Natasha Tori Maru

@CARDOZZO appreciated 🙏🏻 unfortunately any truth I might speak on the matter will be dismissed, because I have a pair of tits over a cock. It's good, well rounded, healthy masculine men who need to lead the charge. More fathers who aren't 'genetic' fathers. I mean male leaders ❤️ My brother went through some resentment toward women for a while. When I really sat down with him a lot of what he spoke about was desperately wanting a woman. Loving women. But resenting them for not accepting him. Resentment because he felt he wasn't 'chosen'. That resentment was unconsciously coming out and women were turned off hardcore. He changed his mindset and deleted all social media. Now he has kids and solid relationship. Happy chappy carpenter 😄

@Valach I think I misspoke actually - I think secures do use dating apps but are on them way less prior to paring up. I think they get used as a tool to filter heavily, efficiently and quickly. The 2 secure people I know used them to filter their preferences and moved off them right away. They didn't get caught in 'paralysis by analysis' of all the options out there. Well this is what they told me, anyway. They could be wrong - sample size of 2 there 🥹🥹🥹

I use a Lenovo X1 carbon professional. Hasn't skipped a beat in 2 years. Use it for AutoCAD, Bluebeam, Revit, email, conference calls (zoom, teams) + ten million horrible .pdf files for plansets that typically kill a laptop. Also run a few AI recording apps that compile meeting minutes etc. What will you use it for? And what was your main issue with the apple laptop?

@Tenebroso to be quite frank, again. I repeat myself - you don't know what women want. Don't be content to lay down and cry rather than try to take action to change your cognitive bias. You have severe victim mindset. Try to understand that video I linked. It might help unravel the false meanings you have created.

@Tenebroso yeah. I will respond to you that way. Because the content you consume is making you a victim. You view yourself as some innocent person who is at the mercy of evil women. And you stereotype all women this way. You have all the power to go out and have a different experience. The sad thing is, manosphere 'red pill' and content creators that peddle this bullshit want to make you feel powerless so they can hold your biggest commodity; your attention. Your click. Your view. Your time and money. They want you powerless and you believe them. Don't. Listen to someone like @CARDOZZO who has the opposite of this victim mindset. And stop being sexist, stating 'all women are this'. No.

@Florian can you link me to statements or some evidence Bryan has made about curing suffering? Addressing people with chronic pain? Personality disorders? Depression? I am sorry 'sleeping well along fixes most emotional problems'. Strawman. I am talking people who have low quality of life. People who have incurable personality disorders or depression. Some of these people would not like to be told they are going to love forever in pain. Please link me Bryan's strategy for addressing this? Not your interpretation. Even just some thoughts from him, rather than his cowardice avoiding the question all the time. I am happy to change my mind. But I have never seen Bryan even try to think or address people who suffer chronically from pain. He has never once tried to understand how Don't Die applies to them and rap on it. He just deflects the question and talks about the virtue of existence. Have a listen to this. Some of the comments below ask these serious questions: https://youtu.be/OqlPU1CKEpI?si=d9HGaiuOZ0lmiTpn

@Carl-Richard what is more fucked up is as an artist raised on first principles in fine art, I was taught myriad tricks in rendering images to fool the onlooker. So a serious of random lines close up look like a mess but then from afar it's a reed bed on water etc. I feel like I should know better, but the depths of self deception is like a recursive shit spiral of lies 😭 This deserves a blog post - Actualized.org quote style, imo

You're not wrong - I see 20% tauted by reputable people who study attachment theory and dating patterns. But then my experience says... Fuck no.

@AerisVahnEphelia rofl it always comes down to projecting the spigot

@Lila9 heh heh so tldr - it's all shit in different forms? Poking fun, but I agree. It's easy to look on externally and form some opinions from that surface; the reality of living it is another thing entirely.

You know - when you remove problems from people. It reveals this big empty hole inside they have never faced. An unoccupied, un-inspected place. When we are first confronted with it - it gets slapped with 'boredom' or 'understimulated'. But if you sit with it, you reveal what cannot be spoken. You connect with breath - how we connect to reality moment to moment. But yeah most people fucken hate the mundane that is underneath their drama and problems. So they just make some more to replace the old 🤣🤣🤣

Listen - you were passive aggressive and mean to a moderator in this thread. No amount of constipated smiley faces is going to bury that. We arbiter the rules. One of which, is no conspiracy theories. Don't get all bent out of shape when we point this out to you - and point out the flaws in that type of thinking. Mods do a job. If you have an issue with the job - TALK TO LEO. But I know you won't. I'm done. I cannot be any clearer. Nothing confusing going on but some mental gymnastics from you deciding which rules apply to you and which don't.

@Ramasta9 You break a rule, don't take it personal when mods address it. You're still taking it personally. You're still attaching to your ideas like they are you. Got a problem with a rule? Appeal to Leo. Clear steps to escalate.

Its sorta weird cos I feel like red pill isn't even used as a term anymore. But the idea behind it persists. In a simplified way it appears it's just - broken people attract broken people. Both aren't able to recognize secure healthy love and approach it with their own beliefs (and loaded expectations) regarding what love is. The again, these days, who actually gets raised right to KNOW secure love? There are many who claim there are only around 20% of people with healthy attachment styles. And those people typically do not use dating apps, and pair up relatively quickly. I've already been through my own healing from a lot of the wrong ideas of what love is.

Gosh, this is a feel