Gabith

@StarStruck "She hurt me so I had to hurt her, otherwise the anger would destroy me" No you don't have to... Courage, I'm with you. I am in the same situation but I have no desire for "revenge". When a girl doesn't answer me, I don't send her anything anymore and I go on with my life but despite everything I am needy and insecure so I still feel disappointed and sad. Because I liked the girl a lot. I have never been very confident with women because I was harassed for years at school. Fortunately I'm evolving, I see that I'm better than I was a month ago and I continue. But it's not easy, we have a lot of work to do on ourselves and the negative emotions are often there when we are rejected or ignored. Doing "evil" shit or "revenge" is not a solution at all. It's cool that you don't want to be the nice guy anymore but find a middle ground and don't become a jerk or a narcissist. I advise you to read "no more Mr. Nice guy" I'm going to read it too I ordered it and it looks very interesting, it should surely help us!

I was walking today and I was wondering if all people (including me) we're almost constantly projecting their vision of reality / how they feel on others ? For example, every judgements they make on a person or a subject. But it's maybe ALL their thoughts that are projections ?

Back to sin again, must be fate The wait was all day Black acts to amend, at the gate Awaiting to state Something perished, past, and gone away And nothing ever lasts that hesitates 'Cause I know these days are calling out The simple sets in the red skyline These days they call the wind its gone Season of the awake They are calling out and shooting in a silent cave We set the sails again alone Season of the awake Back from holiday in my head The ocean calling Magic in the grave at the end The old way falling Something calling, asking to create The only other lasting love to make 'Cause I know these days are calling out The simple sets in the red skyline These days they call the end its gone Season of the wake They are calling out and shooting in a silent cave We set the sails again alone Season of the awake 'Cause there's something within Yeah, there's something within Of the awake All my friends When something within Becomes something within Of the awake You're all my friends I've been long, enough awake Alone, enough, awake 'Cause there's something within And there's something within All my friends Alone, enough, awake Your all my friends We've got a feeling of the day Last time wasn't what we made but now we make away Love is our only true escape Fear is nothing washed away, awake, away, awake Last time wasn't what we made but now we make away

what is 5/10 lol all this stuff is so relative

I begin to be a little more like you since this year (I've changed a lot since january, I don't see reality and people like before, I'm more positive, more loving and I finally love more myself). Now I'm attracted to a lot of average women, I dont like extreme like anorexia or obesity but I'm quite open and I see beauty where my friends don't see it (her smile, her eyes, her attitude...) all of my friends care about is if she has a nice body (big breast enough, big ass... ) lol I'm happy I've changed now life seems more beautiful and "easy" (because I know that Reality is perfect and everything that is must be, so yes life is harsh sometimes but it seems more easy when you have a better connection with Reality and an another mindset / perspectives.

Sounds spiritual to me... didn't knew Steven Wilson would write a song like this feel the miracle every day, count the numbers fill the cup. every move in every way. every move is built on blood. go find your brightest colours, tear all your curtains down. don't hide beneath the covers. don't sit around, don't face the ground. pretty genius. you could lose your little mind never knowing what to find. you could lose your little mind staring blind into the light. go find your brightest colours, tear all your curtains down. take heed of diet mothers. don't sit around, don't face the ground pretty genius. pretty genius, pretty genius.

Hi, I'm a tall guy and I weight only 56 kilos, I want to go between 65 and 70 ideally and gain muscles. My problem is that I have always had a poor appetite and it takes a lot of calories to gain a little weight. ---------------------------------------------- As a result, I have already applied eating a lot, regularly and weight training. I use two less known tricks which are weed and fenugreek. After smoking some weed, my appetite is strongly stimulated. Fenugreek is a seed that acts on the appetite between 1 and 3 months during use. But for recreational reasons (keeping my tolerance low) I only smoke weed once per day, every 2 - 3 days. Do you know other techniques a little less known than the usual ones: eating caloric food, drinking protein milkshake, eating a lot, doing sports and sleeping well?

My quality woman have a deep connection with music (she can enjoy black metal too !! lol) She is kind, spiritual, minimalist, vegan or vegetarian She is confident with sex and she can squirt She's open minded I know I'm dreaming lol

This is amazing........ everytime I look at the sky, at the eyes of a friend or I hear good music, i'm amazed , I feel great being alive

thank you I just purchased a book , I want to apply grattitude in my life

It's amazing...

So basically in the visualizations, we must imagine ourself being confident and attractive while interacting with a girl ? We imagine what we say to her, while being authentic and confident, what she respond etc... ?

Usually I don't remember my dreams very often. But for the past week, I have noticed that I must have dreamed 4 to 5 times with memories when I woke up. Each time I dreamed that I had a girlfriend but there was always something special in each dream, sometimes she wanted to kill me or there was something wrong. I also had 3 nights of nocturnal ejaculation (orgasm while sleeping) during that week. It's not even nightmares, it's quite enjoyable.. I wondered if the dreams had meanings, significance or not. I am not familiar with this area and am intrigued that this has been happening to me for +- 7 days straight. PS: I don't think it comes from a need cause I'm less needy than the past year and I'm really happy alone. I'm talking with girls when I do my street interviews for youtube but I don't feel the need to ask them out like I used to before. So I think finding a good girlfriend is like the icing on the cake.

Thanks I'll do that for a month and see what it changes

Interesting !

I've seen some videos of Aaron Doughty and it sounds too good to be true. He's basically seing that love will flows in abundance if we create it in us and stop seeking for it from another people. So let's say, I do a meditation of love / positive affirmation (I am Love, I attract love in my life etc...) everyday for months and I work on myself to become non-needy and more authentic. If I do all this for months to the point I become authentic, non-needy and grounded, I will see love pretty much everywhere I go and I'll attract easily womens ? He's saying a lot of things like "the less needy we are, the more people will be attracted to us" "the more we love ourself / become authentic" the more we will attract good people, love, sex etc..

I'm opening this topic so that we can talk about toxic behaviors to spot in some women. In order not to integrate them in our life. I was often in toxic relationships because I am someone naive and needy, fortunately I worked on it and I continue. So it would really help me to have a lot of common examples of toxicity in women so that I don't get fooled anymore. I can spot narcissistic perverts very easily but that's it.

thank u

Hey Myself, I'm reading the book Models how to attract women through honesty. It's fascinating and I'm a needy guy. So I was wondering if there is "spiritual" practices that can help me to become non-needy towards people. To stop the need to please, so I can talk with women / people with authenticity and no fear of "losing something" or being judged. Thank u

I have a lot of work to do to detach from all the beliefs I have on reality

Thank you

Wow this shit is so deep I begin to see more clear

@Nahm thank you

Hello, when I have deep experiences, right after it, I find myself saying "but there is nothing to do" ... And that resonates negatively with me, I feel that nothing matters and that there is no purpose. But sometimes I say to myself "well, there is nothing to do, so I might as well love, do good and help others as much as possible, since the "others" are me". Would this be the most appropriate goal to apply? In order not to fall into depression and continue to say to oneself that there is nothing to do, everything is a dream