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Even though I don't know what Leo means by that, I do know that I am weird which makes me an alien around people. ? Also, you too. The world is our lab and people are the rats.? It has certainly made me more philosophically minded. I don't know why the word rat is popular in this forum.? I guess, because I was absent for 2-3 months.

@Leo Gura Spirituality conversations in the forum can be divided into two categories: psychedelic and non-psychedelic. Let everyone argue about who is telling the truth. But you have the final say. People interested in non-psychedelic spirituality should leave it to their moderators, and those interested in psychedelic spirituality should do the same. But, because you know more about awakening, you can tell which one is more deluded and by how much. Of course, you will agree more with those who use psychedelics, but they can also be wrong. Or, in order to have spiritual conversations, people must do psychedelics at least once. Because without psychedelics, I don't think you would have come this far, nor would others if psychedelics didn't work like you say. Your work heavily depends on them.

@Butters ? same. For me, It gets insane, but I love it.

@Leo Gura It might be spiritual

@StarStruck I very well know what tough love is. I agree with you, but before giving others tough love make sure you are fair. Giving tough love can also come from weakness. But you do you.

@StarStruck When you give someone a tough love and it makes them traumatic and miserable, put yourself in their shoes. Of course in different circumstances you can't always be nice. I see you're still justifying being not nice because you see that people are using it for lying and because they are insecure.

@Leo Gura doesn't everything include nothing?

I agree with you. What you are saying is the delusional part of being nice. I sense people here get the wrong idea of being nice.

@001 I know there are other platforms. But you gotta start from somewhere. It's not like that I have tried every course on Linkedin. If you don't want to pay, but want to try it, there is a way to use it for free. But you gotta search for it.

Being nice doesn't always mean that you don't have a strong sense of character or you are not authentic. Before glorifying not niceness, think about how it has and will have a positive effect on you. You will find so many things. E.g., If parents were always assholes towards their children, they would grow up being traumatic and dysfunctional, whether they were being truthful or not. Being nice, like everything else, has its unhealthy and delusional side.

Courses on LinkedIn Learning are regularly updated.

For me the most interesting type of math is intuitive math. You are, sort of, more in touch with it. Also, I loved questioning about the creation of formulas and I always wanted to know what was the initial insight that made mathematicians come up with an idea or create a specific formula.

@D2sage Just do searches about Python and educational platforms. Be specific and creative with your searches. This forum is not the place to ask such questions, I think. I have been scouring the internet for a long time and would say that no one here really knows the value of the internet. But one piece of advice that I would give is to get a library card.

@somegirl work on your imagination. Act as if what you want is actually happening at that moment.

@MarkKol maybe the people you think of were forced to learn math.

Arrogance is also a turn off. You will understand the value of niceness when you are surrounded with arrogant people independent of their level of intelligence. Arrogance and niceness are ways to process the world. You just have to find a way to embody them in your own way. It all depends whether you are doing it authentically or not.

How real is this? Gain practical knowledge from everything you learn. E.g. Internship. Either you get the lab. job by passing exams that are exhausting and robotic or find jobs that are related to what you have been studying.

@BassamMo You will be mentally more safe not dating and commiting to anyone in blue country, although you will be seen as a weird guy. ? Also, it's way more fun. Pick up a hobby, learn something interesting, explore you gender, ... . And because it's a blue country, you should not expect that you wll be successful meeting an open-minded girl. Blues will be blue. It's their nature to be dogmatic. So, they seeing you like that doesn't mean they are right, generally. An easy way to succeed meeting higher than blue girls is to develop / work on yourself in other areas and you will start meeting the girls you want. But because there are few developed people, dating those girls won't be some casual thing to do.

@integral That all works if your honest to yourself. The interesting thing is that only you can really know.

So do cisgender people. Use your logic equally.

@Emrie Are you independent at least financially from your parents?

People, who say that China uses different algorithm for TikTok, think it would be a good thing if they had their own algorithm. Of course moderation is good but maybe banning the whole thing altogether could be way more better. And they are focused on the people that want TikTok to be banned who are already brainwashed with some other kind of ideology.

TikTok is a gossip machine. It affirms your beliefs more than it opens your mind. You can find original and educational content on TikTok but there are so few of them. In my opinion, banning will actually make the world more better place. It makes people who are generally anti-internet more close-minded to exploring it. People mistakenly think that TikTok makes people more connected and open-minded. It makes all sorts of dogmatic people more dogmatic then ever. The internet has lot to offer than people realize.

Glad to be of help. I don't know what specific advice to give for your situation. Maybe others can. All I can say is that in every situation you should be honest with yourself. Seek the truth of your situation. Eventually, by thinking it through, you will know what to do, without anybody's help generally. I don't like listening to others' advice generally. It's like not respecting my experience. I rather waste some time, go through it and think about it. People get annoyed around me a lot . If I get to the conclusion that I need some advice then I will do that, because I truly know that I need it. Maybe, my advice wouldn't work for you, so be careful. People can give you advice and knowingly or unknowingly sell their worldview to you. Basically, I'm giving advice about advice. So, be careful about that too .