Natasha Tori Maru

The rum, get

But is it Aware?

Brah - 2x INTP no INTJ We collapsing distinctions already? ONLY DIRECT EXPERIENCE WILL SUFFICE

Yep

Should add a poll at the top for types? Not sure if you can even make a poll that large

@Adrian colby

I don't know what other dudes might say - or this this sort of tactic works - but if you aren't as smooth with the sexual stuff you could always own it and just say "I am nervous around you" I was with a guy who was nervous as fuck with sexual shit, but otherwise sly, flirty and funny as hell. He owned his nervousness by just stating it. It was simultaneously vulnerable, honest and really appealing. People tend to be unable to use shit against you when you own it. But I am a women so I probably don't know shit, as per usual.

Keep this shit to yourself, thanks.

Locking this for trolling & low quality.

I hope you have lots more time with yours ❤️

Catching up on the recent shares - thank you all ⚡

There's a big reason for it being top 😃 I can't wait for you to read it, if you haven't

@Ramanujan he is attractive to people who have high epistemic standards and an earnest persuit for truth - or spirituality. The combination of his work encouraging deep contemplative investigation + rigorous emphasis on direct experience + resistance to dogma makes ralston rather foundational imo. I personally love he combines consciousness work with embodied practice via martial arts. And that he heavily emphasises a distintion between concept/perception/interpretation and direct experience of what "is" - which is key to his teaching regarding suffering (there is a big difference between what is being experienced and what the mind says that experience means, his books are great for this distinction). He also founded Cheng Hsin. He has many published books, facilitated workshops and great YouTube talks. Good body of work. It probably helps he is highly respected by Leo. Do you have Leo's booklist?

Appreciate you! And enjoy your contributions 🫶

Both of my biggest were sober, funnily enough! Both from unbearable suffering reaching a horrible climax I worked out what happened after the fact.