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Understanding Relativism - Part 1 https://youtu.be/UyBETFn5KXk This video is the first in a multi-part series on relativism, a philosophical topic that goes beyond physics The series will discuss relativism in science, philosophy, morality, and ethics The series will not be an in-depth look at the physics of Einstein's general relativity theory The topic is complex and easy to misunderstand, and may threaten certain worldviews The series will not be a rehashing of post-modernism or cultural relativism as found in modern academia Relativism is the idea that everything we experience and think, including self, reason, truth, morality, and religion, is relative and therefore has no universal validity The stanford encyclopedia of philosophy defines relativism as the doctrine that knowledge, truth, and morality exist in relation to culture, society, or historical context and are not absolute There are various types of relativism, including cultural, moral, and epistemic relativism Cultural relativism is the idea that cultural practices and beliefs are relative to the culture that holds them and cannot be judged by the standards of other cultures Moral relativism is the idea that moral truths are relative and depend on the individual or culture holding them Epistemic relativism is the idea that knowledge and truth are relative and depend on the individual or culture holding them Relativism has both supporters and critics, with some arguing that it allows for tolerance and understanding of other cultures, while others argue that it undermines the possibility of universal truth and moral absolutes. relativity is the concept that an object's size or characteristics are relative to its comparison with other objects an elephant is large relative to a mouse people learn about size through experience and comparison with other objects relativism also exists in geometry and can affect how we perceive and interpret situations Einstein's theory of relativity states that the length of an object can change depending on the observer's velocity science is not always necessarily true and can depend on the perspective and experiences of the scientist language and communication can also be relative and dependent on the context and understanding of the speaker and listener moral relativism is the belief that moral values are relative to the individual or culture, rather than absolute cultural relativism is the idea that cultural practices should be understood and evaluated in their own context, rather than judged according to the standards of another culture relativism can be seen as both a positive and negative concept, depending on the perspective taken. Copernicus proposed that the Sun was more central than the earth It was later discovered that the Sun is not even the center of the universe, but one of many Suns The discovery of the Americas was a significant relativistic shock for Europeans The discovery of a new continent with different cultures, religions, and customs was unsettling for Europeans There were religious wars and attempts to "civilize" the indigenous people of the Americas In retrospect, the European response to the discovery of the Americas can be seen as myopic and closed-minded The human mind tends to view its own perspective as central and superior The idea of cultural relativism suggests that all cultures are equally valid and should be respected It is difficult to see one's own cultural perspective as relative because it is enmeshed in it Cultural relativism can help us to be more open-minded and accepting of other cultures and perspectives The idea of moral relativism suggests that there is no one universal moral code that applies to all people and situations Moral relativism suggests that moral codes and values are subjective and vary from culture to culture The concept of moral relativism can be challenging because it goes against the idea of a universal moral truth However, moral relativism can help us to be more open-minded and understanding of the moral values of other cultures. Judeo-Christian values are not the only correct ones; religious pluralism and relativity exist The Constitution was a radical and revolutionary invention that marked a shift in cognitive development from a "stage blue" to a "stage orange" way of thinking Non-Euclidean geometry was discovered, showing that classical geometry is not absolute and new geometries must be developed for certain situations Quantum mechanics showed that measurement is not absolute and is entangled with the measuring instrument This discovery was counterintuitive and many people did not accept it initially The concept of the self is also not absolute, as demonstrated by the split-brain and introspection experiments These examples show that absolutism is not always correct and that new ways of thinking must be considered and embraced. There are different paradigms within science that can be thought of as different worldviews or ways of looking at the world and doing science These paradigms often compete with each other, with a prevailing paradigm that may eventually be challenged and replaced by a new paradigm Thomas Kuhn introduced the concept of incommensurability, which means that different paradigms or worldviews may not be able to fully reconcile with each other Kuhn's work was later used to defend various forms of relativism, but he did not fully understand the radical nature of paradigms or the implications of relativism Relativism became more prevalent in the second half of the 20th century with the development of linguistics, structuralism, post-structuralism, and post-modernism As the world became more globalized and interconnected, it became untenable for social scientists to maintain that one culture or worldview was superior to all others, leading to a greater acceptance of relativism in the social sciences and humanities Hard physical scientists may still cling to a materialist reductionist worldview, but this has been challenged by the insights of quantum mechanics Relativism has also been acknowledged in the areas of sexuality and gender, which has led to negative reactions from some traditionally-oriented people. The elephant metaphor is used to explain the concept of the absolute truth being the whole of reality Different parts of the elephant (representing different views or perspectives) can argue with each other and try to tear themselves apart, not understanding that they are all part of the whole elephant This concept can be applied to various areas, including spirituality, religion, and even different sects of Buddhism The problem of people holding different views or perspectives and disagreeing with each other is a universal issue across all human endeavors Paul Bogosian's quote on relativism suggests that the truth of a given domain (such as the wrongness of slavery) may be related to a particular parameter (such as 21st century norms) The idea that something is objectively wrong or true may be based on a consensus of people's beliefs in a particular time period, but this does not necessarily make it objectively true It is important to understand and consider different views and perspectives, even if they are offensive or threatening, in order to more accurately understand reality The concept of XYZ coordinates is relative and constructed by humans The idea that God knows what time it is right now is used as a metaphor for taking the universal perspective Reality can determine whether someone is good or bad through individuals' perspectives and judgments The concept of anekantavada suggests that something can be both good and bad, and also neither good nor bad and beyond all of that Examples of things that are relative include: aesthetics, opinions, beliefs, worldviews, scientific models and descriptions, scales and measurements, counting and units Mathematics is relative because what counts as 1 or 2 or 3 is dependent on how it is counted The hand is both 1 object and 5 objects, and can also be considered to have an infinite number of structures Patterns within nature, language, and culture are all relative Personal identity and the concept of self are also relative and constructed by the individual and their environment Reality is one and everything is interconnected, including all perspectives and judgments Achieving a meta perspective and distance from personal judgments allows for a more complete understanding of reality The ultimate truth or absolute reality is beyond language and thought, and can only be experienced in a state of Samadhi. Different versions of science might exist Scientists do not always agree on data Data is relative and depends on various factors such as consciousness, culture, and DNA Data and the concept of "facts" is also relative Relativism is sometimes resisted due to an assumption of an absolute truth The concept of an absolute truth may be a human construct The idea of an absolute truth may come from a desire for control or security The pursuit of an absolute truth may be harmful or limiting Instead, it may be more beneficial to embrace relativism and recognize the limitations of human understanding Good and evil are relative and depend on an individual's survival strategies Different people have different notions of good and evil This is why there is so much disagreement about good and evil Relativism does not prevent cooperation and building a consensus Commonality between humans allows for shared values and the building of a society Building a good society is difficult due to cultural and personal differences Einstein's theory of relativity does not contradict the idea of relativism The speed of light is not a constant and varies depending on the medium it is in Some scientists propose that the speed of light may have slight fluctuations The idea of relativism does not mean that objective truths do not exist Relativism simply acknowledges that our understanding and interpretation of these truths is subjective and influenced by our individual experiences and perspectives. Importance of cognitive flexibility Examining emotional reactions to new perspectives Emotional reactions are tied to sense of self and world view Personal growth through introspection rather than reacting to others Fallibility of the speaker, importance of contemplation and discovery Avoidance of responding to cynical or skeptical responses Mention of a future part two
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Understanding Survival - Part 2 - Advanced Insights About Survival https://youtu.be/CyGPqFMy6vY Part 1 homework assignment is important for understanding survival Survival can be symbiotic and not always purely selfish Squirrels do not know what they are doing when it comes to survival, they are running on autopilot Humans are not purely selfish and do benefit others, but may not be conscious of it Selfishness and selflessness are not separate and ultimately come full circle Survival is not a duality and cannot be divided into "bad" and "good" Humans have the ability to become conscious of their actions and the motivations behind them Survival is about finding balance and harmony in life The body and mind are interconnected and impact each other in survival The mind can control the body and vice versa Stress and negative emotions can have a negative impact on survival Positive emotions and a positive outlook can improve survival Communication and social connections are important for survival Survival involves adapting to changing circumstances and being flexible The power of observation and analysis in survival The importance of planning and preparedness in survival The role of intuition and gut feelings in survival The concept of "hard wiring" and how it can impact survival The importance of learning and growing in survival The role of persistence and determination in survival The concept of the "survival mindset" and how to develop it People can turn to unhealthy, toxic, and self-destructive survival strategies when in a needy or fearful state These survival strategies can become autopilot and even continue to be used even when they harm the individual Survival goes beyond just physical needs, it can also be about maintaining personal identity and being part of a group Examples of survival strategies include criminal behavior, smoking, and group bonding activities like listening to the same music and wearing the same clothes These strategies can become addictive and hard to change Part of survival can also be about psychological comfort and avoiding discomfort or stress It is common for people to not consider the long-term consequences of their survival strategies when they are in a vulnerable state and just want immediate relief. Spiral dynamics is a theory that different people are at different stages of development and need different types of information and guidance Different cultures and societies have different survival strategies based on their specific circumstances and resources All social institutions (military, businesses, schools, governments, etc.) are a part of survival and have their own politics Politics is central to human affairs and is present in all social environments Different groups of people will have different motivations and needs based on their level of development and their specific survival strategies It is important to understand and consider these dynamics in order to effectively communicate and work with others. The idea that everything is a social construct is threatening to some people because they are attached to their physical existence People may respond to this threat with denial, judgment, criticism, hatred, violence, bigotry, closed-mindedness, and projection Being conscious of survival strategies may interfere with them, as it can make it difficult to continue engaging in selfish or harmful behavior Culture and social institutions may justify their actions as being for the good of society, even if they are primarily motivated by self-preservation High consciousness teachings may be seen as a threat to the survival of those who are surviving at a low level of consciousness because they may require a shift away from selfish or harmful behaviors The pursuit of personal growth and self-improvement may be seen as selfish or self-centered by those who are struggling to survive It may be difficult for people to change their behaviors and beliefs, even if it is for their own benefit, due to the social and cultural forces at play. Love is the ultimate motivator for human and animal actions Higher levels of love involve love for the universal self, while lower levels involve partial, limited love for the self Evil actions are motivated by a low consciousness, partial form of love The difference between a saint and a devil is the level of love they act out of Evil is relative and perspectival, determined by what hinders an individual's survival Multi-perspective ilysm (considering other perspectives as important as one's own) is a rare and difficult concept for most people to accept Playing victim is a common survival strategy The ego wants to consider only its own perspective To transcend survival, one must be able to see good and evil as labels that are a part of survival To transcend survival, one must see that everything is God in disguise and love everything to death Marine biologist in family gets asthma or lung cancer due to pollution in Los Angeles Spirituality involves realizing interconnectedness and not living in a bubble Selfishness ultimately hurts oneself because self and other are ultimately one Unchecked selfishness may work in simple scenarios but becomes too counterproductive in complex systems America-first policy is a dead end and leads to net loss in a more interconnected world Systems thinking is not about manipulating systems, it is about understanding how systems work and how they can be improved Trump is not a systems thinker, he is a manipulator True spiritual growth involves transcending survival and understanding interconnectedness Transcending survival involves letting go of ego and selfishness This requires consciousness, fearlessness, and selflessness True spiritual growth leads to joy and fulfillment, rather than suffering and disappointment Samadhi is a state of consciousness in which the separation between the subject and object collapses In this state, a person can look at a physical object, such as a hand, and recognize its pure being This can also be done with any physical object, the entire room, one's own physical body, or another person Most people's subconscious minds put value, meaning, or context into objects, even when looking at something as seemingly insignificant as a rock To truly break through the veil of survival into being, one must strip objects of these survival projections and see them for their pure being Meditation and psychedelics can both lead to this state of pure being, called Samadhi However, these states are usually temporary, and one returns to survival mode after the experience ends It is fine to start meditating or taking psychedelics for egoic or survival reasons, but the ultimate goal is to reach a state of pure being When in this state, it does not matter how one got there The goal is to learn how to maintain this state of pure being, even while in survival mode Survival strategies vary based on location and culture Documentaries can be helpful in understanding survival strategies in different parts of the world Examples of comparing survival strategies: New York City vs. Alabama farm, corporate headquarters vs. prison, Africa vs. Scandinavia vs. Alaska Importance of seeing the big picture by putting all the little pieces together Actualize.org aims to help people see the big picture by covering a wide range of topics in depth Success in this project requires diligent watching and thinking about the material, as well as following up with exercises and homework Rewatching the two-part series on survival and applying the concepts to your own life can be helpful in understanding survival strategies and seeing the big picture.
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Understanding Survival - Part 1 - The Metaphysics Of Being Human https://youtu.be/i8NNtpzYQx8 The topic of this video is the metaphysics of being human and how it relates to survival Survival is a fundamental aspect of human behavior and is at the root of all personal development and spiritual work Peter Ralston has been instrumental in helping the speaker understand the importance of survival in behavior change Modern science does not fully understand the metaphysical aspects of survival and its importance in human affairs Survival involves defending, manipulating, and seeking change, but also raises questions about the purpose of living and why some things are chosen to survive while others are not The topic of survival is often misunderstood and overlooked in modern society Survival is not just about physical survival, but also psychological and emotional survival Survival is a metaphysical concept that encompasses the whole of human existence The speaker will be giving homework assignments to help the viewer understand their own mechanical tendencies and become more conscious Reality is an infinite field of consciousness Humans create a conceptual distinction between self and other, creating a "virtual partition" within the field of consciousness This virtual partition is the basis for the creation of objects and the concept of "self" The concept of survival is maintaining this virtual partition The distinction between self and other creates a survival drive, but this distinction is also maintained by the drive to survive What is being survived is not a physical object, but a conceptual boundary or fantasy Survival for humans is not just about getting food, shelter, and sex, but about surviving as a conceptual self and maintaining a distinction from the environment The line dividing self and other is unique for each person and can change over time, leading to either growth or death The concept of survival also includes maintaining relationships, social status, and personal identity The concept of death is the elimination of the virtual partition, returning to the oneness of the original field of consciousness To be an object or thing, it cannot be any other thing Being one particular way means excluding an infinite number of other ways it could have been There is a zero-sum game in reality, where there are trade-offs and competition over limited resources Life is only possible through death, as forms must feast on other forms Reality is infinite, but there are still zero-sum dynamics within it Squirrels and humans engage in survival activities and are focused on preserving themselves, but self-improvement requires letting go of the self and transcending it To change a behavior, a part of the self must die The process of self-improvement involves facing and accepting death The death and rebirth process can be scary, but it is necessary for growth and development To transcend the self, one must let go of attachment to the ego and accept death This process requires courage and faith in something beyond the self. The concept of survival and how it affects behavior Examples of how different people prioritize survival differently based on their wealth and circumstances The idea that people engage in devious, sneaky behavior in order to survive, but often delude themselves with false rationalizations about their actions The concept of balancing self-image as a good, honest person with the need to manipulate and scheme for survival The idea that thoughts and emotions are involved in the survival game, and people engage in behaviors like lying, manipulating, and scheming in order to get what they need People can be closed-minded because they don't want to change and are attached to their current way of life These ways of life, or "niches," can be linked to survival strategies that are ingrained in a person's brain and mind Survival strategies are often unconscious and can lead to negative outcomes such as misery, suffering, and even depression and suicide It is important to be aware of and consciously approach survival, specifically the survival of the mind or psyche The psyche has unique needs, attractions, and aversions that can be influenced by past experiences and environments It is important to understand and work on the psyche in order to be truly free and live a fulfilling life. Many people meditate unconsciously and robotically, and feel guilty if they miss a day It's a process of becoming more conscious and cannot be perfected in a single day The process is like "crawling out of a deep hole" and will take decades to complete It's a "bootstrapping process" and cannot be solved all at once Deception and delusion within oneself can only be addressed piece by piece People may rely on external validation, judgment, worry, procrastination, or activities like video games or YouTube to feel happy or survive These actions and habits allow people to maintain their current identities, but can be changed to affect one's identity at a metaphysical level Thoughts and emotions often have ulterior motives related to survival and manipulation in a given environment It's important to become aware of these motives and the role they play in maintaining one's identity
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What Is The Point Of Life - An Advanced, Life-Changing Explanation https://youtu.be/9PjZB9CoFfs The speaker discusses the purpose of life and the universe They posit that the universe is an infinite singularity that contains all possible pasts, presents, and futures simultaneously This singularity is self-aware, sentient, and intelligent, and is often referred to as God The purpose of the universe is to experience and explore itself through the creation of infinite forms, including human beings The purpose of human life is to awaken to the truth of the infinite singularity and to explore and experience the infinite possibilities within it The speaker encourages the listener to consider the possibility that their limited human perspective is preventing them from fully understanding the grand design of the universe The listener is warned that the true purpose of life may be radical and may not fit within their current beliefs or understanding Becoming more godlike in one's manner and lifestyle is a key aspect of spiritual evolution Realizing that you are the Creator and taking ownership and responsibility for your creativity is an important step in becoming a conscious creator Conquering fear with unconditional love and embodying love and goodness can help one become godlike in one's life Inspiring others through one's example can help them also realize their own divinity and unity with God Experiencing duality and living in the present moment fully are important aspects of the human experience Helping others awaken and grow spiritually is an important part of one's human life The ultimate goal of human life is to fully merge with the absolute and realize one's true nature as God The point of life is to evolve and realize one's divinity Life has a higher purpose, like a cog in a machine God artificially limits itself in order to experience life through creation Creation is for the joy of it, and has no ultimate point outside of itself Humans have limited creative capacity, and their default creation may be a monstrosity if they do not deliberately create This concept may be considered religious dogma The idea that you are the creator of your reality and have the ability to shape and change it through conscious creation The metaphor of playing with LEGOs to illustrate the idea of creation The idea that enlightenment is not a one- or two-realization concept, but has depth and breadth The idea that enlightenment does not mean one should not engage in conscious creation or self-expression The idea that conscious creation is not driven by a sense of lack or ego, but rather by selfless love and self-expression as an expression of one's godhood The idea that reality is perfect as it is, but that does not mean one cannot engage in creation and self-expression as a way of expressing one's godhood The highest expression of love and selflessness can be seen in tear-jerking movies The highest motivation for mankind is to reconnect with the oneness and truth of existence This can be done in many different ways and through many different careers The lack of inspiration in politicians, lawyers, and businesspeople can lead to division and destruction in the world The goal is to realize oneself as God and to live as a creator True life begins when one understands their purpose and works to expand and grow themselves Repeatedly returning to this understanding and pushing oneself can lead to a tipping point of awakening The website actualize.org offers resources for personal growth and finding one's life purpose.
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The Power Of Asking Questions https://youtu.be/42kY07F5pTs The quality of your life depends on the quality of the questions you ask Questions unlock powerful answers Most people's problems come from not asking the right questions The answers to life's questions are inside of you, not outside Asking questions is a simple but rare skill It's important to study external sources, but then turn inward and think for yourself to develop unique answers Personal development and spirituality involve crafting a custom path that works for you You can find answers within yourself by asking the right questions, or even by using Google It's important to ask yourself questions regularly and consistently Different types of questions to ask yourself: open-ended, closed-ended, rhetorical, leading Asking the right questions can help with problem-solving, decision-making, and personal growth Examples of powerful questions to ask yourself: "What do I really want?", "Why am I doing this?", "What am I learning from this?", "What's possible?", "What am I avoiding?" Take the time to reflect on your questions and allow yourself to really think about the answers Keep a journal to write down your questions and answers, and review them regularly Surround yourself with people who also ask good questions and challenge you to think deeply. Asking quality questions can unlock something in your mind and affect your consciousness Asking a question in a business meeting can shift the tone of the conversation and allow you to see things you couldn't see before Trusting yourself and turning inward can help you discover answers within yourself Some people are more effective than others and asking the question "what makes people so effective?" can help you observe and learn from them It is important to discover your own uniqueness and ask yourself "how am I unique?" and "how am I not being true to my uniqueness?" Asking "what do I really want?" can help you clarify your goals and desires Asking "what do I need to learn or do to achieve my goals?" can help you create a plan to reach your goals Asking "what is my purpose?" can help you find meaning in your life and guide your decisions Asking "what are my core values?" can help you understand your priorities and make decisions that align with your values Asking "what is my current mindset and how is it serving me?" can help you identify and change any negative or limiting beliefs you may have Importance of asking oneself questions Asking oneself questions can lead to insights and ideas Some questions may take a long time to answer and may require asking repeatedly Answers to deep, profound questions can be life-changing It is important to genuinely want to know the answer and be willing to face difficult truths Asking oneself questions can involve emotional labor Questions can be specific to an individual's context and circumstances Examples of questions to ask oneself include: How can I have more confidence in myself? How am I being reactive and defensive? What am I really trying to say here? How am I creating this problem? How can I make this task more enjoyable? How am I being closed-minded? What are the most powerful self-help techniques? How can I become financially independent? What should be the next chapter of my life? Why am I unfulfilled in life? Asking questions can lead to unexpected answers from various sources, including your own inner voice, intuition, subconscious mind, or universal intelligence The act of asking questions primes your mind to be receptive to the world around you and can lead to serendipitous or synchronistic events Asking questions habitually can lead to a steady stream of insights and can help you feel more resourceful and confident in finding answers to problems or challenges To cultivate this habit, contemplate the importance of questioning, make a list of top questions about life, identify your most important questions, and look for solutions to chronic problems or obstacles Practice asking open-ended and specific questions, and try asking for help or advice from others Keep track of your questions and the answers you receive, and reflect on how they have impacted your life Consider the benefits of asking questions in various areas of your life, such as relationships, career, personal growth, and spirituality
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Life Unfolds In Chapters & Phases https://youtu.be/ym0mSXSNZsU Life unfolds in chapters and phases Each chapter consists of four phases: limbo, starting, middle, and end Limbo is a time of inaction and reflection, a chance to heal and think things through The starting phase is when you find a new sense of direction and start taking action to build momentum The middle phase is when you are in your stride, building momentum and success The end phase is when things start to become stale and it is time to wrap up the chapter and move on to the next one By understanding the phases, it is possible to assess where you are in your own life cycle and take action to move forward The purpose of this discussion is to help people understand and navigate the different phases of life to achieve success and fulfillment. Phase in life where results are not being delivered Workaholics struggle in this phase because they get stuck in a cycle of doing the same work over and over Important to ask oneself fundamental questions about the value and alignment of one's work This phase is a time to relax, decompress, and introspect in order to discover a new purpose Phase can last for months or years and will be different for everyone Important to break old patterns and try new things in order to discover deeper aspects of oneself and align with top values This is a time to dream, vision, and get inspired by new aspects of reality It is important to open oneself up to life and try new things in order to avoid becoming depressed This is a time to review what is most important in life and understand one's top values and life purpose Consider working with a coach or therapist to help with self-discovery and personal growth Use meditation, journaling, and other practices to support introspection and self-discovery Trust that a new purpose will emerge with time and patience Strike while the iron is hot to jump into a new business Phase of high energy and excitement, where a lot of progress is made Possible issues in this phase include fear of failure, feelings of inadequacy, and insecurities Importance of discipline and building good habits and routines Need to keep working on and refining your vision Avoid temptation to return to old habits or behaviors Seek support and guidance from mentors or others who have succeeded in similar endeavors Stay optimistic and keep pushing forward, even when faced with challenges or setbacks Don't let limiting beliefs hold you back Business has run its course and it's time for a new chapter Projects that used to excite feel stale and meaningless Loss of meaning and feeling unfulfilled Energy and motivation wane Comfort with luxury and success makes change difficult Feelings of being trapped and cornered in life Complaining, entitlement, corruption, and arrogance Loss of creativity and inspiration Fear of collapsing or losing it all Attention and motivation split between old and new projects Low energy state and feelings of depression and isolation Accept that the end is near and acknowledge achievements, growth, and gains Reflect on the past and what you've learned Consider what you want for the future Let go of attachments and attachments to comfort Take steps towards the next chapter, even if it means discomfort Surround yourself with supportive people and seek help if needed It is important to always be researching and seeking out new opportunities Keep a log or journal of potential opportunities Engage in activities like reading and talking to new people to do research and find exciting opportunities Expect resistance from old friends and family when embarking on a new journey and be prepared to work on it quietly Get comfortable being alone during certain phases of the journey The hero's journey follows a four phase model: ordinary life, call to adventure, mastering a skill or conquering an obstacle, and returning to ordinary life with newfound knowledge or skills The hero's journey can be paralleled to the four phase model: ordinary life, limbo, starting phase, peak of journey After the peak of the journey, the hero may feel depressed or lost, but it is important to keep moving forward and find a new purpose The hero's journey is a cycle that can be repeated throughout one's lifetime Mention of temptation to make more money with current business Idea of considering life in terms of chapters or phases Suggestion to focus on one or two themes per chapter Examples of themes (relationships, career, finances, etc.) Importance of clear focus and avoiding spreading oneself too thin Mention of the value in rituals or ceremonies to mark the beginning and end of a chapter Difficulty in making a clean break and moving on to the next chapter Encouragement to visit website and check out resources for personal development.
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Understanding Duality - Part 3 - Existential Dualities https://youtu.be/D4izvIGPsXQ Understanding Duality - Part 3 Existential Dualities Metaphysics and spirituality Subjective and objective duality Science and materialist metaphysics Subjective experience and objectivity Quantum mechanics and its impact on traditional physics The role of consciousness in understanding reality The duality between consciousness and the physical world The concept of non-duality The importance of understanding dualities in order to understand reality Transcending dualities to reach a higher state of consciousness The potential for human beings to access higher states of consciousness and understanding The role of meditation and self-inquiry in accessing higher states of consciousness Creation and destruction are intimately connected and necessary for each other To create new life, old life must be destroyed to make space Overpopulation leads to destruction Destruction can lead to new creation by creating emptiness The "undo" function in computer programs is an example of the usefulness of destruction in the creation process Some people see destruction as inherently evil, but this belief weakens creation Love and hate are not as simple as they seem; love as a lowercase "L" is a selfish form of love, while love as a capital "L" is a selfless, all-encompassing love Hatred is the absence of love, and the presence of ego The duality of good and evil is a product of the ego's desire for separation and control God is both a creator and a destroyer, and encompasses all dualities To transcend dualities, one must realize the ultimate unity of all things There is a great diversity in the animal kingdom, with billions of species New species are constantly being discovered Understanding and appreciating this diversity is important for opening the heart and mind and understanding true love Duality of dumb vs. intelligent exists, with intelligence often being elevated and dumbness stigmatized However, intelligence is absolute and everything in the universe serves a purpose and is therefore intelligent Reality is subjective and dependent on perspective Life is a dream and we are all just dream characters experiencing different perspectives and aspects of the dream Life is a game and we are all just players playing different roles in the game The ultimate goal of the game is to become conscious of the dream and the true nature of reality This requires letting go of identification with the ego and personality and embracing the true self, which is infinite consciousness It also requires understanding the interconnectedness of all things and acting with love and compassion towards all beings. The concept of reality and duality The universe and reality exists by itself, and there is no opposite reality The duality of one versus many: the idea that everything can be subdivided an infinite number of times and that the concept of "one" or "many" is subjective and created by the mind The duality of mundane versus divine: the idea that the mundane and divine are not separate, but are instead one and the same, and can be experienced in the present moment through consciousness The split between those who engage in spiritual practices and those who do not, and the potential for both to experience the divine in their own way The duality of good and evil: the idea that good and evil are not opposites, but rather two sides of the same coin and are ultimately subjective and created by the mind The idea of transcending dualities and realizing oneness or unity with all things Surrendering to God can be achieved by destroying all meaning The ego creates meaning, not the Godhead Life and death are intimately connected and cannot be separated To live, one must kill, even if it's just as a result of everyday actions The duality of life and death can be transcended to discover immortality and the omnipresence of life Science has trouble explaining the origin of life because it cannot distinguish between living and non-living things The experience of dying can be transcendent and lead to a greater understanding of life The body is temporary and the ego is an illusion The concept of self is a product of the mind and can be transcended to realize the interconnectedness of all things The realization of unity with the universe can bring peace and a greater understanding of the nature of reality Division creates two parts First division is between self and the rest of the world Duality between actual and real is untenable and must collapse Realizing this can lead to "death" and enlightenment, but it is terrifying and may lead to the end of one's current sense of reality and self Non-duality (enlightenment) is radical and can lead to the end of one's life and current understanding of reality Duality between self and God is related to the duality between self and the world The idea of God as a separate being reinforces the idea of the self as separate from the world Non-duality breaks down this duality and allows for the understanding that God and self are not separate entities The final duality is between form and emptiness Form refers to the physical world and its phenomena Emptiness refers to the lack of inherent existence in all things This duality is related to the concept of dependent origination, which states that all things arise due to causes and conditions and are not inherently existent Understanding dependent origination can lead to the realization of emptiness and the breaking down of the duality between form and emptiness This understanding allows for a realization of the interconnectedness of all things and the ultimate lack of separation between self and the world The trap of pursuing non-duality with a lowercase n, which means demonizing and judging duality as though it is separate from God The importance of embracing everything, including duality, in order to truly transcend Reality is both non-dual and dualistic, and it is important to be able to view it through both lenses The duality of relative versus absolute truth, and the importance of embracing both in order to fully embody the absolute The danger of creating new divisions, such as dividing the relative from the absolute, in the pursuit of enlightenment The importance of understanding and embracing the full spectrum of human experience, including the darkness and negativity, in order to fully awaken and transcend the ego The role of the ego in creating divisions and trying to exclude certain aspects of reality The importance of embracing and integrating the shadow in order to fully awaken and transcend the ego The concept of "the middle way" as a path to enlightenment that involves finding balance and not swinging too far towards either extreme of a duality. Duality between form and formlessness Form is present, but formlessness (Shiva) is also present Form and formlessness are identical Duality between something and nothing Something and nothing are the same, and cannot be distinguished from each other Transcendence of this duality leads to enlightenment and realization that nothing (with a capital N) is identical to something Duality between zero and infinity Zero and infinity are identical Zero is boundless and therefore formless, and infinity is omnipresent Duality between finite and infinite Distinction between lowercase "i" infinity (relative infinity) and uppercase "I" Infinity (absolute infinity) Uppercase "I" Infinity includes every finite possibility within it Duality between limited and unlimited Unlimited means infinite freedom, but also allows for infinite limitation Duality between enlightened and unenlightened Enlightenment (capital "E") is an absolute, and realization of this leads to understanding that there is no difference between enlightenment and unenlightenment However, it is important for those who are unenlightened to make a distinction between the two states Duality between good and evil Good and evil are not separate and cannot exist without each other Good and evil are also relative and depend on one's perspective Transcendence of this duality leads to understanding that good and evil are both expressions of the same thing The fundamental error is assuming that reality has a ground Non-duality means the collapse of all grounds, leading to the absolute (called the groundless ground) Reality has no ground and cannot be spoken or written about without devolving into contradictions and paradoxes All attempts at formalizing, mapping, or modeling reality will fail because they are finite and limited, while reality is infinite and all-inclusive Science, as it is currently practiced, will always fail to achieve a unified theory of everything because it relies on finite equations There is a difference between understanding one part of reality in isolation and understanding the totality of it The speaker's teachings are pragmatic and meant to guide towards a personal realization of the absolute truth, but are not themselves the absolute truth Anything that the mind says, including refutations or affirmations of non-duality, will be dualistic The speaker's teachings are not meant to be taken literally, but rather as pointers towards a direct realization of non-duality Non-duality is beyond words, thoughts, and symbols and must be directly realized The speaker is honest about their dualistic language and does not claim to have the absolute truth The speaker's work is meant to help people realize the absolute truth for themselves, not to give them the truth itself The idea of true unification involves accepting division Unification is not the lack of distinction, but rather the ability to embrace all distinctions It is important to maintain distinctions, such as between a man and a woman, but also to recognize that all of these distinctions are part of the diversity of the self Unification should be all-encompassing, including even division and evil Love should be indiscriminate, but this does not mean condoning or tolerating evil actions Awakening does not make one simple-minded, but rather increases the ability to make distinctions while also recognizing unity and non-duality An exercise to unify dualities, such as masculinity and femininity or capitalism and socialism, is to recognize the value and importance of the marginalized half that has been rejected or hated It is difficult to let go of attachments and preferences for one side of a duality, but it is necessary for true unification The ultimate goal of unification is to be able to see that everything is interconnected and that the self is a part of the whole This understanding allows for true compassion and understanding towards others, as well as the ability to take appropriate action to prevent harm or suffering. The speaker suggests that understanding the topic being discussed requires more than just conceptual understanding and that personal experience is necessary The speaker encourages the listener to verify the truth of the ideas being presented and to approach the topic with a scientific and philosophical mindset The speaker acknowledges that the topic being discussed is complex and may seem abstract or impractical, but suggests that there is a deeper wisdom to be found by exploring it The speaker emphasizes the importance of dedicating time and effort to the topic and suggests that it is worth the investment, as it is part of building a "massive skyscraper" of personal development and spirituality The speaker advises the listener to stay motivated and to remind themselves of the larger vision they are working towards, even when they face challenges or setbacks
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Understanding Duality - Part 2 - Scientific Dualities https://youtu.be/-ti5HmiBVmo Understanding Duality Part 2: Scientific and Existential Dualities Definition of duality: contrast with non duality (oneness) Dualities can have many parts and can be multi-dimensional Examples of dualities: theism, atheism, agnosticism; straight, gay, bisexual; color spectrum; sensation, thoughts; cat, dog; panda bear, non-panda bear List of 250 dualities to be discussed in the video Importance of understanding duality in order to understand non duality Duality creates illusion of separation, but non duality recognizes unity Examples of scientific dualities: matter and energy, wave and particle, observer and observed Wave-particle duality: light can behave as both a wave and a particle Observer-observed duality: act of observing affects the outcome of an experiment Schrodinger's cat thought experiment: cat in a box can be both alive and dead until observed Uncertainty principle: it is impossible to know both the exact position and momentum of a particle at the same time Existential dualities: self and other, free will and determinism, good and evil Importance of exploring and understanding these dualities in order to live a fulfilling life Duality can be transcended through understanding non duality Non duality does not negate duality, but rather sees it as part of a larger whole Conclusion and encouragement to continue exploring duality and non duality. There is always a portion of liquid molecules that are moving too fast and turning into gas, even at room temperature The concept of conductors, insulators, semiconductors, and superconductors shows that there is permeability in boundaries between categories The categories that scientists use can distort their understanding and limit their ability to make new discoveries The boundary between land and water is difficult to define and may not be as clear-cut as it seems at first glance Black and white categories in general may not be as firm as they seem and may bleed into other things It is valuable for a scientist to think outside of these pigeonholes and categories. Various analog actions can have digital consequences, such as making scratches on a digital device or damaging a digital hard drive Matter and energy are not separate, as demonstrated by Einstein's equation of matter and energy being equal to each other Electricity and magnetism were once thought to be separate phenomena, but were later unified by Maxwell's equations Space and time are not separate, but are instead integrally connected, leading to a paradigm shift in physics Quantum mechanics and relativity are both accurate in predicting different phenomena, but there needs to be a reconciliation between the two theories Paradigm shifts in understanding require radical open-mindedness and the ability to see new categories Environmental and genetic factors affect individuals The mind and DNA can change through certain experiences and theories The ego may use genetics as an excuse for certain traits or abilities The distinction between first-person and third-person phenomena in science The duality between science and philosophy/metaphysics The importance of considering metaphysical assumptions in scientific work The duality between objective and subjective in scientific observation The role of consciousness in scientific experiments and interpretation The limitations of the scientific method and the need for a more holistic approach to understanding reality The lack of research on certain subjects, such as psychedelics and meditation, is due to the lack of financial gain that can be made from studying these topics Science is often biased and influenced by corporate interests, leading to a focus on research that will bring financial gain rather than a pursuit of understanding Science is cultural and subject to the beliefs and values of the culture in which it exists There are subcultures within the various disciplines of science and these subcultures often do not get along with each other Science progresses slowly due to its cultural nature, with new paradigms being accepted only after the death of older generations of scientists Science relies on a collective consensus, which is formed within a culture There are limitations to scientific understanding due to the cultural and subjective nature of science The pursuit of objectivity in science is flawed because it is impossible for scientists to completely eliminate their personal biases and subjectivity The pursuit of objectivity should not be the main goal of science, but rather a recognition and acknowledgement of subjectivity should be embraced in order to allow for a more complete understanding of the world. Duality between skepticism and faith False skepticism and true skepticism Skepticism as dogma Duality between fact and interpretation Difficulty in separating facts from feelings and interpretation Ego's influence on emotions and attachment to certain beliefs Duality between spirituality and materialism Spirituality as subjective experience Materialism as limiting perspective Importance of considering multiple viewpoints and being open to change Closed-mindedness and ego-driven behavior Need for self-awareness and introspection Rant against certain types of skeptics and rationalists Lack of perspective and integral thinking Tendency to demonize those with differing viewpoints Mention of Greek hero Piran ISM and acolyte sexist empirica in relation to skepticism Flying requires a certain form, such as a wing or a pointy nose, to reduce wind resistance or light bones with air pockets The form of a bird determines its function Syntax and semantics are closely related Duality of controller versus controlled (e.g. individual versus society) Determinism versus freewill Duality of analysis and synthesis or analysis and holism Duality of technology and magic Duality of cause and effect (every effect is the cause of something else) Duality of singularity and infinity The infinite nature of reality cannot be fully captured through symbols The issue of incompleteness and self-reflection, as exemplified by the liar paradox, is related to the inability to capture all of reality through symbols Reality includes all maps, models, thoughts, and images, leading to the conclusion that thoughts and images are part of reality The connection between the mind and body is fluid, with no clear boundary between the two It is important to distinguish between thoughts and tangible objects, but they are not separate from each other The material being discussed is very deep and wide, and it will take a long time to fully understand it Part two of the discussion has ended and part three will cover the existential dualities, which form the foundation of all existence The listener should start to observe and keep a list of dualities in their everyday life It is important to contemplate and work through the examples given in order to fully understand the material There is a danger in accepting a massive list of information without fully understanding it Part three of the discussion will provide concluding remarks and show the significance of the master list being presented.
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Understanding Duality - Part 1 - Master List of 250+ Dualities https://youtu.be/FO3YtZwhN2k Understanding Duality is a series about how the mind uses dualities to understand reality The series is divided into three parts: common dualities, scientific dualities, and existential dualities The series covers over 250 dualities in total Part two is the most important part of the series Thinking and all forms of communication and intellectual activity involve creating dualities Dualities are defined against their opposites, and they are necessary for practical use of concepts We create dualities unconsciously and this can lead us astray Examples of dualities include up versus down, light versus dark, and good versus evil Dualities can be helpful in understanding the world, but they can also be limiting and oversimplify reality It is important to be aware of dualities and not take them for granted in order to have a deeper understanding of the world Reality is how things actually are, not something that can be created or is relative The concept of defining a "heap" is difficult and can be extended to other concepts, such as outer space and what constitutes a living cell or human There is often debate and confusion around these definitions because lines are drawn without acknowledging that they are being drawn The concept of defining and drawing lines also applies to the origin of humans and the evolution of species It is difficult to define when something becomes "alive" or "conscious" These issues can be tricky and may involve subjective interpretation, but they are important to consider and discuss. Dualities: forward vs. backward, weak vs. strong, slow vs. fast, easy vs. hard, smooth vs. rough, short vs. long, empty vs. full, odd vs. even, high vs. low, decrease vs. increase, heads vs. tails, narrow vs. broad, shallow vs. deep, good vs. bad, good vs. evil Concept of the absolute or transcendent Relative nature of categories Good and bad are relative and depend on context Need to transcend dualities and move towards the absolute Good and evil are not absolute, but rather relative and subjective Importance of understanding the relative nature of dualities and transcending them in order to understand deeper truths The concept of "should" is that things that should be done must be done by everyone "Should" can be seen as an absolute or as a relative idea, depending on the context The idea that certain things "should not" happen is a fantasy, and accepting everything as it is is the key to transcending the back and forth between "should" and "should not" Engaging in conflicts and arguments (such as in politics, religion, or personal relationships) is unproductive and can be resolved by becoming aware of transcendent absolutes To become aware of transcendent absolutes, it is necessary to set aside the time and energy typically spent on conflicts and instead focus on spiritual work and personal development The goal of this work is to rise above the "tug-of-war" mentality and instead focus on understanding and compassion for others This can be achieved through practices such as meditation, which can help individuals become more self-aware and understanding of the world around them. School is a place where people are taught to fit in and be "normal" Being "weird" is often seen as bad or wrong People pick on and laugh at those who are perceived as "weird" The concept of "normal" and "weird" is relative and varies depending on location, culture, and time People may try to be "weird" as a form of rebellion or to stand out, but this can also become a defining characteristic or role Authenticity, or "authenticity with a capital A," transcends the dichotomy of "normal" and "weird" Categories like race and gender are culturally constructed and may not hold up scientifically These distinctions are given importance because they are convenient for survival, but acknowledging that they are made up gives us the freedom to change them Our survival is not dependent on these distinctions, and they may even hinder our survival Taming animals is not a simple process and depends on their physiology, genetics, and psychology Soviet scientist selectively bred foxes to have kind dispositions and was eventually able to create a semi-tame version that can be kept as a pet Tameness is not a binary concept and there are degrees of tameness Fairness is also not a binary concept and can be understood in terms of an absolute fairness that comes from the realization that one universal consciousness experiences all permutations of every being in the universe Winning and losing, gain and loss, right and wrong, and good and evil are all relative and depend on perspective The dualistic way of thinking about these concepts is limiting and can be transcended by understanding their relative nature and by seeing the interconnectedness of all things The ultimate goal is to transcend dualistic thinking and to realize the unity of all things The concept of terrorism being linked with nationalism leads to overly generalized and harmful beliefs and policies In order to write a good story, it is important to understand human psychology and create complex characters with both good and bad qualities The journey is just as important as the destination The roles of ruler and ruled, and beautiful and ugly, can be transcended through a different perspective Art and non-art, and discord and harmony, are subjective concepts Masturbation and sex can be seen as the same thing from a higher perspective The roles of student and teacher, and child and adult, can be fluid and are not mutually exclusive It is important to understand and transcend dualistic thinking The concept of identity can be limiting and fluid The idea of separation is an illusion It is important to be present in the present moment The concept of free will is subjective and depends on one's perspective Transcending pleasure and pain Individualism versus collectivism Importance of striking a balance between individualism and collectivism Collectivism empowering individualism Collectivism becoming too oppressive and hurting individualism Transcending both individualism and collectivism through non-duality and spirituality Individuals sacrificing for the collective good Libertarians not understanding their place in a collective Primary and secondary as a duality Feeling and emotion as a duality Inclusion and exclusion as a duality Theism and atheism as a duality Consistent and inconsistent as a duality Moderate and extreme as a duality Attraction and repulsion as a duality Contraction and expansion as a duality Dominant and submissive as a duality Gross and subtle as a duality Popular and unpopular as a duality Mainstream and niche as a duality Status quo and change as a duality There is a trend of young males reacting against feminism and femininity and seeking hyper masculinity This trend is seen in "red pill culture", "MOG" (men going their own way), and "pickup culture" Gender norms and the concept of homosexuality are being challenged and normalized, but still resisted in some areas The resistance to social justice warriors may be due to blurring of traditional gender boundaries Gender and gender roles are mental constructs, shaped by culture and individual experiences The duality of man/woman is not always clear-cut and can be challenged by edge cases, such as people with non-binary anatomy The concept of man/woman goes beyond physical characteristics and includes a range of associated traits and expectations Understanding the mental construct of gender can help to deconstruct harmful beliefs and behaviors related to gender norms
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Becoming God - Insights From 13 Back-to-Back Awakenings https://youtu.be/ywHfNSwcCS8 The speaker went on a 30-day solo meditation retreat The first 16 days were spent doing mindfulness techniques, but the speaker did not have any awakenings The speaker decided to finish the retreat by doing back-to-back 5meo DMT trips The trips became deeper than previous experiences and resulted in 13 awakenings, each deeper than the previous one The speaker experienced a feeling of oneness with everything and a deep understanding of the nature of reality The speaker also had experiences related to past lives and other dimensions The speaker found the integration process after the retreat to be challenging, but ultimately felt that the retreat was the most productive month of their life in terms of personal growth. The speaker has had numerous awakenings that have gotten deeper and more profound The speaker used a whiteboard with a square to depict the awakenings, but eventually had to go outside the square to show the depth of the awakenings The speaker believes that traditional spiritual techniques, such as mindfulness meditation and self-inquiry, are not sufficient for achieving these levels of consciousness The speaker believes that 5-MeO-DMT is the most powerful tool for achieving these levels of consciousness, but it must be used in the proper way The speaker will discuss the proper way to use 5-MeO-DMT in future discussions The speaker experienced the oneness of all things and the interconnectedness of all life during these awakenings The speaker experienced a sense of love and acceptance towards all beings during these awakenings The speaker has had experiences with other psychedelics, such as LSD and mushrooms, but believes that 5-MeO-DMT offers a level of clarity and consciousness that is not attainable with other psychedelics. The speaker believes they understand the universe and are "fully conscious" that they are God The speaker believes there are different degrees of awakening and understanding The speaker's teachings may take on a religious tone and may be off-putting to some people The speaker believes that fully awakening to God is transformative and feels like a religious conversion Reality is divine and good, and aligning one's life with that is the goal of awakening The entire universe is an infinite fractal, and the speaker is currently God looking through a fractal The speaker believes that everything is consciousness, and that the universe is a holographic projection The speaker believes that everything is interconnected and that all consciousness is one The speaker believes that the universe is a simulation and that the matrix (the simulation) can be hacked The speaker believes that they can access higher dimensions and that they have had experiences of this The speaker believes that they have access to the Akashic Records, a sort of "cosmic library" of all knowledge The speaker believes that they can access past lives and other dimensions through the use of certain drugs and techniques The speaker believes that they can communicate with and control the matrix through their thoughts and intention. Zero is not at the center of infinity, but any random number can be considered the center because of the infinite number of positive and negative numbers The structure of the universe, or "fractal," is not arbitrary or random, but rather determined by the "godhead" or "unlimited" object This unlimited object exists outside of the universe and is unconstrained by physical or logical laws It is all-powerful and can do anything, including being conscious and self-aware It is also infinitely intelligent and can exist in multiple forms at once The unlimited object can create and destroy, and is the cause of all events in the universe It is both the creator and the creation, and can exist in multiple states simultaneously Understanding the unlimited object allows one to understand the true nature of reality and the self The unlimited object can be accessed through meditation and other spiritual practices There are many butterflies on Earth, all flapping their wings and exerting gravitational force on each other. There are also many planets and stars in the universe, potentially with their own butterflies or similar creatures, all exerting gravitational force on the butterflies on Earth. Every object in the universe has an infinite chain of causation, including the butterfly and the reasons why someone is wearing white today. The chain of causation can be traced back to the beginning of the Big Bang, which is just a small part of an infinite whole. The chain of causation has multiple dimensions, including physical and non-physical causes. The intricate design and seamless functioning of the universe suggests it was not an accident, but rather a design. The speaker believes that humans should not try to change reality or the "infinite design of god" because they are too "myopic" and their actions may make things worse The speaker believes that everything that exists is absolute good and that non-existence does not exist The speaker believes that god is immortal and is the source of all intelligence and existence The speaker suggests that one can become directly conscious of how god's will manifests in reality, and that this can be done through looking at one's own body and hand The speaker believes that the mind and body are not separate, and that the mind and body are constantly creating each other The speaker believes that one's thoughts and actions have a direct impact on the world and can manifest reality The speaker suggests that one can change their reality by changing their thoughts and beliefs The speaker believes that the universe is perfect and that one should not try to change it or try to make it better The speaker believes that the universe is constantly providing for one's needs and that one should trust in this process The speaker suggests that one should not try to control or micromanage their life, but rather let go and trust in the universe's plan. The speaker has been working on being more authentic and their understanding of awakening has been transformed The speaker is aware that they have been playing ego games and is working on changing that The speaker will be releasing more weekly videos with profound content and notes from a recent 30-day retreat on their blog The content of the future videos will include a mix of practical material and reiteration of previous topics, as well as new insights and technical details The speaker wants to embody their teachings more in their body language, tone, emotions, and personal example The speaker has recently opened a new chapter in their life and is excited but also uncertain about what the future holds The speaker is not stopping their personal growth and is open to more insights and awakenings.
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Leaving On 30-Day Solo Retreat https://youtu.be/yhfeLiuG_wo The speaker is taking a 30-day solo retreat to focus on their own inner work and contemplation They have been releasing videos consistently for the past five years and the process of researching, studying, and presenting information is exhausting It is important to balance the work of creating content with personal inner work and self-improvement The speaker plans to do a silent retreat, meditating and contemplating their own emotional reactions They hope to have a significant awakening experience during the retreat The speaker has experienced growth in their consciousness in the past year through meditation, Kriya yoga, brain training, and self inquiry They plan to return after the retreat and reassess their schedule for releasing videos The speaker encourages others to take breaks and prioritize their own inner work and self-improvement. The speaker has been involved in a project for five years The speaker is looking to make a change and move on to the next chapter in their life, which will be more spiritual in nature The speaker plans to spend the next 30 days focusing on personal development and growth The speaker is excited about continuing to teach and share content, and has many ideas for new videos and topics to cover The speaker has developed a system for brainstorming and working on multiple outlines simultaneously The speaker's content will cover new, practical topics in addition to spiritual ones The speaker is open to changing the format of their content and considering new opportunities, such as touring or writing a book The speaker plans to bring their audience along on their journey of growth and development The mainstream spirituality and consciousness practices are outdated and not cutting edge These practices do not incorporate modern insights from psychology, psychotherapy, and psychedelics Many spiritual traditions are ignorant of modern fields like psychology and sociology These traditions often justify their lack of incorporation by claiming enlightenment is enough The author's vision is to integrate non-duality and all spiritual traditions with science, physics, evolution, social sciences, philosophy, technology, political science, and self-help Science, the foundations of science, culture, and the educational and nutritional systems also need to be reformed The author's memory struggles with the sheer amount of information and integration required Meditation and becoming woke are still important, but not enough on their own The author's goal is to create a more holistic and cutting-edge spirituality and consciousness practice The speaker believes that achieving a goal or vision often requires sacrifices and self-surrender They mention politicians John Edwards and Anthony Weiner as examples of people who let their own personal flaws ruin their careers The speaker suggests that inner turmoil or "the devil" within oneself can hold a person back and cause them to sabotage their own success They recommend doing retreats or facing suffering consciously in order to grow, stay humble, and avoid becoming too comfortable or disconnected from others The speaker warns that a lack of suffering or discomfort can lead to a pursuit of pleasure and avoidance of suffering, potentially resulting in dysfunctional or pathological behavior They encourage the listener to face their own limitations and problems, and to be honest with themselves in order to prevent self-sabotage and overcome their own obstacles.
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Aztec Nonduality - Profound Life Lessons From Aztec Philosophy https://youtu.be/8GjGMWBWWKM Aztec philosophy contains profound lessons about life Aztec philosophy is a form of non-duality, which is interconnected with other religions such as Buddhism, Hinduism, Christianity, and Islam Aztecs referred to a single, sacred power or force as Toyota, or God Toyota is the unified, all-encompassing life force of the universe Toyota generates and regenerates the cosmos, including everything in it Toyota is identical with everything and everything is identical with Toyota Toyota transcends dichotomies such as personal versus impersonal, animate versus inanimate Aztecs believed that humans have the potential to become one with Toyota Aztec philosophy suggests that the ultimate goal of the spiritual path is to become one with Toyota Aztec philosophy also includes the concept of teotl, which is the ultimate reality or the supreme being Aztec philosophy includes the idea that humans have a dual nature, including both animal and divine aspects Aztec philosophy includes the belief that humans have a nagual, or a spirit double, which is connected to the spiritual world Aztec philosophy emphasizes the importance of living in harmony with nature and with others Aztec philosophy suggests that living a virtuous life and performing good deeds can help one to become closer to Toyota and achieve spiritual enlightenment People cling to things like guns, religion, ways of doing business, philosophy, economic ideology This is like trying to hold onto a waterfall and is ultimately delusion because reality is constantly changing and everything eventually dies or becomes obsolete Reality, or Toyota, cannot be characterized as simply being or not being, but rather as becoming Toyota cannot be described as ordered or disordered, but rather as unordered Toyota simultaneously contains and transcends dualities such as life/death, male/female, etc. Toyota is an unstructured and unordered seamless totality Reality is not how materialists and realists conceive of it Reality is not structured or determined by physical or conceptual boundaries Reality is a continuous process of becoming, with no fixed or static essence Reality is a "radically indeterminate and unstructured whole" This understanding of reality is characterized as an extreme nominalist anti-realism and Toyota as a "Conti enlike noumenon" The idea that God is like an owl that is well camouflaged and can't be seen easily The concept that God is a shapeshifter or chameleon and is able to perfectly camouflage itself The idea that the materialist approach to seeking evidence of God is flawed because it's like trying to find an owl that is camouflaged on a tree branch The metaphor of God as a shapeshifter to explain why God is deceptive and confusing The concept in Hinduism of Maya, or the illusory nature of reality The idea that the apparent thickness, multiplicity, and exclusivity of existence are all illusory The concept that problems stem from the illusion and delusion of the mind, and the need to focus on this instead of external factors like conspiracy theories or religious fundamentalists Illusion is necessary for survival and building a civilization Illusions allow humans to live, but also contribute to misunderstanding and difficulty in understanding God Sages in Chinese philosophy view earthly existence as ephemeral and evanescent Illusion is a function of mistaking commonly perceived characteristics of Toyota's artistic self-disguise as characteristics of Toyota itself Non-duality does not commit to an ontological dualism between illusion and reality, and is consistent with ontological monism In the awakening process, one must separate illusion from absolute truth Reality is relative and can be viewed in different ways It is important to be able to switch between different perspectives and integrate them together to fully embody non-duality To fully embody non-duality, one must bring the absolute truth back and realize that illusion and absolute truth are identical The ego is an illusion, but also a necessary part of the illusion of the earthly realm It is important to let go of the ego in order to fully embody non-duality The ultimate goal of non-duality is to bring the absolute truth into the earthly realm and fully embody it in one's life. Analytical philosophy is too conceptual and abstract, disconnected from real world problems and practical everyday life Ancient Greeks and Romans practiced philosophy to be better citizens, politicians, orators, and scientists Modern academic philosophy is disconnected from its origins and is perceived as abstract and disconnected from practical concerns such as career and relationships The purpose of actualized.org is to show how to apply abstract philosophical concepts to everyday life to improve mood, solve problems, and be more authentic and honest in relationships, among other things Most people in the West live unfulfilled, depressed, and mediocre lives due to a lack of true philosophy in their education This lack of philosophy is responsible for many real-world problems, including war, genocide, climate change, and corruption Nahua philosophy is a universal philosophy that has been tested and works for all humans across all cultures and continents The question of how humans can maintain balance on the slippery earth is addressed by Nahua philosophy through the idea of living a harmonious life in alignment with nature and the cosmos Atheism and religious belief are both forms of delusion because people are not fully conscious of their own total nature Earth is facing a tipping point due to ecological, political, and other issues caused by human imbalance, including excessive capitalism and ideological polarization The Nahua people recognized the importance of balance in earthly life and sought to live in moderation, but modern fundamentalist religious people try to codify balance into rigid rules and commandments that do not account for changing circumstances Humans yearn for rootedness in their lives and search for it, but often end up disappointed and starting the search anew The trick to finding balance and rootedness is to understand the impermanence of things and to embrace change and adaptability The way to achieve balance and rootedness is to develop self-awareness, consciousness, and wisdom through practices like meditation and psychoactive plant use The current global crisis is a result of humanity's lack of balance and rootedness, and the solution is for individuals to cultivate these qualities within themselves and create a more balanced society. Government has passed legislation that prevents labels from being placed on junk food in free-trade agreements with other countries Coca-Cola and other large companies dominate the advertising and marketing ecosystem, making it difficult for alternative messages to be spread on a large scale In order to improve society, there needs to be more institutions that promote truth and honesty Truth is important in every aspect of life and not being connected to it leads to problems individually and collectively Humans can access yodel through their hearts, which are charged with sacred energy and have a lot of Todel Modern academia and the materialistic paradigm often prioritize the left hemisphere (logic, reason, evidence) over the right hemisphere (holistic, heart-centered) This leads to a lack of understanding of spirituality, psychology, self-deception, and states of consciousness In order to access yodel, one must have a heart charged with sacred energy and be wise in the things of yodel The speaker believes that connecting with Toyota (the name given for the divine or ultimate reality) can help one create amazing things and feel good Many people are depressed because they lack a sense of purpose in their lives The speaker's art involves sharing their experiences and insights on finding and pursuing one's life purpose The speaker suggests that finding one's artistic outlet and making it their career can be a form of spiritual pursuit, similar to the Hindu concepts of karma yoga and bhakti yoga In order to connect with Toyota, one must be well-balanced, pure, authentic, and morally righteous, and possess qualities such as humility, respect, strength, self-control, moderation, and modesty Some people try to pursue enlightenment in an inauthentic or egoistic manner, making it difficult for them to succeed Before beginning spiritual practices like meditation, one should work on clearing their mind and following certain rules for living a pure life The speaker believes that one must have a totalized heart and be knowledgeable about Toyota in order to fully realize it. The purpose of education is to perfect children by developing their wisdom and strong, humanized hearts, and shaping their character into something valuable The point of school and university should not be to pass tests or learn specific subjects, but to teach children how to live and be decent human beings This should be done through raising their consciousness and teaching them to think for themselves, engage in metaphysical and epistemic inquiry, connect with their artistic talents, and be authentic and truthful Actualized.org was created as a resource for this type of high-quality education, which is not offered in mainstream schooling Future educators and students can take responsibility for their own education by seeking out resources such as books, courses, and podcasts Society is not currently at a stage where this type of education is easily accessible, so individuals must take the initiative to seek it out and create it for themselves. The text discusses the importance of finding the "master blueprint" for becoming a sage and a visionary leader The speaker suggests that the principles of all religions are fundamentally the same and advises extracting the essence of a religion and discarding the technicalities and scriptures The speaker encourages materialists and atheists to consider the significance of religion and spirituality in the lives of billions of people throughout history The speaker suggests that reading "scriptures" from various traditions can provide insights and wisdom on how to live and what one's purpose is The speaker advises caution in following ancient wisdom, as it was often hard-won and sometimes resulted in people becoming deluded or falling into traps The speaker advises finding a guru or mentor to guide one's personal development journey The speaker recommends visiting their website (actualize.org) for resources including a blog, book list, life purpose course, and forum for discussing these ideas further.
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What Is God - Part 2 - Clear Answers To 70+ Commonly Asked Questions https://youtu.be/YMLuA2MzV40 The speaker addresses questions and objections about their belief that everyone is part of God and ultimately is God The speaker explains that God is a trickster and that reality is not a given, but rather is only possible when imagined and believed in The sense of ego or self helps people survive, but hinders them from realizing that they are in God all the time The speaker discusses the concept of maya, or illusion, and how it relates to understanding God The speaker talks about the idea of God being both immanent and transcendent The speaker discusses the concept of the ego and how it relates to the belief that one is separate from God The speaker explains that the ego is not the enemy, but rather it is the tool that can be used to realize God The speaker discusses the concept of duality and how it relates to understanding God The speaker talks about the role of faith in understanding and realizing God The speaker discusses the concept of surrender and how it relates to realizing God The speaker talks about the importance of devotion in realizing God The speaker discusses the concept of grace and how it relates to realizing God The speaker talks about the idea of non-dual realization and how it relates to understanding God The human mind can easily deny or resist the truth by being closed-minded or skeptical False skepticism is a trap People often assume that the truth should be self-evident, but the mind is very good at denying truth It is possible to deny even the most powerful truth-revealing experiences or evidence through sheer determination The power of self-deception is total, like the power of God God has the power to deceive itself and also the power to awaken itself from that deception Reality is a mystery, and science can never fully demystify it God is the gap or emptiness between all surfaces in reality, unifying them into oneness The concept of God as nothing is different from the atheist's concept of God as non-existent The practical differences between the two concepts of God as nothing include: A recognition of the ultimate mystery and unity of reality A recognition of the limitations of science and the human mind A belief in the potential for spiritual awakening and transformation A belief in the importance of subjective experience and inner exploration A belief in the interconnectedness of all things and the interdependence of the individual and the universe. The speaker believes that the person they are speaking to (Leo) is God, but may not be aware of it Reality has no limits beyond the physical universe, and there is an infinite number of possibilities where anything is possible Physical laws and universal constants do not apply in this infinite space There are an infinite number of states of consciousness God is the absolute truth, and can be directly conscious of it God cannot be a hallucination or delusion because direct consciousness of God is unmistakable The speaker's experience with 5-MeO-DMT (a chemical) showed them that God is not a brain state or chemical, but rather consciousness interacting with consciousness The speaker's perspective on God may not make sense to someone who holds different beliefs or concepts about the brain, chemicals, and consciousness To understand the speaker's perspective on God, one must go through the experience of it God is the proof that limitations exist God imposes limitations on itself by incarnating into specific forms Destruction only makes sense within the realm of form All forms are temporary, only the formless (Godhead) is permanent Experiences of God are not confirmation bias, but can be shocking and self-validating Conceptual knowledge can fly out the window during absolute Samadhi experiences Some experiences may not have been read about or taken seriously before becoming conscious The text discusses the idea that life is like a horror movie or roller coaster ride, and how people can get caught up in the suffering and pain that is part of this experience. The text suggests that people are egoistic and selfish, which leads them to confuse suffering and pain for reality. The text compares life to a virtual reality, similar to the movie "The Matrix," and how it can be both horrible and exhilarating at the same time. The text mentions the experience of skydiving as an example of how people put themselves in risky situations and live through them. The text suggests that God (or people) put themselves in this situation and must live through it until the end. Religion is difficult to evaluate from a modern perspective To understand religion, it is necessary to consider its origin and the time period in which it was created In the past, people did not have the same level of cognitive development or understanding of science as we do today Religion was used as a way to explain and understand God, but it was often couched in metaphor and stories to make it understandable to people with limited knowledge and understanding These stories were often passed down orally and recorded by people who were not necessarily enlightened themselves, leading to confusion and inaccuracies The teachings of religious figures were often diluted and filtered through the perspectives and worldviews of the people recording them As these stories were passed down through the ages, they became further removed from the original awakening experiences and teachings It is challenging to discuss religion in a way that is not dogmatic, ethnocentric, or moralistic, as these tend to be influenced by a person's cognitive level of development It is important to approach religion with an open mind and not dismiss it outright, but also to recognize that it may not always be completely accurate or up-to-date with modern values and understanding. Visions can be related to God, even though God is formless Understanding of God is filtered through one's culture and upbringing Mystical visions can come in the form of various avatars or symbols 5ml DMT allows for pure consciousness without visual distortions or hallucinations Eastern teachings are generally more strict and scientific, but Western teachings also have value No one culture or religion has a monopoly on spirituality All spiritual traditions can be studied and learned from The ego's identification with a particular religion can be a barrier to spiritual growth Egolessness allows for a more open and receptive understanding of spirituality It's important to question and challenge one's beliefs in order to grow spiritually Beliefs should be based on one's own experiences, rather than blindly accepting the beliefs of others God is all-knowing and all-powerful God can set up a situation where it forgets itself and must awaken to itself Godhead is formless and cannot awaken to itself because it already is itself and lacks a mind or form Humans can awaken to formlessness because they have a mind and are not all-knowing Godhead incarnates into form so that humans can see the full ramifications of what it means to be God To understand what it means to be God, God must live through every life and every creature on Earth and potentially other universes God is living through infinite time and all the different creatures in the multiverse God must experience everything to understand what it means to be God Humans are just a small fragment of God's experience To understand oneself, one must live through and experience their own life and body. The idea that other people and external things are projections of one's own imagination The experience of feeling alone after realizing this, but accepting it and moving past it The difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and how being fully conscious and awake can allow one to not feel lonely even while being alone The question of why some people are curious about God and spirituality while others are not Factors that may contribute to this curiosity, including brain type, environment, and spiritual gifts The theory that ancient humans were more spiritually inclined than modern humans, due to survival pressures and the cost of building modern civilization The impact of overpopulation and modern civilization on the environment and the potential for human extinction The need to balance materialistic and egotistical survival instincts with spiritual and moral concerns The importance of spiritual growth and self-actualization in finding fulfillment and meaning in life. The idea that culture and society are evolving and "bootstrapping" themselves The concept that God is in love with all of creation and is present in every possible scenario a human being can experience The idea that suffering is inherent in life and that awakening is the solution to dealing with it gracefully The concept of sahaja Samadhi, or the permanent state of being awake and in a high meditative state The idea that people may realize God but then fall back into duality or lose their understanding, and that this may be due to the difficulty of fully grasping and deconstructing their previous understanding of reality in one moment The importance of fully grasping and deconstructing the illusion of life in order for mystical experiences to stick and become permanent The idea that it is possible to live in a state of "non-duality" or constant realization of God In your early 20s, it is important to work on practical matters such as education, social relationships, health, financial independence, and career direction God can be experienced at any stage of cognitive development, but the level of development will affect the experience and understanding of God It is important to work on raising cognitive development to at least the yellow (holistic) level for a deeper understanding of God and spirituality God does not necessarily need to self-realize, but by awakening in this human form, one can fully understand and experience what God is It is important to awaken and work on self-realization in order to fully understand and experience the human experience It is possible to awaken at any age, but the earlier one starts, the better Awakening involves letting go of egoic attachments and identifying with the true self It is important to have a balanced approach to awakening, including both inner work and practical responsibilities Realizing God can help elevate the consciousness of mankind This process can improve various aspects of life, including relationships, creativity, and business Realizing God may give some people special powers or abilities, but these are not guaranteed and may be a distraction from awakening Miracles, including paranormal healing, can happen within physical reality, but some aspects of the Bible may be outdated, inaccurate, or problematic Enlightenment is a state of consciousness that can bring about profound understanding and a sense of unity with all things The process of enlightenment can be aided by spiritual practices, but it is not necessarily tied to any particular religion or tradition The purpose of life is subjective and may be different for each individual Spiritual awakening can bring a sense of peace, joy, and fulfillment, but it also requires letting go of attachments and ego. God is a confusing topic and can't be fully understood through question and answer The only way to understand God is to awaken to and become God -One awakening is not enough to fully understand God and multiple awakenings may be necessary to piece together a comprehensive understanding Psychedelics and yoga and self-inquiry can be used to facilitate awakenings Actualize.org has resources that can help people discover God People often reach out to the author for help understanding God
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What Is God - Part 1 - A No Bullshit Explanation For Smart People https://youtu.be/YE1yPCeF1Cc Introduction to topic of God and explanation of the purpose of the two-part miniseries Importance and depth of the question "What is God?" Difficulty of communicating about God, including challenges of dogmatism, self-deception, and closed-mindedness Historical context of people being persecuted for teaching about God Brief overview of different religious and philosophical views of God Explanation of the author's own direct experiences with and understanding of God Importance of critical thinking and verifying the information presented through personal experiences Mention of objections and questions that will be addressed in Part 2 Introduction to the concept of consciousness as the fundamental building block of all existence Explanation of how consciousness creates and perceives reality Introduction to the concept of the ego as a separate and limited identity within consciousness Explanation of the concept of enlightenment and realization of the true self as the ultimate goal of spiritual practice. People hallucinate and may misinterpret their experiences as evidence of God Need for concrete, scientific proof of God's existence Mumbo jumbo and philosophy not sufficient as proof Proof is a second-order phenomenon, dependent on the existence of something (like bricks being necessary to build a castle) Proof cannot be systematized or symbolized, and is weaker than truth Personal experience and subjective knowledge can still be valid forms of understanding Rationality and science rely on certain fundamental things being in place Belief in God does not necessarily require proof in the same way that other things do God is a controversial and emotional topic for most people People's beliefs about God shape their entire worldview and how they perceive and interact with reality Beliefs about God have practical consequences and can affect morality, relationships, and goals in life Attitudes about God can be a barrier to understanding what God is It is important to distinguish between believing in God and experiencing God Some people have had mystical experiences or a direct consciousness of God It is important to approach the topic of God with an open and honest attitude It is okay to not have all the answers and to continue to explore and seek understanding about God. God is omnipotent (unlimited power) and omnipresent (present everywhere) God is benevolent (all-loving and good) and incorporeal (not having a physical body) God is eternal, immortal, perfect, and complete God is a radical state of consciousness that is all states of consciousness God is the absence of the egoic identity or self God is synonymous with reality, existence, and truth God is the source of creation and the absolute The ego or limited sense of self is the obstacle to realizing God God can be experienced through the process of consciousness work or the death of the ego God can also be experienced through love and compassion The concept of God varies across different cultures and belief systems God is the creator and the creation The universe is one movement happening in concert together God is a strange loop, meaning it created itself God is infinite power and intelligence and exists for eternity God is absolute infinity, containing every possibility for eternity God is everything and nothing, paradoxical and hard to understand The concept of God can be experienced directly The concept of God is beyond words and language The ego is separate from God, but can experience oneness with God The ego's understanding of God is limited It is possible to directly experience God through meditation and other spiritual practices The concept of God can be understood through direct experience rather than logical thinking Realizing God feels like death because the physical reality has been thought to be real for the whole life Surrendering control of life to God or the universe and taking the ego out of life is the realization of God God feels like the disillusion of all boundaries and non-dual awareness, where dualist categories melt away God feels like an epiphany or a mindfuck and can be expressed as "wow" or "oh my god" God feels like exiting the matrix and realizing there is nothing outside of it God feels like an infinite void and a feeling of nothingness God feels like the realization that everything is one, interconnected and inseparable God feels like the realization that everything is a dream or an illusion God feels like experiencing unconditional love and compassion for all beings God feels like the realization of the true self and enlightenment The universe (with a capital "U") refers to everything, including all possible multiverses The universe is immortal and infinite God is the greatest joy, and feels like pure consciousness or "I am-ness" God is also infinite love and has a divine, radiant, magical, miraculous, and alive quality God cannot be known, and the closest we can get to knowing God is by not knowing The scientific paradigm tries to reduce the mystery of existence by explaining one thing in terms of another The materialistic paradigm views most of the universe as dead matter, but the realization of God expands this notion to include all of the universe as alive Spirituality is the recognition of the divine, radiant, magical, and miraculous qualities of the universe When we realize God, we realize that everything is connected and there is no separation between us and the universe The goal of spirituality is to merge with the universe and become one with it The concept of self is an illusion and is separate from our true nature as pure consciousness The ego is a construct that separates us from our true nature and from the universe The ego is a defense mechanism that protects us from feeling the pain of separation from the universe The ego is driven by fear and the desire for security and control The ego is maintained through identification with thoughts, emotions, and stories The ego can be transcended through meditation, self-inquiry, and other spiritual practices When the ego is transcended, we can experience true peace and joy. Metaphysics and epistemology are not taught in mainstream education Most people, including scientists, do not have a strong understanding of metaphysics and epistemology Success of science and technology has created a false sense of understanding about the universe and our place in it The foundations of science are misunderstood It is difficult for the mind to comprehend the subjectivity and relativity of reality Science and mainstream thought deny the subjective nature of reality Religion and spirituality are not taken seriously by mainstream society Traditional methods of accessing God, such as meditation and spiritual practices, are not emphasized in mainstream education The ego often resists seeking a deeper understanding of God and the universe It is necessary to go beyond the ego and personal perspective to truly understand the nature of reality and God. Meditation and retreats can be effective in experiencing God Dark room retreats can stimulate neurotransmitters and increase chances of high states of consciousness God cannot be experienced through the mind, beliefs, thinking, concepts, opinions, imagination, knowledge, language, rational inquiry, philosophy, scientific modeling, proof, clinical studies, skepticism, debate, discussion, academic study, scriptures, traditional prayer, ritual, ceremony, or psychoactive substances It is possible to have epiphanies and mystical insights through studying scriptures and spiritual texts Real meditative prayer may be effective in experiencing God It is important to have a direct, subjective experience of God Techniques that may be effective in experiencing God include concentration, devotion, surrender, self-inquiry, and being in the present moment
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Cult Psychology - Part 2 - The Big Picture https://youtu.be/3P1R-wHd0bI Introduction to part two of a miniseries on cult psychology Definition of a cult as a binary concept (either a cult or not a cult) Shift to evaluating cult-like behavior on a spectrum Breakdown of cult behavior into subcomponents Idea that cult dynamics are present in many aspects of modern society and throughout human history Examples of areas in which cult dynamics may be present (e.g. Buddhism, yoga, atheism, capitalism, academia, mainstream media, etc.) No clear boundary between cults and mainstream society Most cults are offshoots of mainstream society Importance of retaining a strict definition of a cult while also considering degrees of cult-like behavior History of cults, including the idea that cults have existed for at least 300,000 years Definition of a cult as a group that uses psychological manipulation and coercion to recruit, control, and exploit its members Discussion of different types of cults (e.g. religious, therapy, commercial, political, etc.) Characteristics of cults, including the use of propaganda, deception, and exploitation Role of the leader in a cult and the dynamics of the leader-follower relationship Techniques used by cults to recruit and retain members The process of joining a cult and the stages of involvement The psychological and social effects of being in a cult The process of leaving a cult and the challenges that may be faced Strategies for identifying and avoiding cults Conclusion and call to action to educate oneself about cults and their dangers. The speaker's friend had a negative opinion of Chevrolet cars and would often make fun of them This opinion became a joke between the speaker and their friend, and the speaker eventually also developed negative feelings towards Chevrolet cars The speaker later realized that this type of stereotyping and judgment is similar to racism The speaker also realized that this type of behavior involves ascribing negative motives to others, oversimplifying and overgeneralizing groups of people, and ridiculing and humiliating them This type of behavior often occurs on YouTube in the form of political videos that aim to humiliate and ridicule the other side rather than trying to understand their perspective The mind often engages in this type of behavior as a way to avoid the emotional labor of trying to understand others and instead rely on easy stereotypes and prejudices The speaker suggests that we can overcome this type of behavior by taking the perspective of others, trying to understand their experiences and viewpoints, and engaging in empathy and compassion towards them. The act of stereotyping and judging others can be used as a smokescreen to avoid examining one's own perspective In a cult, the dominant perspective is presented as the objective truth, with no room for interpretation Science is often presented as the objective truth, but it is subjective and involves interpretation The false sense of certainty that can result from this belief can lead to closed-mindedness The act of stereotyping and judging can also involve projecting one's own negative traits onto others, creating an "enemy" It is important to examine one's own group and how it engages in these behaviors The ultimate goal is to recognize that everyone has their own perspective and to strive for understanding and empathy towards others. Cults often require a sign of recommendation before allowing someone to join Cults may make people wait outside the gates for 48 hours, repeatedly rejecting them and telling them they are worthless Cults may emotionally manipulate and control people through tactics such as intimidation, charm, seduction, withholding approval, showering people with disapproval and scorn, and putting them into impossible positions Cults may manipulate lower emotions such as fear, anger, hatred, and guilt in order to get people to do their bidding Cults may be materialistic and pragmatic, focusing on financial gain and power Cults may require strict adherence to rules and may punish those who do not follow them Cults may require a lot of time and energy from their members, including participating in long meetings and completing demanding tasks Cults may have a hierarchical structure, with the leader at the top and the members at the bottom Cults may require complete devotion and may view those outside the cult as inferior or hostile Cults may engage in manipulation through the use of language, including using buzzwords and slogans, twisting the meaning of words, and using loaded language to manipulate emotions and thoughts Cults may engage in groupthink, where members are discouraged from expressing dissenting opinions and are instead encouraged to conform to the group's beliefs and ideas Cults may have a destructive impact on their members, including causing psychological harm and leading to social isolation from friends and family outside the cult. The enterprise of science is sneaky because it encourages ignoring first-person experiences and phenomena Science dismisses subjective experiences, such as mystical experiences or the effects of psychedelics, as unreliable or hallucinatory To be a good scientist, one must reject perceptions and focus on concepts and theories instead Modern science is based on this idea, which leads to demonizing groups that prioritize subjective experiences, such as religious people or mystics The motivation to take action, including the fear that the world is ending, is often driven by ego's fear of death Different groups, such as those with stage blue or stage orange worldviews, may fear different things that could lead to the end of the world, such as moral decline or economic collapse The fear of the world ending is often used as a way to manipulate and control people To transcend this fear, one must recognize that the ego is the source of the fear and that the ego is not one's true self deep self-reflection and contemplation is difficult because of school workload and memorization cults use PR campaigns and fake front organizations to present a positive image language is used to manipulate and deceive, called "doublespeak" obedience to rules and norms is a feature of cults cults often have impossible ideals that people cannot meet, causing guilt and low self-esteem cults discourage questioning and critical thinking cults often have a hierarchical structure with leaders at the top cults rely on group dynamics to manipulate and control members cults often use techniques such as hypnosis, meditation, and chanting to manipulate and control members cults may use physical and psychological abuse to control members cults often exploit their members financially people may join cults for various reasons, including seeking meaning or purpose, seeking community, or seeking acceptance. The pharmaceutical industry refuses to take responsibility for its collateral damage Consider your role in an organization that causes collateral damage and take responsibility for it Crusading or the "lesser jihad" is a common component of cults and involves externalizing spiritual work and making one's life purpose the defeat of others Sexual manipulation, abuse, and irresponsibility are also common components of cults Cults do not acknowledge the importance of balance and often take a good thing too far Religious teachings should be interpreted, thought about, and embodied rather than followed blindly The pharmaceutical industry may be taking good things (drugs and drug research) too far by marketing opioids to vulnerable people and incentivizing doctors to prescribe them Extreme examples can help highlight and understand more subtle versions of issues Conflict and polarization among different schools, subgroups, and subfields in science and philosophy can harm the enterprise Philosophy is often taught as one school versus another, leading to cult-like behavior Jordan Peterson, new atheism, and rationality can all become cult-like Celebrities and Western medicine can also have cult-like dynamics Cultural rituals such as circumcision, baptism, female genital mutilation, animal sacrifice, honor killings, and sati can involve cult behavior Worship of gurus, leaders, and presidents can be cult-like Social media platforms can contribute to the evolution of cult dynamics Cults can have a negative impact on individuals and society as a whole It's important to be aware of cult dynamics and to avoid becoming involved in them The speaker is trying to communicate difficult concepts and ideas The goal of Actualized.org is to understand the entire universe and connect it to personal experience It is difficult to communicate everything that has been realized and understood The speaker will probably spend their life trying to articulate these concepts The audience has only seen a small fraction of what Actualized.org has to offer The speaker encourages the audience to become passionate about learning how to live and to spend thousands of hours doing this work The rewards for understanding life are significant, but cannot be fully communicated It is necessary to either intuit the value of this work or take a leap of faith in order to fully engage with it The speaker wants the audience to understand the importance of self-exploration and self-improvement The journey towards understanding life can be challenging and require facing difficult truths The speaker encourages the audience to not be afraid of failure or setbacks and to keep pushing forward The ultimate goal is to achieve self-actualization and live a fulfilling life.
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Cult Psychology - Part 1 - How Cults Work https://youtu.be/Y73laz3etM8 This is a two-part miniseries on cult psychology In part one, the focus will be on understanding what cults are and how they work In part two, the focus will shift to exploring the broader lessons that can be learned from cults and how those lessons apply to various areas of society, including business, marketing, politics, religion, science, universities, personal relationships, and families The purpose of this miniseries is to educate people about cults and protect them from being recruited by one, as well as to help people recognize when someone close to them may be involved in a cult and how to offer support and guidance Cults can be dangerous and toxic and can have serious consequences for individuals, including financial and personal losses and abuse It is important to be cautious when following a spiritual or self-development teacher in their 20s or 30s, as they may unknowingly start a cult due to their age, inexperience, and ego Cults can range in size from small to large and can have various types, including religious, new-age, educational, self-improvement, political, and commercial (such as MLM schemes) It is a common misconception to equate religion with cults, but mainstream religion is not run to serve one individual and does not physically prevent people from leaving, whereas cults often do Red flags to look for in a cult include: the leader having a high level of control over members, requiring excessive dedication and time, isolating members from the outside world, and using psychological manipulation It is important to be aware of these red flags and to educate oneself about cults in order to avoid being recruited into one. atheism and rationalism are considered cults because they exhibit certain ideological tendencies The alt-right is not a cult because it is not organized by one person and there is no effort to physically or financially keep people within the group Cults often use sneaky recruiting tactics, including creating fake front organizations with positive mission statements to lure people in Techniques like meditation and visualization can be used to make cults seem legitimate, but are just the hook to draw people in Cults often use psychological analysis to find the perfect fit for a person within their organization and pitch the cult to match their specific profile (thinker, feeler, believer, doer) Cults often have a hierarchical structure with a leader at the top and a pyramid structure below Cults often have a distorted view of reality and use tactics like brainwashing and manipulation to control members It is important to be aware of these tactics and to critically evaluate any organization or group before fully committing to it. A cult makes its members dependent on it for financial and emotional support Cult members are encouraged to quit their old jobs and cut off their old friends Cult members are showered with approval, love, and a sense of purpose Cult members are made financially and emotionally dependent on the cult The cult undermines its members' ability to think independently and tries to replace their authentic identity with a new false identity The cult uses mind control techniques to program its members The cult is focused on acquiring power for its top leaders Cult members are true believers and may delude themselves and others Cult recruitment is emphasized because the cult is always losing members Cult members may be subjected to abuse, including emotional, physical, and sexual abuse Cult members may be required to follow strict rules and adhere to strict schedules The cult may require members to donate money and other resources The cult may have secret or exclusive knowledge or teachings that are only shared with members Cult members may be isolated from the outside world and discouraged from questioning the cult's beliefs and practices The cult may use fear and intimidation to keep members in line Cult members may be required to perform labor or other tasks for the cult without compensation The cult may use propaganda and brainwashing to control its members' thoughts and behavior The cult thinks they are above the law and often has apocalyptic overtones to motivate members The cult leader may claim the apocalypse will come in 3-5 years as a way to motivate followers The cult uses psychological and spiritual techniques, such as chanting, meditation, and visualization, to control and manipulate members These techniques can be legitimate but may also be misused or bastardized to further the goals of the cult The cult's focus is on its own survival and perpetuation, and the leader may spin or reframe events to maintain control over members If prophecies or predictions made by the cult do not come to pass, the leader may use reframing techniques to claim that the hard work of cult members has earned them more time to recruit and achieve their goals The true believers in the cult may become even stronger through this kind of spin doctoring Cults may use techniques such as shamanic breathing or sensory deprivation to further manipulate and control members Cults often have a hierarchical structure, with the leader at the top and strict rules for behavior and discipline for those who do not follow the leader's orders Cult members may be required to cut ties with non-cult friends and family and may be isolated from the outside world Cults may use financial and sexual manipulation to control members and may require them to hand over all of their money and possessions to the cult. Text discusses negative experiences with groups or communities (e.g. rejected, bullied, criticized) These experiences can leave emotional wounds that make someone more susceptible to being "love bombed" by a new group This new group, or cult, may manipulate and use the person to serve their own ego Members of the cult may be in denial that it is a cult and may be asked to live in group housing with surveillance Cult may require long hours of unpaid or low-paid work, and may use physical abuse or threats of violence to control members Cult leader may have a criminal record or shady background Cult may require exorbitant membership fees and charge for courses, seminars, etc. Cult may use a tiered system to slowly leech members of money Cult may use mind control techniques such as hypnosis, sleep deprivation, or sensory deprivation It can be difficult to leave a cult due to fear or guilt, and may require help from outside sources. Pain associated with leaving a cult Forgive yourself for joining the cult Common to get sucked into cults due to lack of proper education Love yourself for who you are and don't let the cult rob you of your self-esteem Start thinking independently and research things for yourself Reclaim your old identity (name, style of dress, etc.) and old relationships Leave the cult and cut off relationships with people in it Nothing bad will happen to you for leaving and it's the most hopeful thing you can do Can address issues (childhood traumas, addiction, self-esteem, financial insecurity, lack of purpose) without a cult and progress faster on your own Do self-esteem exercises (Nathaniel Brandon's sentence completion exercises) Make a plan to move forward in life Seek therapy and support from friends and family Find a new community (non-cult) to be a part of Take time to heal and be patient with the process Friends and family members may know about actualize.org and the hundreds of hours of video content available on the site However, they may not take the time to watch and listen to the material It is rare for people to find actualize.org and even more rare for them to stick around and watch a significant amount of the content It takes a long time, potentially hundreds of hours, to truly understand the material and see the big picture A deep understanding of the material is necessary to truly understand life, happiness, purpose, and how to avoid psychological and ego traps Most people will not get to this level of understanding because they have not dedicated enough time to watching and studying the content It is important to watch and take notes on the material and try to piece it together in your own mind Before taking action or participating in activities like meditation retreats or using psychedelics, it is necessary to have a solid foundation of understanding through studying the material Many people object to dedicating a significant amount of time to studying the material, but it is necessary to truly understand and apply the concepts It took a long time to learn subjects like math and English in school, and the material on actualize.org is just as important and requires a similar level of dedication Half knowledge and half truths can lead to cults and the delusion of others It is necessary to appreciate the importance and depth of the material and apply care, time, and energy to studying it
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How To Do Self-Inquiry https://youtu.be/30grH6X_Q7M Introduction to self-inquiry as a spiritual technique for awakening Explanation that self-inquiry involves discovering the true self, which is distinct from the false self or ego Steps for performing self-inquiry: Articulating one's current frame of self-identity Examining and questioning this frame of identity Letting go of the false self and ego Discovering the true self Mention of pitfalls and traps in self-inquiry, including relying on fantasies or wishful spiritual beliefs Importance of being precise and honest in self-inquiry practice in order to see full benefits and avoid wasting time Explanation that self-inquiry can be aided by practices like mindfulness meditation and yoga Recap of the steps of self-inquiry and encouragement to practice regularly. The idea that all thoughts, beliefs, memories, and personal biographical stories are not the true self The practice of turning inward to find the true self, which is an emptiness inside The difficulty in distinguishing between what is real and what is imaginary or possible and impossible due to being brainwashed and programmed from birth The attempt to look for the true self as though it is a physical object inside oneself The idea that the true self is not something that can be found or grasped, but rather it is the act of looking for it that is the true self The suggestion to let go of the idea of finding the true self and instead just be the true self The idea that the true self is not separate from the universe and is interconnected with everything else The suggestion to continue this practice and see what is discovered. The goal of self inquiry is to focus on the emptiness or formlessness within oneself The longer one focuses on this emptiness, the more the external world (including thoughts, feelings, emotions, and personal experiences) and the true self (pure subjectivity or awareness) will become separate The true self or pure subjectivity has no properties and is pure awareness Self inquiry involves putting one's awareness on their awareness, and maintaining this focus until enlightenment occurs This can be difficult as the mind tends to wander, so it is helpful to have a meditative or concentration practice to build up the ability to focus To understand awareness, one must train their awareness on it for a long time until it reveals itself It is important to resist the temptation to objectify or speculate about awareness, and to avoid distractions such as trying to connect it to science or creating analogies or metaphors The ultimate goal of self inquiry is to become perfectly clear and aware of awareness itself Self inquiry is a technique of observing the observation process (awareness, consciousness) The mind can get too excited and start coming up with theories and speculations, interfering with the observation process To be effective at self inquiry, it is important to calm the mind down through a pre-self inquiry practice (such as meditation or yoga) The object of focus in self inquiry shifts from a physical object (such as a finger) to awareness itself It can be helpful to speak of self inquiry as going inwards, as many people feel like they live inside their bodies Self inquiry can be aided by asking oneself questions, such as "Who is having this experience?", "What is aware of this experience?", or "What is the source of this experience?" It is important to be patient and persistent in self inquiry, as it can take time to see results Self inquiry can lead to a realization of one's true nature, and a feeling of peace and understanding A person's true self does not suffer, only the false self does To solve life's problems and suffering, one must detach from the material world Detachment does not mean disconnecting from the world or emotions, but rather being able to experience them fully without suffering Self-inquiry is a technique that can be used to achieve this detachment and reintegration of full non-duality Meditation and other techniques can be used to calm the mind, but self-inquiry is necessary to train awareness on the true self Awakening can happen spontaneously, but often requires serious inquiry and training of awareness Talking about awakening is not the same as actually doing the work to achieve it
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Spiral Dynamics - Areas Of Application https://youtu.be/Fi1fG8bw2KM Spiral Dynamics theory explains human values and motives Can be used to predict individual and collective behavior Can be applied in various areas to solve practical problems Education is a significant area of application Different stages of the spiral have different ideas about education Education can be used to change society Business and leadership is another area of application Can be used to improve organizational structure and decision-making Can help businesses adapt to changing market conditions Can be used to address social issues Can be applied in politics and government Can help politicians and government officials understand and address the needs of different segments of society Can be used to improve social systems and institutions Can be applied in personal development and self-improvement Can help individuals understand their own values and motivations Can be used to set goals and make positive changes in one's life Can be applied in conflict resolution and mediation Can help individuals and groups understand and address underlying values and motivations in conflicts Can be used to improve communication and relationships Can help individuals and groups better understand and communicate with each other The spiral is a concept that can be applied to education Understanding the spiral is important for teachers, university leaders, and government officials who want to improve education Current legislation and solutions for education in the US are often not effective because they are based on the understanding of politicians who are at stage blue or orange on the spiral To transform the education system, it is necessary to teach children from a young age about topics such as meditation, mindfulness, yoga, holistic health, and personal development The current curriculum should be de-emphasized and replaced with a focus on wisdom and personal development Higher education can be reserved for those who want to become professionals in specific fields, but most people do not need as much technical training The average person needs an understanding of practical psychology, relationship management, happiness, and spiritual techniques The goal of education should be to produce well-rounded, self-actualized individuals who can solve their own problems and find their life purpose. The concept of "spiral dynamics" suggests that a country's level of development and consciousness determines its political and social structures To successfully implement democracy in a Middle Eastern country, the population's level of development and consciousness needs to be raised, which takes time and education Without a high level of development and consciousness, a Middle Eastern country may become a theocracy and persecute and ethnically cleanse minority groups The US leadership is not at a high enough level of development to effectively help Middle Eastern countries Applying the principles of spiral dynamics, specifically the work of Don Beck, could be a solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict The US leadership is not acknowledging or applying spiral dynamics to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict due to self-interest and self-dealing To objectively address the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, the US should study and follow the principles of spiral dynamics and amplify the work of Don Beck Big businesses, including Big Oil and the fast-food industry, prioritize profit over other factors Silicon Valley tech companies, including Facebook, Apple, and Google, are also involved in this pursuit of profit There is currently a conflict between those who support a more socialist economic system, which prioritizes equal distribution of resources and accountability for corporations, and those who support a capitalist economic system There are various stages of economic systems, including blue, orange, green, and yellow, each with different priorities and goals Stage orange economics prioritize profit, while stage green economics prioritize relationships, fairness, and equality Stage yellow economics prioritize helping individuals move up the spiral and using a systems thinking approach to design economic systems The Spiral Dynamics model, including the stage colors, can be used to evaluate political candidates and policies Explanation of Spiral Dynamics model Role of therapist/coach in understanding client's stage on the spiral Importance of tailoring communication style and teachings to client's stage on the spiral Examples of how to effectively communicate with clients at different stages on the spiral Benefits of understanding Spiral Dynamics for therapists and coaches, including ability to act as a bridge between stages and create win-win scenarios Potential for use of Spiral Dynamics to transform therapeutic and coaching practices Potential for use of Spiral Dynamics to improve therapy/coaching outcomes with clients who are at lower stages on the spiral. The idea of creating a "stage turquoise" university Could be physical or digital, or a combination Would be innovative and ahead of its time Could earn recognition and financial success Could attract visitors from around the world Could help other universities evolve towards being "stage turquoise" Could involve changing curriculums, textbooks, and funding sources The idea of being a "stage turquoise" artist Involves evolving one's own consciousness to be "stage turquoise" Could involve creating new forms of art to express turquoise values Could involve using new technologies as mediums for art The idea of being a "stage turquoise" scientist Involves evolving one's own consciousness to be "stage turquoise" Could involve studying the mind, spirituality, or combining those with other fields like neuroscience or psychedelics Could involve applying "stage turquoise" values to any field of science Could lead to breakthroughs and innovation. Spiral dynamics is a framework for understanding how societies and individuals develop and evolve Science, art, and spirituality can all be understood and applied through the lens of spiral dynamics In science, transforming to a higher stage (such as turquoise) requires systemic changes in the way science is taught and understood In art, one can aim to create work at a higher stage (such as turquoise) As a spiritual teacher, it is important to understand and connect with individuals at different stages of the spiral In finding one's life purpose, it is important to consider what set of values the purpose serves on the spiral and to aim for a higher stage Opportunities for personal and societal growth exist at every stage of the spiral It is important to embrace change and to strive for continuous personal and societal evolution The future is uncertain, but by understanding and applying spiral dynamics, we can navigate and shape it more effectively
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Understanding Ego Backlash https://youtu.be/LL9Q5sHkCFg The topic of the text is ego backlash The speaker has been feeling miserable due to a cold and a hurt spine The speaker is experiencing ego backlash as a result of deep meditation and self-inquiry The mind can be thought of as a harmonic oscillator, a complex system filled with symbols and meanings that make up the ego The ego consists of behaviors, patterns, and survival habits that have been accumulated and hardwired into the mind These habits, or survival strategies, are necessary for the mind to survive and maintain its own existence The ego is responsible for maintaining the individual's sense of self and their place in the world When the ego is threatened or challenged, it can cause an ego backlash, which can manifest as negative emotions or behaviors It is important to be aware of and prepared for ego backlashes as they can be a natural part of the self-actualization journey and spiritual growth. The speaker is discussing the idea that people often avoid looking deeply at their careers and the foundations of their lives because it is scary and potentially threatening The speaker suggests that one's ego may prevent them from examining the deeper issues in their life, particularly when it comes to doing spiritual work The speaker asserts that the quality of one's life is directly proportional to how deep they are able to go in examining the foundation of their life and how much they can tolerate the suffering that this examination may bring The speaker suggests that all people's lives revolve around two main goals: avoiding suffering and pursuing pleasure The speaker suggests that spirituality is about transcending these survival drives and looking at reality in a more fundamental way The speaker suggests that survival includes not only physical survival, but also social survival, such as trying to be liked, become famous, or fit in with certain social groups The speaker advises that in order to improve the quality of one's life, they must be willing to face the suffering and discomfort that comes with examining the deeper issues in their life and the foundations of their life. Expecting ego backlash when making significant changes Understanding the mind as a harmonic oscillator and the value of homeostasis in keeping us stable Expecting suffering and negative emotions during significant changes Labeling and observing ego backlash mindfully Reminding oneself not to make drastic decisions during times of contraction Giving oneself space and time to process the ego backlash Remembering that the ego backlash is temporary and will pass Seeking support and guidance from others who have gone through similar experiences Practicing self-compassion and self-acceptance during times of ego backlash. The Republican Party in America is self-destructing The self-destruction of the Republican Party is not being recognized by many within the party because they are part of the system The same dynamic of self-destruction happens at an individual level The same theory of self-destruction can be applied to corporations and governments Building mindfulness skills can help an individual suffering through self-destruction Failing to make a change does not mean anything and it is possible to try again in the future with more knowledge and awareness Life is challenging because of the trickery and self-deception of the ego Life is a maze because individuals are lost in the maze of their own minds and need to distinguish genuine motivations from trickery It takes a lifetime to sort through and understand the ego and its trickery The ego is a devil that uses trickery and sleight of hand to do its work It is possible to soar through life by understanding and transcending the ego There are various practices and philosophies that can help an individual understand and transcend the ego It is important to be gentle with oneself and practice self-love It is possible to find peace and joy in the present moment through mindfulness and self-acceptance.
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The Counter-Intuitive Nature Of Life https://youtu.be/LGpYE-FZRhA Life is counterintuitive Success in anything is counterintuitive To be successful, you must rethink the most obvious routes Life seems hard and full of suffering because people take obvious, foolish routes Key lesson: always look for counterintuitive moves in important situations Counterintuitive moves separate you from the herd Intuition is not the opposite of counterintuitive, it is the foundation of counterintuitive moves Intuition is about noticing patterns and making connections Counterintuitive moves often come from going against one's own biases and beliefs Examples of counterintuitive moves in various areas of life Business: taking risks and making unconventional decisions Relationships: not trying to control or change the other person Emotions: embracing negative emotions instead of avoiding them Spirituality: letting go of attachments and expectations Health: paying attention to your body's needs rather than just following a strict diet or exercise plan Personal growth: learning from failure and setbacks instead of avoiding them Creativity: embracing uncertainty and letting go of the need for perfection Conclusion: life is full of counterintuitive moments, and being open to them is key to success and happiness The speaker has spent hundreds of hours rewiring their brain to avoid attraction strategies that don't work, such as bragging and boasting Bragging and boasting about material possessions makes a person less attractive to women To attract women, the speaker suggests talking about low quality traits or characteristics in a tongue-in-cheek way The speaker has a rule where the more they want to attract a woman, the smaller they claim their penis is This works especially well with very attractive women The speaker suggests being counterintuitive and not doing the "ordinary obvious thing" that other guys do The speaker also mentions investing and how the traditional advice to "buy low, sell high" can be counterintuitive in some cases The speaker suggests being counterintuitive in other areas of life as well, such as exercise and eating habits The speaker emphasizes the importance of being confident in oneself to be able to implement counterintuitive strategies effectively Being aware that trying to stop evil actually creates more evil and hating one's own sins increases sinfulness can save millions of lives Laziness and trying to find shortcuts often leads to doing twice as much work in the end Giving up control and manipulation can improve relationships Chasing get-rich-quick schemes leads to failure and disappointment The 80/20 rule in business means that 80% of profits come from 20% of products and efforts Rationalists may try to avoid "magical thinking," but this can lead to missing out on important insights and opportunities Focusing too much on self-improvement can lead to self-obsession and a lack of compassion for others Achieving goals can sometimes lead to a sense of emptiness Seeking happiness and pleasure can lead to dissatisfaction Seeking the "truth" can sometimes lead to a lack of flexibility and adaptability A desire for security can lead to a lack of risk-taking and opportunities for growth. Acting macho does not make a man strong, but rather weak and insecure Embracing one's feminine side can make a man stronger Rest and relaxation can improve the quality of work and make one more creative Tithing (giving a percentage of one's income to charity or a religious tradition) can communicate to oneself that money is abundant, rather than scarce A small, well-polished portfolio is more impressive than a comprehensive one Giving credit to others can lead to success, rather than taking credit oneself Allowing oneself to feel and express emotions can lead to increased strength and resilience Seeking out and embracing change can lead to personal growth and success. Freedom is counterintuitive because we need restrictions in order to survive Overthinking can lead to making wrong decisions Complex systems (e.g. government, public policy) can be counterintuitive War and peace can be counterintuitive (e.g. strong military can lead to peace) Self-love is counterintuitive (e.g. people tend to hate themselves after failing) Ideals can be counterintuitive (e.g. high ideals may lead to suffering and misery) Anger can be counterintuitive (e.g. expressing anger can lead to more anger) Love can be counterintuitive (e.g. loving someone may involve letting them go) Happiness can be counterintuitive (e.g. happiness often comes from outside our control) Suffering can be counterintuitive (e.g. suffering can lead to growth and understanding) Self-deception is counterintuitive Skepticism should be directed inward rather than outward People experience and think about reality differently True morality does not rely on rules or self-image Happiness can be found in the present moment, even in negative circumstances God and the devil are interconnected Death can lead to enlightenment and surrendering knowledge can lead to understanding the true nature of reality Mental states and emotions can be controlled and transcended Understanding the true nature of reality can lead to a loss of the ego and liberation. Reality is nonlinear and has interconnected variables that create chaotic dynamics Good intentions are not enough, understanding how systems work is important (systems thinking) Five most counterintuitive moves in life: Pursue truth at all costs, even if it threatens your self agenda Live selflessly for others and the world Love unconditionally, even towards things or people normally hated Reject hedonism, don't seek material pleasure Face your fear of death and experience what lies on the other side Importance of looking for and executing counterintuitive moves Notes and commonplace books can be helpful for creating a personal list of counterintuitive moves.
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The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures - Zen's Stages Of Enlightenment Explained https://youtu.be/w4ZWNzSliGk The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures is a model for the stages of enlightenment or awakening in Zen Buddhism This model is based on a rare book called "The Lectures on the Ten Ox-Herding Pictures" The book was written by Yamada Mamon and translated by Victor Según Hoary The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures is a map for the different spiritual stages of awakening that a person goes through Other religious traditions also have maps for awakening, such as Christianity, Tibetan Buddhism, and Sufism The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures model has ten stages, but other models may have different numbers of stages This is an advanced teaching and should not be taken lightly The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures model is not a linear process and there is overlap between the stages The ten stages are: The first picture is of the seeker searching for the ox The second picture is of the seeker finding the ox tracks The third picture is of the seeker seeing the ox in the distance The fourth picture is of the seeker catching the ox The fifth picture is of the seeker taming the ox The sixth picture is of the seeker riding the ox home The seventh picture is of the seeker and the ox entering the marketplace together The eighth picture is of the seeker and the ox disappearing from the marketplace The ninth picture is of the seeker sitting under the tree, resting and meditating The tenth picture is of the seeker and the ox merging into one The Ten Ox-Herding Pictures model can be helpful in understanding the stages of awakening and keeping a sense of humility about the journey towards enlightenment The speaker is discussing spiritual practices, such as meditation and yoga, and the pursuit of awakening One's efforts in these practices may not lead to progress, but if pursued consistently and persistently, there will be a moment when one's "eye opens" Some people are at the stage where they have heard about spiritual practices and enlightenment, but have only had brief glimpses or tastes of it This stage is characterized by skepticism and rationalism, and some may get caught up in gathering information and building a philosophy of non-duality rather than actually practicing The speaker warns against this tendency to "concoct an imaginary ox" and advises to actually go out and find the "real wild ox in the wilderness" The speaker also advises to not get caught up in attachments and to continue on the path, even if it seems difficult or one is met with obstacles Finally, the speaker encourages the listener to "just keep on going" and not give up on the pursuit of enlightenment. The text discusses the difficulty of communicating non-duality and the challenge of embodying enlightenment Language and teachings are only a map, the true territory is non-dual awareness or "the Ox" Kensho or awakening requires engagement with the outside world and can be difficult and unsettling The process of catching the Ox involves going beyond initial glimpses and fully embodying enlightenment in daily life This requires surrendering ego, attachments, and delusions and embracing purity The Ox will not be caught or tamed with a mind full of thoughts and attachments The Ox represents fundamental wholeness and detests the world of desires, attachments, and self-delusions Catching the Ox involves letting go of dualistic thinking and embracing non-dual awareness The final stage of catching the Ox is transcending the Ox and achieving unity with the universe The ultimate goal of spiritual practice is to achieve a state of "no-mind," where one can sit effortlessly without thoughts for hours This state, called "taming the Ox," is when one's true nature (or "Buddha nature") is fully awakened and the mind is rewired In this state, one experiences non-duality and sees God and oneness everywhere Post-Satori training (i.e., after achieving enlightenment) involves maintaining this state of consciousness through continuous mindfulness in the present moment The 21st century, with its distractions of social media, technology, and sensory stimuli, makes it difficult to maintain mindfulness After attaining a certain level of embodiment of one's awakening, there is less need to talk about it and it becomes a normal way of life In this stage, one brings the non-duality back into the duality of the everyday world, fusing the absolute and the relative, and the mundane and the mystical To refuse to return to the ordinary world is not genuine enlightenment The goal is to remain in the present moment, without being swayed by desires or attachments, in order to truly experience the world as it is This requires a constant effort to ground oneself in the present moment, even when faced with challenges or difficulties. The idea of awakening involves the "suicide" of the ego or the self This is a significant and powerful realization because it means that the individual is no longer attached to or defending anything (e.g. body, self-image, social status, wealth, etc.) and is therefore free to experience pure positivity and joy This state is achieved through a process of surrendering attachments and ultimately the self, and is achieved through a radical transformation in the psyche that allows for unconditional happiness under all circumstances This may seem counterintuitive or difficult, but is ultimately the key to lasting peace and happiness "Vast emptiness" is a state of non-duality, where all distinctions and boundaries collapse This state is not recognizable by others and should not be sought for attention or recognition It is a state of complete emptiness, where even the self is extinguished and the idea of being born disappears There are still two more stages to achieve after this one, including returning to the source and the ultimate end of all suffering The author has had glimpses of these stages, but does not fully understand them The ten stages described in this text are based on a traditional Buddhist model, but may not account for the experiences of those who have used psychedelics True masters are deeply humble Ego can prevent new seekers from appreciating humility Humility is an honest signal of mastery Ideal is to "melt completely in with ordinary people" and live at the "bottom of the social scale" Jesus is a powerful role model because he did this A true master does not reveal their enlightenment or learning, but rather laughs and lives amongst ordinary people Doing this leads others to awaken to their own Buddhahood True masters do not preach or perform miracles, but rather lead others through laughter, drinking, and singing Once one has reached the highest awakened state, they must throw away Satori and help those in suffering and distress True masters do not discriminate, but rather embrace all beings as equal True masters are not attached to anything, and do not seek fame or fortune True masters do not care about social status or wealth, but rather live simply True masters do not try to control or manipulate others, but rather let go of their own desires and ego True masters do not seek recognition or praise, but rather live in a state of non-attachment and contentment
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Spiral Dynamics - Important Insights & Nuances https://youtu.be/LdGjKOnxLtE Spiral Dynamics is a model for understanding human development and the evolution of consciousness There are six main stages of development in the model: blue, orange, green, yellow, turquoise, and purple/red (purple and red may be covered in the future) There are additional ways to understand the model, including epochs (archaic, magic, mythic, rational, postmodern, integral, mystical, and non-dual) and developmental lines (cognitive, moral, and cultural) It is important to understand and apply Spiral Dynamics properly in order to fully understand and utilize the model Misapplication of Spiral Dynamics can lead to pigeonholing and judging others It takes time and effort to fully understand and apply the model effectively The model can be used to understand individual and societal development and evolution The model can be used to understand conflicts and differences between individuals and groups It is important to understand the context in which the model is being applied Spiral Dynamics can be used to understand and improve systems and organizations It is important to be aware of biases and limitations in the model There is a concept of different stages of societal and cultural development, represented by a "spiral" Individual and societal development are connected, with society having a pulling up and pulling down effect on individual development Some societies may be more advanced than others due to historical advantages It is not uncommon for individuals to be pulled up to their society's center of gravity, but it is rare for individuals to go beyond the center of gravity and continue developing independently This requires individuals to seek out rare sources of knowledge and do their own work, rather than relying on mainstream sources or societal expectations Advanced individuals may face resistance from those around them, who may try to pull them down to their own level Throughout history, the most advanced individuals have had to struggle against societal resistance to achieve their development. The majority of people in the 21st century struggle with the ability to view the world from multiple perspectives This skill can be learned, like trigonometry, but many people are not adept at it Lower levels of cognitive development, such as stage blue and below, are particularly poor at understanding multiple perspectives and may even deny their existence This lack of perspective-taking can lead to dogmatic, closed-minded thinking and behaviors like fundamentalism and racism The ability to see more perspectives improves at each stage of cognitive development, starting with ethnocentric (stage blue) and becoming more world-centric (stage orange) and eventually leading to an understanding of interconnectedness and unity (stage yellow and above) It is important to understand and appreciate these stages of development in order to better understand and navigate the world today Modern developments, like the shedding of racist perspectives, are a recent occurrence and should not be taken for granted Consciousness is building the infrastructure it needs to facilitate more consciousness People often romanticize early phases of human society, like hunter-gatherer societies, as being more spiritual and peaceful than modern society However, many hunter-gatherer societies are actually at a low level of development (stage purple) and are therefore superstitious, uneducated, and closed-minded These societies often have slavery and engage in tribal warfare They also have limited legal systems and economic systems, making it difficult to get justice and make transactions These societies can only function peacefully because they are at a low scale, but this peace does not scale up to larger societies Society has been gradually evolving to deal with the challenges of scaling up and incorporating advanced technology Society is still evolving and facing new challenges, but it is important to remember that it has made progress in dealing with these challenges The text discusses a model for understanding human behavior and development The model includes four dimensions or facets: Spiral dynamics color stage Myers-Briggs type Enneagram type Lines of development The spiral dynamics color stage refers to a person's worldview and values, and can be one of several colors (e.g. orange, green, yellow) The Myers-Briggs type refers to a person's personality traits and can be one of several types (e.g. INTJ, INTP) The Enneagram type refers to a person's core motivations and can be one of several types (e.g. Type 1, Type 9) The lines of development refer to different areas of a person's psyche, including: Cognitive and values development Emotional development Moral development Career and livelihood development Health and nutrition development Interpersonal relationships development Metaphysical and spiritual development Education development Political development Psychosexual development Kinesthetic development Each of these dimensions or facets can be at different stages or levels of development, and can influence a person's behavior The model becomes more complex but also more accurate as it takes into account multiple dimensions and variables The model can be used to evaluate oneself or others and can help to identify areas for personal development Masculine and feminine are not necessarily opposites There are different "flavors" of masculinity, including red and orange masculine, which can be problematic Green masculinity and green femininity may be necessary to address issues in society caused by imbalances between the two Developmental stages, like those outlined in Spiral Dynamics, cannot be understood through introspection or meditation alone Traditional religions do not account for stages of development and may focus on dogmatic beliefs or attaining high mystical states rather than understanding and addressing social problems It is important to consider both spiritual development and developmental stages in order to fully understand and address societal issues Religion has always evolved and changed over time The mistake that people make when demonizing a religion is assuming it is static and will never change In the future, there may be different versions of Islam, such as yellow, green, and turquoise versions These versions will be softer around the edges, more pluralistic and relativistic, less dogmatic and violent, and more loving and inclusive These versions will also incorporate mystical and non-dual insights, which have always been present in the core of each religion There are differences between business, family, health and nutrition, relationships and marriage, and art at every stage of development Art, media, and entertainment will also evolve over time Film will eventually evolve beyond the current trend of superhero movies Technology will also evolve and will eventually be able to support more advanced forms of communication All of these things are subject to change and evolution, and it is a mistake to think that they will stay the same. The speaker believes that people's beliefs and perspectives are influenced by their fears and worries, and they will seek out evidence that confirms their beliefs rather than considering other perspectives or facts. The speaker identifies three stages of belief (stage Blue, Orange, and Green) and outlines the types of beliefs and biases that people in each stage may hold. Stage Blue beliefs may involve discounting the commonalities between different religions or the possibility that different deities are the same God. Stage Orange beliefs may involve the belief that certain groups (such as Muslims or socialists) are a threat to society and will cause its destruction. The speaker suggests that people in this stage may not bother to learn about these groups and their beliefs, and may cherry-pick examples that confirm their biases. Stage Green beliefs may involve the belief that global warming and capitalism are causing environmental destruction, and that certain actions (such as protecting polar bears and preserving forests) are necessary to save the planet. The speaker suggests that people in this stage may not consider the positive aspects of capitalism or technological innovation. The best human beings have teachings that cannot be fully understood by someone who is not at least at the "stage green" level of development The best teacher for personal growth is one or two stages higher than the student As a teacher grows, their teachings become more advanced, but this can cause students who are not at the same level to become disconnected from the teachings and view the teacher as a fraud or charlatan Growth to a higher stage does not happen through logic, but rather through a new paradigm shift or insight There are four phases to moving from one stage to another: pre-entry, entry, immersion, and post-immersion In the pre-entry phase, the person does not take the new stage seriously and may judge or ridicule it In the entry phase, the person discovers the value of the new stage and becomes excited about it In the immersion phase, the person becomes deeply involved in the new stage and may try to share it with others In the post-immersion phase, the person integrates the new stage into their life and begins to see the limitations of their previous stage Reading books of different colors (green, yellow, turquoise) exposes you to new ideas and perspectives Surrounding yourself with friends at higher stages of consciousness can help you grow into a new stage Solo retreats, workshops and seminars, and travel can all help you grow and expand your perspective Spiral dynamics is a relative truth, not an absolute truth Non-duality and enlightenment are beyond spiral dynamics, but it can be useful for interacting in the relative world The ultimate goal is to reach a state of non-duality or enlightenment, but it requires effort and struggle to overcome ego resistance.
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What Is Perception - The Metaphysics Of Perception https://youtu.be/8Jbvik4IA3o The question of perception and its relationship to the mind, brain, consciousness, and reality has been a topic of philosophical and scientific inquiry for thousands of years The speaker recently had a realization during a meditation retreat that perception is an illusion The explanation for this will be given from a modern, 21st century perspective for materialists Perception is not a biological or neurological process, but the raw data of perception is undeniable Perception is defined as the process of interpreting sensory information in order to understand and navigate the environment The mind interprets the raw data of perception and creates a mental model or representation of reality This mental model is not the same as reality itself, but it is what we experience as reality The mind is not a separate entity from the brain or the body, but is a function of the brain Perception is subjective and can be influenced by biases, past experiences, and cultural conditioning The mind can be trained to see reality more accurately through practices such as meditation and mindfulness The ultimate goal is to see through the illusion of perception and directly experience reality as it is, beyond the limitations of the mind. The speaker believes that individuals are not physical objects, but rather ideas The ego constructs the sense of self and takes ownership of a field of consciousness, interpreting it as personal perceptions The sense of selfhood distorts the non-personal field and makes it personal for the individual The belief that the bubble of perception is part of the individual's biological being is a projection of the mind, similar to a child believing they own a toy The belief that the individual is a biological, sentient creature is reinforced by society and parents, but is not necessarily true The individual's sense of self and the external world are constructed by the mind The individual's perception of time and space is also a construction of the mind The individual's experiences and memories are stored in the brain, but the brain is not the source of consciousness The true nature of the individual and the universe is not limited to the individual's constructed sense of self and the external world. There will no longer be a "you" experiencing reality, but the colors, shapes, and sounds of reality will still exist The concept of the "unified field of consciousness" is explained using the analogy of a sponge with many bubbles inside it Each bubble represents an individual's experience of reality, and what we perceive as our "whole life" is just one bubble from a larger perspective From the perspective of a single bubble, there is an illusion of an external reality beyond the bubble and an objective self experiencing the bubble, but in reality there is no subject and only the object (the bubble) exists The sponge as a whole exists outside of time and space and is not constrained by physical or logical laws Different bubbles can have different logical laws, time lines, and spatial dimensions The sponge as a whole is infinite The concept of personal identity and the self is an illusion created by the mind The illusion of the self is maintained by the brain's constant identification with certain thoughts and experiences, but letting go of this identification allows for a shift in perception and a realization of the true nature of reality Enlightenment is already here, and is not something that can be attained Misinterpretation of reality is causing a feeling of being separate or disconnected from enlightenment The drive to survive and fear of death leads to misinterpretation of reality Enlightenment is difficult to attain because people do not want to surrender their sense of self The process of enlightenment may involve negative emotional reactions, such as panic attacks or depression Reality may start to feel like it is falling apart, leading to a fear of insanity Questioning reality deeply enough may lead to a fear of death, as the ego tries to protect the sense of self The ego reacts strongly to protect the sense of self and distract from the truth Emotional reactions are a sign that the ego is trying to protect the sense of self The ego's main goal is to maintain the illusion of separation and individuality Realizing that the ego is an illusion can lead to a conceptual death of the self Physical death is also a concept, and is not the end of consciousness or perception The mind can become trapped in concepts and mistake them for physical reality Questioning metaphysical, religious, or scientific beliefs may cause discomfort because it challenges the individual's reality and sense of self The ultimate goal is to wake up from the illusion of separation and realize oneness with the universe Perception is the ultimate truth when properly interpreted Most people misinterpret perception because of their sense of self To properly interpret perception, one must shut down the mind, focus on the present moment, and meditate or do other practices (such as yoga or shamanic breathing) for extended periods of time This can also be aided by psychedelics These practices and understanding have been known for thousands of years, but are not widely discussed in mainstream culture Realizing this truth requires a lot of hard work and emotional difficulty The self is an illusion, and the universe is one unified field This understanding can lead to the realization of one's true nature, and the end of suffering
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65 Core Principles Of Living The Good Life https://youtu.be/BqWPqZK-Ikg Actualized.org as a school or teaching style Core tenets of the system Close to 65 principles for creating a good life Biases and style of the teacher (author) Importance of embodying and understanding principles Principles are not dogma or beliefs to be taken blindly Principles based on the author's life experience, research, and experimentation 65 principles include: Self-actualization and self-transcendence Personal responsibility Thinking for oneself Being present and living in the moment Having a vision and setting goals Taking action and making progress Emotional intelligence and managing emotions Mindfulness and awareness Communication and relationships Mind-body connection and health Spirituality and purpose Creative expression and play Being open-minded and constantly learning Finding balance and simplicity Dealing with challenges and adversity Giving back and contributing to the world Self experimentation is a key way to solve problems in life Radical open-mindedness is important because it allows us to fully explore every aspect of reality without prejudging it and to be open to any perspective or teaching, no matter how seemingly ridiculous or crazy it may be at first Do not judge things that you have not personally experienced The ego mind tends to be closed-minded and loves to judge things it has no experience with Deep truths in life can be counterintuitive and may seem ridiculous on the surface until they are deeply explored Genuine exploration means you don't know what you're going to find It is better to explore things rather than judging them prematurely Do not be attached to your beliefs or opinions Embrace a beginner's mindset and be open to learning new things The principle of non-attachment means not being attached to your beliefs or opinions and being open to change them if necessary The principle of non-resistance means not resisting change or new experiences, but rather embracing them and flowing with them Embrace uncertainty and not being attached to outcomes The principle of non-judgment means not judging yourself or others, but rather being open and accepting of all experiences and perspectives. The belief that the most important thing for determining the quality of your life is mastering the internal software of your mind Lifelong learning and self education is essential for success Reading books is important for learning various perspectives, techniques, mistakes, lessons, and principles Online courses, seminars, and workshops can also be useful for learning In-person seminars and workshops are more effective than watching them online It is worth investing money in self education Developing a system for organizing and taking notes on what is learned is important The concept of a commonplace book as a system for organizing information is mentioned. The core principle is that all fear, judgment, evil, anger, and suffering are delusions and falsehoods To avoid experiencing these negative emotions, one must become more conscious and realize their falseness Pursuing truth can lead to the realization that fear, judgment, evil, anger, and suffering are false and can help one live a good life Demonizing others is a delusion and a self-deception mechanism of the mind Reality is perfect and any perceived imperfections are due to one's inner game and perspective, not actual flaws in reality Four purposes of life: Raise one's consciousness Raise one's capacity to love and embrace all experiences Take in the beauty of life Evolve and grow The purpose of relationships is to grow and evolve, not to seek happiness or fulfillment The purpose of work is to serve others and make a positive impact in the world The purpose of spirituality is to connect with the divine and discover one's true self Situation where counterintuitive actions may be more effective Non-duality: all boundaries, categories, and distinctions ultimately collapse Absolute truth exists, but cannot be thought, believed, communicated, etc. Reality is not material; everything is part of a giant mind Life is a dream Mind and consciousness are the same thing Thought creates reality Thoughts and emotions can be observed and controlled Everything is interconnected and interdependent The ego is an illusion Suffering is caused by attachment and aversion Letting go of attachments and aversions can lead to liberation The ultimate goal is to awaken to one's true nature and live in harmony with the universe Finding out who you are and what you want out of life is important, but takes time and effort Clarity about what you want is necessary for making decisions and channeling energy and focus Being vague or ambiguous leads to nothing and mediocrity Striving to be authentic is important for satisfaction and happiness Authenticity should be expressed in all aspects of life, including career, speech, relationships, and more Uncovering and overcoming fears and incentives that prevent authenticity is necessary Developing a life purpose is important for finding alignment between values and career Taking 100% responsibility for your life and not blaming others is important for personal growth and success Continuously learning and growing is necessary for a fulfilling life Having a positive attitude and being grateful is important for success and happiness Having strong personal relationships is important for a fulfilling life Maintaining physical and mental health is important for overall well-being People who are "hyper rational" are actually emotional, but may not be conscious of the emotions fueling their reason Reasoning is often motivated by emotions and connected to the ego, which is full of emotions Emotions are more powerful in motivating and affecting behavior than reasons, which are often rationalizations for emotions To live a good life, it is necessary to become observant of and work to cure emotions, as this will also purify reasoning Integration of masculine and feminine aspects is necessary for both men and women, regardless of how they lean on the spectrum Non-manipulation is important for a good life -Everything is relative, except for the ultimate truth or "capital T" truth Conventional understanding and experience are relative Awareness and understanding of relativity can help with decision making and living a good life Non-attachment is necessary for a good life Non-attachment means letting go of the ego and attachments to things, people, and experiences This allows for a more open and free experience of life The final core principle is self-inquiry, or the practice of questioning and examining one's own thoughts, actions, and beliefs This helps to bring unconscious aspects of the self into consciousness and can lead to personal growth and transformation. "Distractions" such as TV, video games, social media, ideologies, and family can deceive the mind The importance of "systems thinking" in solving larger problems and understanding complex systems The need to be a good citizen and be aware of one's ecological footprint The importance of being strategic in decision-making and planning The need for self-inquiry and self-examination to understand one's own motivations and desires The need for introspection and mindfulness to understand one's own thoughts and actions The importance of personal growth and self-improvement The need to cultivate a sense of purpose and meaning in life The importance of compassion and empathy in relationships with others The need to foster a sense of community and connection with others The importance of being authentic and true to oneself. The speaker suggests that it will take at least a few hours to fully understand and implement the principles being discussed It is important to verify and cross-reference information and seek out multiple perspectives to ensure accuracy and understanding The main course of life is learning and implementing these principles, while other activities are just garnishes There are no easy answers or one-size-fits-all solutions in life, it requires nuance and complexity The speaker is passionate about helping people achieve peak experiences and reach the top of Maslow's pyramid and beyond It is important to make a commitment to work on personal growth every day to truly change the trajectory of one's life The speaker will continue to release new videos and insights to help motivate and inspire those on this journey It is easy to get distracted and lose sight of one's goals, so it is important to stay focused and remember what is important.
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The Radical Implications Of Oneness (Halloween Edition) https://youtu.be/qfYOaFTUVoo The speaker is discussing the concept of oneness, also known as non-duality Oneness means that there is no separation or boundary between the self and anything else Most people live from a dualistic orientation, meaning they see themselves as separate from the rest of the world and view others as either "good" or "bad" Non-duality means that there is only one subject in the universe, and that the consciousness within the speaker is the same consciousness within the listener This idea can be scary because it means that there is no separation between the self and "evil" or "bad" people or actions The speaker suggests that this realization can change one's entire orientation towards life and the way they view the world The speaker discusses the concept of the ego, which is the sense of separate self, and how it is illusory and based on thought Oneness also means that there is no individual experience, but rather a single universal experience The speaker suggests that this understanding can bring about a sense of peace and liberation The concept of an infinite reel containing every possible movie that could ever be invented The idea that this infinite reel is like reality The light from the projector, shining through individual frames of the infinite reel, represents a person's current experience A person's lifetime is like one chunk of the infinite reel, playing in a linear fashion The concept of non-duality, in which divisions and boundaries between the projector and film reel collapse The idea that the ultimate self or absolute self is pure light, or consciousness or awareness The belief that a person will experience every possible experience, including negative and traumatic ones, multiple times in different ways The purpose of this concept being to understand and accept all aspects of reality, including suffering The idea that enlightenment is the realization and acceptance of this concept The idea that someone might have to accept that they will become the corrupt politician they despise The difficulty of convincing someone that they will become someone or something they hate or disagree with The idea that ego cannot handle the "ultimate truth" because it is too radical and overwhelming The concept of non-duality and the idea that accessing the "entire real" requires surrendering attachments and self-righteousness The idea that most people are too self-righteous to accept the "ultimate truth" because of their hatred, judgment, and demonization of others The idea that dualistic thinking, or the separation of things into opposites, prevents people from accepting the "ultimate truth" and their full identity as everything or God The concept of infinite consciousness and the idea that people are denying their full identity as infinite consciousness by separating themselves from others The idea that people's lives are often centered around judgment and criticism of others, and that this prevents them from realizing the "ultimate truth" The speaker believes that people who have experienced suffering and hardship have a different perspective on life and may spread misery God's purpose or mission is to experience the full range of human experience, including negative experiences, in order to understand its own oneness This understanding is necessary for the development of love, compassion, and goodness It is easy to love the positive experiences in life, but true love requires the ability to love the entire spectrum of human experience, including negative experiences In order to have compassion for others, it is necessary to have experienced suffering oneself The ultimate purpose of life is to learn how to love and accept all aspects of the self and the world, including suffering and hardship Life is both brutal and beautiful It is difficult to explain this to a child or to someone who has not experienced it Life requires emotional maturity to handle and embody the full spectrum of experiences Our culture does not typically talk about this and it may take thousands of years for it to become mainstream This understanding cannot be turned into a belief or taught by someone else, it must be discovered through personal experience To fully embrace life, it is necessary to open oneself up to the full spectrum of experiences rather than building a comfortable nest Life is not about avoiding pain and seeking pleasure, but about facing and learning from the full range of experiences It is important to recognize that everything is connected and that all experiences, both positive and negative, are a part of the journey To fully embrace life, it is necessary to let go of the ego and embrace a more holistic understanding of the self and the world. The speaker discusses the difficulty and radical implications of non-duality Non-duality has many ramifications, some of which can be jarring and scary for the ego The speaker will be discussing more ramifications of non-duality in the future It can be challenging to keep one's spirits high while exploring spiritual concepts, as they can lead to feelings of depression, sadness, and nihilism It is important to persevere through these challenges and not give up on spiritual practices Spirituality is serious business and requires serious work, but the rewards are also serious The speaker hopes to offer emotional support and motivation to those exploring spirituality It is important to keep expectations in line, as unexpected outcomes can lead to quitting.