Natasha Tori Maru

I like @AION ! I think he is sharp and can go far. He just doesnt like, understand (or care to understand) me. Which is okay with me, I don't need everyone to like me. Never gonna happen!

Please do not publicly shame members with your own personal opinions who have no relevance to the topic. Try to stay in topic. If you cannot engage in the forum without shit talking members and the quality of the forum itself, you probably need to take a break. 🙏🏻

Please, it is wrong to imply this user is making excuses for pedophilia! Explaining the causes and mechanisms behind something does not excuse the behaviour! The user was NOT excusing harm caused to children, merely explaining the possibly causes of the pathology and source of issue. There is a big difference. The user also proposed mechanisms to prevent abuse. Understanding something can often lead to people allowing poor behaviour. This tendency is an indicador of poor boundaries. When we focus on causes, it is not softening moral judgement.

I didn't see any reply from you, I have alerts turned off for replies and tags so I may have missed it? I am not mad or angry, I didnt get to see your reply before the topic was removed, actually. So not possible to BE angry. If you cannot read the room and notice my comments were light-hearted, and good natured, that's on you! Haha! It's your silly bias! None of my comments were jokes at the OPs expense - they were poking fun at MY behaviour. I had nothing to do with deleting the topic 😁😁😁 The ironic part is you are having an emotional tantrum because you broke a forum rule and received punishment.

The video you shared made me reflect on this a bit. I think women's natural sex drive is more closely linked to emotions and feeling, over 'mental/thinking'. The presenter does remark women are 'in their heads' a lot and in the thinking mind. The narrative. Worries about safety. This is different to requiring feeling to engage in sexual desire. And I think many, many women get caught in this trap. Addiction to a narrative or fixation on safety/certainty. Maybe to refine further - male sexuality tends to be physical, while female sexuality emotional/feeling. I get shredded alive for suggesting women need to surrender to the swoon of being seduced. For me - desire, engagement, excitement, flow and a state of 'being' follow action. I don't wait for impulse, inspiration or desire. I make it and arouse it in myself with action. I just don't think many women approach it this way... They wait for a 'mood'. I take this action first approach with everything in life. I build new habits through action, to change my mental states and habits/thinking. I don't try to change my mental state to then feel motivation to effect action in the world. Anyway a bit off topic.

People who are sexually attracted to children often do not want to be. They suffer. My compassion. Pedophilic disorder. Those who act on the impulse and violate the consent of another are disgusting. Children are too young to comprehend such things, and sexual activity too early often destroys their development. Creates pathologies, sex disorders, trauma. Causes trust issues. The victims suffer.

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Low quality post.

Please refrain from posting sexist crap. Keep it to yourself.

Haha - I wish. ENTP's are great! One step further for the full chadmogging - no hands. Just mouth on food

I think its a great way to look at. Non-negotiables are the only things I try to discern right off the batt with new dudes. Get that out of the way. Its so rare to find people who are up-front and candid. And aware enough of their own needs they can clearly state them. Maturity helps - but MY GOD there are still many immature, low-consciousness individuals in the dating domain. Its shocking when someone is so together in professional life, family, friends. Relationships have a unique way of bringing out all of our uninspected parts and shadows. ROFL yeah he was very, very INTJ too. Very difficult for he and I to bond. He expected a female child to be female. So he did not treat me how I expected. Loaded expectations relating to gender. When I hit about 12/13 he realised I was more masculine minded and started to change how he related to me. Which was great! But 2 INTJ's running a construction business can be difficult. Same weaknesses. Same strengths. Insane when we butt heads. The best part is we do not take it personally so it doesn't ruin the father/daughter thing. Oh the knives - its not so unusual! My brother was a chef and he gave me many high quality japanese knives. I also have a set of Global knives that are just beautiful to use. And many of these: https://www.amazon.com.au/Victorinox-Classic-Pointed-Paring-Knife/dp/B0052C211C/ref=sr_1_10?crid=28QROH8OOK4ZR&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sv3TCu0MiebfkZ_YEAjFhnNMMmkbJWr5yk-xeDqxTS046kcBmLr1I9n7O4S3pQsiUdNn2Uibm8_IGcKQKpNdkDmM-_s6aMvLl5csS1PQsd43GyDcR5ab8gbtI1kTnjtPpMwqOzI7vl647sO-09Ip4i02Ukgx1qxE92tO7E7pUYpzcFga0E0PEPOx-AzTfLHlOw21j80Jfn5b8O0qXAmXuzfZa_6-SICdnrsv2jr_9ltw4aRfRbHYXM3Y_XH9N3L_f20HdKJaFW8_cST-FUqit5hCo9l-QUhTz3OSkrVkUmk.r1ARvldF21MovT-5tGDL3HNUPQWcrqHUsF-tEu5vNU8&dib_tag=se&keywords=victorinox&qid=1726709499&sprefix=victorinox%2Caps%2C344&sr=8-10&th=1 They are the best cheap knives for little tasks - BUT FRIGHTENINGLY SHARP

Wow, great share - thank you. 'Female sexuality is mental, male sexuality is physical' - while this is a bit reductive and absolute, in general it has been the trend I have seen. I don't get the sort of perspective this bird does, but I work in a male dominated environement. I was closest with my brother's. I see the lack of intimacy between men. And it's interesting to note this probably always exisited - it's just now we are becoming aware of it (internet, social media). Do you think men are socialised out of vulnerability and intimacy between men? This really fucks them because they are forced to derive all of this from women. Also interested in your experience being vulnerable with women when you don't intimately know them? I had an experience with my Dad yesterday where he cried in a vulnerable way. I felt so much more love and affection for him. Compassion. And it was a male type problem he was expounding on.

To be clear it was me probing to understand what they were both referring to Self is thrown around as a full loaded term around here ...

This is the assumption left uninspected.