Natasha Tori Maru

Tell me. If you could choose what you want to hear more from a partner: "I deeply respect you" or "I deeply love you" I do think there will be overlap depending on how we define romantic love - this is about what you want to hear more from a woman.

I haven't watched it - but I will. Thought I would share. Despite my issues with Jubilee and it's format (+turd moderation)... Discuss

Work Is Not Happiness I am in two minds regarding this post. On the one hand - I recognise humans naturally value something more when they invest in something. When we move toward things we value highly, this can bring pleasure. And happiness - somewhat. But somewhere along the line, my investment in 'tasks' - be they work or not - seemed to have dissolved. I lost my aversion to life tasks. I lost my desire. I experience preference for certain things - yes, absolutely. I feel more keenly and genuinely. I can identify my emotions, thoughts and feelings with crystal clear vision. I do not resist the moment - that is to say - there is no where I would rather be at any point in time and space. Eating a hot meal after a winter bike-ride. Having a hot shower. Even picking up dogshit. Cleaning my toilet. Getting sick and stuck in bed. Injuring myself. My preference is not to experience these last few phenomenologie/s. But I don't resist. I am content with whatever comes my way - good or bad. I accept. So I am happy at work, even right now (procrastinating on the forums a bit ). But it is not work that is causing the happiness, or contentment. It just is. I bring it (happiness) to the work, instead of the work bringing it to me. Maybe this is what you point to? I don't feel it is quite clear to me - yet.

I get extreme aversion toward him. I dislike his mass surveillance shit via Palantir Enterprises. He heavily advocates for monopolies and favours a sort of 'technocratic elite' and I feel like his stupid theological antichrist lectures are hypocritical attempts to disavow his own vast power. Also his political shit is sketch as fuck financially backing various far right candidates to try to remake liberal democracy. His whole libertarian worldview is sociopathic and dogmatic. Gross 🤢 🤮

What if one is an experiencer?

@Inliytened1 I feel you. We talking barely eating, leaving my bed. Shell of a human. Like someone surgically removed my soul. Life spun by on black and white. Every second was an eternity. Sleep was my only respite. My first massive episode of depression was triggered when I was truly broken hearted for the first time. It lasted 18months. I lost my job. The most horrifying part was the cognitive decline during that period. I was unable to focus at all. Scattered. I had to even take a leave of absence from uni in 3rd year because my grades took a nosedive.

This is precisely why I'll always risk it for the biscuit I don't hesitate to go all in. Go with the flow. See where loves takes me. As deep as it will. I know that any heartbreak or pain I might go through - I trust I am able to heal from it.

Bloody hell this therapy speak, armchair diagnosis culture needs to die.

I read 'The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck' a while back. I felt the emphasis on internal and external values in how we define ourselves ( self esteem ) to be a very relevant. It is a trap I see many fall into continually. I think it has stood the test of time because it was reasonably colloquial in rhetoric and the overall theme is still one humanity is stuck with.

I can see that, perhaps because you have something to prove, I am not being heard. This isn't going anywhere - thanks for your time.

I hear the message you are communicating - but often the expression (rhetoric) is filtered through some sort of (what appears to me, at least) frustration. You could be projecting out a "golden shadow" onto others - You see how you have thrived and grown in resilience, you have overcome obstacles and grown. You project your own capabilities onto others. Bear in mind, this explanation is just a possibility. When others fall short or resist, there can be a lot of frustration because you foresee the beneficial outcome. "Why can't they see what I see?" Other people have hard limits. Some people just do not have the resilience that we do. They do not see resources to be leveraged where we do. They are not as capable. They have intellectual limitations and sometimes undisclosed pathologies. They are at different life stages. And very importantly - we never truly know their total circumstances - their context. I often ask myself "why am I qualified to give this person advice?". "What am I getting out of this, by giving advice unsolicited, or attempting to know what is best for this person?" - there is a lot of arrogance here. A lot of hubris. I have personally been through this. And hey - it may not be the case with you. But once I begun to try to explore more, and dropped my own narrative of wanting to prove something, I got through to people effortlessly. We cannot truly listen to someone else when we have something to prove. Overcoming this tendency in myself helped more in business than any other domain, funnily enough. I am still learning. I still get triggered into stern, absolute statements (this can be very antithetical to transmitting messages). Overall it might be helpful to ask yourself, prior to responding "what if...?" regarding the persons claim or premise. It can help you account for what they may be facing, coupled with us eventually steering the other to where we think they may benefit. More often than not it also means our rhetoric is much more compassionate and expresses tolerance when we speak our truth. Overall I exercise caution with advice.

I've found it is often men who struggle to receive that are the least in touch with their feminine side. If there is resistance to words of affection especially - not always, but more commonly than not - there is a block to their own internal ability to truly connect to their feminine side. In a healthy way, where there relationship to their own femininity carries no shame or judgement. When we have a block, or there is an issue with our relationship to a feeling, it forms an obstacle to connection (usually with the opposite sex(. It just so happens that romantic relationships are one of the most revealing - and catalytic - ways to show us this block. Many times these feelings and blocks are reaching back to then we first developed a relationship to the feeling - from our parents. I hate the "daddy issues" or "mommy issues" labels - but there is a icy needle of truth there. I always try to probe a bit "Why do you have ick feelings when those words are expressed?". This question deserves time and inspection.

@Emotionalmosquito so you don't go deep because you want to avoid pain?

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@Emotionalmosquito very interesting. Why do you think you reject expressions of love and admiration? It seems to me they appear to be loaded terms for you. Do you know where you developed your relationship to receiving love and respect?

I agree. Lordfall has good intentions, but his rhetoric often works against him. This sort of speaking pattern is low efficiency for delivering a message and often projects frustration onto the reader.

Exactly there is conceptualization - so an interpretation. Hence the experience is not direct. It is a perceptive overlay.

But why? Do you think women are having a good time because they get "more attention"? More attention doesn't mean shit. Is it actually welcome? What about quality of attention? I've seen this "more attention" talking point frequently and I just don't understand why there appears to be an assumption this is purely good, beneficial or desired. ----- You guys in this thread are being silly. Women are humans just like you - we aren't a different fucking species. "Understanding women" is the wrong idea, that's your first error. Trying to understand is the issue. Just accept. Connect. That's it.

People have actually bought into Gynocentrism??? Jesus

@JoshB you can't escape the conceptual interpretation, even if you try to state otherwise.

@Ash55 the population overgrowth issue has been in Australia since European colonials settled I am pretty sure. I could be wrong. It happened because of changes in land use and cattle farming. The poor things rut like mad, eat all the grass and raze the land, then starve. I love me some fatty meat also! Lamb shanks, marbled beef. I try to minimise my meat consumption. But due to the volume of exercise I do, and being a woman of breeding age, I have higher protein and iron needs. I don't thrive on non-heme iron sources On a burger, with crispy lettuce, sliced tomato, basil, avocado and a bit of tomato sauce +tzatziki - THATS HOW 😈 Plz don't come for me, fellow Aussie 🫶

If you recognise there is nothing outside being - there has to be some sort of concept of inside / outside. So you are interpreting - hence an idea - hence an adapted belief. Yes. Many times. And the takedown video. It's a belief. It's probably my most repeated video of Leo's

Pure being has no recognition of solipsism.

@JoshB how can you realise solipsism without a duality of inside/outside? Me/other? My experience claimed as "mine"?

@Ash55 I am a monster 🥲 It's like beef, but leaner and slightly gamey in flavour. Very rich meat without a fatty sort of mouth feel. Has to be cooked on super high heat to seal the outside and keep moist. I do burgers or marinade it overnight then incinerate at on my baby weber bbq