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Hi guys, How would you react if you found out your girlfriend/wife has worked as a prostitute for a period in her life before you met her and she have had sex with hundreds/thousands of men? I personally don't know how I would react, so I'm curious.

This is a funny thread

Oooo I remember when I was younger partying was a lot of fun. Drinking a couple of drinks, getting wasted is no fun though. It's the excitement if meeting new people who are also open to meeting new people. And dancing. And looking at pretty girls. And joking around with friends. And you can forget about the mundane daily grind. I especially liked the nightclubs with all the lights and dance music. Shame there can sometimes be the couple of drunk assholes that have to ruin it. It's probably am expression of their frustration with life with general. When sober they have learned to keep this inside, with alcohol it comes out.

Yeah, this could also be lower stages. But it is parodying the Rocky movies which are Orange for sure

As far as I know Infinity doesn't exist, it's just another concept. Just as limitations are conceptial. When spiritual people say infinity I think it's more accurate to say that they mean an absence of limitations. That's what nothingness(another concept) is, seeing through the falseness of limitations. Because when someone says infinity. People imagine that everything they could possibly imagine is possible, but this is another limitation. Or that it's a line of numbers that goes on forever, that's another limitation. Any imagination or concept is limited. Thus infinity is more accurately an absence of, rather than a presence of or a manifestation of. When people get a glimpse of infinity they don't actually get a glimpse of infinity, they get a glimpse of their true selves without limit. Therefore there isn't anything to understand about infinity, because "infinity" is already everywhere - or nowhere. You are just focussing on your limitations. Maybe I'm playing a semantics game but alas. That's what all communication is anyway.

Another tip is to not be a micro-manager. Everyone hates a micro-manager. I know there is a big temptation to do everything yourself when you have all the responsibility. But you are going to burn yourself out on the long run and the people will start to hate you. You need to give the people the trust and the freedom to do their job. Let the people fail, let them make mistakes. As long as they are not deliberately sabotaging the work flow of course. A big part of being a good manager is to be a facilitator, create a good environment for the people to do a good job. It means having a solid structure but also have a pleasant environment where people feel valued and make them feel that their work is meaningful. When you have this environment in place it is also way easier to be stern sometimes to make sure things get done on time and properly.

I had similar visuals when I tried DMT. I did not see anything profound beyond it though. The only thing I remember was the nasty taste from smoking it

"It Is No Measure of Health to be Well-Adjusted to a Profoundly Sick Society" Basically if you want to live a good life you have to find your own way, can't follow the herd. Gotta stay true to yourself, and not settle just to fit in. Gotta play the long game in life, and the long game is the game you belief in yourself. Regardless what other people think.

@Advocate Rhonda Patrick is the biggest hack job herself. if you worry about nutritional deficiencies, get your blood checked.

I think it's sad. I think the vast majority of conspiracy theoretisists are people that are very unhappy with their lives and are desperately looking externally at the world why they are unhappy. And of course the ego mind is a brilliant infinite well of blame. It's genius in coming up with ways to point the finger at the external world why it is unhappy. It gives a slight hint of relief, temporarily that is. If only they first directed that energy inward and positively outward. Even if there is some truth to the conspiracy, all the negative energy of the accusers is much more toxic and not helping the problem at all.

The mainstream media in Germany sound like smart people. 99% of supplements are a scam. That whole industry is full with charlatans trying to make a buck from ripping people off.

Going into a relationship from a place of lack is recipe for failure. That’s why the vast majority of relationships and marriages suck. They go from relationship to relationship hoping for the best. It can be an addiction.

@Shin truer words have not been spoken

Meh, sure you are light, but you are also darkness. You are all the mundane shit, all the evil and the bad. Every microfiber in this universe is the way it is because if you, no one and nothing else. it’s profound in its complex simplicity

Sure there is free will. But that's not the right question. The question should be, who is it that has the free will?

Seems more like you have some kind of social anxiety/agoraphobia?

@Consilience In my own experience women do indeed not approach. But they can give you indicators they want to be approached by you. That's how the game is played

I have been in management positions significantly bigger than that. My advice is to always lead by example. Make sure you act with integrity, never take your subordinates for granted. And make sure you are competent in what you are doing, be someone the people can look upto. Don't be a dick, set boundaries and tell them what you expect from them. If they don't bring what is expected of them, talk to them seriously and ask them why, don't scoff at them. Listen to what the people have to say. Even if their problems and complaints seem petty, take them seriously. I have experienced that the way a manager experiences the workflow can be way different from a "subordinate" due to the differences in responsibility.

I’m an ENFP, and I think Leo is one as well. (Don’t type yourself and others purely on the stereotypical descriptions of the type floating around, but learn to recognize the cognitive functions in play)

Self help books are mental masturbation. Only read if you really can’t help yourself.

First it was copper that was poisoning us all, then it was fluoride, now it’s mercury. Next conspiracy please

Fun is the absence of boredom

No such thing as luck. You get out what you put in. And the putting in part is the most fun(not sexually speaking you perverts). The problem is that most people focus on what they lack. Not on what they have and can expand upon. Everyone has to learn this lesson eventually that this is a problematic mindset.

Been there, done that. Need to show some balls and do some new stuff in the real world. Not only in your head, lol.