Gabith

Hi just wanted to say that I love you all , we're like a family here, always ready to help... I send you much love from Belgium <3 I hope you are all fine

I believe it is loving everything, everyone. "whatever arises, love that" like Matt Kahn said

Oh yes, big big changes in me has happened... I see reality totally differently, I feel more, I love, I smile, I cry... A situation happened to me this morning, this situation would be very bad if I were the "old me" but all my perspectives and thoughts about it were positive, loving... It was a good situation ! Everything is perfect when you know how to see it and stay in the "love vibration" that's amazing I'm so happy it happened. I see more "signs" too I think a lot of "good" things will happen to me now because I take everything as a gift or "something that's here to help me", to use the words of Matt Kahn.

It's over today The heat is gone Time is gone F for fake I feel no wrong Hide no wrong I love this place The lights Under this face So dry Only way to change Give yourself away Don't be ashamed Next in line Close one eye Just walk by In these days I'm breathing stone Crying alone I'll win this race I'll leave alone Arrive alone. Love this place The lights Under this face So dry Stripped to the bone I did no wrong Truth is my name Give yourself away F for fake F for fake F for fake F for fake Give yourself away Give yourself away Give yourself away

Thanks. Now it's been two days that I live in ecstasy... This morning something happened to me, I know that before when I was unconscious, I would be hurt, angry and feeling shame. But none of that ! I saw all the beauty in it and keep feeling love and positivity and on the way home I had a lot of "good things" happening to me because now I see everything that's happening as goodness and perfection... I laugh in the supermarket and tell myself "they must think I'm on drugs hahaha" But it's Reality, I see it with love and total acceptance everything happening is magical... I smile all the time at people, I feel love for them, if only they knew... I can't believe that I've missed this all my 27 years... It was there, always there and I am it... Now everywhere I look everything seems perfect it's too much love and beauty.. I feel so much love I thank myself everytime... the simple act of eating is orgasmic, all the feelings, the tastes .... so much good feelings and I've never taste like it before in my life !!! We're so uncouscious. Music brings tears of joy to my eyes, it's so magic so perfect how did I create all of this? This is perfect words are nothing !!! Now I really feel that there is nothing to do else than loving Yourself... Everything else seems like madness Thank you for reading me I hope there is other people who lives in this state and I will do my best to love for Love every second.

Yesterday after smoking some weed I went out with some friends for a drink (no alcohol, I was sober). Gradually a "state", I would have said an "awakening" was installed I looked around and it was magical, I saw all my creation, happy people, laughing and an intense love for each person, I loved everyone unconditionally. I felt everything so strong, breathing was an immense pleasure, being thirsty became pleasant, drinking was like ecstasy etc... I didn't care what people thought of me anymore, I was free. Everything was perfect, I understood why everything was perfect, nothing bothered me anymore. By the way "funny" thing when I was in the toilet, I had a laugh and next to me there was someone who thought I was making fun of him. He asked me - What are you laughing at? I answered him - Reality, existence. He answered - Oh right, I thought you were laughing at me! I then said to him - No, I love you, at this point I love everything. And I just saw that "God/I" can send me signs because yesterday a piece of music had caught my attention, I asked my friend to find it with Shazam, I did not pay attention to the title in the evening. Today I get up, I see the track he sent me and it was "I can make you feel good" by Shalamar It lasted about 3 hours and then slowly I went back to the illusion with my limiting thoughts, my fears and my attachment to my "identity". Thank you for reading I love you

Do you know what are the best meditation technique to improve self-love, to feel love ?

Thank You... Thank you for everything, you've created everything... Joy, love, music... ALL. .. Reality I AM IT I AM THIS... It's too much beauty too much goodness, too much love... Everyone deserves more love, more, more, more love... You deserve more love you are perfect I love you so much I can"t tell you with words I LOVE YOU SO MUCH THANK YOU YOU ARE PERFECT

Oh great thank you !!! I will read it next month or later because I'm on" Whatever Arises, Love That" When did you start working on the inner smile and did you notice "changes" already ?

I know ! I just wanted to share how I feel here

I get horny everyday, I got erection like 5 times a day. I don't know if it is too much or casual... I like to see two prostitute each month and I know if I had more money I could fuck a girl almost each day. Maybe it's too much ?

I listen to music everyday at least 4 hours so I'll give it a try to see the difference... I guess I'm addicted and it will be difficult! I didn't think about music being like TV or a divertissment but it is, when you think about it ! It's a distraction... Maybe a week. I guess that listening to one of my favorite songs after 1 week of "silence" will be quite intense !

thank you, very helpful

@fopylo So I'll follow my heart but this will maybe leads to frustration, desires and inhability to find a good girlfriend ? If I just go for love, loving me, loving others, I'll still be a nice guy, in fact I'll be even nicer than I was !!! So I'll be repellent to girls and I will stay stuck I don't know if I'm able to face that because I really want a good connexion with a girl, my first girlfriend was the best experience of my life. I can't see myself being alone for the rest of my life or stuck in toxic relationship once a year ...

@flowboy Although I have found my "purpose" in life which is to love as much as possible and apply Matt Kahn's advice to get there. There is a part of me that longs to have a quality girlfriend. I already have a hard time finding a girlfriend, I have +- 1 girlfriend per year but it never lasts because toxic relationship and I with my neediness, I put myself with almost the first one that comes along... Fortunately I have evolved, I have standards and I'm not attracted to superficial girls anymore, no matter how beautiful they are, I don't want a serious relationship with them if they have no values or nothing in their head. Is there a specific book that you have read and applied that has helped you attract women in your life? Or did it come naturally by bringing your vibrations towards love, joy etc...? I feel like even if I apply Matt Kahn's advice, within a year I'll probably be a different person but will that make me attractive to women or will I still be single with no way to choose a quality woman? I wonder if I should suppress the nice guy in me because I have this tendency to want to please or be too nice to the girls I am attracted to. I'm lost because I keep seeing conflicting information everywhere and it seems that being nice repels women. If I stop being nice or control myself to be less nice, I will be less authentic and less in love so it won't fit my values. But on the other hand I will still be uninteresting to women because they don't like it. It's hard to find a path to choose and if I do more than one, I feel like I'll have to choose: - To be in my "goal" to go towards love, acceptance, gratitude... - Doing my best to become attractive but having to suppress traits of myself like kindness for example And if I do both, it will be contradictory with the vibrations I want to reach

Hi friends thank you for your time, even if we have eternity after all haha Today I met a girl near a park, she was beautiful to me, she looked sensitive and we had some things in common and especially easy to talk to each other about our lives. We talked for almost 2 hours and she proposed me to do a part of the walk with me on the way back. She showed me that she liked me by telling me "I like talking with you" or at the time of the goodbye "we could meet again at the park or do something" but in a way where I felt that she really wanted it. As if she was really attracted to me, we talked about deep subjects and I think she was not used to have such open discussions, she made me understand it. Anyway I sent her a text message to tell her that I was happy to have met her. For the moment it's been 2 hours since I got any answer. It's hard to believe that she would have changed her mind in the meantime because she seemed really attracted to me. It is now that I realize that I have made progress on my self-confidence and my authenticity because I did not try totally to please her, I was vulnerable and rather comfortable speaking to her. I am proud of myself and I see that the affirmations, visualizations and having read "Attract woman through honesty" are having an impact on me. I have always been very needy and insecure with women. Where I notice a problem is that I feel a little bad because I can't apply Leo's advice even though I know he is 100% right. He told me that: "If you are wise you will not get invested in any one girl until you sleep with her. In which case you just talk to other girls and don't even think much about the phone numbers you get. The rule this: don't invest in her at all until she's interested in sleeping with you. It's crucial that you stop daydreaming and fantasizing about the girls you approach, and even if you get her number. Just don't think about her. Only think about her enough to set up a date. But no more! Don't start imagining that this date will lead to anything. " I needed to write here because you are so helpful and caring. Right now I'm feeling a little disappointed and sad and especially I realize that I'm still very needy despite being happy in my life and enjoying time alone. I remind myself "what will happen must happen" or "if she doesn't answer me anymore it's because we weren't made to be together" or "the universe has something better for me". It's not enough, I stay here feeling negative emotions and a desire that we can meet again and that a relationship will be created. Yet I know that I only have an idea of her, I only spoke 2 hours with her, I just had a good feeling and I'm attracted to her. It's odd, I really thought that I would have had an easy time getting over her and applying Leo's advice but I realize that I didn't. I'm so concerned, I want her to respond to me, to meet her again... Why am I like that ? What can I do ? It's more powerful than me, I have so much work to do.. I guess it will be more inner work than "outer" because building confidence, authenticity and vulnerability seems a little more easy to me and it doesn't make me feel so bad, when I make a mistake, I tell myself that it is the process and that I'll get better and better with time!

Thanks to flowboy, I've discovered Matt Kahn It's a life changer for me, I resonate so much with his teachings. I had some mystical experiences and an awakening but I don't want to go deeper or dedicate my life around the truth Since a few months I know that I want my life to be dedicated to love. I want to love more, to love always more, to have experiences around love, I want to discover as much as possible what Love is... I am really happy because now I know why I want to live and what I want to dedicate my life to. I wanted to know if there were any of you who were on the same "path". how it is going, what it has changed for you etc... Since one week I have noticed "manifestations" of love where I did not see them before. And I often cry when I look at the sky or when I listen to "American Beauty by Thomas Newman" because it is so beautiful that it pierces me. Every day I wake up and say "thank you for letting me experience a new day", then when I get outside I look up at the sky and I'm filled with joy because the sky is huge, so beautiful, I know see what it is.... I see all the magic of it Here's a video for people who don't know Matt Kahn:

@Leo Gura So it means that by seeking Love, I'll eventually find Truth ?

Yes you're right.

Today during my street interviews, I met a nice guy in a café, very inspiring. He was really authentic, natural, we talked a little bit about philosophy. He explained to me that his "ego" was a bit in the background and that he lived reality like that most of the time. That he still felt negative emotions sometimes but that he managed them well and understood them and that after 1 hour, he already knew how to forgive a person and he had no more negative emotions. I really felt that he didn't care what people thought about him and that he was himself in a very natural and spontaneous way. He inspired me and that's where I want to go. He gave me his number and I hope that I'll meet him and become friend with him because I'm looking for people like him since months... Do you have any techniques or tips that could help put the "ego" a little more in the background and being free to be myself without feeling bad ? Today my day went well but at one point I noticed the "commentator", the "thinker" telling me negative things and I felt bad. In the way I said goodbye to random people, I looked ankward and I judged myself for that. I used to do this rather unconsciously but today I really felt it and saw that it was wrong and that I didn't have to talk to myself like that anymore and believe in my negative judgments about myself or others. Why are we doing that with ourselves ? It's harsh, we really believe we need to feel guilt, ashame or not "good enough" and yet it is not true...

Slowly this head will lose it's contents And all memories will fade Like the dots on your dress From a November day The price that we pay To adhere with time Lets live as this is the life we get I'm thankful to have met you so soon My dear, the world is our playground While we are here in a random universe Swirling, wrapped in among stars of Light and galaxies unknown It's so beautiful how everything Evolves with love and grows, grows Evolves with love and grows, grows Take off our clothes and lets walk though Valleys and watch the land get old You're the aurora, the magnet on my heart Trees making roots, fractals begin I'm taking off, head's on the wind A bucket of [?], hang off the tree life Follow the water and wake from the mill Your eyes were like galaxies Shaping the way that I feel Entwined with all nature creations It's what I'm alive for It's what I'm alive for All is for love, is for mind To exist in a moment All is for love, is for mind To exist in a moment

Yesterday after smoking weed, I went to sit in the sofa and listen to music. Here begins the most beautiful song of my life: As usual when I hear the first notes and I cry in front of too much beauty. I felt my tears running down my face and I stayed in the feeling, trying to feel as much as possible. It was big, a huge sensation and almost felt like it was burning my face. It still felt good but I didn't think it was possible to feel a sensation that strongly and I know I could have gone even further if I had more experience with meditation / letting go.

@StarStruck What did you learn from "no more mr nice guy" ? How come you already see good results while being "bad" and not giving a fuck ? Two days ago you were complaining, I'm a little bit sceptical