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@flowboy I meant arrogance like body language, eye contact, not giving enough attention shit like that. And yes that was arrogant and i apologise

@Leo Gura I know plenty of super normal guys that got sex or gfs from online dating. The idea that you need to be a model to get sex there is just wrong. You need goods pics, decent looks (not model) and tons of volume. Also dont expect to sleep with 9s from online dating, usually 6s at best.

@Leo Gura I will print these messages and stick them in my wall or something. Quite inspiring. May i ask, did you struggle with friends also or just attracting girls? Or if i can ask my question more clearly, was the issue to be considered a cool great guy by other people and girls or was it to make the girl feel attracted to you? Sorry if it is a personal question.

If you have seen Avatar the Last Airbender then Iroh is a good example to aim for. Pure masculinity (toxic one) would be Fire Lord Ozai, pure strength, power, dominance, assertiveness, no kindness, no empathy etc. Iroh on the other side has those masculine traits, he is bad ass, strong, determined, willing to fight for his goals and very physically capable. However he also is very kind, caring, funny, empathetic and willing to help people whenever he can. He is an example of masculinity adding femininity in a healthy way. Even with all these feminine traits added it just enhances his overall being and makes him more holistic. You cannot say that Iroh is not a man or weak. His compassion makes him stronger. Sadhguru would be another example although less clear as Iroh.

@North Sea Attraction is cruel and independent of human decency. One of the most successful guys in game is a complete piece of shit person but oh well, 1300 lays does not care about that (john anthony lifestyle is one im talking about)

@Leo Gura You are right, thank you

@Hello from Russia May be. I will just shut up now when feminist start talking about height and weight and focus on my own shit, this thread made me realize i am not as righteous as i though. Thank you guys

@Leo Gura It is not the same. There are no social conventions saying you cannot date a bald guy. The most popular male porn star in the world is bald for fuck sake. Society will not judge a girl for dating a bald guy like they will if she dates a guy shorter than her. Plenty of couples where the guy is bald out there, VERY few where the girl is taller. I am not saying that being bald does not hurt your chances but it is not the same. I did not start this thread to say that i cannot get a girl because of height. There are girls my height or shorter so it is not that i will be lonely because of this. It was just to point out the double standards of females and the hypocrisy of feminism. They say this is okay but this is not when they are all equally shallow. Anyway thanks for the support. I will shut up now and go talk to girls actively as soon as this lockdown bs ends i swear on word on it.

@Leo Gura Leo do you understand how insecurities work? They are created because of what you experience, hear and see through your life. No one is born insecure about their height, they are made insecure by the way society talks about it. If you hear all your life that guys should not be shorter than girls in dating by everyone and you never see any couples where the guy is shorter (1-2cm shorter doesn't count i mean LEGIT shorter) then you start to think it is reality. Of course, you cant understand this because you are 6 2 so you never experienced it and it is easy to talk like it does not matter. Sure a godly pua that is natural in game can probably get girls legit taller but that is like saying you do not need psychedelics at all to reach very high states of consciousness if you are an average guy since i know Sadhguru or some other gifted guy that does not need it.

@Gesundheit Arrogance may create results but so does lying and manipulating. Also i personally find it EXTREMLY annoying and i do not want to become what i dislike for anyone. @Danioover9000 Confidence and arrogance are miles apart. Arrogance is basically over the top loud neediness. A confident person is not arrogant at all. Arrogance is when you are insecure af and try to look cool by being annoying.

@Gesundheit So i need to be an arrogant prick to get girls? I stated like 40 good qualities above, why are not those enough? Being overly dominant arrogant and edgy is not something that feels natural to me. Confidence is one thing, arrogance is another.

@Leo Gura I don't understand why it is such a big deal for girls. I see plenty of chubby guys with slim girls but never a guy with a girl taller than her.

@xxxx Being a bit of a jerk, arrogant, edgy, spontaneous, overly funny so just making jokes all the time and never any more normal discussions, outrageous, overly dominant. These are the traits i do not like to have in myself (except spontenous maybe but that one is hard af to develop) that girls seem to love. If i can get a great girl without these traits then that would be great.

@xxxx Confident in himself, independent (does not mind being by himself) , kind, caring, honest, treats other as he wants to be treated, keeps his word (doesnt make false promises but chooses to say what he does and do what he says), has life goals and things he wants to accomplish, has boundaries and principles which he will not compromise, is willing to be different regarding what he likes even if it considered unpopular or strange, educated meaning not necessarily high iq but knows shit about different topics so can have different kinds of convos

@aurum Could you define good personality please

@xxxx So bullshit shallow "personality traits" then got it. Common ground, values and interests have nothing to do with it i guess. It is just shit as shallow as looks like "being witty and charismatic". If you have low charisma then you are going to be alone and feel unlovable even if you are a great guy. Sounds as shallow as "if you are fat you are going to be alone" kinda shit. @No Self Great response, loved it

@Leo Gura I never seen a girl with a guy shorter than herself that is more than 2cm while seen plenty of couples where guy is fit and the girl is fat. I pay attention when im out and never saw those kind of couples. 1/1000 puas might pull it off but im saying normal trends

@How to be wise LOOOOL He is mostly in Blue and Orange with some small glimpses of green. Being spiritual does not automatically make you stage green. @Leo Gura His dating advice is quite good, ruthless but avoiding lying cheating and damage to girls even though his political views might be another issue

@Recursoinominado Love the tough love haha

@Recursoinominado As long as i can show my dislike for fatness in girls and not be socially outcast-ed because of it then its all good.

Why the fuck do you even care about his views. You have 2 billion people believing in flying angels and a man with a beard in the clouds for fuck sake. Do you take their work less seriously because of that? Probably not! Regarding dating Coray Wayne is quite good so just stick to dating with him. If you want quality politican analysis and stuff there are other channels. Same logic for Bulldog Mindset, he has amazing videos for recovering wimps like myself that make you tougher and stronger. His believes that taxation is theft has nothing to do with these things.

@No Self My issue is not the fact that they are attracted to what they are. It is that they demonize guys for wanting girls not to be bad by calling them shallow pigs and by pushing this restarted agenda where guys and girls act the same (forcing kids to play with dolls in kinder garden for example). Leo has mentioned it in his "metaphysics 4 hour long video". If you treat heightism and weightism the same and quit demanding guys to be sensitive and girls to be like guys in behavior then no worries. I do not like double standards, that is all.

Why he even cared what some retards said in the comments i honestly do not know. Most comments were either positive or neutral

@Preety_India I never claimed i used any studies, i don't even believe those studies. You are the one that started this by saying that "dating is rigged against women", i should be the one telling you to stop complaining since you are making these kind of statements. I never said that females have life easier, it is overall balanced, i could even say easier for men. Females struggle in domains other than dating but when it comes to the domain of dating i feel like it is a bit easier for them since guys do 90 percent of the work in the courtering process and i am sick and tired of seeing the females i know have it effortless while the guys i know struggling (amazing guys btw). Personally i love being a guy and would not change my gender if given the choice. I do not beleive in the blackpill, i never said if a guy is below 5/10 in looks he will never get a girl and girls only care about looks and personality is useless etc etc, the typical blackpill stuff. I despise that shit with a passion. Sorry if what i say comes off as a bit mean or sexist but i honestly think we are both biased in our agendas so no need to continue this conversation. I wish you a good day and life Kind regards

At least he is not taking out his shirt anymore hahahaha. All honesty he seems happier than he used to be so i am geniouly happy for him. I feel like his "crazy" personna is kinda fake and deep down he is happier than he used to.