a race ! b. I am actually doing something I love c.In the end we all end up buried away, forgotten. That was an ominous ending. But take it easy man.