Here's a video from PBS Space Time that cleared up a lot of questions I had about the double-slit experiment and consciousness.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CT7SiRiqK-Q&t=795s&ab_channel=PBSSpaceTime
I would say realize that you ACTUALLY NEED failure to be your best self. Just keep repeating that to yourself until your subconscious mind believes it.