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@Carl-Richard

@jimwell how did u get divorced.isint divorce a sin in japan

If i live by the basic fundemental principle of george leonard ie loving the plateau(love where i am and love the current work that need to be done) then i will reach yellow,turquoise and beyond with ease. I do not need to obsess about reaching yellow.it will happen to me naturally

Use a software called obsidian.its future proof Microsoft is trying to kill onenote.

@Nahm which stage of meditation are u in

Read the way of men by jack donovan.its the best book on masculinity.do what that book says.devote 5 min everyday for working on that book Also if u r a nice guy then read no more mr nice guy by robert groover.it will change u from a nice guy to a balanced guy

Fake it till u make it is a wrong approach popularised by snake oil selfhelp gurus.u should adopt mastery mindset instead of fake it ill u make it . What u should focus on is to implement the ideas on the book.get lost in the process.take care of the process.devote 5 or 10 or any minutes per day to develop masculinity.in the long run u will develop masculinity indirectly without u being aware of it

Read way of men by jack donovan.best book on masculinity Also if u develop a lot of masculine energy ,when u meet people they will feel this energy and it will make up for ur baby face

My lp is a job which will make me work 15 hours.similar to leos gaming job.i cant think of any other meaningful purposes.there is no balance because it is a goverment job.i do not decide things.

In order to succed in life purpose i have to work 12+ hours. That means i will not have time to do a 3 hour spiritual practice and a 3 hour of learning about selfhelp and relegion.will it create problems. I contemplated on george leonard and i have this realisation that i can make any job meaningful. What are ur thoughts my fellow forum members

R u a wage slave .remeber it take 20000+ hours to be worldclass.my strategy would be Look for a non toxic non cancerous strict 9-5 job for financial freedom.then work everyday for 3 hours outside your job.in 15-20 years u will deveop worldclass skills and as a result the chance of success in ur business will increase

@Peter Miklis yeah what i mean is to choose to work on a noncancerous,nontoxic 9-5 job instead of having a life purpose which demand u to work 14+ hours just to survive. Yeah but leo got lucky on many things .ofcourse he has worked enormously.but majority of simple folks like u and me wont be able to generate money from doing selfhelp.i now find no meaning in doing anything outside selfhelp.

@Thought Art thank.i learning something from this

@Bando isint self love= narcisssm

@catcat69123 thanks Quigong is said to be very good

@Wilhelm44 i am now triying to dive deep into shadow work. What happens nowadays is that ,i work peacefully then out of the blue a trauma suddenly hit myself and i have to calm myself for 5 minutes and return to work.then after some peaceful work another trauma hit myself Yoga and meditation is not enough

@Preety_India the thing is the purpose u feel meaningful today become meaningless and garbage after 3-4 years as u grow.personaly this happened to me.the life purpose i choose 3 years ago now feel meaningless to me.if i follow that life purpose then i will be in a lot of suffering

@Peter Miklis all spiritual masters sacrifice wordly life for spirituality.there is no way life purpose is more meaningful than learning selfhelp and spirituality.

I mean charity is a stage greene thing.lifepurpose is done to make money.how will u make money from charity without getting corrupt.its not possible

Charity is a stage green fallacy.u will evove beyond charity at some point.then u will lose intrest in this.

If u dive deep into spirituality it will destroy your lifepurpose.because every lp need u to work 12+ hours hence u do not have time for doing spirituality,doing self help etc which is not worth it.

U cant skip learning curve.einstein took 10 years to reach master level.even if u r god realised learning curve is not gonna change.

Life purpose does not work in india.in indianif u either be a software professional or a governement employee or u will die in poverty.if u contemplate on george leonard for many years,what u realise is that u can love any work,u can have satisfaction with any work,every work is as good and satisfaction as ur dream job ,every work has a learning curve and once u aquire skills u will be in a flow state Hence do not pursue life purpose.pursue a non cancerous,decent job.

Thanks everyone