Striving for more

@Keyhole You're just 1 person. Literally everyone wears headphones. Even if someone disturbs you for a second, it's not exactly like the worlds over, you just ignore them, get over it. wearing headphones isn't even a signal anymore because everyone wears headphones ? That's like saying wearing shoes is a signal, the best signal is body language. Even then it's always hard to tell until you try. There's honestly very few other places to meet people than in public spaces, it's hard to find people not wearing headphones, & I'm not gonna be a pussy and start swiping around on tinder like a weird robot. You can't just expect people to go against human nature. I'm ignoring you're point because for although some girls will be like you and find it annoying, some girls will want it, some will be disinterested but won't be as triggered as you clearly would be, it's all a numbers game. Never listen to haters people.

@Danioover9000 That's true the trivcky part is creating attraction whilst and making it clear It's not just a platonic interaction i'd have with anyone, without being a creep or too forward. Because if i'm too boring she'll forget me and not feel any attraction But I'm not too sure if just saying "you're cute" works cos at least it's to the point but it's not exactly subtle or implicit which I know girls prefer

Ahh please leave all this spiritual stuff out of it. At least Leo's advice is straight to the point. The rest of you are just perplexing. I'm just going to approach no matter what, who cares if I disturb someone, it's a couple seconds, & most people are lonely and disconnected & insecure & I think most likely a girl would be flattered, even if she has a boyfriend. @TheUniverseIsLove What kind of small talk did he make. This is something I need to work on, as a newbie I do always feel like a creep, I just need to practice and learn what is and isn't creepy As for your comments about showing your face, I think you can tell how someone looks even with a mask. I don't think it matters too much

Pointless comment dw lol

It seems there's probably No giant stage green companies or monopolies ? But there's clearly many stage green entrepreneurs. Like Being a life coach ect.. These entrepreneurs could easily be earning well, even millionaires but probably couldn't be filthy rich

P.S What are people's opinions on the Pitzer vaccine ? I am for the covid vax but I really don't know with the Pitzer, they don't have a good rep

@Roy I get your thinking but I don't appreciate your moral / social judgement. The problem is the flow of information and confirmation bias, NOT being a " spoiled brat". Most people that are against vaccines or masks genuinely believe that doing so is actually harmful to society, that "acquiescing" to tyranny will harm society and only by rebelling the government can we save lives by saving the economy ect.. I am not saying this is true ^^ Just trying to get you to empathize with the other POV - It's that peoplle are litterally convinced that what they think is right, they are being noble. Trust me I fell into this myself, not once did I not care about old people, I am an empath at heart. But I was convinced for a bit that I needed to disobey the rules to be courageous and stick up for the people because "Lockdown kills" "poverty kills", all the people not being treated for other illnesses because the hospitals so fixated on covid, which is being "exaggerated by the media " I feel kinda stupid now. But not 1 bit do I feel selfish. Because my intention wasn't selfish. I genuinely thought I was the heroic one. It's irrelevant if we are spoiled brats, it' more that we're a generation of paranoid and impressionable citizens with access to the internet and a algorithm that keeps suggesting we watch the same people with the same POV.

@hoodrow trillson There's no correlation between suffering or mental issues and being an introvert. Having mental issues is just a human condition. Also I don't think it's as straight forward as always being an extrovert. Some people are more in the middle or fluctuate a bit.

Change your environment.

ARHRHRH well why is there so much doubt I just don't want to be at home I came back home to save money and It sucks, I'm loosing tons of money, perhaps millions in the long run because I can't focus and have no drive. I literally just sit in my chair often for an hour just being angry because I find being at home so fucking annoying. Meditating doesn't solve shit. It makes me more self conscious and holds me back from like talking out loud or whatever useful thing I want to do. I have this lingering numb feeling because I'm at home. Every time I hear my dad do anything I just shiver. There's nothing stopping me from moving out & still having my job but then I'm still in the same country and I want novelty. Also I don't want to live with random people as that could be just as bad as being home. It's hard to find a place to yourself unless it's a studio apartment for 800-1000 per month, whereas I could pay half that and have twice the space in Spain or south America. Literally the number 1 personal growth thing for me to do these past few months was to move back out, because until I do that, I am fucked. I can't be myself, no point trying to date, motivation is down, work ethic down. I'm very influenced by environment

@Spiral But the point of pickup is clearly not following strict social norms or being like most people. If it's about following the herd, then I will remain a pussy and never approach women, or settle for a girl that isn't that attractive and marry her. Obviously a cute girl won't approach you because you're a guy lol. How is that relevant.

@LfcCharlie4 That's actually a great suggestion. Bali looks beautiful. DM me about Bali if you want to.

@Spiral That's Bullshit. Everyone wears headphones these days. No one expects to be approached, that's the point. Just because she has headphones in doesn't mean she wouldn't enjoy the interaction and take them out. Also, isn't the point of getting good at pick up getting used to rejection and not caring. For every 4 girl with headphones that ignores me, maybe 1 would give out a number Leo has recalled himself how he's approached girls with headphones in at the gym while they were on a treadmill and ended up getting a number and getting laid.

@Gili Trawangan No thanks to Thailand haha I will end up in a cell first day I arrive because "drugs were in my passport", spending the next 2 weeks getting family to try and pay the corrupt police. Tooo much corruption, never ever going there.

@mmKay That's you but I would personally hate Poland. Weather and culture matters. I am not looking for the cheapest rent, just something reasonable. But to be honest. I am trying to aim big here in life and make good money, not rely on being a penny pincher. 500 euros isn't even that much ? That's cheaper than most places in UK, & considering how much better the weather, people and women are, it's like obviously 10000000 times better Life is short. I'm bored. Need something new. I want this so bad. I hate my country. I don't get when people say this. We're gonna get old & die very soon. I don't want to waste my youth. I feel like it will force me to make money online. I have a plan but I can't motivate myself at home, need a good environment. My question is why not Spain? The weather, women, culture, beautiful language, mix of city life & nature Not keen on Germany. But Amsterdam looks really cool. Still not great whether though.

@PurpleTree The point of this just to ask people whether it's worth interacting on the train like that in this time or if it's a waste of time & the wrong context Perhaps there's rarely ever a wrong context if you're confident enough

@Roy On the train youre already in proximity she was sitting next to me. I don't think it's unwise young people are so safe, and im pretty immune, also wearing a mask so whatever I personally feel like I was just being a pussy and should definitely have chatted her up

I don't understand though. I just masturbated last night and I regret it. I noticed a noticeable mood drop and energy drop the next day, less concentration ect.. Lots of people report this effect so surely it's not that uncommon

@electroBeam Check out John Anthony Lifestyle. He has a covid pickup course for only $100 !! I'm considering buying it soon, but I'm gonna look into the reviews a bit first But his free videos are high value, so I doubt it's a scam.

Where did you get this POV from ? "It is also advised to ejaculate onece or twice a month (depending on age)" This goes against the common herd view that masturbation has no benefits. I'm not sure what to think tbh. @Username

I just went to get my teeth cleaned and now I just ate lots of Nutella My mind keeps tricking me to consume sugar even though deep down I don't want to, its unhealthy and time consuming I know I don't want to be unhealthy (which seems to be a step further than most) but it keeps happening I want to NEVER eat sugar again - fucking go away i want better teeth

Definitely advise moving out. Consider living with others, but be very careful about WHO you live with. If you live alone at least you can socialize bring people over or get a girlfriend to visit If you live with the wrong people, that won't plan out well But if its the right kinda people and they tick all the key boxes then do it

@Michael569 Are most conventional tinned / Plastic wrapped salmon from supermarkets the orange pale & what is issue with orange pale one ^ What do you mean here ?

@Opo I thought most fish were ok as for heavy metals ? I met a really knowledgeable biology/health student once, and he was vegan and ate zero fish. Not saying this is the right way, but makes me wonder

Eat protein every 2 hours. Your body can only consume 30G of protein every 2 hours. eat 4-5 meals per day. Eat 30G protein both before and after exercise. Prioritize full body exercises : Squats, deadlift, bench press, press ups, Pull ups, Lat pull down machine.