be careful with cashew, not more than 20 cashew for a week, this is MY advice, I am eating it for 4 years in a row almost everyday, and my kidneys are going mad sometimes. This is pure protein, do not mix it with eggs and meat!
Main question - do you really need her? If yes - for what? Just for the experience?
I think every man wants to see in his first girl a mother of his sons, if not - whats the sense of these relationships? just to waste a time?
Usually, `top women` like to `enjoy their life` till 50~ years, so you and your kids will wait for this long?