Striving for more

Will he release this stuff again in the future. I want this but I would like to buy it later. I don't like this scarcity stuff.

@undeather Thank you. This is exactly what I was trying to point out. Everyone has their own balance. Their own values. Their own personality. Isn't the point of life to find the balance that suits you, as a unique individual ?

I actually am in complete disagreement with this statement ^^ I agree that you shouldn't be trapped always doing this, but if you enjoy that stuff then do it, the point of life is to have fun and feel joy. @Valach what you don't want is the feeling when you're 33 that you never let lose and had fun in your 20's (which is still extremely young) because some random guy convinced you that his values should be the same as yours. What is it with people criticizing partying and meeting girls so much ?? I am naturally more extroverted, so I have always enjoyed that stuff, and I too regret not having done it enough. When I am around crowds and women and music I feel ALIVE. I feel more present. This covid is hard for me because I want to do pick up, I want to become confident and party and have fun. I really do not understand this demonization of being an extrovert and not always taking yourself too seriously.

@Valach I'll send you a message

@Leo Gura I currently am not able to buy his course at the moment ... but I am willing to invest like that soon. Do you have any other courses or pick up artists I could buy from / watch that provide that same balsy/Flashy approaches that I could emulate, But that aren't scams or Bullshit. I am asking because I could see faster confidence growth with that style.

@Leo Gura Why is Brexit stage blue ? I know left wing people who voted Brexit. There is downsides to the EU. Doesn't it depend more on WHY u voted for Brexit? I feel like a mix of stage blue and green people voted for Brexit, but with different reasoning.

@JosephKnecht I really wish I could change my uncreative name. Yeah, tbf it's more like "desperate for more" I am WILLING to change / Move location. But I don't know HOW / WHERE ect.. I have no clarity.

How much does it cost ? I wish I had enough money to just buy it. If I had a lot more savings I would.

@Blackhawk I should have been more specific with the semantics apparently. I asked if it could be CONTRIBUTING to my issues. I didn't claim it was the sole cause. Step by step. If removal detox makes me 5% better, then it's worth the shot. I don't see how this kind of aimless scepticism is of any use to me or anyone else, just wasting time.

@Preety_India This is precisely how I feel & why I feel that there are big limits to just reading self help books - there is a combination of wisdom, discourse, unique perspective, encouragement that is hard to find in most settings or books I also love the fact that's not just a narrow minded "no fap" or "get rich" forum ect.. it encompasses all areas of the good life, like dating advice

@Leo Gura I'm with India. I have only been here couple weeks but I honestly wish I came here earlier. I can see a lot of mysterious potential here.

@Blackhawk Could you elaborate on why you said NO and you are discrediting the opinions of this whole forum + all the anecdotal evidence and research and Andy Cutler

@OBEler I'm literally so jealous of you lol. You're gonna enjoy music like hell and fuck When I was younger I would take MDMA but my ex wouldn't want to do it with me she was boring : (

Please don't say something really obvious like "exercise man" or "eat good food" that hasn't made a difference. I have insomnia way too often and I've had it since I was 14, but has been a lot worse in the 15 months also has gotten worse since I was beaten up. I don't know if I have a brain trauma or something cos I can't control it. I struggle to sleep but also wake up really early randomly and in middle of the night too. I know this might sound "goofy" but honestly this ruins my life. I'd rather be fat than have insomnia even just once a week. Its destroying my potential. I want to succeed and enjoy life but Its very hard to do it when I'm tired and slow all day . Sorry for rant, please give any tips or if I'm a lost cause maybe there is nothing Tldr; exercise, healthy food, meditation, l theanine doesn't work and I believe I nmight have a brain tuma and maybe should give it soon

I currently don't give a flying f*** about life purpose... But this makes me feel really anxious and guilty. I feel like everyone's throwing it in my face " life purpose man you gotta find it blah blah" & it's tiring. I have my basic needs to fulfil ; Health, social, financial & dating needs first. I just want to forget about life purpose at least until i'm 25, because i'd rather focus on just saving up money, developing my skills generally and learning how to attract women and learning social skills. I'm not saying life purpose isn't important, but surely not everyone is going to value life purpose equally, I personally right now would rather have good friends and better health without purpose Is this foolish? Because I feel really guilty like everyone seems to preach life purpose and it just makes me feel more anxious. I know it's important but I honestly care a lot more about finding good friends and saving money working simple jobs and keeping life simple for now.

@Byun Sean I think anxious was the wrong word here. I mean more perfectionistic OCD thoughts. But you are right, no reason to overthink

Yes You are all confirming what I suspected to be true. Thank you. I have to conquer my basic needs first. Then I can move on to life purpose. I do believe doing pickup can coincide with life purpose. But none of this stuff is even possible without basic mental & biological health, if I got cognition problems and chronic fatigue. Also really helps to be in a good city / environment that is nourishing, social, and has more nature and beauty. Therefore I am saving up to move country too, essential part of the journey. Time to get on with stuff, fuck anxiety, fuck being a lose I'm here to win this game called life. P.s I really want to change my name ; it sucks, so uncreative and boring

Article states "Insomnia is curable for 75% of the sufferers", it seems likely i'm in the 25% Time to consider suicide

Surely psychopaths should try MDMA - as it's an empathogen

@Arcangelo It's very hard to find high quality weed in my city, and it's mostly sativa. Do you order this online with dark web ?

@NK13 IMO you're not "born with a passion" as if it's some treasury box waiting to be found . You're just born with inherent personality traits that make you more drawn to certain type of careers, hobbies, subjects. I'm sure some people have multiple passions and some people change their passion or life purpose every 5 years or something. I dunno, for sure some people have their "1 thing" and they're good sticking to it forever, but as a species we vary so much we're idiosyncratic so I'd say don't feel like you have to do it the same way as anyone.

@Preety_India That describes completely. I get slightly passionate and interested in too too many different things. I couldn't imagine choosing 1 yet. Although perhaps focusing on short projects would be manageable.

@MrWolf LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL HAHAHAAAAA

Thanks everyone and I want to apologize for my toxic mindset. A part of me is ashamed wants to delete the toxic post but I am not going to because that would be dishonest I don't want to be a negative influence on this forum or encourage anger and negativity. You guys are right. Everything is solvable, I was being way too extreme. I am so grateful for this forum. Thank you for the encouragement and advice. I don't even deserve this.