Elton

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  1. @Artaemis @Keyhole I started this thread to ask for suggestions to act upon my own weakness, of being dependent on the opinion of others who don't matter to me. unfortunately direct confrontation with the person was what led to the whole thing after all... I don't find spiritual people like Leo or many others who I know being so rude generally, so it is quite surprising to get this point of view, but thanks for your perspective it will definitely help me in future. It doesn't matter if that person is generally pretty nice or not cause they hasn't been pretty nice with me ! Or if they were an ass, it doesn't matter anymore... Some valuable lessons I learnt Life is to short to worry about people who mean nothing to you, specially people over the internet who mean nothing to you.. Giving advice to people who didn't ask it from you could be dangerous. People project on you their own shit.
  2. @egoeimai What is this vedio you keep posting about ?
  3. @Roy as a human being I just want to be heard and loved.. someone completely ignoring me and inturn rediculing me for advising them is definitely what I don't want. But ya I understand it's a projection of their own mind.
  4. @Red-White-Light yes I noticed this in my workplace too.. I don't why why I am so sensitive to opinion of others...
  5. @Lyubov @nistake thank you for your advice, I will try them, I feel much better after posting my emotions and how I felt ...
  6. @nistake okay thanks for the advice will try it out ... Just keep writtng?
  7. @Rilles thank you rilles these words are certainly comforting to my hurt ego ❤️ thank you so much.
  8. Yea you are right I can understand it on a logical level but on an emotional level I'm suffering.. I ignored that persons post and didn't reply to avoid any further issues. The problem is that this forum is triggering me now, everytime I'm here and see that person online I'm triggered..or even if I see that persons pic I'm triggered.. Maybe I got to do that forgiveness guided meditation on this random person from the internet now I feel we week being vunerable to a random person on the internet, such a pity..
  9. @Rilles yea it certainly felt like that person was rude ... I was told that my advice is overly simplistic and irrelevant.. I don't understand the issue and I should go read some book. It felt very bad to try to help someone and get harsh words in return ..
  10. @Rilles it was about how my advice was simple, irrelevant and useless. :-(
  11. @John Iverson nice, which of the books did you find the best ? Like which is the book for you that changes your life ?
  12. @Espaim until you can afford it read all the booka under productivity and sucess and life purpose you will build a solid foundation.. Have a vision and work on what you intitute you love doing, find your strengths and build them up... Work on things you love at least for one hour daily.
  13. Just do it and do it and do it... Until the job gets done.
  14. @John Iverson buy the book list lot of high quality content
  15. @Monkey_in_suit personally for me 1 time a week would be enough, like 2.5 hours in that one meeting.. but my girlfriend thinks that if we don't contact each other daily then the connection is lost.. So I spend like 1 hour a day or more via. Phone ..
  16. @lostmedstudent have you tried loosing some weight first ? Continue practice stretching over time you will succeed..
  17. @Lyubov citting off on beer, soyabeen and meat . List of testastrome rich foods: Testosterone boosters Oatmeal Almonds and chestnuts Fish Oysters Beef liver Honey Pomogranate Cinnamon Grapes Eggs Ginger Garlic Onions Green leafy vegetables Brocolli Cabbage Dark chocolate Watermelon Spinach Blueberries ans strawberries Blackberries Sun rays for vitamin D Extra vergin olive oil Green tea Avocado Apples Arugula Beet juice 1-4-2 breathing techniques Blue light app on phone Don't eat before sex Lift weights. Sleep Intermediate fasting.
  18. @Mada_ there is an application in play store called zero..
  19. @liamnewsom202 it is a super food.. but very expensive... Have you seen the documentary on Netflix called rotten? In that you will see how avacados are farmed by robbing water from the people causing draughts in certain places to grow avacados.
  20. @Leo Gura hi leo I have been cleaning up my diet for like 5 months now .. is this a good time to start nootroopics ?
  21. Coffee shops, beaches, movies, trekking, restaurants, malls ... Are few things you could do and each one of these can have several permutations and combinations.@John Iverson
  22. @Oliver Saavedra yes I feel this too when I see my boss
  23. @Mjolnir try kriya yoga, or shamanic breathing.
  24. The novel corona virus, is the deadliest virus humanity has ever seen in the past decades, and has caused a havoc all over the world. With over 6 million cases worldwide and over 350 thousand deaths, this Virus has caused a lot of distress and anxiety in the minds of each and every one alive. Since prevention is better than cure, the only way to avoid this disease in absence of the vaccine is social distancing, Majority of countries all over the world have chosen the lockdown to prevent the widespread of this deadly disease. Suffering from boredom and being away from the society in general, restrictive movement, and unable to go to work in-order to earn money has made people think that this virus is a curse from GOD, but is it !? People with such an attitude fail to realize that humans are not the only living being on this planet; there are plants, animals, insects and birds that too are citizens of earth and have benefited tremendously due to this lockdown in the midst of this pandemic. The industrial lockdown has caused less sound, water and air pollution, making the air cleaner to breathe all over the world for all living beings, the rivers which were so dirty and which seemed impossible to clean in India even after a lot of manmade efforts, now have cleaned itself naturally. Moreover the Ozone layer which was depleting has showed us its capacity to heal on itself due to lack of pollution. The earth is healing ! Turns out that time is indeed the best healer (even without intervention of man). The people who are not infected and safe in their homes have benefited too from this virus caused lockdown, every one is become more health conscious eating the right foods to build their immunity to fight COVID 19, which inturn is benefitting their overall health. They have been able to spent more time with family, they have found ample of time to do the things they love doing, as man prays more deeply and meditates longer his spiritual life has improved too. He has become more compassionate, we see many people donating food and money to the poor everywhere all over the world. Bollywood actor Sonu Sood is seen arranging transport for migrant labourers instead of just donating money for people who want to move to their homes but are unable to do so due to their current financial circumstances. Many other Bollywood stars have donated spaces in their hotels to convert as quarantine centers to ease the load on public hospitals. New business have originated, making masks and COVID-19 testing devices, cost effective beds and personal protective equipment are few examples. We would argue that man cannot live on love and fresh air! Human beings are most effected as millions of people have lost their jobs and their source of livelihoods. People have lost their near and dear one as the virus has taken away their lives. Scientist are working very hard to find the cure and the vaccine as time progresses, but as they are unable to find the vaccine/cure yet the economy continues to fall. For the ones who are dead it is unfortunate and no one can ever compensate for the loss of life, but death is our final destination and the Ultimate truth of life, no one can escape this life alive. Nevertheless, we can still treat this pandemic an opportunity, Napoleon Hill in his book Think and grow rich says ' every negative event comes with a seed of an equal and opposite equivalent'. How many of us fall in the trap of wage slavery, and sell our integrity and creativity just for a paycheck??? Would the seed of the equal and opposite equivalent be the possibility of having/starting your own business? Would it be a lesson to manage our money wisely and save it for the rainy days? Would it be the virtues of self-reliance and future mindedness which this virus has forced us to adopt? Would it be to live a healthy Lifestyle and development of our immunity to diseases ? If we think that COVID is a curse just because of economic slowdown, than is money the only thing? Health, connection, relationships, compassion, innovation and Self-reliance are meaningless? The only way to fight this virus is awareness and faith. Awareness about not contacting things or people potentially exposed to the virus, keeping a sanitizer with you at all times, and faith that after all is said and done we will come out stronger. Even though this virus has been unforgiving and merciless in nature, we must have faith that we will rise above all this, we must have faith that we are born with best survival abilities and have all the power we need. The basis of Christianity is faith and only faith can save us now. As Indian industrialist Mr. Tata said something along these lines 'this year don't focus on material success, if you are alive that in itself is success' There is a monologue of hope from the movie waking life and I would like to share it with you. 'Resistance is not futile, we're gonna win this thing, humankind is too good, we're not a bunch of under achievers, we gonna stand up and be human beings and get fired up about the real things; the things that that matter: creativity and the dynamic human spirit that refuses to submit. Finally this is an opportunity to be more conscious about our deaths, as death awareness can make you more conscious and humble. Complete the following every day as death could be knocking on your door: If I was more aware of my death I would___________